Men Get Cheated On Too!

Adam Nisenson
  • 4.5 (11)
  • Mental Health

Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.

  1. 2d ago

    Ep. 55: Self-Care for Betrayed Men

    After betrayal, most men don’t think about self-care the right way. It either feels irrelevant, too soft, or like something you can deal with later. But the reality is, when your mind is racing, your emotions are unpredictable, and your sense of stability is shaken, self-care is not optional. It’s how you stay grounded while everything else feels out of control. “Self-care is not a luxury in this situation. It is survival.” In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down what self-care actually looks like for men going through betrayal. This is not about avoiding the pain or pretending you’re fine. It’s about supporting your system so you can think clearly, regulate your emotions, and move through this without getting stuck. Inside this episode: ·       Why self-care is a form of strength, not weakness ·       How movement helps regulate your mind and release built-up tension ·       Why structure and routine create stability when everything feels chaotic ·       The connection between your physical state and your mental clarity ·       How to create space to process instead of suppressing what you feel ·       Why setting boundaries with triggers and other people protects your healing This episode helps you shift from reacting to what happened to actively supporting yourself through it. You don’t need perfect habits. You need consistent ones that keep you steady while you rebuild. This isn’t about escaping what you’re going through. It’s about showing up for yourself in a way that actually moves you forward. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

  2. Jul 6

    Ep. 54: Why You Feel Like You’re Going Crazy

    After betrayal, there’s a moment many men don’t talk about. The moment where your thoughts won’t stop, your emotions feel all over the place, and you start questioning yourself. You wonder why you can’t shut it off, why you’re reacting the way you are, and whether something is wrong with you. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down why that feeling shows up and what’s actually happening underneath it. “You’re not losing your mind. You’re reacting to something that overwhelmed your system.” Adam walks through the reality of betrayal trauma and how it impacts your mind and body. He explains why the obsessive thoughts, emotional swings, sleep disruption, and sudden reactions are not signs that you’re unstable. They are signs that your system is trying to process something that disrupted your sense of safety and control. Inside this episode: ·       Why your mind keeps replaying what happened ·       How trauma creates emotional chaos and inconsistency ·       The difference between a personality change and a trauma response ·       What triggers are and why they feel so intense ·       How grounding and awareness help you regain stability ·       When it’s time to get support and stop trying to carry it alone This episode helps you understand what you’re experiencing so you can stop turning it against yourself. You’re not broken. You’re in the middle of processing something that hit you hard. This isn’t about forcing the thoughts to stop. It’s about learning how to work with what’s happening so you can start finding your way back to yourself. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

  3. Jun 29

    Ep. 53: When Your Partner Was Living a Double Life

    Some betrayals don’t just break trust. They break your sense of reality. You’re not only dealing with cheating. You’re dealing with the realization that the relationship you thought you were in wasn’t fully real. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down what it does to a man when he discovers his partner was living a double life. “This isn’t only heartbreak. It’s disorientation. It’s trying to understand what was real and what wasn’t.” Adam walks through why this kind of betrayal hits differently. It’s not just about what happened. It’s about the deception, the hidden reality, and the way it leaves you questioning your own perception. He explains why so many men turn inward and start doubting themselves, and how gaslighting and manipulation can quietly erode your ability to trust your own instincts. Inside this episode: ·       Why double-life betrayal creates confusion, not just pain ·       How gaslighting and secrecy distort your sense of reality ·       Why questioning yourself is common, but not accurate ·       The difference between missing something and being misled ·       How to rebuild trust in your own judgment ·       What it means to grieve both the relationship and the version you believed in This episode helps you separate what actually happened from the story your mind is building around it. You weren’t blind. You were working with incomplete information. And rebuilding your self-trust is part of your recovery. This isn’t just about understanding what they did. It’s about reconnecting with yourself so you can move forward grounded in clarity, not confusion. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

  4. Jun 22

    Ep. 52: The Myth of Just Getting Over It

    At some point after betrayal, you hear it. Maybe from others. Maybe from yourself. “Just get over it.” It sounds simple. It sounds like the answer. But it creates more pressure than progress and leaves a lot of men feeling like they’re failing at something they don’t even understand. “You don’t get over betrayal. You work through it.” In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down why this message is so damaging and how it pushes men to suppress what they actually need to process. He explains why betrayal does not follow a clean timeline, why healing is not linear, and why trying to rush it often makes things worse instead of better. Inside this episode: ·       Why “getting over it” is not how healing works ·       How pressure and timelines distort your recovery ·       The difference between processing and emotional bypassing ·       Why suppressed pain always comes back ·       What real healing actually looks like in day-to-day life ·       How to measure progress without expecting perfection This episode helps you step out of the pressure to be done and into a process that actually works. You’re not behind. You’re not weak. You’re working through something that changed you. This isn’t about rushing past what happened. It’s about giving yourself the space to move through it in a way that lasts. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

  5. Jun 15

    Ep. 51: What If You Still Love Them?

    After betrayal, there’s something a lot of men don’t expect to still be there. The love. And that creates a kind of confusion that can feel impossible to sort out. You’re dealing with anger, hurt, and broken trust, but at the same time, you still feel connected. You still care. And now you’re left asking what that means about you and what you’re supposed to do with it. “You can love someone and still recognize that what happened changed everything.” In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down one of the most misunderstood parts of betrayal recovery. He explains why love does not just disappear, why that does not make you weak, and why your feelings and your decisions are not the same thing. This is about separating emotion from action so you can start making clear, grounded choices instead of reactive ones. Inside this episode: Why love doesn’t shut off after betrayal and what that actually meansThe difference between real love and trauma bondingWhy love alone is not enough to rebuild a relationshipHow to hold your feelings without letting them control your decisionsWhen love starts turning into self-betrayalWhy choosing distance can be an act of strength, not failureThis episode helps you stop questioning yourself and start understanding what you are actually feeling. You can love someone and still choose yourself. You can care and still walk away. And you can hold that complexity without letting it pull you off track. This isn’t about forcing yourself to stop loving them. It’s about deciding what that love means now, and whether it supports the life you are trying to rebuild. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

  6. Jun 8

    Ep. 50: This Isn’t Where It Ends

    After betrayal, it can feel like everything is over. Not just the relationship, but the life you thought you were building. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to that moment where it feels like your story has been rewritten without your permission. “This is not the end of your story. It’s a chapter you didn’t choose.” Adam breaks down why betrayal feels final and how that belief can quietly shape your future if you are not aware of it. He walks you through the shift from seeing this as an ending to recognizing it as a turning point. Inside this episode: Why betrayal feels like the end of everythingThe difference between grief and giving upHow to stop defining yourself by what happenedWhat it means to take your story backHow to move from reaction to intentionThis episode is about reclaiming your future. You didn’t choose what happened, but you still choose what comes next. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

  7. Jun 1

    Ep. 49: The Cost of Betrayal to Your Self-Esteem

    Betrayal does not just damage trust. It changes how you see yourself. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down how infidelity cuts into your sense of worth and why so many men quietly start questioning if they were ever enough. “You didn’t become less. You started believing a lie about yourself.” Adam explains how the mind turns someone else’s decision into a personal identity wound. He walks through why comparison, self-doubt, and internal criticism take over, and how to start separating your worth from what happened. Inside this episode: Why betrayal attacks your identity, not just your relationshipHow comparison and self-doubt take holdThe role of shame in lowering self-esteemHow to rebuild confidence through action, not avoidanceWhat it means to reconnect with who you were before thisThis episode helps you take your identity back and rebuild your self-worth from the inside out. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

  8. May 25

    Ep. 48: When You’re Trying to Protect Your Kids From the Fallout

    When kids are involved, betrayal becomes more than your own pain. Now you are trying to hold everything together while also protecting them. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks to the pressure men feel to stay strong, stay steady, and somehow keep their kids unaffected while they are still hurting themselves. “Your kids don’t need you to be perfect. They need you to be present.” Adam walks through the balance between honesty and protection, and why trying to hide everything can create more confusion for kids. He explains how to show up in a way that provides stability without emotionally overwhelming them. Inside this episode: How to talk to kids without overexposing themThe difference between honesty and emotional dumpingWhy kids sense more than you thinkHow to create stability through consistency and presenceWhat it means to be strong without shutting down emotionallyThis episode gives you a grounded way to show up for your kids while still honoring your own healing. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

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Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.

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  • Creator
    Adam Nisenson
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    56
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Men Get Cheated On Too!
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