Rooted In Christ: Men After Divorce

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Rooted In Christ: Men After Divorce When life falls apart, God builds anew. Rooted In Christ: Men After Divorce is a bi-weekly, faith-based podcast launching November 4, 2025 on Spotify. Created for Christian men navigating the pain and complexity of divorce, each episode offers biblical wisdom, emotional healing strategies, and real-life stories to help you rebuild your identity and purpose. Join a growing brotherhood committed to rising stronger — rooted in Christ and surrounded by community. Subscribe now for powerful conversations on forgiveness, fatherhood, mental health, and rediscovering your calling.

  1. 6d ago

    Men in Divorce: Survivor Mindset

    What do you do when your world falls apart? In this powerful episode of *Chaos After Divorce*, Chad O'Malley shares his transformative journey through the first 90 days after his divorce, offering profound insights that every man facing similar challenges needs to hear. If you’re grappling with the emotional turmoil of divorce, this conversation could be the lifeline you’ve been seeking. Chad, an author and life coach, reveals the raw truth about navigating the dark waters of separation. He discusses the pivotal moment that led him to write his devotional, *Men in Divorce: Surviving Mindset*, and outlines the three critical pillars he discovered: surrender, partner, and release. You’ll discover how to let go of shame, find strength in vulnerability, and rebuild your identity after loss. In this episode, we break down: - The emotional spiral men face during and after divorce, and why recognizing it is the first step to healing. - Chad’s three-step framework for surviving the initial 90 days: surrendering to God, partnering with trusted friends, and learning to release past grievances. - Insightful strategies for overcoming feelings of loneliness and spiritual attacks that can derail your recovery. The stakes are high: without addressing these emotions, many men fall into patterns of isolation, anger, or self-destructive behavior. Chad emphasizes that understanding the spiritual warfare at play is crucial for a successful recovery. This episode is essential listening for any man navigating the aftermath of divorce. Chad’s journey of faith and resilience not only inspires but provides actionable steps to reclaim your life and identity. Don’t miss this opportunity to gain the tools you need to thrive after divorce—tune in and start your journey towards healing today! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the series and guest Chad O'Malley 02:23 The birth of the devotional 'Men in Divorce, Surviving Mindset' 05:05 The three pillars: surrender, partner, release 07:45 Practical steps men can take this week to start healing 10:03 The role of godly brothers and spiritual mentorship 11:14 Finding power and peace in being single and whole 12:29 The true meaning of surrender and letting go 13:36 Partnering with faith and community for ongoing support 14:44 Dealing with trauma and moving forward at your own pace 15:02 How to connect with Chad O'Malley and ongoing support

    Men in Divorce: Survivor Mindset

  2. Sep 29

    What Now? From Responsibility to Restoration

    What does it take to turn responsibility into restoration after divorce? In this compelling second part of our series, Karlton and Reverend Jerome delve deep into the critical question: "What now?" Their candid conversation not only addresses the pain of past mistakes but also illuminates the path toward genuine transformation and accountability. If you're a man grappling with the aftermath of divorce, this episode is your call to action. Join Karlton and Reverend Jerome as they explore the distinction between mere remorse and true repentance. You'll discover how godly accountability can break the cycle of regret, leading to real change in your life. Karlton emphasizes that while feeling bad is a start, the real goal is to turn those feelings into actionable steps. Reverend Jerome shares that accountability requires honest self-assessment and a commitment to change, not just for oneself but for those affected by our actions. In this episode, we break down: - The practical steps to repairing collateral damage in relationships - How to identify and manage triggers that pull you back into destructive patterns - The importance of having a trustworthy support system to hold you accountable - The role of spiritual practices in your journey toward healing and growth - Five actionable steps to take today to begin the rebuilding process The stakes are high: ignoring these principles can lead to repeating past mistakes and passing on wounds to the next generation. But embracing accountability opens the door to healing, growth, and a new legacy for your family. This episode is essential listening for any man who wants to reclaim his life and influence after divorce. Karlton and Reverend Jerome remind us that while our past may shape us, it doesn't have to define us. Tune in and start your journey towards becoming a better you. Share this episode with a brother who needs encouragement and visit rootingchristmen.org for more resources. Keep walking in faith, brothers—responsibility is not the end of hope, it’s where rebuilding begins.

  3. Sep 15

    Embracing Accountability After Divorce

    Are you ready to confront the uncomfortable truths behind your choices after divorce? In this powerful episode of Rooted in Christ, Men After Divorce, hosts Karlton and Rev. Jerome embark on a crucial two-part series on accountability, exploring how our past influences our present and often, our future. This isn't just a conversation about blame—it's about taking ownership to heal and grow. Karlton poses the pivotal question: "Who taught you how to be a man?" This episode dives deep into the patterns learned from our role models—both good and bad—and how they shape our behavior in relationships. Rev. Jerome emphasizes that while understanding these patterns can explain our actions, it doesn't excuse them. You’ll discover how to break the cycle of harmful behaviors and embrace the responsibility that leads to true transformation. You'll hear compelling insights on: - The difference between accountability and condemnation, and why this distinction is crucial for your healing journey. - How to recognize the collateral damage your choices may have inflicted on children, family, and future relationships. - Practical steps to confront your past without getting bogged down in shame or guilt, allowing you to move forward with confidence. This episode is essential listening for any man navigating the complexities of life after divorce. Ignoring accountability can lead to repeated mistakes and deeper pain, but embracing it can unlock a path to recovery and empowerment. The stakes are high—your future relationships and emotional well-being depend on it. Join Karlton and Rev. Jerome as they guide you through this transformative discussion, reminding you that your past does not define you; it can serve as a foundation for a stronger, more responsible tomorrow. Perfect for anyone ready to take the next step in their healing journey, this episode promises to inspire and equip you with the tools to rise strong. Don't miss it!

    Embracing Accountability After Divorce

  4. Sep 1

    The Long-Term Effects of Anger

    Are you struggling to let go of the anger that lingers after your divorce? In this powerful finale of the series "Rooting in Christ: Men After Divorce," Karlton confronts the emotional aftermath of separation, revealing why unresolved anger can resurface when you least expect it. This episode is essential for anyone navigating the complexities of post-divorce emotions—especially if you think you've moved on but still feel the sting of past wounds. Karlton dives deep into the roots of lingering anger, explaining how it often hides beneath the surface, waiting for the right moment to flare up. You'll discover how seemingly innocuous triggers—like a message from your ex or a simple disagreement with your children—can reignite feelings you believed were long buried. He uses the vivid metaphor of a campfire, illustrating how an ember can smolder quietly until a gust of wind brings it back to life, highlighting the importance of addressing these hidden emotions. In this episode, you'll learn: - The subtle signs that your anger is unresolved and how they manifest in daily life. - Practical strategies to process your feelings instead of burying them. - Insight on how to cultivate healthier relationships post-divorce by tackling your unresolved emotions head-on. Ignoring these feelings can lead to more than just emotional turmoil; it can impact your relationships, parenting, and overall well-being. This episode sheds light on the critical importance of processing anger for your healing journey, providing you with the tools needed to reclaim your life and relationships. Don't let unresolved anger control your present—take the first step towards healing. Perfect for anyone feeling stuck in the aftermath of a divorce and looking for guidance, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now and discover how to transform your pain into peace.

    The Long-Term Effects of Anger

  5. Aug 18

    The Grind of Divorce: Managing Anger and Maintaining Faith

    In this episode, we explore the deep emotional and spiritual challenges of processing anger during difficult life events like divorce. We discuss how to manage this slow leak of resentment, maintain character, and trust God's justice over personal revenge.  key  topics The difference between announcement anger and process anger The metaphor of the machine in legal and emotional battles Biblical examples of managing anger: David and Saul Practical steps to separate the process from personal identity The importance of patience and trust in God's justice Chapters 00:00 Introduction: The Reality of the Divorce Grind 02:04 Understanding Different Types of Anger 04:17 The Machine of Legal and Emotional Battles 07:12 David's Example of Righteous Anger and Justice 10:24 The Danger of Process-Driven Anger 12:39 Practical Steps to Manage Anger and Protect Character 14:28 Refusing the Robe: Responding with Faith and Conscience 15:56 Prayer and Reflection: Trusting God's Justice 17:03 Preview of Part 3: When Anger Flashes Back

    The Grind of Divorce: Managing Anger and Maintaining Faith

  6. Aug 4

    The Day She Said It

    This episode explores the complex emotions of anger that men experience during and after divorce, focusing on how to recognize, process, and channel this anger healthily. Hosted by Karlton and Rev Jerome, it offers practical steps for men to confront their feelings and avoid destructive patterns.  key  topics The initial shock of divorce and emotional response The concept of anger as a natural but dangerous emotion The three targets of anger: her, yourself, and God Practical steps to name, pray, and share anger The difference between conviction and condemnation The importance of not letting anger fester and take root Biblical perspective on anger and prayer The process of healing and moving forward after divorce Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the series on divorce and anger 00:23 The moment anger hits: the day she said it 01:00 Understanding anger as a natural response 02:14 The three targets of anger: her, self, and God 06:14 Practical steps: name it, pray it, share it 17:02 The process of anger during divorce 18:01 Encouragement to brothers: work through your anger .#DivorceRecovery #MensHealing #FaithAndHealing #MenAfterDivorce #ChristianMen #EmotionalHealth #HealingJourney

    The Day She Said It

  7. Season 2, Episode 2 Trailer

    Season 2 Rooted In Christ Men After Divorce Promo 2

    "Be angry, and do not sin." Easy to quote. Hard to live when your whole life just got torn in half. Season two opens in the anger — not to bury it, to face it. Real talk. Real scripture. Real men who've been where you are. Rooted in Christ. Divorce is not you. #DivorceRecovery #MensHealing #FaithAndHealing #MenAfterDivorce #ChristianMen #EmotionalHealth #HealingJourney

    Season 2 Rooted In Christ Men After Divorce Promo 2

  8. Season 2, Episode 1 Trailer

    Season 2 Promo

    How Men Can Confront and Heal from Divorce Anger The day she said it split your life in two.Before the words… and after the words.If divorce brought anger, silence, or shame, you’re not alone. This one’s for every brother carrying the weight.Be angry. Don’t sin. Don’t carry it alone.#DivorceRecovery #MensHealing #FaithAndHealing #MenAfterDivorce #ChristianMen #EmotionalHealth #HealingJourney

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Rooted In Christ: Men After Divorce When life falls apart, God builds anew. Rooted In Christ: Men After Divorce is a bi-weekly, faith-based podcast launching November 4, 2025 on Spotify. Created for Christian men navigating the pain and complexity of divorce, each episode offers biblical wisdom, emotional healing strategies, and real-life stories to help you rebuild your identity and purpose. Join a growing brotherhood committed to rising stronger — rooted in Christ and surrounded by community. Subscribe now for powerful conversations on forgiveness, fatherhood, mental health, and rediscovering your calling.

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