Two Gen X Dads

David Tieche and Jon Fortt

Two dads reduce anxiety by applying scripture to the news. Journey with journalist Jon Fortt and pastor David Tieche as we process the modern world in a way that helps you talk about issues with peers and mentees. The social media-driven cycle is stressful and paralyzing. We offer journalistic and pastoral guidance, rooted in the Bible, to help you focus and act.

  1. 3d ago

    Why That Sydney Sweeney Ad Is a "Sin Sandwich"; plus Presley Gerber, Bo French

    Jon Fortt and David Tieche launch Two Gen X Dads — a running conversation that takes the week's biggest headlines and holds them up to a scriptural lens. In this edition, three stories, and the uncomfortable question sitting underneath each one. First: the Sydney Sweeney sports-betting ad everyone has seen and no one can quite pronounce (Novig). Jon calls it a "sin sandwich" — a triple-decker of sexualization, gambling, and the quiet power of sports as a badge of belonging. Is placing a bet really any different from spending money at the movies? David turns to 1 Corinthians 10, where Paul writes that everything is permissible but not everything is beneficial, and "I will not be mastered by anything." The hosts trace how fast sports betting went from taboo to ubiquitous, why the apps are engineered to be addictive, and what Proverbs' warnings about get-rich-quick schemes say about short-circuiting God's careful provision. Jon adds 2 Peter 2:19 — people are slaves to whatever has mastered them — and James 1:14-15, on how desire, once conceived, gives birth to sin, and sin to death. He widens it to the machinery itself: the algorithms behind these apps are "built for mastery," laying down breadcrumbs to get you to the next click, the next game, the next bet. Second, a tragedy: the death of model Presley Gerber, son of Cindy Crawford, at 27 at a rehabilitation facility. Rather than speculate on the cause, Jon and David sit with the grief — the families in their own circles touched by addiction and mental-health crises, including a teenager's overdose that shook an entire church community. They reach for comfort in Matthew 10:29-31 (not one sparrow falls outside the Father's care) and Romans 5:3-5, where suffering produces perseverance, character, and hope. And they wrestle with a hard balance: Paul's charge to "bear one another's burdens" set beside his very next line, that each should carry their own load. Even Frodo and Samwise — and Moses needing his arms held up at the battle — become pictures of helping carry someone without taking their load from them. Third, a controversy at the University of Texas, where a Republican Railroad Commission candidate called South Asian students celebrating at a football game "a problem." Jon unpacks why the "replacement" framing collapses on the facts — 90% of UT's slots go to in-state students — and what it feels like as the father of Black and Korean sons who are constantly asked where they "really" belong. He and David connect it to the Great Commission's vision of every tribe and tongue, and to Jesus' call to welcome the stranger rather than fear them. The thread running through all three: it is in our nature to stray — toward enticement, toward suspicion, toward the easy story — and the invitation, each time, to bring it honestly before God. — Two Gen X Dads with Jon Fortt & David Tieche Reading the week's headlines through a scriptural lens. #TwoGenXDads #Faith #Bible #Christianity #CurrentEvents

  2. Oct 4

    Stadium Mom, Verlander's Daughter Moment, and the Cornell Case: Week In Faith 10/02/26

    This week, Jon Fortt and David Tieche take on three stories that look obvious from the outside — and turn out to be anything but what the crowd assumed. The thread running through all of them: you can watch a scene and feel certain you understand it, but until you know the values and the connection underneath, you're seeing only a fraction of the truth.First, the viral "stadium mom." At a Giants–Twins game in San Francisco, broadcasters Mike Krukow and Duane Kuiper panned to a woman balancing her baby and three trays of food for her husband, crowned her "mom of the year," and ad-libbed a bit about a lazy dad. The internet took it from there — a referendum on useless husbands that curdled into real cruelty, with strangers telling a man they'd never met that he didn't deserve to live. Then the mom published a long account of what actually happened: a cold night, a husband quietly grieving a childhood friend who had just died, a family trip to the ballpark meant to lift him up. "I don't have a tenth of the story," David admits — which is exactly the point. Jon connects it to Jesus on the speck and the log, and to the way people once judged Jesus for eating with sinners and tax collectors; David brings the letter of James — quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger, "for human anger does not produce the righteousness of God."Second, a goodbye. All-time-great pitcher Justin Verlander throws his final pitch, and his seven-year-old daughter runs onto the field to hug him as he leaves the mound — and he breaks down sobbing. In his press conference he reflects on a lifetime of sacrifice for the game, the cities he moved to, the moments with his daughter he missed, and the time he most wants to reclaim. The hosts notice that even a "manufactured moment" can't fake a child's run into her father's arms — and that unfakeable bond, Jon argues, is precisely why Scripture's picture of God as Father lands. David closes with Dallas Willard: the main thing God gets out of your life is not the achievements you accomplish — it's the person you become.Finally, the hardest one. A lawsuit alleging a horrific assault at a Cornell fraternity. Here Jon deliberately refuses to do what the first story warned against — pulling every familiar narrative off the shelf and laying it over facts he doesn't have. What he will name is the gap between the genuine community, love, and intention we were built for and the cheapened, twisted versions that take root around pleasure-seeking and drugs. David offers a definition of love that isn't very "Western": seeking someone's true best, even when it costs you. And both fathers land on their sons — that modeling love, and speaking up when a room turns wrong, has to happen long before a crisis, not after it.Matthew 7:3-5James 1:19-20Matthew 9:10-13Romans 8:15-16 / Galatians 4:61 John 3:1Psalm 139:13-14Romans 12:9Amos 5:15John 15:13Micah 6:81 Peter 3:15

  3. Sep 27

    Esau: The Brother Who Ran to Forgive

    Jon Fortt and David Tieche close the Jacob cycle with Esau — the hairy, hot-headed hunter Jacob cheated out of a birthright and a blessing — and the reunion that turns out to be the whole season's defining moment. It's a rare kind of Bible story, they note: no clean villain and hero, but two brothers who each change messily. Since the womb (Genesis 25) they've struggled — "the older will serve the younger" — Esau born red and hairy, Jacob grabbing his heel. Isaac favored Esau, the man's-man who brought home venison; Rebekah favored smooth-skinned Jacob in the kitchen, and led the trickery that sent Jacob running for his life. Now Jacob comes home to face the brother he wronged — and Esau is riding out with 400 men. In "great fear and distress" Jacob splits his family into two camps so one can flee. Unlike Laban, whom God warned off in a dream, Esau has had no such warning, and unlike Laban his grievance is justified. But something has shifted: where Jacob used to hide at the rear as a human shield, after wrestling God he walks out front and bows to the ground seven times. Esau's answer is the hinge of the episode: he runs, throws his arms around Jacob's neck, kisses him, and they weep. Jacob presses gifts on him — offering away, ironically, the very kind of blessing he once stole — and the brothers trade "no, you keep it, the Lord has blessed me," both finally naming God as their provider. It reads as restitution, the hosts say — Zacchaeus paying back fourfold — a real sign of a changed heart. And then the line they linger on: "seeing your face is like seeing the face of God." Jacob's God-encounters have climbed from Bethel's distant angels to Mahanaim's army to the all-night wrestling — and now, face to face with the brother he feared, the same words. Loving God and loving your brother, they argue (the Shema and 1 John), are one thing: leave your gift at the altar and go reconcile first. It isn't tidy. Jacob promises to follow Esau to Seir, then quietly heads to Succoth instead — Jon calls it one more trick — and the brothers never settle together. But years later they stand side by side at Mamre to bury their father Isaac, and the favoritism that tore them apart is buried with him. Esau's run-and-embrace, the hosts note, is the very picture Jesus would later paint of the prodigal's father — the God who runs to the one coming home. Along the way: the John Williams strings swelling; Esau's venison, chicken wings, and football against Jacob's "typist hands"; a little Alanis Morissette irony; Samson torching Philistine fields with foxes; and why it mattered that, in that culture, important men don't run. Genesis 25 and 32-35. The finale of Season 2 — next up, maybe, Joseph. Jon's calling it a cliffhanger. Part of Character Study with Jon Fortt and David Tieche — a walk through the people of Scripture: their flaws, their faith, and what they reveal.

  4. Sep 20

    Jacob: The Night He Wrestled an Angel and Became Israel

    Jon Fortt and David Tieche come back to Jacob himself — the heel-grabber, caught between the uncle he just escaped and the brother he cheated — for the night he wrestles an angel and walks away with a new name. The circle is nearly complete. Jacob has spent half his life running: he grabbed Esau's heel in the womb, stole the blessing meant for his brother, fled for his life, and met his match in his uncle Laban. Now, in Genesis 31, God says go home: "Return to the land of your fathers, and I will be with you." First he has to get past Laban, who chases him seven days in a fury; it's an Exodus-style pursuit, Pharaoh after his workforce. God intervenes, coming to Laban in a dream: "Be careful not to say anything to Jacob, good or bad," a Hebrew idiom, the hosts explain, that means stand down entirely. They part at a heap of stones with the Mizpah line, "May the Lord watch between me and thee while we are absent one from another." It's a fond church blessing now, but here, Jon says, two men backing away with their hands near their holsters. What God is really doing, they argue, is deconstructing Jacob's whole mode of operation — trickery, craftiness, figuring it out himself: you don't get home the same way you left. Tellingly, the one trick left is Rachel's, not Jacob's. She pockets Laban's household gods and, when he searches, sits on them pleading her period, outfoxing her father. It foreshadows Joseph planting a cup in his brothers' bags, and marks the shift: This time Jacob isn't the deceiver. Then Esau. Genesis 32 opens with angels of God meeting Jacob. "God's army," he says, naming the place Mahanaim — yet he has no peace. He splits his family into two camps so one can escape, sends waves of gifts, works every angle. It's craft, not deceit this time; he's trying to show he's changed. And then he prays, humbled, reminding God of his promises. When he's alone at last at the Jabbok, he experiences a dark night of the soul, stripped of wives, sons, and possessions, and he wrestles a man until daybreak. "I won't let you go unless you bless me." It's a parallel to the blessing he once stole, but clean this time. The man wrenches his hip and renames him. No longer Jacob, "he who supplants," but Israel, "he who strives with God." An adult renaming, like Abram to Abraham or Saul to Paul: rare, and a big deal. Wounded but blessed, Israel names the place Peniel — "I have seen God face to face, and my life is preserved" — and limps into the dawn. As with Hagar on the run, this is the God who sees, meets us mid-flight, wounds, heals, and won't let go. Along the way: "at last the circle is complete" and Jacob's "Vader"; household gods as a magic eight-ball; laundering a stolen blessing like cartel money; Hips Don't Lie; Elisha's invisible army; and the Final Countdown cued up for Esau. Genesis 31-32. Next time, the final episode of Season 2: Esau. Part of Character Study with Jon Fortt and David Tieche — a walk through the people of Scripture: their flaws, their faith, and what they reveal.

  5. Sep 13

    Laban: The Trickster Who Finally Met His Match

    Jon Fortt and David Tieche stay in the Jacob cycle with Laban — Jacob's uncle and father-in-law, the con man of Haran, and the rare Genesis villain who beats the hero at his own game. The first villain in Genesis isn't a dragon or a Goliath but the snake — not strong, just the craftiest animal in the garden, its weapon the lie. Laban is that craftiness loose inside Abraham's own family, and he isn't Jacob's opposite but his mirror: the trickster who stole a birthright has met the king of tricks — "Loki in the flesh" — and has to taste his own medicine. We met Laban back in Genesis 24, when his family kept angling to keep Abraham's servant around — a little Hotel California, Jon says. Now Jacob arrives with no exit strategy, meets Rachel at the well, and Laban names his price: seven years of labor, an indentured deal building another man's wealth for free. With no dowry — his birthright locked up, Esau still wanting him dead — sweat equity is all Jacob has to trade. Then the wedding-night swap: Jacob wakes married to Leah, not Rachel, owing seven more years. It isn't misdirection, Dave notes — it's a straight-up lie, the serpent's oldest tool, and exactly what Jacob and Rebekah did to blind old Isaac. The hosts sit in how icky it is to trade daughters like pawns — Scripture describes this brokenness, it doesn't prescribe it. From Eden on, the man-and-woman bond is meant to be co-equal, and it's just what the enemy keeps targeting with deception. The household becomes a fertility contest — handmaids, mandrakes — echoing Hagar. But Genesis 29:31 reframes it: "the Lord saw that Leah was hated," and he opened her womb. Jacob favored Rachel; God favored Leah. The same hand shows in Jacob's fortune: he bargains for the speckled animals, and Laban rigs it, walking every speckled beast three days off — taking out the face cards before the deal — while Jacob answers with peeled, streaked branches. But a dream in Genesis 31 sets it straight: God caused the increase. Not the mandrakes, not the branches — God. That's the throughline: trick versus test. Laban only takes, serving no one but himself; God tests to form character and reveal truth in the open. God never takes, Dave says; he only gives. After fourteen years Jacob leaves, and the sisters agree: our father sold us and used up the price. Rachel pockets Laban's household idols and, when he searches, sits on them pleading her period — the trickster outfoxed by his own daughter. They seal a truce at a heap of stones with the Mizpah line, "May the Lord watch between me and thee while we are absent one from another" — a church blessing now, but here the end of a bitter chess match. The deceivers are deceived, and God is quietly at work. Genesis 24 and 29-31. Next time: Jacob wrestles.

  6. Sep 6

    Leah: Unloved, Unchosen, and the God Who Saw Her

    Jon Fortt and David Tieche continue Season 2 with Leah — Jacob's first wife, the older sister nobody chose, whose story runs from a wedding-night deception to a blessing spoken over brides for generations. They start where the text starts, with one loaded, untranslatable description: Leah had "weak eyes," while her sister Rachel "had a lovely figure and was beautiful." Nobody is sure what the idiom means — droopy and bleary, weepy and melancholy, or simply doe-eyed. Jon and Dave walk through the rabbinical traditions that tried to soften it, and note the text gives them no support. What the Bible pointedly does not say is that Leah was any less righteous than Rachel. Cain and Abel, Shem and Ham, Jacob and Esau: those siblings are sorted by character. These two are sorted by looks — and if anything, the story tilts in Leah's favor. Then Laban slips her into the wedding after the feast and the drinking, and Jacob wakes up married to the wrong sister, owing seven more years for the one he wanted. Sit in Leah's position a second, Dave says: unwanted, outshone, handed over because she was the oldest. Then comes the line that reframes everything — "When the Lord saw that Leah was not loved, he enabled her to conceive." The names she gives her sons read like a diary of her ache: Reuben ("see, a son"), Simeon ("the Lord heard that I am not loved"), Levi ("now my husband will be attached to me"), Judah ("this time I will praise the Lord"). The hosts trace how closely this rhymes with Hagar in Genesis 16 — the same overlooked woman, the same repeated phrasing, the same God who goes to her and whom she names "the God who sees me." They also slow down on "hated," which some translations use instead of "not loved": a Hebrew idiom for a distant second, the way Jesus talks about hating your parents or serving two masters. Not a blood feud — more, as Jon puts it, the way a kid hates Brussels sprouts. From there the household gets tangled: Bilhah and Zilpah handed to Jacob in a full-blown kid-off, and the strange business of Reuben's mandrakes, an aphrodisiac root Rachel buys from her sister with a night with Jacob. But watch what Leah does. She has every reason to refuse, and she hands them over. The sisters can still talk. When Jacob calls them out to the field to leave Laban, they answer in one voice. That, the hosts argue, is the character study: bitterness never takes root. Leah's confidence rests somewhere other than being chosen — God sees me, even when nobody else does. And the payoff is staggering. The unloved sister becomes the mother of Levi, the priesthood, and Judah, the line of kings that runs to David and to Jesus. By Ruth 4, the elders bless a bride to be "like Rachel and like Leah, who together built the house of Israel." As Dave puts it: there is nothing anyone can take from you that God wants you to have. Along the way: Billie Eilish, Tyra Banks and a run at "Paddan Aram's Next Top Model," Aphrodite as the lady of the mandrake, beauty standards several thousand years before Cosmo, and why Jacob may be Scripture's leading candidate for burnout. Genesis 29-31, with a closing stop in Ruth 4. Next time: Laban. Part of Character Study with Jon Fortt and David Tieche — a walk through the people of Scripture: their flaws, their faith, and what they reveal.

  7. Aug 23

    Rachel: Beauty, Barrenness, and the God Who Remembered Her

    Jon Fortt and David Tieche continue Season 2 with Rachel — Jacob's beloved wife, the beautiful younger sister whose story runs from a well in Haran to a grave outside Bethlehem. They start with the detail the Bible refuses to skip: Rachel was "lovely in form and beautiful." Like Sarah and Rebekah before her, her beauty is placed front and center — while her older sister Leah is remembered for "weak eyes." Jon and Dave sit with the discomfort of that: what does it mean that Scripture keeps naming these women beautiful, and what does it cost Rachel when beauty becomes the thing everyone competes over? Dave brings it into the present — a daughter's insecurity about her own hair, a TikTok culture where beauty alone can build a following. Jon keeps insisting it's a "character study, not a figure study" — but the point stands: beauty is tied to identity from the ancient world to now, and the Bible is honest about it. Rachel is set up as the pretty one, yet the story never makes pretty equal good; Leah, not Rachel, becomes the mother of most of Israel and the line of the Messiah. From there the conversation follows the rivalry that defines Rachel's life. Tricked into marrying Leah first, Jacob works fourteen years for the two sisters. Leah has son after son; Rachel stays barren and desperate — "Give me children, or I'll die." The hosts dig into the strange bargain over Reuben's mandrakes (Genesis 30), Rachel's superstitious shortcuts, and the servant-surrogate playbook she borrows straight from her grandmother-in-law Sarah. The recurring question: is Rachel trusting God, or trying to force his hand? The turn comes in Genesis 30:22 — "God remembered Rachel" — and Joseph is born. Jon and Dave trace how that phrase echoes God remembering Noah and answering Isaac's prayer for Rebekah, and why it matters that Rachel gets no personal promise from God the way the other matriarchs did, yet is still heard. Then the idols. Leaving Laban's house, Rachel steals her father's household gods and hides them — sitting on them and turning away his search with a shrewd excuse. Was it superstition, a mother's fear about protection, or a parting shot at a selfish father who "spent their inheritance"? The hosts leave the question open, and connect this "contraband in a bag" to a test her son Joseph would later spring on his brothers. Finally, legacy. Rachel dies in childbirth near Bethlehem and becomes the matriarch who "weeps for her children" — a line Jeremiah uses at the exile and Matthew echoes at the slaughter of the innocents. Her story is tragic and elevated at once: sorrow, frustration, and blessing all co-mingled. Along the way: Led Zeppelin and "Stairway to Heaven," Crazy Rich Asians, Raquel Welch, Rachel Green, and why two sisters in an impossible situation still manage not to destroy each other — a quiet contrast to Jacob and Esau. Genesis 29–31. Next time: Leah. Part of Character Study with Jon Fortt and David Tieche — a walk through the people of Scripture: their flaws, their faith, and what they reveal.

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Two dads reduce anxiety by applying scripture to the news. Journey with journalist Jon Fortt and pastor David Tieche as we process the modern world in a way that helps you talk about issues with peers and mentees. The social media-driven cycle is stressful and paralyzing. We offer journalistic and pastoral guidance, rooted in the Bible, to help you focus and act.

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