The Impact Marriage Podcast with Allan & Nicole Blain | For Those That Want to Live Relationship-Rich!

Allan & Nicole Blain
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Welcome to the Impact Marriage podcast — a podcast created to strengthen and inspire yours. This is a space for honest, real-life conversations about marriage—the joys, the challenges, the growth, the grit—and the practical tools that help couples build a God-honoring, joy-filled marriage. We’re your hosts, Allan & Nicole Blain. Married at 20, now 34 years married and counting, parents to six, and more in love today than when we began. We believe marriage is more than a commitment—it’s a calling, a mission, and one of the most powerful ways to impact the world. The heart behind this podcast is simple: to help you cultivate a passion-filled, mission-driven, relationship-rich marriage—one marked by faith, friendship, fun, intimacy, and unwavering commitment. If you’re ready to grow deeper, love stronger, and build a marriage that leaves a legacy…you’re in the right place. Connect with us: Website AllanAndNicole.com Instagram @ImpactMarriagePodcast YouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcast TikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcast Order Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway” 

  1. 6d ago

    Speaking Your Spouse’s Emotional Love Language

    In episode 1 of this six-part series, Allan and Nicole Blain talk about speaking your spouse’s emotional love language and learning to express love in ways that truly connect. Drawing from 34 years of marriage, they explore how the way you naturally show love may be different from the way your spouse receives it. It’s a conversation about understanding one another, being intentional, and helping your spouse feel loved through everyday words and actions. Who are Allan & Nicole Blain? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain college sweethearts, married for 34 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes (she played volleyball and I played baseball), just five days after Nicole’s 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after she turned 20, on September 12, 1992. Connect with Allan & Nicole: Website: https://allanandnicole.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ImpactMarriagePodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactMarriage/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactmarriagepodcast TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@impactmarriagepodcast Key topics: Understanding the five love languagesRecognizing that you may give and receive love differentlyExploring the different dialects within each love languageUnderstanding how childhood shapes the way we experience loveEncouraging your spouse through words of affirmationMaking room for meaningful quality timeExpressing love through thoughtful giftsShowing care through acts of serviceBuilding connection through physical touchDiscovering what helps your spouse feel lovedChoosing love and putting it into practice each dayInviting God to guide the way you love and serve your spouseChapters: 0:00 Introduction to Love Languages 3:37 The Five Love Languages Overview 6:52 Love Language Dialects 11:00 How Childhood Shapes Love Languages 16:22 Learning Your Spouse’s Love Language 21:54 Putting Love Languages into Practice 25:12 Love as a Choice and a Path to Growth 29:22 How to Discover Your Spouse’s Love Language 32:56 Speak Your Spouse’s Language This Week

    Speaking Your Spouse’s Emotional Love Language

  2. Oct 1

    036 - Why Does My Spouse Get the Leftovers.

    In this episode, Allan and Nicole Blain talk about a common challenge in marriage: giving your spouse whatever energy, attention, and affection you have left after work, kids, responsibilities, and everyday life. They share lessons from more than 30 years of marriage about intentionally prioritizing your relationship, making time for one another, and ensuring your spouse gets your best not just the leftovers. Who are Allan & Nicole Blain? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes (she played volleyball and I played baseball), just 5 days after Nicole's 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after she turned 20, on September 12, 1992. Key topics: - Prioritizing your spouse in the middle of a busy life - Giving your spouse your best, not your leftovers - Making intentional time for your marriage - Balancing marriage, parenting, work, and responsibilities - Building your spouse up with encouraging words - Recognizing when your relationship is being neglected - Scheduling time together when life gets busy - Showing love through consistent everyday actions - Protecting connection and intimacy in marriage - Surrendering your relationship to God and trusting Him to lead your marriage - Praying for your spouse and your relationship - Choosing your spouse daily, even after decades together

    036 - Why Does My Spouse Get the Leftovers.

  3. Sep 24

    035 - Lessons Learned from 32 years of Parenting Six Children

    In this episode, Allan and Nicole Blain share their 32 years of parenting experience, discussing what they did right, what they would do differently, and valuable lessons learned along the way. They explore topics like modeling faith, building relationships, and teaching responsibility to help parents raise impactful children. Who are Allan & Nicole Blain? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes (she played volleyball and I played baseball), just 5 days after Nicole's 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after she turned 20, on September 12, 1992. Key topics: Modeling a close relationship with JesusBuilding children up with positive wordsServing together as a familyTeaching responsibility through choresDeveloping relationships with each childParenting the heart, not just behaviorInvesting in relationships with other familiesTransitioning from dictator to coachPraying more and worrying lessParenting with grace and mercy Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and overview of parenting lessons04:38 Serving together as a family08:12 Reflecting on parenting over 32 years12:15 Fostering a love for reading and music17:14 Doing outdoor activities and bonding as a family19:35 Parenting the heart versus behavior22:28 The importance of prayer in parenting24:42 Building relationships with each child26:03 Investing in relationships with other families29:20 Transitioning from dictator to coach31:13 Parenting each child's unique personality34:30 Praying more for children and with them37:55 What we got right in parenting40:21 The importance of humility and apology42:41 Not rescuing children from consequences44:07 Parenting the child's heart45:39 Final tips for parents49:02 What we hope our children say about us50:23 Leaving a legacy of character and faith51:44 Impact of parenting on marriage and society Keywords: parenting, family, faith, relationship building, responsibility, parenting lessons, marriage, legacy, children, homeschooling

    035 - Lessons Learned from 32 years of Parenting Six Children

  4. Sep 17

    034 - What Nobody Tells You About Staying Happily Married (34 Years of Marriage Reflection)

    Celebrating 34 years of marriage, Allan and Nicole Blain share insights, lessons learned, and practical advice on maintaining a strong, loving relationship over decades. This episode covers the importance of growth, commitment, intimacy, and friendship in marriage. Who are Allan & Nicole Blain? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes (she played volleyball and I played baseball), just 5 days after Nicole's 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after she turned 20, on September 12, 1992. Connect with us: Email us at: allan@allanblain.comWebsite https://AllanAndNicole.comInstagram @ImpactMarriagePodcastYouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcastTikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcastOrder Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway”  Key topics: Marriage as a journey of change and growthThe importance of commitment over feelingsHow intimacy and friendship sustain long-term relationshipsLessons learned from 34 years of marriageThe role of faith and forgiveness in marriageBalancing children and marriage healthThe power of shared experiences and challengesPractical advice for new and seasoned couples  Takeaways: Marriage involves continuous change and growth, and embracing it is key to longevity.Commitment must outweigh fleeting feelings; choosing each other daily sustains the marriage.Intimacy, friendship, and communication are vital for a vibrant, lasting relationship.Hard seasons can strengthen bonds if approached with unity and faith.Marriage exposes weaknesses but also offers opportunities for personal and spiritual growth. Sound bites: "You're both going to change.""Marriage will expose your weaknesses.""Ask yourself, will this matter five years from now?" Chapters: 00:00 Celebrating 34 Years of Marriage02:12 The Reality of Change in Marriage05:05 Learning to Love Your Spouse's Evolution10:18 The Power of Commitment Over Feelings15:21 The Importance of Priorities and Boundaries20:08 What We Did Right and What We Would Do Differently27:58 Maintaining Intimacy and Friendship36:28 Walking Through Hard Seasons Together38:16 Looking Forward to Many More Years Keywords: marriage, relationship advice, long-term marriage, intimacy, growth, commitment, friendship, marriage lessons, marriage tips, marriage journey

    034 - What Nobody Tells You About Staying Happily Married (34 Years of Marriage Reflection)

  5. Sep 10

    033 - Don’t Get Married Until You’ve Asked These Questions

    In this episode, Allan & Nicole Blain share a comprehensive list of questions to ask potential spouses, emphasizing the importance of intentional conversations before marriage. They discuss how these questions can help identify compatibility and align expectations, ultimately strengthening future relationships. Who are Allan & Nicole Blain? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes (she played volleyball and I played baseball), just 5 days after Nicole's 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after she turned 20, on September 12, 1992. Connect with us: Email us at: allan@allanblain.comWebsite https://AllanAndNicole.comInstagram @ImpactMarriagePodcastYouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcastTikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcastOrder Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway”  Key Topics: Importance of asking the right questions before marriage12 categories of questions: marriage, faith, family, finances, sex, etc.The role of mentors and open communication in relationshipsAligning values and expectations for a successful marriageThe significance of spiritual and emotional compatibility Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to the importance of premarital questions02:24 The value of asking questions about future marriage expectations06:13 When to ask these questions: before dating or during early dating11:01 Key biblical principles on walking together in marriage13:14 Sample questions about marriage and divorce15:37 The significance of transparency in social media and passwords19:04 Handling past relationships and conflict resolution20:26 Questions about faith, spiritual gifts, and sin struggles24:49 The role of mentors and spiritual growth in marriage38:23 Questions about children, parenting, and family traditions46:05 Discussions on sex, intimacy, and pornography in marriage52:18 Final thoughts and encouragement for couples Questions (12 categories): Download PDF at AllanAndNicole.com/premarital-questions Keywords: marriage, dating questions, relationship advice, premarital counseling, spiritual compatibility, family planning, communication, marriage preparation

    033 - Don’t Get Married Until You’ve Asked These Questions

  6. Sep 3

    032 - Maintaining a Healthy Rhythm in Entrepreneurship as a Couple (ft. Darryll & Brittany Stinson)

    In this episode, Darryll and Brittany Stinson share their journey of marriage, entrepreneurship, and family life, offering practical tips for couples working together in business while raising a large family. Discover how they balance faith, business, and family to create a powerful partnership and impact the world. Key topics: Balancing marriage and business as a power coupleThe importance of faith and spiritual growth in family lifeStrategies for raising a large family while growing a businessThe role of intentionality and communication in marriage and entrepreneurshipOvercoming challenges and attacks in marriage and businessThe significance of shared vision and purpose in partnershipPractical routines and systems for family and business managementThe impact of mentorship and community in personal growth Who are Allan & Nicole Blain? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes (she played volleyball and I played baseball), just 5 days after Nicole's 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after she turned 20, on September 12, 1992. Connect with us: Email us at: allan@allanblain.comWebsite https://AllanAndNicole.comInstagram @ImpactMarriagePodcastYouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcastTikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcastOrder Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway”  Connect with Darryl & Brittany Stinson: Darryll Stinson Instagram: @stinsonspeaksBrittany Stinson Instagram @brittany_stinsonSeeding Greatness Website: SeedingGreatness.comDarryll Stinson's Website: DarryllStinson.com/Spiritual Family Operation System: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1eARyCf_PNrJnP5gTX3JM86WgI2S96lPP/view?usp=sharing Takeaways: Prioritize your marriage and family as the foundation of your business success.Use shared spiritual practices and yearly themes to strengthen your family unit.Communicate early and often to navigate challenges and align your goals.Implement decision-making routines like walk and talk to handle business decisions efficiently.Balance ambition with intentional family time to prevent burnout.Embrace vulnerability and humility to foster authentic relationships with children.Leverage your unique strengths as a couple to complement each other.Stay under attack? Recognize it as part of the mission and pray through it.Teach children the value of purpose and impact from a young age.Remember that God's calling is the ultimate purpose guiding your journey. Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Daryl and Brittany's Marriage and Business Journey02:25 The Love Story and Family Foundations04:43 Starting and Growing Their Business During COVID07:50 Daryl's Viral TEDx Talk and Coaching Success12:11 The Power of a United Vision in Marriage and Business13:36 The Rarity and Power of Power Couples14:31 Balancing Family, Business, and Personal Growth19:32 Spiritual Family Operating System and Rituals22:47 Overcoming Attacks and Staying United in Purpose27:32 Parenting, Mentorship, and Teaching Values35:34 Practical Routines and Decision-Making Strategies40:27 Walking and Talking for Better Decisions44:39 Aligning Business Goals with Family and Faith55:41 Handling Challenges and Staying Resilient01:02:16 Final Advice for Couples Building Together Keywords: marriage, entrepreneurship, family, power couple, leadership, faith, business, parenting, work-life balance, spiritual growth

    032 - Maintaining a Healthy Rhythm in Entrepreneurship as a Couple (ft. Darryll & Brittany Stinson)

  7. Aug 27

    031 - Why Your Marriage Needs God More Than it Needs Advice

    In this episode, Allan and Nicole Blain explore the vital role of a personal relationship with Jesus Christ as the foundation for a thriving marriage. They share practical tips on spiritual growth, memorization, prayer, and how to build a marriage rooted in faith. Key topics: The importance of building marriage on Jesus Christ as the foundationThe role of God's Word in strengthening marriageMemorization and meditation on scriptureThe significance of individual spiritual growthPractical ways to incorporate prayer and scripture into daily lifeThe impact of seeking God together as a coupleThe example of Jesus' humility and service in marriageOvercoming challenges through faith and trust in GodThe importance of consistency in spiritual disciplinesEncouragement to start small and be persistent Takeaways: A marriage built on Jesus Christ is resilient against life's storms.Consistent time in God's Word transforms hearts and relationships.Memorizing scripture helps us recall God's promises in difficult moments.Individual spiritual growth directly impacts the health of the marriage.Praying and reading scripture together deepens intimacy and unity.Seeking God as a couple creates peace and joy in the home.Knowing Jesus' character guides us to love and serve our spouses better.Start small with daily routines and build consistency over time.Your relationship with God is personal and cannot be outsourced.Falling in love with Jesus more deeply is the key to a successful marriage. Sound bites: "Our relationship with Jesus is personal and cannot be outsourced.""Jesus is the ultimate example of sacrificial love and humility.""Start small, be consistent, and trust God to grow your marriage." Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: The Foundation of Marriage02:24 The Importance of Building on Jesus Christ04:22 The Parable of the Wise and Foolish Builders06:46 The Role of God's Word in Marriage11:16 Individual Growth and Relationship with Jesus15:04 Practical Steps: Reading, Praying, and Memorizing20:38 Seeking God Together as a Couple24:24 Jesus as Our Model in Marriage29:08 The Power of God's Word in Transformation34:28 Starting Small: Consistency Over Perfection40:21 The Character of Jesus to Imitate43:53 Overcoming Challenges and Staying Focused45:19 Closing Remarks and Prayer Keywords: marriage, faith, Jesus Christ, spiritual growth, prayer, memorization, relationship, biblical marriage, Christian life, marriage tips

    031 - Why Your Marriage Needs God More Than it Needs Advice

  8. Aug 20

    030 - Using the 1-10 Scale to Evaluate & Improve Your Marriage

    In this episode, Allan and Nicole Blain explore the practical tool of the 1 to 10 scale to evaluate and improve your marriage. They share personal insights, real-life examples, and actionable tips to foster better communication and growth in your relationship. Who are Allan & Nicole Blain? We’re Allan and Nicole Blain — college sweethearts, now married 33 years, parents of six amazing grown kids, and co-leaders of a thriving, purpose-driven business and ministry. We met as student-athletes (she played volleyball and I played baseball), just 5 days after Nicole's 19th birthday. We were married one year later, five days after she turned 20, on September 12, 1992. Connect with us: Email us at: allan@allanblain.comWebsite https://AllanAndNicole.comInstagram @ImpactMarriagePodcastYouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcastTikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcastOrder Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway”  Key topics: The importance of regularly evaluating marriage healthHow to use the 1 to 10 scale as a communication toolThe role of honesty and vulnerability in marriage assessmentsExamples of how ratings can reveal hidden issuesSteps to improve your marriage based on scale feedback Takeaways: Regularly asking your spouse to rate your marriage can reveal unseen issues.Honest feedback helps couples address problems before they escalate.The 1 to 10 scale is a simple, effective way to check marriage health.Follow-up questions like 'What can I do to improve?' foster growth.Even strong marriages benefit from periodic evaluations. Sound bites: "It's like going to the dentist for a check-up""Regular evaluation keeps your marriage healthy""Ask, listen, and then do one thing to improve" Chapters: 00:00 Introduction and podcast setup01:51 Sharing the story of the new podcast studio04:13 Introducing the topic: using the 1 to 10 scale in marriage05:07 Why regular evaluation is important in marriage07:00 The honesty challenge: asking your spouse for a rating08:53 Common ratings and what they reveal about the relationship12:12 How to use the scale as a maintenance tool15:02 Examples of low ratings and how to address them17:59 Using follow-up questions to foster growth19:48 Encouragement to implement the scale in your marriage22:00 Closing thoughts and encouragement to connect Keywords: marriage, relationship, communication, self-improvement, marriage scale, marriage tips, relationship health, marriage podcast

    030 - Using the 1-10 Scale to Evaluate & Improve Your Marriage
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Welcome to the Impact Marriage podcast — a podcast created to strengthen and inspire yours. This is a space for honest, real-life conversations about marriage—the joys, the challenges, the growth, the grit—and the practical tools that help couples build a God-honoring, joy-filled marriage. We’re your hosts, Allan & Nicole Blain. Married at 20, now 34 years married and counting, parents to six, and more in love today than when we began. We believe marriage is more than a commitment—it’s a calling, a mission, and one of the most powerful ways to impact the world. The heart behind this podcast is simple: to help you cultivate a passion-filled, mission-driven, relationship-rich marriage—one marked by faith, friendship, fun, intimacy, and unwavering commitment. If you’re ready to grow deeper, love stronger, and build a marriage that leaves a legacy…you’re in the right place. Connect with us: Website AllanAndNicole.com Instagram @ImpactMarriagePodcast YouTube @ImpactMarriagePodcast TikTok @ImpactMarriagePodcast Order Allan's book "Life's Hard Succeed Anyway” 

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