Rock the Damn Boat

Christy Hughes

Rock the Damn Boat is a podcast for women who were raised to be good, grateful, and quiet—and are ready to unlearn all three. Host Christy Hughes grew up in the Bible Belt, where the “right” path meant being practical, pleasing others, and not rocking the boat. As an empath and lifelong people-pleaser, she learned early how to read the room, put everyone else’s needs first, and silence her own instincts in the name of peace. But eventually, that way of living came at a cost. Nearly a decade sober from alcohol, her former coping mechanism, Christy blends personal storytelling with honest conversations about boundaries, burnout, sobriety, identity shifts, and redefining success—especially for women leaving corporate life, navigating midlife transitions, or stepping into leadership without losing themselves. You’ll hear from female founders, former high achievers, quiet leaders, and recovering people-pleasers who chose courage over compliance. This podcast is for women who were taught to stay small, be sensible, and keep the peace—but feel called to live louder, truer, and on their own terms. If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no, followed the “safe” path while your heart wanted more, or felt the tension between empathy and self-respect, Rock the Damn Boat is your permission slip to choose differently. You can learn more about Christy's personal and corporate coaching programs and retreats at www.thrivewithchristy.com

  1. 5d ago

    What Staying Quiet is Costing Your Relationship and Your Nervous System with Therapist Colette Fehr

    Colette Jane Fehr, a licensed psychotherapist and author, shares her journey of becoming a traditionally published author and the insights from her book 'The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure Lasting Love'. We discuss how it feels to fufill a childhood dream at age 52, proving it's never too late to play it big! Colette's book addresses conflict avoidance as the silent killer of relationships and the impact of emotional avoidance on communication and connection. Our conversation delves into the concept of avoidant attachment and the importance of emotional attunement in relationships. We also explore the idea of the 'sage self' and the significance of clear and compassionate communication in fostering healthy relationships. I share pitfalls in my own communication and how Colette's Blueprint worked for a recent conflict. Big Nuggets from our talk: Conflict avoidance is the silent killer of relationshipsEmotional avoidance impacts communication and connection Avoidant attachment is a pattern of psychological relating characterized by fear of closeness and emotional intimacy.Clear and compassionate communication, grounded in the 'sage self,' is essential for fostering healthy relationships. Website: colettejanefehr.com Purchase The Cost of Quiet: https://www.colettejanefehr.com/new-book Substack: www.colettejanefehr.substack.com Instagram & TikTok: @colettejanefehr TEDx talk “Secrets from a Couples Therapist” : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tSUOB2yEd0 Chapters 00:00 The Journey to Becoming an Author02:33 The Dream of Writing and the Magazine Business04:33 Overcoming Challenges to Write the Book06:34 Building a Platform and Traditional Publishing16:51 The Impact of Emotional Avoidance on Relationships25:11 Understanding Avoidant Attachment30:09 The Sage Self and Mindful Communication41:06 Challenging Relationship Myths and Practicing Vulnerability

    What Staying Quiet is Costing Your Relationship and Your Nervous System with Therapist Colette Fehr
  2. Jul 8

    Why Your Career Doesn't Have to Fit in a Box: Maggie Blackburn on Portfolio Careers

    In this episode of RTDB (Rock the Damn Boat), Christy Hughes sits down with Maggie Blackburn of maggie-blackburn.com to talk about what it really looks like to leave the traditional 9-to-5 and build a portfolio career on your own terms. What You'll Hear in This EpisodeWhat a portfolio career actually is — and why it's more than just "having a side hustle"The difficult conversation with a manager that became the turning point for Maggie's corporate exitWhy questioning corporate life is a valid, necessary step — not a crisis of confidenceRocking the boat in real life: Maggie's move into self-employment and building multiple income streamsA fun tangent on dream retreat destinations (because entrepreneurship needs joy too)How to work with Maggie to figure out your next steps and market your ideas with steadiness and directionKey TakeawaysA portfolio career isn't about doing everything at once — it's about building income streams with intentionThe moment you start questioning corporate life is often the moment real direction beginsSelf-employment doesn't require having it all figured out on day oneMarketing your ideas well matters as much as having good ideas in the first placeConnect with Maggie Blackburn🌐 Website: maggie-blackburn.com💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/maggieblackburnConnect with Christy & RTDB🎙️ More episodes of RTDB: thrivewithchristy.com🤝 Join The THRIVE Collective for ongoing support as you build your own next chapterEnjoyed this episode of RTDB? Subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a woman who needs permission to rock the damn boat.

    Why Your Career Doesn't Have to Fit in a Box: Maggie Blackburn on Portfolio Careers
  3. Jul 1

    How Curiosity Builds a Celebrated Career: The Non-Linear Path to Leadership with Rachel Skaff

    Rachel Skaff is the Senior Vice President of Sales at FedEx and a veteran of the tech industry with past leadership stints at AWS and Intel. Known for her "messy, magical, and spectacular" career path, Rachel combines the technical mind of a computer scientist with the heart of a mentor. She is a passionate champion for STEM and a believer that an exceptional life only happens outside of your comfort zone. When she isn't scaling global organizations, she’s exploring off-the-beaten-path destinations with her six children. Join Christy as she discusses Rachel's wide variety of industries, from hardhat construction as a civil engineer to global logistics with FedEx. At the heart of everything Rachel does is a curiosity for how things work, how to simplify them, and how to improve the world around us. Beyond the P&L, Rachel is a fierce advocate for inclusive leadership and STEM education. She is a sought-after voice on the "Human Advantage" in the age of AI, believing that vulnerability and authenticity are the ultimate drivers of high-performing cultures. Rachel holds an MBA from Regis University and is an alumna of Columbia Business School. Based in the Phoenix area, she is a mother of six and an avid adventurer who can be found hiking or boating when she isn't transforming global sales organizations. What We Discuss: Rachel's starting line, and how her career has looked more like an obstacle course than a runThe key traits of steady leadershipThe difficult but necessary act of listeningHow we can shape the next generation through understanding and supportHow grabbing the markers help us play it big Follow Rachel's colorful career and tips on compassionate leadership and presence on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachelskaff/ Learn more about Christy's work at thrivewithchristy.com

    How Curiosity Builds a Celebrated Career: The Non-Linear Path to Leadership with Rachel Skaff
  4. Jun 29

    Lake Tahoe Hiking Adventure: My Favorite Northern California Trails & Bruised (and Bare) Bums

    Christy shares a thrilling (and hilarious) hiking adventure through Northern California and Tahoe, complete with a rickety bridge crossing, a steep tumble, and an unexpected visit to a secret clothing-optional beach. This episode is all about courage, rediscovery, and the messy side of stepping outside your comfort zone. What Happened Christy tackled a challenging hike that included crossing a sketchy wooden bridge and navigating a steep descent—which ended with a literal fall on her bum and a bruise to prove it. The adventure took an amusing turn when she discovered a clothing-optional beach nearby, where she became one of many "bums" enjoying nature in the raw. Why It Matters This isn't just a funny story—it's about what happens when you revisit things you used to love and push past the fear that says you can't. 3 Key Takeaways Enjoy Nature — Get outside. The views, the fresh air, and the reminder that you're small in the best way.Revisit Things You Used to Love — Hiking used to be Christy's thing. Coming back to it brought joy she'd forgotten.Step Out of Your Comfort Zone — That's where the story (and the bruise) come from. Growth isn't always graceful. Safety Reminder Be sun smart and always tell someone where you're going—especially on solo or remote hikes. Follow me on Instagram for more hiking photos www.instagram.com/rockthedamnboat Find out more about The Thrive Collective www.thrivewithchristy.com

    Lake Tahoe Hiking Adventure: My Favorite Northern California Trails & Bruised (and Bare) Bums
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Rock the Damn Boat is a podcast for women who were raised to be good, grateful, and quiet—and are ready to unlearn all three. Host Christy Hughes grew up in the Bible Belt, where the “right” path meant being practical, pleasing others, and not rocking the boat. As an empath and lifelong people-pleaser, she learned early how to read the room, put everyone else’s needs first, and silence her own instincts in the name of peace. But eventually, that way of living came at a cost. Nearly a decade sober from alcohol, her former coping mechanism, Christy blends personal storytelling with honest conversations about boundaries, burnout, sobriety, identity shifts, and redefining success—especially for women leaving corporate life, navigating midlife transitions, or stepping into leadership without losing themselves. You’ll hear from female founders, former high achievers, quiet leaders, and recovering people-pleasers who chose courage over compliance. This podcast is for women who were taught to stay small, be sensible, and keep the peace—but feel called to live louder, truer, and on their own terms. If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no, followed the “safe” path while your heart wanted more, or felt the tension between empathy and self-respect, Rock the Damn Boat is your permission slip to choose differently. You can learn more about Christy's personal and corporate coaching programs and retreats at www.thrivewithchristy.com

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