Piqued Podcast

Piqued Podcast

I've long felt that my perfect podcast would be a patchwork quilt of my woo woo wellness favorites, comedic cut ups, pop culture boots on the ground, amateur sociology/psychology nerds, sports (but kind of just tennis), philosophy waxers and on and on. I haven't found one, so I made one! Piqued never picks a lane, but always has a take on whatever is pricking up our ears in these very plugged in times. We zoom in to find the minutia and zoom out to find perspective and always with heart and humor.

  1. Oct 6

    Price of Admission

    (Producer/husband)Charlie is finally back in studio for a chat this week, so obviously I squeezed every drop of his insight and perspective out of him that I could.We got in deep this week talking about the ‘Pay to Play’ structure of getting your creative output to your audience. What we mean by that is that the means to ‘distribute’ anything these days involves a whole second vocation of social media hustle, self promotion, building a following with content that is not necessarily even really your ‘product’.    I know that the resistance we may meet in trying to catch on, can always be attributed to the quality of our out-put, but there is an undeniable extra element at play in these times    The climate reminds me of how you need to have three forms of ID to get ID-well if we had that why would we be here? You need to have a full blown following to play certain venues, get significant traction on certain platforms, be considered for certain promotions and-of course-to monetize. It seems like you need to have the job to get the job, it really can make your head spin.   We are both trying to keep the tenuous balance of making an effort, being consistent, putting energy that we want to see out in the world in to our respective fields while also making sure we are not auditioning for a job we don’t want.   The more you play to the algorithms and the viral moments, the more you will become a slave to them. Churning out click bait, in my case, and consumable, easy listening, derivative hits in Charlie’s, is not the job we want, so we definitely don’t want to girl boss our way in to clocking in to the enshittified factory. Still, we don’t want to be complacent or bitter and cop out of putting ourselves out there and having patience and a willingness to cultivate our niche..    The messaging out there pushing the idea that you have to feed this system (which kind of gives us the ick) is so pervasive, that you can almost forget that there is a real vested interest from some deep pockets in getting you to believe that there is no other way. If we keep believing that is the case it will continue to be the case and around we go.  00:00-02:24 - INTRO , welcome Back Charlie at Last! 02:24-11:32 - Segment:’On Your Mind or on Your Nerves’-Charlie and the Shopping Cart Virtue Signaling have Beef. 11:33-17:47 - ‘ONMOYN’ Segment Continued-YasmeenWant’s to learn from Pete Davidson’s ICKY Interview and not be a performative Curmudgeon. 17:48-20:13 - Breaking down our topic-The price of entry to connect your project to an  audience is Highland may bastardize the product. 20:14-22:28  - Charlie is at a crossroads after releasing an album. 22:28-28:35 - Yasmeen Describes the fear of auditioning for a job she doesn’t want. 28:35-32:08 - Charlie contends with the reality that algorithms and streaming  platforms have diminished consensus 32:09-35:32 - creatives find a way to create opportunities 35:33-38:09 - Enshittification. Trying to be everything makes nothing. 38:10-41:46 - The Ella Langley effect 41:46-45:32 -  the chicken and egg effect of community dispersing disincentivizing people from going out and collaborating creating a vicious cycle. 45:32-52:16 - Platforms, venues, and production companies are asking that you be a fully formed 52:16-55:51 -  On a hopeful note, the future is a 3rd space one…but let’s not lean in to lap top DJS . 55:52-05:58 - Charlie talks taking music back to it sacred place Yasmeen wants to reinstate good faith dialogue over trolling baiting, and pandering. OUTR#musician #podcasts #podcasting  #socialmedia #media #creativity #artists #hustle #selfpromotion #discourse #selfhelp #mindfulness #spirituality #awareness #dialogue #viral #engagement #discourse #lonfformconversation #interview #humor #funnyvideo #thinkpiece #thoughtfulconversation #indepthconversation #deepdive #interview #independantmusician #smallcreator #influencers #contentcreation

  2. Sep 29

    Performative Outrage Olympics

    It is the mother of all balancing acts trying to retain your discernment about deceptive, narrative hijacking, attention seeking, and performative individuals and still respecting people’s hidden(or if not hidden, maybe just less visible for whatever reason)struggles. I certainly don’t want to slide down a slippery slope of victim blaming or invalidating stranger’s narratives/identities or personal challenges, but we do all have our experiences with people who co-opt popular or emerging movements, and center themselves in certain struggles where they should not. Everyone has had their experiences with the fakers, the tragedy tourists, the crisis co-opters -the people who just seem to have an excuse and a sob story to get out of everything. It can make us project, hastily discredit and possibly harm some genuinely undeserving people. The strays people can catch in this battle can injure deeply. The best we can do is to thoroughly investigate our own relationship with outrage, virtue privilege, and bias. If we can understand why certain things read a certain way to us, and how we interact with them, it may give us more emotional intelligence and empathy to extend to our discernment of others and outside scenarios. We have to understand what part we play in the problem to have any potentiality to be a part of the solution right? I dunno,I’m a millennial who worked 60hrs with whatever dengue fever of the day I had contracted from the NYC subway and probably apologized to my toxic manager for my sallow complexion,I have some deep re-programming to do! 00:00-06:56 - INTRO chatter, solo again! 06:57-18:37 - The Western Massachusetts lesbian bar with mask mandate drama, my connection to Western Mass, the brand of extreme PC there. 18:38-21:25 - The performative outrage, and virtue signaling during COVID in NYC, malicious people will co-opt any cause or drown out the authentic voices in every community for their own egotistical/neurotic agenda. 25:05-32:38 -The illness fakers and the hustle addicts making it hard for the truly debilitated.  32:39-40:50 - The great debate about Iced Coffee at interviews, it’s about situational awareness not beverages. OUTRO #westernmasachusettes #lastditchbar #maskmandate #lesbianbar #greenfieldma #lesbiantiktokdrama #potsforPOTS #disabledplantlady #chronicallyill #disabilityjoy #performativeoutrage #virtuesignaling #nyc #covid #woke #scammers #grifters #onlinedrama #tiktokdrama #currentevents #entertainmentnews  #nichedrama #viraltopics #icedcoffe #jobinterview #interviewetiquette #icedcoffeinterview #localdrama #podcast #podcasts #funny #humor #onlinediscourse #onlinedrama #hottopics

  3. Sep 22

    Collusion

    Ed Sheeran may want to stay A-political, but I’m finding it hard not to get in the Frey a bit this week. There seem to be conspiracies and collusions everywhere. It is becoming more important to me that people make it clear and be ten toes on where they stand these days than what those stances even are. It’s just such a shady shrouded web of power, money, influence and obfuscation that you really start to feel desperate for anyone to just shoot straight. There is also some plain weird theatrics gong on, what with meat lic Jumbotrons, treating college football fans like an ominous migrant workforce, and..um…circling back to how bad we really think bestiality is. I think it’s time to drain the swamp everyone has been talking about. It’s murky(/Andrea Denver lol)and and there are some dirty deeds done in the dark.    00:00-10:08 - IINTRO ,Ed Sheeran Update,Wipe your tears with your dirty money 10:09-13:58 - Colin Kaepernick draws parallels on the collusion he experienced from the NFL and to the Macklemore/Kraft situation,JZ pipes in. 13:59-21:42 - Bo French Comments about picture of ethnically  East Asian  UT fans. 21:43-28:19 - RNC in Dallas Broadcasts Has Pikers 2 Year Old ‘Meat Pic’,Reminiscent of marjorie Taylor Green and Hunter Biden’s D-Pic,Fresh Young Leftists Abdul al said, Mamdani,Hassan, AOC etc.. 28:19-31:44 - Kash Patel thinks we have been a bit harsh on Bestiqlity 31:45-43:44 - Chelsea Handler/Salma Hindy:Did Chelsea oust Salma for Her support of Palestine? Is Chelsea Zionist? Chelsea’s Statements on Pod ‘I’ve Had It’. 43:44-51:39 - Hyrox Race Defecator:a repeat offender? Parallels with fellow Aussie Raygun,OUTRO  #edsheeran #looptour #colinkaepernick #nfl #jayz  #macklemore #robertkraft #bofrench #ut #utindians #rnc #meatpic #hassanpiker #abdulelsayed #zoranmamdani #aoc #marjorietaylorgreen #hunterbiden #kashpatel #senatorjohnkennedy #chelseahandler #salmahindychelseahandler #ivehaditpodcast #jenniferwelch #israelpalestine #hyrox #xhyroxpooper #popcuture #currentaffairs #currentevents #xnews #uspolitics #entertainmentnews #popculture #podcast #podcasts #socialmedia #viral #humor #funnyvieo #commentary #debate

  4. Sep 15

    Open Season

    I’m halfway to a hundred episodes,I’m halfway through life(probably)I’m halfway to a coronary from the heat in ATX, so it’s open season right now. It’s a free for all. We are talking Israel/Palestine and the whole Ed Sheeran/Maklemore/Pink debacle,We are talking about Sydney Sweeny’s risqué Ad and her…Assets, we are talking about Aaron Rodger’s weird interview, just to name a few things.    But now that you mention it it is actually Open season-as in the US open was this past weekend and as a tennis enthusiast we are spilling all the tennis…pimms(I know that’s Wimbledon)? One way or the other I have it to say and I’m mentioning it all! 00:00-05:15 - Intro,My Tennis Journey 05:16- 17:06 - US Open Re-Cap:The winners, the representation debate, the Zverev controversy, Tennis decorum double standards. 17:06-18:18 - Representative Jasmin Crocket at Chris Brown Usher concert:What are you doing here Ariana? 18:19-20:49 - Rudy Giuliani glazes Mamdani after talking all that smack. 20:50-28:31 - Macklemore/Pink/Ed Sheeran Free Palestine controversy.Macklemore kicked off Ed Sheeran’s’s tour after Pressure from Robert Kraft 28:32- 33:33 -  Aaron Rodger’s weird interview regarding Shailene Woodley, Celebrity men’s weird habit of telling ton their own bedroom shortcomings(Jax/Sandoval) 33:34-41:23     Sydney Sweeny’s latest ad/humiliation ritual,Outro          -         #usopen #tennis #alexanderzverev #benshelton #francistiafo #tennis #trinityrodman #macklemore #pink #edsheeran #arynasabalenka #elenarybakin #cocogauf #freepalestine #aaronrodgers #zoranmamdani #rudygiuliani #sachabaroncohen#shailenewoodly #jasminecrocket #chrisbrown #sydneysweeny #emrata #popculture #celebritynews #currentevents #entertainment #entertainmentnews #debate #podcast #podcasts #viraltopics #viral #socialmedia #humor #funnyvideo

  5. Sep 1

    Manic Memoirs and Neurospicy/Normie

    I may not be having a belated brat summer but I definitely spent this summer taking in some Brat coded Audio books. I somehow managed to listen to every memoir by a messy Manhatttanite with a pill addiction that was ever written and narrated. I can honestly recommend it. Whipping through Arkansas listening to Julia Fox lisp and vocal fry through her unhinged adventures,Doing my dishes while listening to Lena Dunham explain how you can make it to the MET gala but not contractually obligated work if you have chronic pain. Making a stir fry listening to Caroline Calloway explain how she sold a boo she would never write, and literally sold snake oil to pay back her advance.And now I’m in the messy bedhead of Cat Marnell recounting how you can be a speed addict and a beauty editor at the same time until you can’t. I have taken breaks form my manic memoir foray to ponder about the publics inability to conceive of disliking someone while still not wanting bodily harm to come to them or their child(get that restraining order Kentucky muffin)and musing about who in the bravo verse may be a bit neurospicy other than the obviously cluster b demon men we all know and some of us inexplicably love. Couldn’t be me!00:00-02:51 - Intro, RIP Dolly O2:52-14:15 - Manic Memoirs fromJulia Fox,Caroline Calloway,Lena Dunham and Cat Marnell14:23-26:25 - Brittany Cartwrite files a restraining order against Jax Taylor,We don’t have to like her to want her safe.26:26-48:38 Neourospicy vs Normie Bravolebs, Outro#neurodivergent #asd #ocd #bravo #brittanycartwright #jaxtaylor #thevalley #realhousewives #vanderpumprules #arianamaddix #carolinecalloway #lenadunham #carmarnell #juliafox #books #memoir #autism #summerhouse #southerncharm #tamrajudge #realitytv #reality #popculture #psychology #deepdive #personalitydisorders #narcisism #podcast 3podcasting #funnyvideo #humor #gossip #celebritygossip #celebs #dollyparton #lgbtq #neuroscience

  6. Sep 1

    Focus and Flow

    Charlie is back and we are characteristically in sync. We are both control freaks having an epiphany that all this focus on control is doing little more than filling our consciousness with unusable energy. It has no nutritional value and our frequency is getting backed up. It’s time to unclench. Let’s make room for information, experience, opportunities and clarity. We are realizing that what we has sometimes mistaken for focus has been a murky blend of ego, pathology and tension. Focus actually feels relaxed and clear. Things don’t come in to focus from squinting and frowning and straining, but from having the right lens.  00:00-05:52 - Intro,On Your Mind/On Your Nerves Segment:Charlie and Fantasy football 05:53-13:49 - OYMOYN segment-Yasmeen is Sick of aggressive link demands.Should we decriminalize gatekeeping until people remember their manners? 14:02-18:50 - Lightbulb moment of hearing the Phrase ‘Unclench your brain’  18:55-21:56 - Charlie Connects ‘Unclenching ‘ to teaching music and placing focus on the shift from being in ones mind to body awareness. 21:56-24:47 - We find Examples in Tennis and yoga of how too much conscious mental processing can delay/stilt flow. 24:48-31:43   - On relaxation feeling counterintuitive to focus, but actually flow comes from a present, open, regulated energy-Not frantic/tense. 31:43-34:44 - Applying relaxed rather than tense/clenched focus to listening. Informing your experience too much with the stories you tell about yourself is limiting. 34:45-38:08  - The concept of certain tasks ‘smelling fear’; your body has intelligence in the form of instinct, rapid unconscious processingSly the dog is a master of instinctual physics. 38:09- 42:52 - Clenching can come from inflating stakes, your mind can tell your body anything is life or death without your awareness. 42:53-46:37 - the simple concept of staying present..The ‘Beginners Mind’ How accumulating pathology limits potential/possibilities  45:38-53:15  - Early aptitude versus slow learning, learning by osmosis, keeping an open mind. Make room in your energy. 53:15-55:49 -  Confirmation bias and how it relates to neurosis, pathology/belief systems,outro

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I've long felt that my perfect podcast would be a patchwork quilt of my woo woo wellness favorites, comedic cut ups, pop culture boots on the ground, amateur sociology/psychology nerds, sports (but kind of just tennis), philosophy waxers and on and on. I haven't found one, so I made one! Piqued never picks a lane, but always has a take on whatever is pricking up our ears in these very plugged in times. We zoom in to find the minutia and zoom out to find perspective and always with heart and humor.

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