Come Talk with Aimee: Sex, Intimacy, and Conversations Worth Coming Back To

Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee brings sex out of the shadows and into a hot pink spotlight. Hosted by Aimee, a nurse, public health professional, and certified embodied intimacy and relationship coach, this is where we have the candid conversations about sex, intimacy, pleasure, and relationships we should all be having. From shame and desire to orgasms, kink, dating, relationships, and everything delightfully in between, Aimee goes there with bold guests, unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and plenty of laughs. No shame. No scripts. No pretending we already know it all. And this season, we’re all about play: getting curious, breaking out of autopilot, and exploring what becomes possible when pleasure gets a little more room to breathe. Because “we don’t talk about that” is exactly why we’re talking about it. Come for the sex talk. Stay for the conversations that feel a little dangerous, and a lot liberating.

  1. 5d ago

    Sex Education in the Digital Age: Social Media, Censorship, and the Fight for Access with Jill Lissner, The Sex Ed Princess

    Jill Lissner has built a platform teaching millions about sex education, one viral video at a time. Today, she's sharing how social media is changing the game and what's at stake. This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Jill Lissner, a sex educator, PhD student in human sexuality, and the content creator behind Sex Ed Princess. Jill is on a mission to make accurate, shame-free sex education accessible to everyone - not just the people who can afford it or live in the right zip code. We get into the science behind social media and sexual health, why censorship is getting quieter (and more confusing), and how to become a researcher of your own body. Plus, we talk about the attack on sex education funding and why we all need to pay attention. We talk about: Why rural and urban communities want the same things (and why polarization is a lie) Why you should never use AI to search for abortion information The intersection of social media, sex education, and censorship The data behind what people are saving and sharing online (hint: edging and communication) Why social media is a lifeline for queer, trans, and vulnerable populations How to consume sex education content critically and intentionally Why media literacy and sex education should work together If you've ever wondered how to find accurate sex education online, felt frustrated by censorship, or wanted permission to explore your own body, this episode is your invitation to start researching. Connect with Jill Lissner: www.instagram.com/sexedprincesss/  https://jill-lissner.com  https://www.linkedin.com/in/jlissner01/  Get Aimee’s Free Workbook: Reclaim Your Pleasure Power:  https://cometalkwithaimee.myflodesk.com/claimyourpleasurepod Join Aimee on Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/cometalkwithaimee  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Sex Education in the Digital Age: Social Media, Censorship, and the Fight for Access with Jill Lissner, The Sex Ed Princess

  2. Oct 15

    The Dungeon Masterclass: Kink, Negotiation, and Not Rushing to the Nut with Sir Marvelous

    Sir Marvelous has been a requested guest since his first appearance, and he's back to take us deeper. Today, he's sharing what really happens in a dungeon and how to bring its wisdom into your bedroom. This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Sir Marvelous, professional dom, educator, and season one favorite, for a conversation that picks up where the foreplay left off. We get into the truth about dungeons, why BDSM and sex are not synonymous, and how impact play is really about rhythm and blood flow—not pain. Plus, Sir Marvelous breaks down the orgasm gap and explains why you shouldn't rush to the nut. We talk about: Why most dungeons don’t allow sex at all The magic of turning everyday objects into kink tools The art of negotiation: hard limits, soft limits, and everything in between How to know if you're with a trusted partner Why sex doesn't end when the man comes Why scheduling sex and setting intentions makes it better Connect with Sir Marvelous: https://www.instagram.com/sirmarvelouskinks/ https://www.sirmarvelous.com  Get Aimee’s Free Workbook: Reclaim Your Pleasure Power: https://cometalkwithaimee.myflodesk.com/claimyourpleasurepod Join Aimee on Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/cometalkwithaimee  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    The Dungeon Masterclass: Kink, Negotiation, and Not Rushing to the Nut with Sir Marvelous

  3. Oct 8

    Purity Culture and Pleasure: Healing Sexual Shame with Erica Smith

    Erica Smith has helped countless people heal from purity culture and rebuild their relationship with sex. Today, she's sharing how to drop the shame and finally enjoy and own your pleasure. This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Erica Smith, a sex educator, consultant, and the purity culture expert when it comes to all things sex. Erica is the author of "The Purity Culture Recovery Guide: The Shame-Free Sex Education You Deserve," and she's on a mission to give people the accurate, shame-free sex education they were kept from. We get into the science behind purity culture, why it injects fear into the most natural human experiences, and how to rebuild your relationship with desire, pleasure, and play. Plus, we talk about porn literacy, the truth about “porn addiction," and why it's never too late to explore your sexuality. We also talk about: What purity culture actually is and how it controls people through shame The difference between intellectual deconstruction and nervous system healing Why your body still carries shame even after you've left the beliefs How to bring play and laughter back into the bedroom How to explore fantasy without judgment Why erotica and romance novels can help you discover what turns you on If you've ever felt broken by purity culture, wondered if you'll ever feel normal about sex, or wanted to reclaim your pleasure and play, this episode is your invitation to start healing. Connect with Erica Smith:  https://www.instagram.com/ericasmith.educates/  https://purityculturedropout.com  https://www.ericasmitheac.com/read-my-book   Get Aimee’s Free Workbook: Reclaim Your Pleasure Power: https://cometalkwithaimee.myflodesk.com/claimyourpleasurepod Join Aimee on Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/cometalkwithaimee  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Purity Culture and Pleasure: Healing Sexual Shame with Erica Smith

  4. Oct 1

    Desire Is Embodied Wanting: How to Reclaim Your Pleasure with Shadeen Francis

    Shadeen Francis helps people get clear on what they actually want. In this episode, she shares how to reconnect with your desire, why play matters to our nervous system and capacity for pleasure, and what might be getting in the way of knowing what you want. Shadeen Francis is a licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, and cultural strategist who helps people understand their desires, deepen their relationships, and create more space for peace and pleasure. She’s also the president of AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), and she brings a deeply embodied approach to the question at the heart of this episode: What do you actually want? This week on Come Talk with Aimee, we’re getting into the science and psychology of desire, why “I don’t know what I want” may be more complicated than it sounds, and how play can help expand our capacity for pleasure. Shadeen also walks us through her Desire Style Quiz, a tool for exploring the different ways we experience and express desire. We talk about: What it means to say “desire is embodied wanting” Why your relationship to desire affects every connection you have Shadeen’s Desire Style Quiz and what it can reveal about how we experience desire in the current moment  The story arc of desire: who, what, where, when, why, and how How AI is impacting our relational skills, connection, and desire Why it can be especially difficult for moms and people of color to name their own desires How play connects to our nervous system and our capacity for pleasure The role of vulnerability in experiencing desire  Why orgasm is all about surrendering  If you've ever felt disconnected from your desires, wondered why "fun" feels so hard, or wanted to bring more play into your life and your pleasure, this episode is your invitation to start exploring. Take Shadeen’s Desire Style Quiz: https://shadeenfrancis.com/quiz Connect with Shadeen Francis:  https://shadeenfrancis.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadeenfrancis/  https://www.instagram.com/shadeenfrancis  Get Aimee’s Free Workbook: Reclaim Your Pleasure Power: https://cometalkwithaimee.myflodesk.com/claimyourpleasurepod  Join Aimee on Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/cometalkwithaimee  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Desire Is Embodied Wanting: How to Reclaim Your Pleasure with Shadeen Francis

  5. Sep 24

    Your Vulva is Normal: The Body Literacy We Were Never Taught with April of Haus of Vagina

    April Davis of Haus of Vagina has spent years teaching people about vulva anatomy and body literacy. Today, she's here to tell you why your vagina is normal. This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with April Davis, a sex and menstrual cycle educator, founder of Haus of Vagina, and host of the Haus of Vagina Podcast. We get into what body literacy means and how the lack of it leads people to labiaplasty, vaginal bleaching, and a lifetime of shame about bodies that were never abnormal to begin with. We also dive into period sex, tampons, free bleeding, and why prioritizing pleasure is just as worthy as every diet you've ever tried. We also dive into:  The difference between the vulva and the vagina Vulva myths about smell, tightness, and appearance Tampons vs. cups vs. discs vs. free bleeding Why prioritizing pleasure is a worthy pursuit How to talk to your kids about anatomy and protect them from grooming Why you should never fake an orgasm again If you've ever worried about how your vulva looks, smells, or functions, this episode is your permission slip to let that go and learn what you were never taught. Connect with April Davis http://www.instagram.com/hausofvagina Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Your Vulva is Normal: The Body Literacy We Were Never Taught with April of Haus of Vagina

  6. Sep 17

    Size vs. Skill: What Actually Matters in Bed | A Quickie Episode with Aimee

    Let's settle this once and for all: does size actually matter? Find out in this episode!  Welcome back to Come Talk with Aimee. This season, we're bringing you a Q&A series for our quickies, and for the first one, I went straight to Instagram to find out what you wanted to talk about. The top question? Does size matter? I'm taking that question to Reddit, to the research, and into the exam room for a vital sign check. We're looking at the anatomy of both penises and vaginas, what the science actually says about length versus girth, and the 4 techniques that over 3,000 women that identified they use to make penetration more pleasurable!  I also talk about:  The pleasurable techniques: angling, rocking, shallowing, and pairing Why the 2022 literature review found limited and inconsistent evidence on size The public health issue hiding underneath the size question Why technique, arousal, communication, and anatomy matter more than size The better question to ask: what are you doing with what you've got? If you've ever wondered whether size really matters, or if you've been anxious about it, this episode is your vital sign check. Let's break down the myths and get to the truth. Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

  7. Sep 10

    Put a Ring On It: The Science of Better Erections and Longer Sex with Dr. Elliot Justin

    Dr. Elliot Justin is on a mission to get men to finally listen to what their erections are telling them. If I were you, I’d better start listening. This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Dr. Elliot Justin, CEO and founder of FirmTech, a sex tech company that's revolutionizing men's sexual and cardiovascular health. Dr. Justin is an emergency medicine physician who has spent years developing a wearable device that tracks nocturnal erections, providing a leading indicator of cardiovascular and sexual health. We get into the science behind nocturnal erections, why they're a vital sign men need to pay attention to, and how the data from his device has already helped thousands of men avoid unnecessary procedures and optimize their performance.  We talk about:  Why nocturnal erections are a leading indicator of cardiovascular health How the FirmTech device tracks duration, firmness, and frequency Why erectile dysfunction has been misdiagnosed for decades The difference between physical and psychogenic ED How performance anxiety can impact erection quality Why most men benefit from wearing a ring How the ring keeps you hard longer and deepens intimacy If you've ever wondered what your morning wood is really telling you, or if you want to optimize your sexual performance and health, this episode is for you. Connect with Dr. Elliot Justin  https://www.instagram.com/myfirmtech/ https://www.youtube.com/@myfirmtech https://www.tiktok.com/@myfirmtech https://myfirmtech.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Put a Ring On It: The Science of Better Erections and Longer Sex with Dr. Elliot Justin

  8. Sep 3

    Squirting 101: Skill, Surrender, and the Science of Pleasure with Kenneth Play

    Kenneth Play has taught millions of people how to squirt. Today, he's sharing his best techniques with you. Welcome to season two of Come Talk with Aimee. This season is all about play, pleasure, and reconnecting with your most alive self. And who better to kick things off than Kenneth Play, named by GQ as the world's greatest sex hacker. Kenneth is a sex educator, author of "Beyond Satisfied," and the creator of the world's most viewed squirting workshop with over 70 million views. He joins us to break down the science of squirting, the difference between ejaculate and the splash show, and why most people can learn to squirt with the right technique. We talk about:  What squirting is and what it isn't How skill development leads to flow state How to create a "play lab" with your partner Communicating about squirting without awkwardness Why psychological arousal is the ultimate foreplay The emotional release and healing that can come with squirting If you've ever been curious about squirting, wanted to improve your sexual skills, or wondered how to bring more play into the bedroom, this episode is your invitation to explore. Connect with Kenneth Play  https://kennethplay.com/ https://www.instagram.com/kenneth_play/ https://kennethplay.com/book/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Squirting 101: Skill, Surrender, and the Science of Pleasure with Kenneth Play
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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee brings sex out of the shadows and into a hot pink spotlight. Hosted by Aimee, a nurse, public health professional, and certified embodied intimacy and relationship coach, this is where we have the candid conversations about sex, intimacy, pleasure, and relationships we should all be having. From shame and desire to orgasms, kink, dating, relationships, and everything delightfully in between, Aimee goes there with bold guests, unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and plenty of laughs. No shame. No scripts. No pretending we already know it all. And this season, we’re all about play: getting curious, breaking out of autopilot, and exploring what becomes possible when pleasure gets a little more room to breathe. Because “we don’t talk about that” is exactly why we’re talking about it. Come for the sex talk. Stay for the conversations that feel a little dangerous, and a lot liberating.

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