The Backdoor Podcast

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The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities. Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says. Because sometimes, the real talk happens through the backdoor. NEW episodes Monday & Thusdays.

  1. 1d ago

    The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships | Ep. 74

    The Lies Social Media Tells Us About Relationships Social media has changed the way we view love, dating, and long-term relationships—but is it setting unrealistic expectations? In this episode, we unpack some of the biggest myths social media promotes and how they can quietly impact the way we see our own relationships. From highlight reels that make every couple look perfect to viral relationship advice, unrealistic standards, public validation, and comparison culture, we discuss how online content can shape our expectations in ways we don't always recognize. We also talk about the pressure to create a "picture-perfect" relationship, why every relationship looks different behind the scenes, and how to build confidence in your relationship without comparing it to what you see online. Whether you're constantly seeing relationship content on your feed or you've caught yourself comparing your relationship to someone else's, this episode offers an honest conversation about separating social media from reality. Topics discussed include: The biggest relationship myths social media pushes Comparison culture and unrealistic expectations The pressure to have a "perfect" relationship online Viral dating advice: helpful or harmful? Public validation and posting your relationship How social media affects trust, communication, and self-esteem Building a healthy relationship away from the internet Focusing on what's real instead of what's viral Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  2. 5d ago

    The Relationship Dealbreakers That Aren't Obvious | Ep. 73

    The Relationship Dealbreakers That Aren't Obvious When people think of relationship dealbreakers, they usually picture cheating, lying, or abuse—but what about the subtle issues that slowly wear a relationship down over time? In this episode, we explore the less obvious dealbreakers that often go unnoticed until they become major problems. We discuss how poor communication, emotional immaturity, lack of effort, incompatible life goals, financial habits, unresolved resentment, and mismatched expectations can quietly damage even strong relationships. We also talk about the difference between a red flag that can be worked through and a true dealbreaker that may signal long-term incompatibility. Whether you're dating, in a long-term relationship, or reflecting on past experiences, this conversation will help you identify the warning signs that aren't always talked about—and encourage you to think about what you should and shouldn't compromise on in a healthy relationship. Topics discussed include: The subtle dealbreakers people often overlook Communication habits that quietly hurt relationships Emotional maturity and accountability Effort, consistency, and feeling appreciated Financial values and lifestyle compatibility Trust beyond cheating and dishonesty When a red flag becomes a dealbreaker Knowing when to work through issues—or walk away Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  3. Jul 13

    The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... | Ep. 72

    The Things We Never Thought We'd Argue About... Every couple has those moments where you stop mid-argument and think, "How did we end up fighting about this?" In this episode, we dive into the unexpected disagreements that have come up throughout our relationship—things we never imagined would become actual debates. From texting habits and household responsibilities to money, parenting, social media, and everyday annoyances, we share the funny, frustrating, and surprisingly meaningful arguments that taught us the most about communication. We also discuss why small disagreements often point to bigger issues, how assumptions can create unnecessary conflict, and the strategies we've learned to resolve arguments in a healthier way. Whether you're dating, engaged, married, or just curious about what really happens behind the scenes in long-term relationships, this episode is full of honest stories, relatable moments, and practical takeaways that will remind you every couple argues—it’s how you handle those disagreements that matters. Topics discussed include: The arguments we never expected to have Why little things can become big relationship issues Communication mistakes couples commonly make Household habits and daily frustrations Money and spending differences Parenting disagreements and expectations Social media boundaries and online behavior What these arguments taught us about building a stronger relationship Follow us everywhere on social media @stephandkayls and/or the podcast @thebackdoorpodcast Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  4. Jul 9

    The Truth About Modern Dating | Ep. 71

    Has dating actually gotten harder... or have the rules completely changed? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're unpacking the realities of modern dating—from dating apps and situationships to ghosting, social media, unrealistic expectations, and the pressure of having endless options. We're discussing why genuine connection feels harder to find, what people are really looking for today, and whether modern dating is setting us up for success or disappointment. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, understanding today's dating culture can help you build healthier connections and avoid the mistakes so many people make. In this episode we discuss: Why modern dating feels so different Dating apps, situationships, and commitment How social media has changed relationships The biggest mistakes people make while dating What actually creates lasting attraction and connection If you've ever wondered why dating feels more complicated than ever, this episode offers an honest conversation about love, expectations, communication, and finding meaningful relationships in today's world. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  5. Jul 6

    The Most Attractive Thing Someone Can Do That Has Nothing To Do With Looks | Ep. 70

    What if the most attractive thing about someone has nothing to do with their appearance? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're diving into the qualities that create lasting attraction—the ones that make someone more attractive the longer you know them. From confidence and consistency to kindness, emotional maturity, and the way someone makes you feel, we're breaking down what really keeps the spark alive long after first impressions fade. Looks may catch your attention, but they're rarely what builds a strong, lasting relationship. In this episode we discuss: The qualities that make someone more attractive over time Why confidence and emotional maturity matter more than appearance The difference between physical attraction and emotional attraction The small habits that naturally build attraction in a relationship What men and women find genuinely attractive beyond looks If you've ever wondered why some people become more attractive the longer you know them, this episode explores the qualities that create deeper connection, lasting chemistry, and stronger relationships. Real conversations about love, attraction, communication, and the psychology behind what truly draws us to someone—no filters. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  6. Jul 2

    Our Followers Told Us The Icks Men And Women Have | Ep. 69

    What gives people the biggest "ick" in a relationship? We asked our followers... and the responses did not disappoint. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're reacting to the funniest, most relatable, and most controversial relationship icks submitted by our audience. From bad texting habits and social media behavior to awkward personality traits, dating habits, and everyday turn-offs, we're debating which ones are fair, which ones are ridiculous, and which ones secretly bother us too. Some of these are hilarious. Some are brutally honest. And a few might make you question your own relationship habits. In this episode we discuss: The biggest relationship icks men have The biggest relationship icks women have Which icks are understandable vs. overreactions How small habits can change attraction Our honest reactions to your anonymous submissions Whether you're dating, married, or just curious about what turns people off, this episode is full of laughs, debates, and the relationship habits people can't stop talking about. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  7. Jun 29

    Things We Pretend Don't Affect Us... But Do | Ep. 68

    We all have things we say "don't bother us"... until they slowly start changing how we feel. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're diving into the small moments, subtle behaviors, and everyday situations that people brush off—but secretly carry with them. From changes in effort and communication to social media, appreciation, jealousy, and feeling overlooked, we're unpacking the little things that quietly shape attraction, connection, and resentment over time. Sometimes it's not one big mistake that hurts a relationship—it's the small things that go unspoken for too long. In this episode we discuss: The little things men and women pretend don't affect them Why people hide what they're really feeling How unspoken frustrations turn into resentment The subtle behaviors that impact attraction and connection Why honest communication matters before small problems become big ones If you've ever said "It's fine" when it really wasn't, this episode is for you. We're having an honest conversation about the feelings people often keep to themselves—and why those feelings matter more than we realize. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

  8. Jun 25

    Kinks We're Curious About... But Too Nervous To Admit | Ep. 67

    How do you bring up something you've always been curious about without making it awkward? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we're having an honest conversation about curiosity, communication, and the bedroom conversations many couples avoid. From the fear of being judged to navigating different comfort levels and preferences, we're discussing why these topics can feel so intimidating—and why talking about them matters. Every couple is different, and intimacy isn't about having all the same interests—it's about building trust, respecting boundaries, and creating a space where both people feel comfortable being honest. In this episode we discuss: Why people are nervous to talk about their curiosities and preferences The difference between fantasy and real-life comfort What happens when partners have different interests How to have open, judgment-free conversations about intimacy Why communication is the foundation of a healthy relationship Whether you're dating, married, or simply curious about how couples navigate these conversations, this episode is all about honesty, trust, and strengthening your connection. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities. Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says. Because sometimes, the real talk happens through the backdoor. NEW episodes Monday & Thusdays.

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  • Creator
    thebackdoorwithsk
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    74
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    Explicit
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