If you’ve ever caught yourself wondering how to stop being so serious, how to bring joy back into your life, or why you don’t remember the last time you did something just for fun, this conversation is for you. We’re sharing why adults need play, especially in midlife, and how to be more playful as an adult without needing a big reinvention or a lot of free time. Whitney shares how a spontaneous week-long e-bike tour through Provence, France, pulled her out of her comfort zone, introduced her to a whole new group of people, and reminded her what it feels like to do something with no goal except enjoying it. We also talk about how to find joy in midlife and how to find joy after 50. That includes why play lowers stress, keeps you feeling youthful, and helps you build a social life after 40 and make friends as a woman in midlife, whether through a group trip, a women’s group for over 50, or a weekly game night. We share simple, low-pressure ideas for how to have a fun life right now: dancing in your kitchen, a daily 5 p.m. playlist, pickleball and pickup basketball, doodling, puzzles, board games and cards, playing tag with your partner, and hopping on a playground swing. We also cover hobbies for women over 40 and hobbies for women over 50 that are about joy, not performance. Plus, how to add whimsy to everyday life, from renaming your meetings like YouTube videos to turning a school volunteer email into a song parody. We also open with a few surprising menopause symptoms (sensory overload, dry mouth, foot pain, frozen shoulder, and ringing in the ears). Whitney shares a frightening personal story about her daughter’s attack on a hiking trail, the importance of listening to your intuition, and why women’s safety and self-defense matter. We then shake it off and get back to what this season of life can be: playful, social, and yours. Midlife isn’t the end of fun. It’s the second curve, when you don’t have to be the best at everything and you finally get to slow down and enjoy it. What’s your favorite way to play as an adult? We’d love to hear it. Share it in the comments or email us your mid moment. Remember to share this podcast with a friend, and rate and review and follow the show! Have a midlife moment to share? Email us at anythingbutmidpodcast@gmail.com and tell us your mid moment, your wins, or what you want us to talk about next. Follow us:https://www.instagram.com/anythingbutmid/ Amy Edwards – https://instagram.com/realamyedwards Whitney Stropp – https://instagram.com/whitneystropp The Amy Edwards Show:https://open.spotify.com/show/5SdojmuUpXfksyQD8gbXJmhttps://www.youtube.com/@TheAmyEdwardsShow Every Widow Thing:https://open.spotify.com/show/5XO1NK5sbBJ2ZAAf2fQpO3https://www.youtube.com/@everywidowthing