For the Fellas

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For the Fellas is BET’s space for Black men to kick back and get real. Each week voices who move the culture dive deep into the conversations men have behind closed doors about love, healing, money, fatherhood, faith, ambition, friendships, and everything in between for all to hear. Welcome to a peek into the group chat.

Episodes

  1. 12/29/2025

    Jacquees, Da’Vinchi & Kordell Beckham Share the REAL Struggles of Love & Fatherhood

    A great way to kick off the new year! The Fellas are here to get some things off their chest. Jacquees, Da’Vinchi, and Kordell Beckham sit down with Brian McIntosh talk about broken homes, the negative influence of social media, and making sure their wife and kids carry their last name.  For The Fellas has become a cultural touchpoint, providing Black men with a safe and authentic space to engage in raw, unfiltered conversations. From the entertainment world’s rising stars to established icons, the series highlights diverse perspectives and showcases the power of storytelling in fostering connection and understanding.  Check out more For The Fellas: https://www.bet.com/shows/for-the-fellas Chapters you don't want to skip: 00:00 - Intro02:01 - The Fellas Share Their Biggest Accomplishments of 202404:27 - Jacquees Talks About His Love for His Son05:49 - Kordell & Da’Vinchi Discuss Their Desire for Kids07:00 - Does a Woman Have to Carry a Man’s Last Name?13:01 - The Fellas Discuss Growing Up in Broken Homes24:30 - Jacquees Shares His Love for Deiondra Sanders26:11 - When Does Postpartum End?32:23 - Kordell Explains 'Love Island' to Jacquees & Da’Vinchi36:21 - Kordell Is In Love with Serena45:02 - Why Social Media Can Be Dangerous for Relationships53:22 - Da’Vinchi Talks Dating & GloRilla’s Music Video59:23 - Da’Vinchi Opens Up About Mental Health01:03:00 - How the Entertainment Industry Can Hurt Your Soul01:07:05 - Jacquees Talks About His Upcoming Album01:08:29 - Kordell’s Big Valentine’s Day Plans for Serena01:11:52 - Manifesting Big Things for 202501:14:06 - Jacquees Believes He’s a Legend01:17:51 - 50 Cent Is the New Tyler Perry01:19:17 - Put Away Imposter Syndrome01:21:35 - The Fellas Say Goodbye01:22:43 - Outro Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 25m

  2. 12/22/2025

    Kirk Franklin, Jacob Latimore & David Banner on Black Men In Therapy, Love & Faith

    This Black History Month, The Fellas come together for an unfiltered conversation with Brian “B-MAC” McIntosh. In this powerful discussion, Kirk Franklin, Jacob Latimore, and David Banner dive into what it means to find and keep the RIGHT love, navigate the guilt and trauma of success, and explore why mental health is a top priority for Black men today.  For The Fellas has become a cultural touchstone, creating a safe space for Black men to engage in raw, real conversations. The series brings together entertainment icons and rising stars to share diverse perspectives, highlight the importance of mental wellness, and showcase the power of storytelling to build connection and understanding. Chapters you don't want to skip: 00:00 - Introduction to Black Men Who Lead with Purpose01:57 - Success Isn't Always Pretty: The Hidden Trauma of Winning09:44 - The Power of Solitude: Sometimes, You Need to Be Alone12:21 - Let Go of Guilt: Don’t Block Your Blessings24:28 - Breaking Tradition: Outdated Beliefs from the Church and Our Parents27:42 - Black Men, It’s Time to Heal: Taking Mental Health Seriously32:11 - Stop the Cycle: Let’s End the Creation of Broken Homes40:53 - Kirk Franklin Drops Wisdom on 29 Years of Marriage48:45 - Marriage Is a Choice: Infidelity Doesn’t End with Commitment52:02 - True Love Builds You Up, It Doesn’t Tear You Down55:18 - Jacob Latimore’s Big Moment: NAACP Image Award Nomination58:00 - Jacob Latimore Gives His Flowers to Lena Waithe and 'The Chi'01:02:00 - The Fellas Share Uplifting Wisdom for the Soul01:03:46 - Outro & Unseen Moments: Bloopers and Goodbyes  Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 7m

  3. 12/15/2025

    Nick Cannon, DDG, & Lance Gross Discuss Black Fatherhood

    Celebrating the superheroes in our lives—Black fathers! For the Fellas and Walmart bring you a candid and intimate episode just in time for Father’s Day. Hear from Nick Cannon, DDG and Lance Gross on the power of Black fatherhood. Chapters you don’t want to skip: 0:00 - DDG and his deep voice is CRAZY!00:30 - The Fellas pull up in Atlanta!1:00 - Nick Cannon, Lance Gross, and DDG give intros2:00 - DDG describes his super power as a Dad3:50 - Nick Cannon and Lance Gross share how they balance work and fatherhood6:00 - Nick Cannon reflects on having sacrifice time with all his kids11:50 - DDG shares some of the obstacles he deals with as a parent13:00 - Nick Cannon, DDG, and Lance shares how his village helps him with all his kids19:35 - Nick Cannon gives flowers to the Mother’s of his children22:40 - DDG shares what he wants to improve on as a parent25:40 - The Fellas speak on “Progressive Parenting”32:40 - DDG says he doesn’t expect his son to go to College34:10 - Lance Gross gets emotional reflecting  on the death of his Father39:30 - DDG shares how his Brother has inspired him as a parent43:30 - Nick Cannon and DDG speak on having a “Non Traditional” family unit48:15 - DDG speaks on his relationship with Halle and the online hate53:40 - Nick Cannon shares how he juggles trying to make sure his children have a relationship with each other.54:46 - Lance Gross speaks on taking his daughter to Paris58:40 - The Fellas speak on a time their children made them emotional01:01:00 - The Fellas reflect on child birthing01:02:50 - DDG shares how he has helped Halle with postpartum01:03:30 - Nick Cannon and Lance stress how men have to show up better for the Mother of their children with postpartum01:07:00 - The Fellas Give advice to younger fathers Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 11m

  4. 12/08/2025

    Woody McClain, Vic Mensa, Rajah Caruth, & Brian Henry on For The Fellas

    You can't have a conversation about HBCUs without involving actual students. Vic Mensa, Woody McClain, Rajah Caruth and DJ Brian "B-Hen" Henry take over the campus of Morehouse College in the first ever live episode of For the Fellas, presented by ‪Walmart. Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    58 min

  5. 12/04/2025

    D.C. Young Fly, Malcolm Mays, & Lenny S. Talk Image Awards, Black Hollywood & More

    As we celebrate Women’s History Month and the NAACP Image Awards, the Fellas get deep into their love for Black women, experiences in Hollywood, and how to cope through depression. We’re honored to provide a safe space for men to have honest discussions and share their experiences with y’all. Chapters you don't want to skip: 0:00 Intro02:19 Black Excellence10:16 Road To Excellence15:00 Survivers Remorse23:00 DC Young Fly speaks on his car being broken into26:00 Malcolm Was in Training Day with Denzel as a kid29:00 Lenny S. Shares how he got his start32:00 Mocolm gives his flowers to Lenny35:17 The Fellas talk mental health and how they get through it40:00 DC Young Fly and Lenny S speak on being a father44:00 The Fellas speak on shaping their legacy47:00 DC Young Fly compares to NAACP Image Awards To The Grammys54:00 Lenny S speaks on The Gold Standard56:37 Do Black Women In Hollywood Get Enough Flowers?1:02:00 The Fellas share what women in their lives help them day to day1:06:00 DC Young Fly speaks on the loss of his girlfriend Jackie1:24:10 Outros Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 27m

  6. 12/01/2025

    G Herbo, Kier Gaines & Rome Flynn On Why Black Men Avoid Therapy & Breaking Stigmas

    In this powerful, unfiltered episode of For the Fellas, we’re diving deep into what Black men carry — and what it takes to let go. From why so many of us avoid therapy, to how trauma gets passed down like family recipes, this conversation is raw, eye-opening, and overdue.  We talk fatherhood without the fronting. Healing without the shame. Vulnerability without losing strength.  G Herbo shares his journey of balancing family and fame. Kier Gaines delivers perspective-shifting insights that’ll challenge how you think. Rome Flynn, who who showed up with honesty and heart that shared his own feelings about healing, manhood, and breaking generational patterns. And host Brian McIntosh closes it out with the kind of truth that sticks.  Whether you’re a father, a son, a partner, or just trying to figure it out — this one’s for you. Tap in and stay for the whole ride. You’re not alone in this.  Chapters you don’t want to skip: 00:00 - Meet the Fellas: Real Talk Begins 02:01 - “Therapy Ain’t for Us?” – Unpacking the Stigma 09:09 - Generational Trauma: What Are We Still Carrying? 20:01 - How Pain Shapes Us – And What We Do With It 28:02 - Break the Cycle: Our Kids Deserve Better 34:05 - Fatherhood Remix: Tough Love vs. Real Patience 43:12 - Black Dads in the Spotlight: Changing the Narrative 51:09 - G Herbo’s Prayer: Holding Down a Blended Family 53:37 - Love + Healing: Where Mental Health Meets Relationships 57:07 - Rebuilding from Within: The Real Goal of Therapy 1:01:23 - Investing in Healing: How We Afford Therapy 1:02:08 - Healing Together: The Power of Brotherhood in Therapy 1:05:37 - G Herbo Speaks From the Heart 1:06:23 - Kier Gaines Speaks: Wisdom from Your Favorite Therapist 1:07:48 - Brian McIntosh Closes It Out: Bars, Truth & Breakthroughs Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 9m

  7. 11/26/2025

    AJ Calloway, Bow Wow & Cordae Debate Hip-Hop’s Future & Reflect On 106 & Park

    What happens when three generations of hip-hop pull up for a real, unfiltered conversation? You get For The Fellas — where AJ Calloway, Bow Wow, and Cordae dive deep into the culture, the music, and the moments that shaped them. From the legendary days of 106 & Park to the modern streaming era, this convo is packed with nostalgia, real talk, and wild stories you’ve never heard before. AJ gets his flowers, Bow Wow opens up like never before, and Cordae gives his take on the future of hip-hop. They debate whether the new generation is killing the culture or carrying it forward, reflect on artist development then vs. now, and keep it all the way honest about money, mental health, and what it really takes to survive in the game. 00:00 – Meet the Fellas: AJ, Bow Wow & Cordae Kick Things Off01:55 – Legends Salute AJ Calloway03:08 – 106 & Park Changed the Game — Let’s Talk About It07:21 – Cordae Breaks Down the Streaming Era11:42 – Is the New Gen Killing Hip-Hop? Let’s Debate15:22 – Bow Wow on Evolving with the Culture20:31 – Hip-Hop Money: Then vs. Now30:01 – Artist Development: From AJ to TikTok Stars41:14 – Real Talk: Mental Pressure in the Spotlight47:01 – AJ Reflects on Leaving 106 & Park51:01 – Bow Wow Gets Honest About Stepping Back54:06 – Favorite 106 & Park Moments (You Know You Remember!)58:13 – Big Love to BET Awards 20251:03:01 – Saluting the Fellas: Giving Flowers1:05:16 – Bow Wow’s Thank You Message1:05:51 – Cordae’s Message to BET1:06:06 – AJ’s Final Words to BET — Respect Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 7m

  8. 11/24/2025

    Saucy Santana, Devale Ellis & Mack Wilds Discuss Homophobia, Black Women & More

    Just in time for the holidays, the Fellas explore topics ranging from mental health to sexuality. We're honored to provide a safe space for men to have honest discussions and share their experiences with y'all. Chapters you don't want to skip: 0:00 Intro1:32 Describe this chapter in your life5:54 Life lessons09:33 My Life. My Family.11:53 Everyone is welcome at For The Fellas17:00 Just because you are gay, does not mean you are soft!19:22 Protect Black Women26:26 How straight Black men can be LGBTQ allies32:34 Gay influence on the culture35:00 AYO PAUSE38:00 Let’s raise our kids in LOVE and not SURVIVAL44:30 Everything AIN’T for social media45:46 Saucy Santana doesn’t want his son to be gay52:00 The Fellas share their one wish for the holidays54:55 The Fellas discuss how much is too much to spend on a partner for Christmas01:01:49 The Fellas give advice to their younger selves Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 5m

  9. 11/20/2025

    A Very Fellas Holiday

    Michael Rainey Jr. reflects on the finale of Power and the end of his character Tarick, Jermaine Dupri debates the highs and lows of spending in Magic City, and Julian Horton discusses building beyond his character Roy to leave a lasting legacy. Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 1m

  10. 11/18/2025

    Love Is Blind to Love & Hip Hop: Reality Stars Share What REALLY Happens Off Camera

    The concept of reality TV has always been questioned — where does the real end and the performance begin? In this thought-provoking episode of For The Fellas, host Brian McIntosh sits down with three men who live their lives in front of the lens to unpack the cost, the pressure, and the truth behind what we call “reality. From the lights and edits to the real emotions that can’t be scripted, this episode holds up a mirror to how Black men are portrayed, perceived, and positioned in today’s entertainment landscape. Joining Brian on the couch are: Mendeecees Harris — a Love & Hip Hop legend, father, husband, and entrepreneur who’s kept it real through thirteen seasons of one of TV’s biggest reality franchises.Karlous Miller — comedian, podcaster, and cultural voice of the South known for bringing raw truth and humor to every stage, screen, and mic.Ollie Sutherland — the UK’s own Love Is Blind star, proving that Black love knows no borders and that vulnerability can be global.Together, these men go beyond the headlines and social clips to have a real conversation about fame, family, love, and the blurred lines between reality and real life. 00:00 - Meet the Fellas: Living Life On Reality TV01:56 - The Business Behind Reality TV02:53 - Why Our Culture Is Drawn to Reality Television04:36 - The Appeal of Drama & Conflict On-Screen06:38 - Reality TV Across the Pond: The U.K. Perspective07:51 - Mendeecees’ Journey into Love & Hip Hop11:41 - How Reality TV Shapes & Selects Relationship Storylines21:24 - Being the “Supporting Cast” in a Woman’s Story27:01 - Fatherhood & Fame: The Stakes of Being Seen28:27 - Online vs. Real Life: Cancel Culture in Today’s Climate30:37 - Rebuilding Trust in the Public Eye32:57 - Growing With Your Partner While the World Watches38:47 - The Weight Black Men Carry in the Spotlight40:48 - Love Languages: Do Men Need Affirmation Too?47:16 - How Much Influence Should Your Partner Have on Your Confidence?52:41 - Protecting Your Mental Health as a Public Figure Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    1h 1m

  11. 11/17/2025

    Iman Shumpert, Trinity Whiteside & Bow Wow Have An Intimate Conversation

    Join BET in celebrating the father figures in our lives. Iman Shumpert, Trinity Whiteside of #Sistas and Bow Wow of #HouseOfBET get real about their experiences in the deep conversation. Happy Father's Day Y'all! Stream Black Culture with BET+. Kick back and enjoy movies, TV series, exclusive originals and the best of Tyler Perry. Sign up for BET+ Connect with BET  WebsiteTikTokInstagramYouTubeFacebookX.comThreads Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    27 min
  • 11 Episodes

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3.8
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For the Fellas is BET’s space for Black men to kick back and get real. Each week voices who move the culture dive deep into the conversations men have behind closed doors about love, healing, money, fatherhood, faith, ambition, friendships, and everything in between for all to hear. Welcome to a peek into the group chat.

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    BET
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
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