Juicy Bits with Carmen

Carmen J
  • 5.0 (1)
  • Sexuality
  • Updated Daily

Erotic Power, Embodied Leadership & Life That Turns You On Juicy Bits with Carmen is a podcast for driven and dominant women who have built success—but crave more pleasure, presence and erotic power in their lives. They’ve gotten to where they are because of their drive but are operating out of survival and protection and don’t know how to relax, play and surrender. It’s an invitation into a life that feels juicy. This show is inspired by my real life and how I've become the Creatrix of my juicy life so that you can live a life that is like foreplay- designed to turn you on! XO, Carmen

  1. 2d ago

    Episode 35- Using Your Partner's Desire as a Shield from Shame

    Juicy Bits with Carmen is the permission slip for you to create your juicy life. In this episode, Carmen contemplates why you might be more comfortable responding to desire than claiming it for yourself. Women are expected to fill impossible roles and that is very evident in the arena of sex and intimacy. You can join Your Juicy Life free community on Skool here: https://bit.ly/yjlskool Set up a consultation call for 1:1 coaching with Carmen here: https://calendly.com/carmenjosephcoaching/chatwithcarmen

    10 min

  2. May 26

    Episode 34- Shame and How it's Blocking You From Your Juicy Life

    Even when you think you've busted through your shame, it keeps rearing its ugly head and if you let it run your life, you'll never have a life that is juicy AF! Shame is often a giant block for women to claim what it is that they want. It is the root cause of so much destruction in our world. Shame is the belief “I am bad” whereas guilt is “I did a bad thing.” For many women it feels dangerous to have sexual desire because of our conditioning around sex. That conditioning might come from our culture, religion, family or society at large. So, if we take on the meanings that are passed down to us from outside of us, we are in danger of internalizing what it means to have sexual desire and we believe that we are bad for having it. This episode reveals some steps to shedding your sexual shame. These steps are the antidote to isolated and hiding because of your shame. If you're wanting to create your juicy AF life, Carmen is available for limited 1:1 coaching and mentoring. She has a 3 month coaching package or a 3 hour single session. Find out if she's the right coach for you in a 15 minute consultation session here: https://calendly.com/carmenjosephcoaching/chatwithcarmen Join her free community in Skool- Your Juicy Life- here: https://bit.ly/yjlskool https://open.spotify.com/show/2VzKseihbkg3JdYGUFfGwE?si=5mWr_XKLQVWD4lb3ip40RQ

    27 min

  3. May 19

    Episode 33- Your Day as an Unleashed Woman

    In this episode, Carmen takes you on a journey into what it looks and feels like when you claim your juicy life and are self-led in intimacy from the moment you wake up through aftercare post the most attuned, sexy AF sesh with your lover. Juicy Bits with Carmen is the podcast that is your permission slip to create your juicy AF life! You nurture your naughty girl so that she never has to go back in the closet ever again. Join the free community in Skool https://bit.ly/yjlskool where you have instant access to the 15 day audio course to kickstart your journey into claiming your desires.

    24 min

  4. May 12

    Episode 32- Why Women Lose Themselves in Intimacy and How to Take Their Power Back

    In this powerful episode of Juicy Bits with Carmen, Carmen explores the hidden ways women lose their voice, disconnect from their desires and struggle to create deeper intimacy with men. If you’ve ever found yourself people pleasing, overgiving, performing or abandoning your own needs in relationships, this conversation will help you understand why. Through honest storytelling and somatic insight, Carmen unpacks how survival mode, shame, patriarchal conditioning and generational patterns shape women’s experiences in sex, intimacy and relationships. She shares how intimacy can become the portal for healing, helping women reconnect to their bodies, desires, boundaries and authentic turn on. This episode is for women who want more emotional connection, better communication, passionate intimacy and healthier relationships with men without losing themselves in the process. You’ll learn why real pleasure is not about performance or compliance, but about reclaiming agency, choice and the ability to fully receive what you actually want. Inside this episode: Healing survival mode in intimacy Reconnecting with desire and pleasure Somatic healing for women Overcoming shame around sex and relationships Learning to communicate needs and boundaries Creating deeper emotional and sexual intimacy with men Reclaiming your voice in relationships Breaking generational relationship patterns If you’re ready to stop abandoning yourself in love and start creating relationships that feel emotionally safe, connected and deeply fulfilling, this episode is your invitation into a more turned on and empowered life. Join Carmen's free community on Skool here: https://bit.ly/yjlskool

    12 min

  5. May 5

    Episode 31- Receiving is an Act of Rebellion

    What does it really mean to receive? In this powerful episode of Juicy Bits with Carmen, Carmen explores the vulnerability, desire and deep self-worth required for women to truly open themselves to pleasure, intimacy and support. Through intimate storytelling and somatic reflection, Carmen unpacks why so many women are conditioned to overgive, perform and stay disconnected from their own desires. She introduces a provocative question — “How would you like me to serve you?” — and guides listeners into the uncomfortable but liberating work of naming what they actually want. This episode dives into feminine embodiment, erotic empowerment, receiving in relationships, nervous system safety and breaking generational patterns of self-sacrifice. Carmen shares how women are taught to stay small, reject compliments, avoid vulnerability and shame other women for wanting more — and why reclaiming your ability to receive is an act of rebellion. You’ll also hear about Carmen’s work around decentering patriarchal conditioning, becoming self-led instead of selfless and learning to trust your own turn-ons as a guide for creating a deeply fulfilling life. If you’re a woman who struggles with asking for what you want, receiving love or pleasure without guilt or prioritizing yourself without shame, this conversation will speak directly to your soul. Plus, Carmen shares details about her new program Ready to Receive, a transformational course designed to help women reclaim desire, cultivate self-worth and create a life that feels truly juicy. Join here: https://www.skool.com/readytoreceive/about Breadwinner Energy Podcast Listen to Carmen's biz coach, Tay Daniels and soak up all of her yummy content here: https://breadwinnerenergy.co/podcast

    23 min

  6. Apr 28

    Episode 30- Confessions of a Show Pony: How I Decentered the Patriarchy to be led by My Own Desires

    Step into a powerful conversation about reclaiming your desire, your voice and your body in a world that has trained you to perform instead of feel. In this episode of Juicy Bits with Carmen, we explore what it really means to decenter the patriarchy and truly lead and be led by your own desires. Carmen shares her personal journey of erotic expansion, from discovering her identity as an exhibitionist to ultimately redefining pleasure on her own terms. This isn’t about performing for validation or chasing external desire. It’s about turning inward, cultivating self-trust and learning how to access the kind of pleasure that is deeply yours. You’ll hear how generational conditioning and survival patterns keep women disconnected from their desires, and why 2026 is calling for a new way of being. One rooted in self-awareness, breaking generational patterns and unapologetic receiving. This episode weaves together themes of sexual empowerment, shame alchemy, feminine embodiment, intimacy and conscious relationships. If you’re ready to start receiving in the bedroom, break generational cycles and become a woman who knows she is worthy of deep pleasure and connection, this conversation is for you. Plus, Carmen shares an invitation to her new program Ready to Receive, designed to help you embody your desires, build confidence in your voice and create a life that truly turns you on. Links: Tay Daniels Breadwinner Energy Podcast https://breadwinnerenergy.co/podcast Ready to Receive with Carmen https://www.skool.com/readytoreceive/about

    14 min

  7. Apr 21

    Episode 29- Do They Meet Your Standards? Stop Shapeshifting and Start Choosing Yourself

    In this episode of Juicy Bits with Carmen, we turn the lens around and ask a question most women were never taught to ask: do they meet my standards? After divorce in her 40s, Carmen found herself pulled toward dating, desire, and the urge to find a new partner. But underneath that pull was something deeper: conditioning to shape shift, perform, and prioritize how she was being perceived over what she actually wanted. This episode is a powerful invitation to stop asking “am I enough?” and start asking “are they right for me?” If you’ve been caught in people pleasing, disconnected from your body, or unsure of your desires, this conversation will help you come back home to yourself. You’ll begin to see how your standards are not walls, but expressions of your self worth, your boundaries, and your truth. We explore: Dating after divorce and redefining what you wantLetting go of shapeshifting and performanceReconnecting with your body and desireCreating standards that reflect your valuesShifting from external validation to self trustThis is for the woman ready to stop abandoning herself and start choosing relationships, connections, and experiences that truly meet her. Know someone that needs to hear this episode? Share it with them and be sure to follow the show. If you want to learn more about how to become the Sovereign Creatrix of your own life, join Carmen's free community in Skool. Click here: https://bit.ly/yjlskool

    13 min

  8. Apr 14

    Episode 28- How This Ends With Us- Become the Cycle Breaker

    This episode of Juicy Bits with Carmen is a powerful wake-up call for bold, driven women who look like they “have it all together”… but feel disconnected, exhausted, and unfulfilled in their intimate lives. If you’ve been stuck in over-functioning, people-pleasing, and survival mode, this conversation will hit home. Carmen unpacks how these patterns—often rooted in conditioning, trauma, or the need to prove your worth—don’t just impact your career or relationships… they quietly erode your sexual desire, pleasure, and connection. You’ll hear a truth many women avoid: saying yes in intimacy when your body is saying no creates a deep internal disconnect. Over time, this leads to low libido, lack of passion, and resentment in the bedroom—not because something is “wrong” with you, but because you’ve been disconnected from your own desires. But this episode goes deeper. It invites you to consider the legacy you’re creating. If nothing changes, these patterns of burnout, self-abandonment, and disempowered intimacy get passed down—to your children, your relationships, and the next generation. This is your invitation to break that cycle. Through honest reflection and nervous system awareness, Carmen guides you back to your body, your voice, and your authentic desire—so you can move from survival mode into creatrix energy, where pleasure, boundaries, and self-worth lead. Join Carmen in her free community in Skool here so that you can become the cycle breaker for the next generation:

    21 min
See All (35)

About

Erotic Power, Embodied Leadership & Life That Turns You On Juicy Bits with Carmen is a podcast for driven and dominant women who have built success—but crave more pleasure, presence and erotic power in their lives. They’ve gotten to where they are because of their drive but are operating out of survival and protection and don’t know how to relax, play and surrender. It’s an invitation into a life that feels juicy. This show is inspired by my real life and how I've become the Creatrix of my juicy life so that you can live a life that is like foreplay- designed to turn you on! XO, Carmen

Information

  • Creator
    Carmen J
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    35
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Carmen J
  • Show Website
    Juicy Bits with Carmen