Come Talk with Aimee: Bringing Sex Out of The Shadows

Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee is here to shatter your awkward silences and toss the rulebook straight out the window. We're diving headfirst into the juicy, hilarious, and oh-so-real conversations about sex and intimacy we should all be having. With bold guests, no shame, and plenty of laughs, Aimee turns "we don't talk about that" into "why aren't we talking about that?" Get ready for unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and the kind of honest talks that feel a little dangerous - and a lot liberating.

  1. After Hours with Steph Zapata

    3d ago

    After Hours with Steph Zapata

    How well do you know your finger techniques?  In this second anniversary episode, I’m sharing another After Hours moment with you! This time, it’s with Steph Zapata, sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work. We kick things off with a game called Fingering It Out, where Steph schools us on fingering techniques, erogenous zones, and why lube is always the answer. Then we get real and go deeper into Steph's personal journey from years of shame and disconnection to reclaiming their body, their pleasure, and themselves.  We also talk about: how shame shows up in the bedroom and what to do instead of fighting it reclaiming your identity and body as home through sex education how to live from your heart instead of your anxiety-riddled mind using dirty talk to turn intrusive thoughts into real-time communication with your partner why imposter syndrome and fear do not have to hold you back from showing up If you have ever felt disconnected from your body, stuck in your head during sex, or like pleasure is something you have to earn, this episode is your reminder that becoming whole is a process, shame is not yours to keep, and dirty talk might just be the hack that changes your sex life. Connect with Steph Zapata  https://www.instagram.com/risewsteph/ https://www.tiktok.com/@risewsteph https://linktr.ee/RISEwSteph Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    17 min
  2. After Hours with Orla Maguire of Lubify

    May 28

    After Hours with Orla Maguire of Lubify

    Did you know that different kinds of lube are designed for different sensitivities, toys, and sexual activities? Because yes, your lube actually matters more than you think. In this anniversary episode, I’m sharing an After Hours moment with previous podcast guest and founder of Lubify, Orla Maguire. We break down the differences between water-based, silicone, oil-based, and organic lubes, how to know which one works best for your needs, and why ingredients matter when it comes to intimate care.  We also talk about: ingredients to look for and why lube should feel like skincare for your vulva and penis somatics and what it means to reconnect with your body self-pleasure, sensation, and embodied intimacy simple breathwork techniques for grounding and nervous system regulation why slowing down helps you experience more pleasure and connection how to become more aware of what your body actually wants and needs If you have ever grabbed a random bottle of lube without thinking twice, this episode might completely change the way you think about pleasure products. Your body deserves care, attention, and products that actually support your pleasure instead of working against it. Connect with Orla Maguire https://ilubify.com https://www.instagram.com/lubify https://www.tiktok.com/@ilubify Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    15 min
  3. Sacred Sexuality: Your Pleasure is Your Birthright with Elizabeth Hudson

    May 21

    Sacred Sexuality: Your Pleasure is Your Birthright with Elizabeth Hudson

    Your sexual energy is not dirty, shameful, or something you need to suppress. It is life force, creativity, connection, and one of the most powerful expressions of being human. In this episode, I sit down with transformational life coach, Kundalini yoga teacher, and Sacred Alchemy podcast host Elizabeth Hudson for a deeply expansive conversation about sacred sexuality, shame, spiritual connection, and reclaiming pleasure. We talk about the ways religion, purity culture, trauma, and societal conditioning disconnect people from their bodies and desires, and why so many people carry shame around the very energy that created them. Elizabeth breaks down the sacral chakra, sexual energy as creative force, and the connection between spirituality, embodiment, pleasure, and healing.  We also talk about: healing sexual trauma through somatic work, breathwork, and nervous system regulation why pleasure is your birthright and not something to feel guilty about the connection between spirituality, sensuality, and divine energy conscious partnership and creating deeper intimacy through presence and awareness feminine energy, embodiment, and reclaiming pleasure without shame why creativity and sexuality are more connected than most people realise If you have ever struggled with shame around your body, your pleasure, or your desires, this episode is your reminder that there is nothing inherently wrong with your sexuality. Your body is not something to disconnect from. It is something to come home to.  Connect with Elizabeth Hudson https://elizabeth-hudson.com/ https://www.instagram.com/elizabeth.hudson11/ https://elizabeth-hudson.com/sexual-alchemy-podcast/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    37 min

  4. May 14

    Erotic Bodywork, Consent, and Learning to Feel Safer in My Body

    What exactly happens in an erotic bodywork retreat?  In this solo episode, I take you behind the scenes of my experience attending a seven-day Back to the Body retreat in Sicily with Pamela Madsen. Ten days after interviewing Pamela on the podcast, I booked a flight to Italy and found myself immersed in somatic work, erotic touch, sisterhood, consent conversations, breathwork, body-based healing, and some of the most profound nervous system regulation I have ever experienced. I share what the retreat structure actually looked like, what surprised me the most, the emotional and physical shifts that came up during the experience, and why this work was about so much more than orgasms.  I talk about: the importance of consent conversations before entering erotic spaces why safety changes your ability to access pleasure and embodiment sisterhood, connection, and the unexpected emotional impact of the retreat why erotic touch is not just about orgasms, but presence, safety, and healing how to advocate for yourself and your boundaries in erotic spaces If you have ever been curious about erotic bodywork, somatic sex education, or retreats like Back to the Body, this episode is an honest look at what these spaces can actually feel like from someone who experienced it firsthand. This conversation is not about shock value or fantasy. It is about embodiment, consent, safety, pleasure, and what becomes possible when you finally allow yourself to fully drop into your body. Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    28 min
  5. Abortion Positivity: Dismantling Shame and Stigma with Sophie Nir

    May 7

    Abortion Positivity: Dismantling Shame and Stigma with Sophie Nir

    Abortion is not shameful, controversial, or up for debate. It is normal, common, and a fundamental part of healthcare. In this episode, I sit down with Sophie Nir, co-founder and CEO of the Abortion Positivity Project, for a bold, unfiltered, and deeply necessary conversation about abortion, stigma, and reclaiming the narrative. We talk about what abortion positivity actually means, why abortion is not a political issue but a politicised one, and how shame has been intentionally taught and reinforced in both culture and policy. Sophie breaks down the language we have been using for decades, from “pro-choice” to “safe, legal, and rare,” and why those frameworks actually distance us from abortion instead of supporting it. We also get into the real-life impact of abortion access, why abortion is overwhelmingly common and supported, and what it looks like to move from apologising for abortion to proudly standing behind it. We talk about: why abortion is not political, but politicized the problem with language like “pro-choice” and “safe, legal, and rare” why abortion does not need to be justified to be valid how stigma directly impacts policy, access, and people’s lived experiences the reality of abortion access, restrictions, and who is most affected why the most common emotional response after abortion is relief how to start having confident, stigma-free conversations about abortion in everyday life If you are ready to drop the shame, question the narratives you have been taught, and start speaking about abortion with clarity and confidence, this episode is your permission slip. You do not need to soften it. You do not need to apologise for it. You can support it, talk about it, and stand behind it fully. Connect with Sophie Nir https://www.abortionpositivity.com/, https://www.instagram.com/abortionpositivity/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    45 min
  6. Sexual Identity: Claiming Your Pleasure with Pamela Madsen

    Apr 30

    Sexual Identity: Claiming Your Pleasure with Pamela Madsen

    What if the reason your desire feels confusing, inconsistent, or even absent… is because it is not actually aligned with who you think you are? In this episode, I sit down with the OG in the sexual wellness space, somatic sex educator, and founder of Back to the Body Retreats, Pamela Madsen, for a bold and deeply eye-opening conversation about sexual identity and what it really means to live in alignment with your desire. We talk about the sexual authenticity model, the tension between who you believe you are, what you actually want, and how you show up in your relationships. Pamela shares her journey from being the “good girl” who had the perfect life on paper to confronting desire that did not fit her identity, and how that misalignment became the catalyst for everything that followed. We also get into why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies, how desire gets suppressed over time, and what it takes to reconnect with your pleasure in a real, embodied way. We talk about: why your desire can feel out of sync with your current life becoming erotically fluent and learning how to feel again why safety is required for women to access pleasure the difference between performing sex and experiencing it reconnecting with your body through somatic awareness why your pleasure is something you actively take ownership of If you have ever felt like your desire does not match the life you are living, or like you are playing a role instead of actually experiencing pleasure, this episode is your invitation to get honest about what you want and start aligning your life around it. Your desire is not random. It is information. And when you learn how to listen to it, everything begins to shift. Connect with Pamela Madsen  http://www.backtothebody.org https://www.instagram.com/backtothebodyorg/ https://www.facebook.com/BacktotheBody/ https://www.instagram.com/thepamelamadsen/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    39 min
  7. Sex After Divorce: Prioritizing Pleasure Over Pressure with Amber Joy Simon

    Apr 23

    Sex After Divorce: Prioritizing Pleasure Over Pressure with Amber Joy Simon

    What if the end of your marriage is actually the beginning of your best sex life? In this episode, I sit down with Amber Joy Simon, founder of QUIVR, for a real, funny, and deeply validating conversation about sex after divorce and what it actually means to choose pleasure over pressure. We talk about how so many women leave long-term relationships disconnected from their bodies, stuck in routine, and performing instead of actually experiencing pleasure. Amber shares her own journey from being in a formulaic sex life to rediscovering desire, safety, and curiosity, and why divorce can be the moment where everything finally opens up.  We also talk about: why your pleasure is your responsibility, not your partner’s moving out of “pick me” energy and into self-worth and boundaries how to rebuild confidence and feel safe receiving pleasure again the difference between performing in bed and actually experiencing pleasure why nervous system safety is required for real intimacy and connection how to listen to your body and trust what it is telling you If you are navigating life after divorce, feeling unsure about intimacy again, or ready to experience sex in a completely different way, this episode is your reminder that this is not the end, it is a reset. You get to rewrite the script, choose yourself, and build a sex life that actually feels good in your body. Connect with Amber Joy Simon  https://www.instagram.com/quivr_method/ https://stan.store/QUIVR Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    48 min
  8. The Invisible Season: From Losing Yourself to Owning Your Pleasure with Lauren Elise Rogers

    Apr 16

    The Invisible Season: From Losing Yourself to Owning Your Pleasure with Lauren Elise Rogers

    What if the most important shift in your life is not the big, dramatic moment but the decision to start choosing yourself? In this episode, I sit down with certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy coach Lauren Elise Rogers for a deeply honest, slightly unhinged in the best way, and incredibly validating conversation about the invisible season of becoming and what it really means to own your pleasure. We talk about what it looks like to slowly wake up inside a life that no longer fits, the conditioning that teaches women to abandon their desires, and the moment you realise that your pleasure is not someone else’s responsibility, it is yours. Lauren shares her journey through a misaligned marriage, religious conditioning, and deep disconnection from her body, and how small, almost invisible choices helped her rebuild her sense of self, desire, and agency. We talk about: the invisible season and why nothing feels like it is happening when everything is shifting how purity culture and societal scripts disconnect you from your desires losing yourself in roles and learning how to come back to who you are moving out of the martyr mindset and into self-led desire grief, loss, and rebuilding your life after everything falls apart learning how to choose yourself without guilt why becoming “selfish” might actually be the most aligned thing you do If you are in a season where things feel unclear, slow, or quietly uncomfortable, this episode is your reminder that becoming does not always look dramatic. Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself in small ways, over and over again, and learning that your pleasure, your desires, and your life are yours to own.  Connect with Lauren Elise Rogers https://www.instagram.com/sex_ed_for_you/ https://sexedforyou.com/connect Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee is here to shatter your awkward silences and toss the rulebook straight out the window. We're diving headfirst into the juicy, hilarious, and oh-so-real conversations about sex and intimacy we should all be having. With bold guests, no shame, and plenty of laughs, Aimee turns "we don't talk about that" into "why aren't we talking about that?" Get ready for unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and the kind of honest talks that feel a little dangerous - and a lot liberating.

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  • Creator
    Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    46
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
  • Show Website
    Come Talk with Aimee: Bringing Sex Out of The Shadows

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