Beyond Blind Blaming

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What if the biggest thing holding you back... is something you can’t even see? Beyond Blind Blaming with Kevin D. St.Clergy dives into the hidden mindset blocks and patterns that keep high-achievers stuck. Each week, Kevin—author, mentor, and former Audiology Mastery host—talks with experts who’ve broken free and found purpose, power, and lasting success. If you're ready to stop blaming and start leading, this podcast is for you.

  1. Why Most Email Marketing Fails and How to Fix It | Liz Willits

    3D AGO

    Why Most Email Marketing Fails and How to Fix It | Liz Willits

    Is your inbox a graveyard of unwanted messages, or the secret weapon your business has been ignoring? What if mastering email was the missing link between stagnation and breakthrough sales? Liz Willits, a top email marketing strategist, copywriter, and entrepreneur, has helped everyone from scrappy startups to multi-billion-dollar enterprises turn overlooked emails into powerful engagement and revenue drivers. Her career spans scaling teams at AWeber and consulting industry leaders on building brand loyalty through words that actually convert. In this episode, Liz Willits breaks down blind spots holding businesses back: myths about deliverability, the art of list-cleaning, why buying email lists is a losing game, and actionable steps for turning subscribers into lifelong customers. In this episode, Kevin and Liz will discuss: (04:48) Customer connection versus corporate growth (08:40) Hidden challenges in email deliverability (11:55) Why unsubscribing helps emails (13:52) Typos and unexpected reactions (16:22) A B testing to minimise risk (19:33) Optimise email lists for engagement (24:27) Trust the experts in marketing (28:33) Buying email lists fails (29:27) Why purchasing email lists backfires (32:51) Effective email frequency strategy (37:05) Podcast resources and farewell Liz Willits is a marketing strategist and email expert known for helping brands build trust, boost engagement, and convert through smarter messaging. With decades of experience across digital marketing, list growth, and customer psychology, she helps businesses create email strategies that connect and perform. Connect with Liz: Liz’s Website: https://lizwillits.com/ Liz’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/liz-willits/ Liz’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lizwillits  Liz’s Email: me@lizwillits.com Resources Mentioned: Liz’s Free Guide – How to Get Benchmark-Busting Email Open Rates: https://lizwillits.com/open-rate-guide/  From Stuck to Breakthrough: Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge. This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships. Sign up today at blindblaming.com.

    38 min
  2. “Your Purpose Comes From Your Pain” | Evan Charmichael

    DEC 16

    “Your Purpose Comes From Your Pain” | Evan Charmichael

    Most entrepreneurs spend years trapped by hidden beliefs, only to discover their biggest blind spots are right under their noses. For Evan Charmichael, best-selling author, global speaker, and YouTube pioneer, inspiring belief isn’t a slogan; it’s a mission forged in the fires of real struggle. From selling his first biotech startup at age 22 to building one of the world’s largest entrepreneur communities, he’s lived the cycles of doubt and reinvention. On this episode, Evan Charmichael sits down with Kevin St. Clergy to reveal how blind blaming keeps us from serving others, why growth is impossible without outside perspective, and the practical steps to break out of old patterns to step into meaningful impact. In this episode, Kevin and Evan will discuss: (02:39) Evan’s background (06:56) Charge more, clarify offerings   (10:42) Finding purpose beyond success   (14:13) Embrace growth through imperfection   (17:26) Purpose comes from pain   (21:51) Expanding perspectives through coaching   (24:15) Advice on belief and asking   (25:29) Closing thoughts and resources Evan Carmichael is an entrepreneur, author and keynote speaker who spends his life helping entrepreneurs succeed. At 19, he co-founded and later sold a biotech software company, and by 22, he was raising venture capital for startups. Since then, he’s built a popular personal-growth and business brand, running a widely followed YouTube channel, writing books, and speaking globally, all rooted in his mission to make self-belief “automatic.” Connect with Evan: Evan’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EvanCarmichael  Evan’s Website: https://believe.evancarmichael.com/homepage  Resources Mentioned: Built To Serve by Evan Charmichael: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1642934917 From Stuck to Breakthrough: Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge. This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships. Sign up today at blindblaming.com.

    27 min
  3. Why Leading Yourself First Matters – Wisdom For High Performers | Elizabeth McCormick

    DEC 9

    Why Leading Yourself First Matters – Wisdom For High Performers | Elizabeth McCormick

    What if the biggest obstacle in your life isn’t what you think it is? Sometimes, the fears and “hidden truths” holding us back are tucked deep inside, only revealed when we’re willing to look beyond our inner monologue. Elizabeth McCormick knows this firsthand. A former US Army Black Hawk helicopter pilot turned bestselling author and keynote speaker, she’s spent years translating high-stakes lessons from military command to everyday leadership and resilience. Elizabeth joins Kevin St. Clergy to trace the surprising power of awareness – how blind spots stall growth, why fear (of success or failure) quietly rules our lives, and the practical, no-nonsense ways to reclaim your story and truly lead from within. In this episode, Kevin and Elizabeth will discuss: (04:40) “My helicopter, my command” (08:50) Overcoming fear to find purpose (10:48) Fear of success vs failure (15:07) Corporate leadership vs military training (16:31) Personal leadership and awareness (21:02) Testing content like comedians (23:37) Soft selling at events (28:41) Testing stories through speaking (30:45) Ethical publishing for new authors (32:45) Empowerment through audience feedback (36:17) Engaging the audience with key phrases Elizabeth McCormick is a former U.S. Army Black Hawk helicopter pilot turned award-winning leadership speaker and author. Drawing on high-pressure military experience, she teaches leaders how to perform under pressure, communicate clearly and build strong teams. A sought-after keynote speaker, she is known for translating aviation lessons into practical strategies for business and personal success. Connect with Elizabeth: Elizabeth’s Website: https://yourinspirationalspeaker.com/ Elizabeth’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pilotspeaker/  Resources Mentioned: The P.I.L.O.T. Method by Elizabeth McCormick: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1629030082 Bookability Factor by Elizabeth McCormick:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07D2M5H3V From Stuck to Breakthrough: Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge. This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships. Sign up today at blindblaming.com.

    38 min
  4. Breaking Through Self-Imposed Limits: Sales, Success, and Identity | Elyse Archer

    DEC 2

    Breaking Through Self-Imposed Limits: Sales, Success, and Identity | Elyse Archer

    What if chasing traditional success is actually holding you back from real fulfillment? Elyse Archer hit all the markers: top sales, a dream house, a picture-perfect life, yet found herself anxious, empty, and stuck. It took hitting a personal crossroads to realize that true transformation starts with rewriting your own story. As a sought-after sales and business mindset coach, Elyse Archer guides entrepreneurs and high performers to master their inner game, build authentic brands, and shift their relationship with money. She’s the founder of Supersize Life and a dynamic voice in the growth space. In this episode, Elyse Archer joins Kevin St. Clergy for a candid conversation about breaking free from self-imposed limitations, selling from wholeness, and the pivotal power of living a life true to yourself – not one defined by others’ expectations. In this episode, Kevin and Elyse will discuss: (04:21) Embracing change and growth (09:18) Redefining success and fulfillment (10:55) Aligning mindset for wealth (16:00) Transformational power of inner work (19:25) Breaking barriers and embracing success (21:07) Trust intuition over opinions (25:55) Soul's calling and transformation (29:50) Awareness and embracing growth (33:05) Transforming through positive identity (36:54) Inner child work transformation (38:49) Own your success confidently (42:30) How Elyse 10X’d her growth in six weeks Elyse Archer is the founder of Superhuman Selling and She Sells, helping entrepreneurs and sales professionals rethink how they sell and grow their income. A Salesforce Top Influencer featured in Forbes and Inc, she teaches clients to sell using their natural strengths while building wealth. Elyse is an international keynote speaker and host of She Sells Radio, sharing insights from high-performing female entrepreneurs and sales leaders. Connect with Elyse: Elyse’s Website: https://elysearcher.com/  Elyse’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elysearcher Super Human Selling Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/34yp0GfjX1ERkUhKyR8zCl She Sells: https://shesellsremote.com/ Superhuman Selling:  Resources Mentioned: The Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware: https://www.amazon.com/dp/140194065X  Amberly Lago: https://amberlylago.com/  From Stuck to Breakthrough: Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge. This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships. Sign up today at blindblaming.com.

    43 min
  5. Success Without More: The Power of Letting Go | Derek Sivers

    NOV 25

    Success Without More: The Power of Letting Go | Derek Sivers

    Derek Sivers once believed success meant scaling bigger and moving faster. Then he built CD Baby, sold it, and gave the proceeds away – not because he had to, but because he realised enough was already enough. As a writer, entrepreneur and modern business philosopher, Derek has spent years stripping life and business down to their essentials. What remains when you remove ego, growth for growth’s sake, and societal expectation? Clarity. Freedom. The space to choose. In this conversation, Derek joins Kevin St. Clergy to explore why redefining success starts with questioning the stories we've been told. They uncover the cost of distraction, the power of radical focus, and how letting go (not adding more) can lead to bigger breakthroughs. In this episode, Kevin and Derek will discuss: (03:17) Accidental entrepreneurial journey (07:27) Odometer metaphor and purpose (11:31) Turning blame into empowerment (13:36) Control what you can (17:24) Making musicians happy as success (20:38) Card table vs glamorous booths (26:03) Prioritise focus over distraction (27:15) Start with why for happiness (31:20) Stop over-quoting and say it simply (34:26) What truly makes you happy (38:36) Think long-term for longevity (40:01) Broaden identity and embrace growth Derek Sivers is an entrepreneur, writer, and former musician best known for founding CD Baby and donating its multimillion-dollar proceeds to charity. A modern business thinker, he challenges conventional wisdom and advocates for simplicity, intentional living, and purpose-driven work through his bestselling books and global talks. Connect with Derek: Derek’s Website: https://sive.rs/  Resources Mentioned: Can Negotiate Anything by Herb Cohen: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0553281097  Grit by Angela Duckworth:  https://www.amazon.com/dp/1501111116/  How To Change by Angela Duckworth: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08LQZDDDS/  New Happy by Stephanie Harrison: https://www.amazon.com/dp/139872212X Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1400077427/ Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735211736/ Outlive by Peter Attia: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0593236599  Anything You Want by Derek Sivers: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1991153317/  From Stuck to Breakthrough: Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge. This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships. Sign up today at blindblaming.com.

    42 min
  6. Unlearning Silence: Conversations That Transform Confidence | Elaine Lin Hering

    NOV 18

    Unlearning Silence: Conversations That Transform Confidence | Elaine Lin Hering

    We don’t get stuck because we lack skill; we get stuck because we silence ourselves. Elaine Lin Hering once believed staying quiet kept the peace. But silence has a cost: it shapes who gets heard and who gets overlooked. While studying power and influence at Harvard Law School and Triad Consulting Group, Elaine realised silence isn’t passive, it’s learned and reinforced. Understanding that gives us the choice to speak with intention. In this conversation, Elaine joins Kevin to explore how silence derails tough conversations and why reframing “imposter syndrome” as “imposter treatment” changes how we show up. In this episode, Kevin and Elain will discuss: (04:27) Leadership, teams and impact (08:17) It’s okay not to be okay (10:36) Breaking the silence to communicate clearly (14:34) How to break out of blame loops (17:36) Unlearning silence in organisations (22:41) What do I think and need? (24:05) Rethinking imposter syndrome (27:06) Why miscommunication really happens (33:29) Feedback that fuels growth (36:26) Communicating across differences (39:31) Assessments that set you up for success (41:55) How to structure healthy conversations (45:33) Best books for self-directed learning (47:27) How silence affects relationships Elaine Lin Hering is a facilitator, speaker, and author who helps people communicate clearly, navigate conflict, and speak up with confidence. She has worked across six continents with organisations such as Google, Nike, American Express, Pixar, and the Red Cross. Previously, she served as Managing Partner at Triad Consulting Group and taught negotiation. Connect with Elain: Elain’s Website: https://elainelinhering.com/ Elain’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elainelinhering/  Resources Mentioned: Unlearning Silence by Elaine Lin Hering: https://www.amazon.com/Unlearning-Silence-Speak-Unleash-Talent/dp/0593653602 Verbal Judo by George Thompson:  https://www.amazon.co.uk/Verbal-Judo-Second-Gentle-Persuasion/dp/0062107704  HBR – Stop Telling Women They Have Imposter Syndrome: https://hbr.org/2021/02/stop-telling-women-they-have-imposter-syndrome  From Stuck to Breakthrough: Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge. This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships. Sign up today at blindblaming.com.

    49 min
  7. The Psychology of Pricing: Business Secrets Every Creative Should Know | Chris Do

    NOV 11

    The Psychology of Pricing: Business Secrets Every Creative Should Know | Chris Do

    Most creatives don’t struggle because they lack talent – they struggle because they’re held back by limiting beliefs. Chris Do used to rely on creativity alone, assuming the right clients would just find him. Everything changed when he learned how to engage clients, uncover their real problems, and articulate value. The result? Opportunities that tripled his income. In this conversation, Chris joins Kevin to break down the mindset shifts that drive a successful creative business – how to market without feeling salesy, price with confidence, and build genuine trust with clients. In this episode, Kevin and Chris will discuss: (03:59) Teaching over selling on YouTube (08:26) Building success through skills and mindset (11:06) Lesson on understanding clients (13:53) Breaking free from limiting beliefs (18:37) Value depends on perspective (20:59) Ethical sales and problem solving (23:08) Defining the right fit (27:17) Make an effing decision (29:54) Respectful decision making and building alliances (32:16) Building trust through authenticity (37:53) The value of honesty (39:56) Masterclass in therapy and parenting (42:09) Language and connecting minds through time Chris Do is an Emmy Award-winning designer, educator, and entrepreneur with over two decades of experience in brand strategy and creative business. As the founder and CEO of The Futur, he has built a global education platform that empowers creatives to monetize their skills and build sustainable businesses. Chris has worked with top brands like Microsoft, Sony, Nike, and Starbucks, and generated over $1 million in digital product sales. Through his work, he’s helped thousands of professionals thrive in today’s creative economy. Connect with Chris: Chris’s Website: thefutur.com Chris’s LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/thechrisdo  Chris’s Instagram: instagram.com/thechrisdo  Resources Mentioned: Selling with Noble Purpose: How to Drive Revenue and Do Work That Makes You Proud by Lisa Earle McLeod: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1118408098  Action Selling: How to Sell Like a Professional, Even If You Think You Are One by Duane Sparks: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0975356909  The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery by Brianna Wiest: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1949759229  From Stuck to Breakthrough: Ready to break free from what’s holding you back? Join the From Stuck to Breakthrough challenge. This FREE, five-day live experience will help you uncover hidden solutions to your toughest challenges—whether it’s in your business, health, wealth, or relationships. Sign up today at blindblaming.com

    46 min

  8. NOV 4

    Stop Playing Small: How to Claim Your Space in Leadership and Thrive | Sally Helgesen

    Ever wondered why you're overlooked for leadership roles despite all your hard work? While working with corporate organizations in the 1980s, Sally Helgesen noticed a troubling pattern: talented individuals, particularly women, were often dismissed, and their ideas ignored. Determined to change this, she has spent the past 30 years breaking down barriers to career growth and creating spaces where talent can thrive, regardless of gender. In this episode, Sally joins Kevin to discuss the common habits that hold people back in their careers and how to overcome these barriers to get positioned for leadership opportunities and recognition. Sally Helgesen is an international speaker, coach, bestselling author, and leading expert on women's leadership. With over 35 years of experience, she has worked with global organizations in 37 countries to foster inclusive work cultures. In this episode, Kevin and Sally will discuss: (00:00) Introduction  (02:55) Her Path to Leadership: Breaking Barriers in the 80s (05:14) Why Women Struggle to Own Their Achievements (08:33) How to Claim Your Wins Without Bragging (12:47) Why Expertise Alone Won't Get You Ahead (15:13) Building vs. Leveraging Relationships (20:08) The Disease to Please: The Power of Saying “No” (25:47) The Cost of Chasing Perfection (32:35) Leadership Challenges in Today's Workplace (37:18) How Sally Invests in Her Growth Sally Helgesen is an international speaker, coach, bestselling author, and leading expert on women's leadership. With over 35 years of experience, she has worked with global organizations in 37 countries to foster inclusive work cultures. Cited by Forbes as the world’s premier expert on women’s leadership, Sally has been inducted into the Thinkers 50 Hall of Fame for her impact on shaping leadership worldwide. Her book, How Women Rise, identifies key habits holding women back in their careers and offers strategies to overcome them. Connect with Sally: Sally’s Website: sallyhelgesen.com  Sally’s LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/sallyhelgesen  Sally’s Substack: substack.com/@allrise  Resources Mentioned: Sally’s Book, How Women Rise: Break the 12 Habits Holding You Back from Your Next Raise, Promotion, or Job: https://www.amazon.com/How-Women-Rise-Holding-Promotion/dp/0316440124  Sally’s Book, The Female Advantage: Women's Ways of Leadership: https://www.amazon.com/Female-Advantage-Womens-Ways-Leadership/dp/0385419112  The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage Into Self-Mastery by Brianna Wiest: https://www.amazon.com/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery/dp/1949759229  Buy Back Your Time: Get Unstuck, Reclaim Your Freedom, and Build Your Empire by Dan Martell: a

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What if the biggest thing holding you back... is something you can’t even see? Beyond Blind Blaming with Kevin D. St.Clergy dives into the hidden mindset blocks and patterns that keep high-achievers stuck. Each week, Kevin—author, mentor, and former Audiology Mastery host—talks with experts who’ve broken free and found purpose, power, and lasting success. If you're ready to stop blaming and start leading, this podcast is for you.

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