Rock the Damn Boat

Christy Hughes

Rock the Damn Boat is a podcast for women who were raised to be good, grateful, and quiet—and are ready to unlearn all three. Host Christy Hughes grew up in the Bible Belt, where the “right” path meant being practical, pleasing others, and not rocking the boat. As an empath and lifelong people-pleaser, she learned early how to read the room, put everyone else’s needs first, and silence her own instincts in the name of peace. But eventually, that way of living came at a cost. Nearly a decade sober from alcohol, her former coping mechanism, Christy blends personal storytelling with honest conversations about boundaries, burnout, sobriety, identity shifts, and redefining success—especially for women leaving corporate life, navigating midlife transitions, or stepping into leadership without losing themselves. You’ll hear from female founders, former high achievers, quiet leaders, and recovering people-pleasers who chose courage over compliance. This podcast is for women who were taught to stay small, be sensible, and keep the peace—but feel called to live louder, truer, and on their own terms. If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no, followed the “safe” path while your heart wanted more, or felt the tension between empathy and self-respect, Rock the Damn Boat is your permission slip to choose differently. You can learn more about Christy's personal and corporate coaching programs and retreats at www.thrivewithchristy.com

  1. Jun 14

    When Your Nervous System Is Maxed Out: Menopause, Creativity & Letting Others Be Happy

    Some weeks the nervous system runs hot. In this Sunday Shortie of RTDB, I'm talking about windows of tolerance — the space where you can actually feel and function before you tip into overwhelm or shutdown — and what it looks like when menopause keeps shrinking that window without warning. I also get honest about something quieter: the pull to dim someone else's joy when you're depleted. Not out of meanness — out of exhaustion. And what it takes to let other people be happy without making it mean something about you. Then there's Yesteryear. I always thought I was writing the character's postpartum depression. Turns out the page was holding a mirror up to my own state of mind in menopause. The writing knew before I did. In this episode of RTDB: What a "window of tolerance" is, in plain languageWhy menopause narrows that window — and how to notice the edges soonerThe difference between protecting your peace and stealing someone else'sHow my own writing surfaced what I wasn't saying out loudA gentler way to move through a depleted weekKey takeaways: Your window of tolerance isn't fixed — hormones, sleep, and stress move the wallsFeeling depleted doesn't make you a bad person; it makes you humanSomeone else's joy is not a withdrawal from your accountThe creative work you make often reflects you before you're ready to lookYou don't have to fix the whole feeling — you can just name where you are What is a window of tolerance? The range where your nervous system can handle stress and emotion without tipping into overwhelm (hyperarousal) or shutdown (hypoarousal).How does menopause affect emotional regulation? Hormonal shifts can narrow that window, making it easier to feel flooded or flat with less provocation than before.What does "stealing someone's joy" mean? Diminishing another person's happiness — often unconsciously, when you're depleted — instead of letting their good moment exist on its own. Learn more about The Thrive Collective at thrivewithchristy.com

    19 min
  2. I Don't Want That Life: Moving from Corporate Retail to Spiritual Coaching with Nicole Beaudin, pt 1

    Jun 3

    I Don't Want That Life: Moving from Corporate Retail to Spiritual Coaching with Nicole Beaudin, pt 1

    What happens when you're succeeding on paper but falling apart on the inside? In Part 1 of this RTDB conversation, Christy sits down with Nicole Beaudin — alignment leadership coach, Reiki-trained facilitator, and author of the This Way to Lightness Substack — to talk about the corporate career that looked impressive from the outside and felt hollow from within. Nicole shares her path from Williams-Sonoma and West Elm to Tory Burch, and the moment a psychic in Wisconsin handed her a piece of black tourmaline and changed everything. She opens up about discovering she's an empath, learning Reiki as an act of self-preservation, and what it felt like to look up at the women ahead of her in corporate and think: I don't want that life. In this episode of RTDB, you'll hear: How Nicole's reference to an archaelogical dig reminded Christy of a transformative bookWhy high-achieving people pleasers are often the most disconnected from their own needsWhat empaths are (and the neuroscience behind why they experience the world differently)How Reiki became Nicole's entry point into intuitive healingThe moment Nicole knew corporate retail wasn't her final chapter — and how she leaned into spiritual practice instead of pushing through Learn more and work with Nicole at nicolebeaudin.com Follow her Substack here: https://substack.com/@nicolebeaudin Order your copy of Something More by Sarah Ban Breathnach from Thrift Books

    37 min
5
out of 5
11 Ratings

About

Rock the Damn Boat is a podcast for women who were raised to be good, grateful, and quiet—and are ready to unlearn all three. Host Christy Hughes grew up in the Bible Belt, where the “right” path meant being practical, pleasing others, and not rocking the boat. As an empath and lifelong people-pleaser, she learned early how to read the room, put everyone else’s needs first, and silence her own instincts in the name of peace. But eventually, that way of living came at a cost. Nearly a decade sober from alcohol, her former coping mechanism, Christy blends personal storytelling with honest conversations about boundaries, burnout, sobriety, identity shifts, and redefining success—especially for women leaving corporate life, navigating midlife transitions, or stepping into leadership without losing themselves. You’ll hear from female founders, former high achievers, quiet leaders, and recovering people-pleasers who chose courage over compliance. This podcast is for women who were taught to stay small, be sensible, and keep the peace—but feel called to live louder, truer, and on their own terms. If you’ve ever said yes when you meant no, followed the “safe” path while your heart wanted more, or felt the tension between empathy and self-respect, Rock the Damn Boat is your permission slip to choose differently. You can learn more about Christy's personal and corporate coaching programs and retreats at www.thrivewithchristy.com

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