In this episode of The Lighten Up Project, Malcolm Grissom welcomes international author, editor, and writing coach Susan Crossman for a heartfelt, humorous conversation about rediscovering joy, embracing play, and finding laughter even when life gets complicated. Together, Malcolm and Susan explore why adults often lose their sense of play, how laughter strengthens relationships, and why creating emotionally safe environments matters at home and in the workplace. Memorable Quote “Play your way to your future. Just one step in front of the other.” What You’ll Hear The humor vs. play distinction Malcolm explores on the show: comedy and jokes are only two branches of the “humor tree”; play is the deeper root most adults have let go ofWhy Susan, as a book coach working with clients writing through trauma, doesn’t always find room for laughter in her work — and how she reads the room to know when play is welcomeA story about her late mother — a 40-year hemiplegic with an unstoppable sense of humor — breaking into hysterics over a game of charadesWhy workplaces often can’t tell the difference between “it’s never appropriate to play” and “we never learned when it’s appropriate to play” — and what psychological safety has to do with it Resources Mentioned Knowing when laughter is appropriate: Understanding the importance of empathy, emotional awareness, and reading the room, especially when someone is experiencing hardship.Learn more about Malcolm’s work and the laughter-as-a-business-tool philosophy at The World Laughter Organization™Reclaiming personal happiness: Susan discusses moving closer to the beach and rediscovering the activities that brought her joy as a child.Never give up on yourself: Susan's closing message encourages listeners to embrace personal growth, keep moving forward, and make play part of their journey. My favorite takeaway for this episode: “Growing up doesn't mean giving up play. It means discovering new ways to make room for it.” Featured Guest: Susan Crossman Susan Crossman is an international award winning author coach and editor who helps mission-focused coaches, consultants, healers and innovators write and publish compelling books that make a difference in their businesses and their world. She believes a well-written book can be a powerful force for good in our world and she takes delight in assisting her clients to greater author-ity. Connect with Susan Crossman: Website: https://awakeningauthor.com/Email: susancrossman.writer@gmail.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/susancrossman/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CrossmanCommunications Book: My Amazon Author Page: https://www.amazon.com/Susan-Crossman/e/B008D60YDQ%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share Free Gift: The Content Compass is your free guide to discovering the powerful book content you have already created but might not realize is waiting for you. Designed for mission-driven, spiritually-oriented coaches, healers, and entrepreneurs, it helps you move beyond the "blank page" by revealing the wisdom you've revealed through your work, journals, and client interactions. This checklist helps you organize your insights, share your transformational story authentically, and avoid generic, machine-generated content. Unearth your unique message to inspire others, build credibility, and make a meaningful impact, naturally and ethically. Link: https://content.compass.transformationalbook.com/home Meet the Host: Malcolm Grissom Malcolm Grissom, affectionately known as "The Stand-up C.E.O.," is a team-building and employee engagement expert. Malcolm, an award-winning actor, comedian, International speaker, and best-selling author, masterfully blends humor, improv, and business acumen to enhance team dynamics and profitability. As a certified laughter leader, he leverages the power of positive psychology and his social work background to create engaging, results-driven experiences. Whether inspiring executives, strengthening teams, or energizing audiences, Malcolm’s unique approach fosters connection, creativity, and success. His ability to transform corporate culture with humor and insight makes him a sought-after speaker and consultant. Follow Malcolm: Website: malcolmgrissom.com Facebook: facebook.com/malcolmgrissom LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/malcolmgrissom Stressed, stuck, or leading on autopilot? It’s not a motivation problem—it’s a connection problem. Malcolm’s weekly virtual improv classes boost engagement, collaboration, and retention—all while having fun. Register now for a complimentary month: https://malcolmgrissom.thrivecart.com/everyday-encores/ Share the Love ✨ If this episode lit something up in you… tag us on Instagram @HighVibeLeaders and let us know your biggest takeaway! 🦋 Don’t forget to rate & review — it helps us reach more conscious rebels like you. 🔊 Listen & Subscribe 🎧 Apple Podcasts 🎧 Spotify 🎧 Amazon Music 🎧 High Vibe Podcast Network