The Ashley Ventrice Show

Ashley Ventrice
  • 5.0 (25)
  • Parenting
  • Updated Weekly

Welcome to The Toddler Life Coach Show — the podcast that helps you understand your toddler’s behavior, regulate your own emotions, and build a calmer home. I’m Ashley, a child development specialist and mom of two, here to make sense of the chaos and bring peace back into parenting. 👉 Subscribe to The Ashley Ventrice Show for weekly episodes on raising emotionally healthy kids. 👉 Share this episode with a parent friend who needs a tantrum toolkit in their back pocket. 👉 Download your free Calming Toolkit for Toddlers at [https://payhip.com/b/IeRcM] to start practicing today. 👉 Check out Hands are not for Hitting at [https://amzn.to/48eX0tt] to start reading it to your toddler. 👉 Join my Emotional Regulation Master Course for Toddler Parents at [https://ashleyventriceco.podia.com/emotional-regulation-master-course-for-toddler-moms] to start the new year using proven tools with confidence. 👉 View my blog on How to Create a Cozy Calm Down Corner with my favorite products [https://ashleyventriceco.podia.com/blog]   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website https://ashleyventriceco.podia.com                     👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉    Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco Join:                                                                                                              👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/ Each episode is packed with real-life examples, emotional regulation tools, and gentle, grounded advice for parents who want to raise emotionally healthy kids — without guilt, pressure, or perfection. If you’re ready to grow forward with your toddler, hit play. 💛

  1. Jun 2

    A Letter to the Mom in the Thick of It

    If you’re a tired toddler mom who hasn’t slept a full night in what feels like years, this episode is for you. Child Development Specialist and mom Ashley writes a heartfelt letter to the moms in the hardest season of early motherhood — the ones who love their kids fiercely and are also, if they’re being honest, a little lost in it.   As a 40-year-old looking back on her toddler years, Ashley shares what she wishes someone had told her: what the “thick of it” actually feels like (without sugarcoating it), the ordinary moments that matter most developmentally, the specific things she misses that nobody warned her about, and the letter she needed to hear back then.   This one isn’t a framework or a strategy. It’s a permission slip. For the mom crying in the bathroom with the fan on. For the mom who loves her kids so much it scares her. For the mom who just needs someone to say: you’re not failing. You’re in the thick of it.   Topics covered: toddler mom burnout, mom identity loss, mom guilt, emotional regulation in toddlers, secure attachment, savoring motherhood, the bittersweet of kids growing up.   🎧 Share this with a toddler mom who needs it today.   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/

    21 min

  2. May 24

    The Truth Behind the “Perfect” Toddler Mom Feed

    Are you a burned-out toddler mom who can’t stop comparing yourself to what you see on Instagram? A Child Development Specialist gets real about what social media comparison is actually doing to your nervous system — and why it’s affecting your parenting more than you realize.   In this episode, Ashley (licensed Child Development Specialist and mom) breaks down the science behind mom- comparison culture, the hidden toll it takes on your nervous system, and why your stress response doesn’t know the difference between a real threat and a picture-perfect Instagram feed.   What you’ll hear in this episode:   •Why chronic social media comparison creates chronic low-grade stress — and what that means for your parenting •The gender comment story that stopped Ashley cold: how Instagram is now influencing family planning decisions •What a Child Development Specialist sees behind the scenes that curated feeds will never show you •Why you CANNOT co-regulate a dysregulated toddler when your own nervous system is fried •A full permission slip to be a good mom in invisible ways — the ways that actually matter   This episode is for you if:   •You scroll Instagram and feel like every other toddler mom has it more together than you •You’ve ever felt guilty about losing it with your toddler after a morning of comparison scrolling •You’re exhausted by the performance of “perfect” motherhood and desperate for something real •You want to understand the actual science of why social media affects your mood and your parenting   Resources mentioned: •72-Hour Toddler Reset Course    Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/

    17 min

  3. May 12

    Naysayers, Barefoot Babies & the Unsolicited Opinion Epidemic

    Ashley shares a real backyard conversation with her neighbor — a first-time mom who somehow radiates calm — and unpacks why new moms lose their instincts to the chorus of unsolicited opinions. From barefoot babies to formula side-eyes, if you’ve ever been audited as a mom in public, this episode is for you.   In This Episode: •The neighbor moment that stopped Ashley cold •Why even a Child Development Specialist second-guessed herself as a new mom •The real reason unsolicited advice is so hard to shake — even when you know better •The “Greatest Hits” of comments every mom has heard (and what the research actually says) •Why protecting your peace isn’t selfish — it’s parenting •What to do the next time someone has an opinion about your barefoot baby   Key Takeaways: Simplicity is a strategy. Ashley’s neighbor wasn’t calm because parenting is easy. She committed to one rule: keep it simple and listen — to herself and to her baby. Intent doesn’t equal impact. Most people offering unsolicited advice aren’t trying to undermine you. But whether the intent is good or not, the impact is the same: it chips away at your confidence and your instinct. Barefoot babies are fine. As a Developmental Interventionist, Ashley is here to tell you: babies have navigated life barefoot for the entirety of human history. You are not in a crisis. Your nervous system is talking to your child’s nervous system — all day. When you are calm, they feel it. Holding onto your peace is one of the most powerful things you can do for your child’s development. You don’t owe anyone an explanation. You are allowed to smile, nod, and let it go.   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/

    7 min

  4. May 5

    How Many Words Should My Toddler Have? Speech Milestones Explained

    If you’ve ever wondered, “How many words should my toddler have?”—you’re not alone. This is one of the most searched parenting questions, and in this episode, we’re breaking it down in a way that’s clear, realistic, and not fear-based.   Using research-backed guidance from the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association and other pediatric developmental sources, we walk through toddler speech milestones by age, including what’s typical at 12 months, 18 months, 2 years, 3 years, and beyond.   Learn With Ashley: 👉 Printable Worksheet Membership   Toys I love: 👉 Speech Boosting Toys   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/

    14 min

  5. Apr 29

    Stay Home or Go Back to Work After Baby? What Research Really Says (And How to Make the Best Decision for Your Family)

    You had it all planned out.  You knew exactly what kind of mom you were going to be - whether that meant confidentiality heading back into the office or blissfully staying home with your baby.  Then they placed that tiny human in your arms...and everything you thought you knew went out that window.   If you're wresting the "working mom" vs. the "stay-at-home mom" decision or the decision  was made for you and you're grieving it- this episode is for you.   In this episode, your host, Child Development Specialist breaks down: - The real developmental research of working mom vs. stay-at-home mom - The staggering cost of childcare in 2026 - Why your mental health is your child's developmental environment  - Permission to stop chasing "balance" and start chasing alignment   USA Today Article   Learn With Ashley: 👉 Printable Worksheet Membership   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/

    25 min

  6. Apr 21

    I Wasn’t Always a Child Development Specialist… (My Full Story)

    Before the credentials, the podcast, and the toddler advice — there was a girl who started in fashion and found her calling by accident. This is the real story of how I got here, and why nothing in your path is ever wasted.   You’ve heard the advice. You’ve seen the credentials. But today, I’m pulling back the curtain on the full journey — because I think you need to hear how I actually got here. In this episode, I’m sharing my honest, unfiltered origin story — from fashion merchandising at Marist College, to teaching in an urban district, to becoming a mom whose daughter needed Early Intervention, to opening my own childcare center, and eventually landing right here… in your ears. This one is personal. And I think it’ll hit different if you’ve ever felt like your path was “wrong,” or like you’re way behind where you thought you’d be. In this episode, you’ll hear: •Why I left a stable fashion career in my 20s with zero plan •The volunteer experience in my last semester of college that changed everything •How becoming a mom — and my daughter’s speech delay — pointed me toward Early Intervention •What I actually did as a developmental specialist (and why it’s different from OT, PT, and speech) •The decision to leave teaching and stay home — and the math that made it make sense •Why I eventually opened a childcare center, and what led me away from it •And the chronic illness chapter I don’t talk about enough If you’ve been wondering why I give the advice I do, or whether you can actually trust me with your child’s development — this episode is for you. Because everything I teach comes from classrooms, from homes, from my own kids, and from years of hands-on experience. Not just a textbook. 💛 If this resonated, send it to a friend who’s in a “what am I even doing” season. She needs it.   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/

    10 min

  7. Apr 14

    Why Your Kids Fight — And What to Do About It ft. Toddler Toolkit’s Heather Schalk

    Do your kids have the same fight on repeat and you have no idea how to break the cycle? In this episode, I’m sitting down with Heather Schalk from the Toddler Toolkit Podcast to talk all things sibling relationships — how to identify the patterns showing up in your home, what’s actually driving them, and practical ways to help your kids genuinely get along. As a Pediatric OT, I’m bringing the developmental lens, and Heather is bringing the toolkit. This one is for every mom who’s tired of playing referee.   Helpful Resources:                                                                                                            👉 The Problem-Solving Bucket  👉 Cooperative Games   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/   My Guest:                                                                                                            👉 Heather Schalk Instagram 👉 Toddler Toolkit Podcast

    37 min

  8. Apr 7

    Mom Guilt, POTS, and MCAS: When Chronic Illness Meets Motherhood (And Why You Need to Let Go of the Guilt)

    What happens when you’re managing a chronic illness and drowning in mom guilt? In this episode, I’m getting personal about my diagnoses — POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome) and MCAS (Mast Cell Activation Syndrome) — and why I’m talking about it openly. More women than men are diagnosed with autoimmune and chronic illness conditions, and awareness matters. I share a conversation I had with a nurse at my cardiologist’s office — a mom of a toddler and a kindergartner — who was carrying a guilt so many of us know way too well: the guilt of choosing one kid over another, of working, of not being everywhere at once. Sound familiar? We’re also talking about the noise — the opinions from parents, friends, family — and how it all piles on top of an already heavy load. I’m sharing how hitting my 40s (and finally getting answers about my health) pushed me to get intentional about ditching guilt and building a life that actually works for me and my family. If you’ve ever felt the weight of everyone else’s opinions pulling you in every direction, this one’s for you. Topics covered: ∙What POTS and MCAS are and why more moms need to know ∙The real story behind mom guilt vs. a new life pattern ∙How chronic illness changed the way I show up as a mom ∙Why your 40s might just be your most intentional decade yet   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website http://www.ashleyventrice.com                  👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉 Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco   Join:                                                                                                            👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/

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Welcome to The Toddler Life Coach Show — the podcast that helps you understand your toddler’s behavior, regulate your own emotions, and build a calmer home. I’m Ashley, a child development specialist and mom of two, here to make sense of the chaos and bring peace back into parenting. 👉 Subscribe to The Ashley Ventrice Show for weekly episodes on raising emotionally healthy kids. 👉 Share this episode with a parent friend who needs a tantrum toolkit in their back pocket. 👉 Download your free Calming Toolkit for Toddlers at [https://payhip.com/b/IeRcM] to start practicing today. 👉 Check out Hands are not for Hitting at [https://amzn.to/48eX0tt] to start reading it to your toddler. 👉 Join my Emotional Regulation Master Course for Toddler Parents at [https://ashleyventriceco.podia.com/emotional-regulation-master-course-for-toddler-moms] to start the new year using proven tools with confidence. 👉 View my blog on How to Create a Cozy Calm Down Corner with my favorite products [https://ashleyventriceco.podia.com/blog]   Follow Me: 👉 Visit my website https://ashleyventriceco.podia.com                     👉 YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@ashleyventriceco                                   👉 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@ashleyventriceco                                                👉 Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ashleyventriceco 👉    Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/ashleyventriceco Join:                                                                                                              👉 Toddler Community on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1641FC2sDa/ Each episode is packed with real-life examples, emotional regulation tools, and gentle, grounded advice for parents who want to raise emotionally healthy kids — without guilt, pressure, or perfection. If you’re ready to grow forward with your toddler, hit play. 💛

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  • Creator
    Ashley Ventrice
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    31
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2025 All rights reserved.
  • Show Website
    The Ashley Ventrice Show