“If you have love in your heart, you can do it.” A priest spoke these words to a young Catholic nun struggling with guilt and anger. In 1991, a pregnant woman came to her convent seeking shelter for the night. Sister Lucy Kurien had to turn her away. That same night, the woman’s husband set her on fire. Six years later, with no money and little formal education, Sister Lucy founded Maher, meaning “mother’s home” in Marathi. Today, Maher has grown into 75 homes across seven Indian states, offering shelter and support to women, children, and men with nowhere else to go. Though she is a Catholic nun, the Bible, the Qur’an, and the Bhagavad Gita sit side by side on Maher’s altar, and everyone is welcomed without regard to religion, caste, or class. In this conversation, Sister Lucy shares the painful, moving, and inspiring stories that have shaped her life. She reflects on the faith and courage that enable her to serve others without worrying about where the resources will come from, the importance of simply being present for someone who is suffering, and her experience of the Divine Energy in everyone. Learn more about Maher: https://maherashram.org Timestamps00:00 "Jesus Came Today," and Lucy Didn't Treat Him Well 04:31 A Kerala Childhood: "I Thought Kerala Was the Whole World" 06:54 Mother Teresa and the Poorest of the Poor 11:44 Her Mother's Grief: Joining the Sisters of the Cross of Chavanod 16:05 "Save me, save me": The Night that Changed Everything 20:28 Guilt, Anger, and "If you have love in your heart" 23:44 From Two Rupees to 75 Homes in Seven States 30:38 "Love Is Our Religion": A Family, Not an Institution 38:25 The First Maher House: Market Scraps and Bird Grain 43:35 "Give Us Today Our Daily Bread": Trusting Providence 53:37 The Men Who Came to Kill Her, and the Children's Prayer 59:03 The Everywhere-Present Loving Divine Energy 01:01:34 Vipassana, the Dalai Lama, Jetsunma Tenzin Palmo, and Pope Francis 01:05:13 "When People Look at Me, They Should Feel Joy Instead of Pain" 01:09:04 The Woman Chained to a Tree: Mental Illness and Healing 01:14:48 The Power of Loving Presence 01:17:59 "I would rather starve": The Grant She Refused 01:20:01 A Closing Prayer and Song Intro and outro music by @BenBigelow3