Send a text In this powerful Let’s Get Naked episode, Anne sits down with Brandon Day—former All-American linebacker, two-time national champion, and living proof that “winning” doesn’t protect you from burnout, chronic pain, addiction, or an identity collapse. Brandon shares the raw behind-the-scenes story of growing up in rugged Montana masculinity, using football as an outlet for anger and emotional shutdown, and what happened when the sport ended and the coping mechanisms stopped working. The conversation reframes vulnerability as a survival skill for men, especially those conditioned to white-knuckle through pain, control everything, and suppress emotion until the body—and life—forces the truth to the surface. Together, they unpack nervous system overload, the hidden roots of chronic pain and burnout, Brandon’s sobriety turning point, and how applied neurology and flow states helped him rebuild from the inside out. You’ll hear practical insights on purpose through curiosity, how identity can be reclaimed without performance, why holding space is often more powerful than saying the “right” thing, and what it looks like to choose accountability over victimhood. This episode is for anyone navigating reinvention, recovery, and the hard, honest work of becoming whole—without losing their edge. I’m Brandon Day. From the outside, my life once looked dialed in — All-American linebacker, two-time national champion, high performer. Inside, it was a different story. When sports ended, I spiraled into chronic pain, burnout, addiction patterns, and a full-blown identity collapse. I didn’t know who I was without the helmet — and I nearly lost myself trying to outrun that truth. Getting “naked” for me meant facing the parts I didn’t want to look at: shame, avoidance, control, and the pressure to always be strong. Through recovery, applied neuroscience, and learning how to access flow instead of force, I rebuilt myself from the inside out — not as a superhero, but as a human. Today, I’m a father of triplets, a coach, and the founder of Evolved Athlete. I teach people how to work with their nervous system, not against it — and how vulnerability, not toughness, is often the missing link to real healing, discipline, and freedom. I believe the dark parts of life aren’t problems to fix — they’re portals. And I’m here to talk about all of it. http://evolvedathlete.coach https: This podcast dives deep into real, raw topics—think vulnerability, triggers, and childhood trauma. But just so we're super clear: I’m not a licensed therapist, mental health professional, or anything close. I’m just a human sharing stories, lessons, and life hacks based on personal experience and a whole lot of curiosity. So, while you might find some golden nuggets here, this is not therapy and should never replace professional mental health care. If you or someone you love is going through it, please—seriously—reach out to a licensed therapist or healthcare provider. You deserve the real deal. Need Help Now? Here are a few amazing resources: · 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Call or text 988 · NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-950-NAMI (6264) or nami.org/help · Therapy Directory: psychologytoday.com · Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 The opinions expressed on this show are ours and ours alone—no official organizations are responsible for what we say (or how much we overshare). This show is proudly produced at PS Studios — learn more https://www.psstudios.co
