The Bailey Way Podcast

Durelle & Samantha Bailey
  • 5.0 (7)
  • Relationships
  • Updated Weekly

Hosted by Durelle and Samantha Bailey — married for nine years and building life side by side — this show is a real, unfiltered look at what it takes to grow together intentionally. We believe marriage should be aspirational. Structured. Strategic. Not accidental. Each week, we share honest conversations about relationships, financial alignment, business, faith, personal growth, and the systems that have helped us move from instability to ownership — and from survival to vision. This isn’t about pretending to have it all figured out. It’s about choosing alignment, choosing growth, and building on purpose — the Bailey Way.

Episodes

  1. 21h ago

    5: Get You a Wife That Doesn't Play About You: Marriage, Boundaries & Standing Up for Yourself

    People see confidence. What they don't always see is the journey it took to find it. In this episode of The Bailey Way, Durelle and Samantha Bailey share the real stories behind some of their biggest lessons on self-respect, boundaries, and standing up for the people you love. From the gym incident that ended with an employee losing her job, to workplace conflicts, military leadership, people-pleasing, and learning to advocate for themselves, this conversation explores what it means to know your worth and teach people how to treat you. Sometimes, the most loving thing you can do for yourself, your marriage, and your future is refuse to tolerate disrespect. KEY POINTS:  Why Samantha refused to let someone disrespect her husband without consequences The gym incident that sparked one of their biggest marriage stories How people-pleasing nearly cost Durelle his confidence and peace Why setting boundaries changed Durelle's military career Samantha's approach to confronting disrespect with confidence, not chaos The workplace lesson every leader and employee needs to hear Why you have to teach people how to treat you How knowing your identity in God changes the way you handle conflict Why protecting your peace isn't the same as avoiding confrontation QUOTES:  "I don't care if you're the President of the United States... you just will not talk to me in any way that's demeaning or disrespectful." – Samantha Bailey  "Do not sacrifice your peace for their comfort." – Durelle Bailey  "You just raised your voice at me on a call, and you're a leader. I thought you were a better leader than that." – Samantha Bailey  "Get you a wife that don't play by you." – Durelle Bailey   "Nobody has the authority to disrespect you." – Samantha Bailey  RESOURCES:  Follow Samantha: IG: @samanthacassandra TikTok: @samanthacassandra_  Follow Durelle: IG: @durellebailey TikTok: @durellebailey The Bailey Way is produced by EPYC Media Network

  2. Jul 15

    4: Is Cohabitation Replacing Marriage? Why Fewer People Are Getting Married

    In this episode, Samantha and Durelle Bailey unpack the cultural, economic, and personal factors driving modern relationship trends. From shifting gender roles and financial independence to fear of commitment, social media, family history, and the search for the "perfect" partner, they explore why so many people want love but hesitate to commit. They also discuss the unique challenges facing Black families, the impact of changing societal norms, and why they still believe marriage remains one of the most powerful partnerships a person can build.  Tune in for a thoughtful, honest conversation about love, commitment, and building a life with intention in today's world. KEY POINTS:  Why marriage rates continue to decline The impact of financial independence on modern dating How social media fuels commitment issues Why fear may be keeping people single The difference between cohabitation and marriage How family history shapes relationship decisions Why successful people still long for companionship The benefits of marriage beyond romance How to overcome the fear of commitment QUOTES:  "Fear of commitment is a huge issue." – Samantha Bailey  "One thing remains true, which is people don't want to be alone." – Durelle Bailey  "Everybody, in my opinion, gets to a point where they just want to love somebody and they want to be loved in return."  – Samantha Bailey  "Find your wife, build your life." – Samantha & Durelle Bailey Follow Samantha: IG: @samanthacassandra TikTok: @samanthacassandra_  Follow Durelle: IG: @durellebailey TikTok: @durellebailey The Bailey Way is produced by EPYC Media Network

  3. Jul 8

    3: Marriage Is the Biggest Business Decision You’ll Ever Make

    In this episode, Samantha and Durelle Bailey challenge the way we think about marriage by exploring why choosing a spouse is one of the biggest life and business decisions you'll ever make. From finances and communication to shared values, long-term vision, and building wealth together, they unpack the practical side of partnership that most couples never talk about. Drawing from their own journey of marrying young, building businesses, buying homes, earning degrees, and creating a life together, they share why love alone isn't enough and what qualities actually matter when choosing a life partner. This episode serves as a reminder that the right partner doesn't just change your life; they help you build it.  KEY POINTS:  Why marriage is the biggest investment you'll ever make The qualities that matter more than attraction How to choose a partner you can build with Why shared values create long-term success The power of annual relationship strategy meetings How communication prevents resentment What couples should discuss before marriage Why vision, sacrifice, and teamwork matter more than chemistry alone QUOTES:  "The person that you marry is the co-founder of your life." – Samantha Bailey  "It's not that we treat our marriage like a business, it's that we handle business in our marriage." – Durelle Bailey  "Everybody's jealous of what you got, but nobody's jealous of how you got it." – Durelle Bailey  RESOURCES:  Follow Samantha: IG: @samanthacassandra TikTok: @samanthacassandra_  Follow Durelle: IG: @durellebailey TikTok: @durellebailey The Bailey Way is produced by EPYC Media Network

  4. Jul 1

    2: Why We Waited 9 Years to Start a Family

    After 9 years of marriage and 12 years together, Samantha and Durelle Bailey finally open up about why they chose to wait, what they learned during that season, and how their very different childhoods shaped the parents they hope to become. On today’s episode of The Bailey Way, their conversation goes far beyond baby fever and parenting plans. Durelle shares the painful realities of growing up without healthy parental examples, navigating childhood trauma, and the commitment he's made to break generational cycles. Samantha, on the other hand, reflects on being raised in a stable, loving home and the lessons she hopes to carry into motherhood. Together, they discuss healing, intentional marriage, emotional maturity, discipline, faith, family, and why becoming parents starts long before a child is born. KEY POINTS:  Why we waited 9 years to have kids The truth behind our "baby timeline" Growing up with completely different childhoods The day Durelle's heart was broken as a child Breaking generational curses before becoming parents How trauma followed us into marriage The healing work required before having children Learning to parent without healthy examples Rethinking discipline, correction, and communication God's provision through unexpected people Preparing for parenthood beyond diapers and strollers On building a family legacy that changes everything QUOTES:  “I'm actually excited to be a dad to even heal the parts of me that didn't get to experience a safe pamper.” – Durelle Bailey “It's not just telling your kids you love them, but showing up for them and making sure that they feel that.” - Samantha Bailey RESOURCES:  Follow Samantha:IG: @samanthacassandraTikTok: @samanthacassandra_  Follow Durelle:IG: @durellebaileyTikTok: @durellebailey The Bailey Way is produced by EPYC Media Network

  5. Jun 24

    1: I Retired My Wife at 31: How We Left Corporate & Military Life

    In this episode of The Bailey Way, Samantha and Durelle Bailey share the full story behind one of the biggest decisions of their lives: leaving their corporate and military careers to pursue entrepreneurship, content creation, and a life built on purpose. From Samantha's dream of climbing the corporate ladder to Durelle's journey toward becoming a doctor, neither of them planned to become entrepreneurs. But after job loss, toxic work environments, unexpected opportunities, viral content, and years of building businesses on the side, they found themselves facing a question many people wrestle with: What if the life you're chasing isn't the life you're meant to live? This episode is an honest conversation about fear, faith, risk, financial preparation, identity, career pivots, and what it really takes to bet on yourself. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a job, questioned the traditional path, or wondered whether it's time to make a change, then thiis conversation is for you. KEY POINTS:  Why Samantha was devastated when her dream job disappeared The toxic corporate environment that nearly burned her out Durelle's journey from the Air Force to medical school aspirations The viral moment that changed everything How they built businesses while still working full-time The fears they faced before leaving their careers Why financial preparation matters before taking a leap What they learned about faith, purpose, and trusting closed doors QUOTES:  "I genuinely could not have dreamt up a better plan or a better life for us than what we thought we wanted." – Samantha Bailey "Make sure that you're building that thing while you have an income to sustain what you're building, don't just leap onto nothing." – Durelle Bailey "I trusted him. And I trusted that if anybody wanted to make sure we were in a good financial position, it was you." – Samantha Bailey RESOURCES:

  6. Jun 17

    You See Our Life Online… But Here’s Our Real Story | The Bailey Way Official Trailer

    Welcome to The Bailey Way Podcast with Samantha and Durelle Bailey. People see the lifestyle, the travel, the marriage, the business, and the beautiful moments online. But what they do not always see is the work behind it: the conversations, decisions, sacrifices, healing, communication, faith, and intentionality that make it all possible. In this official trailer, Samantha and Durelle introduce the heart of The Bailey Way - a relationship, lifestyle, and personal growth podcast about what it actually takes to build a healthy marriage, a strong partnership, and a meaningful life together. From marriage and money to faith, leadership, family planning, gender roles, healing from childhood wounds, and building a shared vision, this podcast goes beyond the highlight reel and into the real conversations behind the life they are creating together. Whether you are married, engaged, dating, preparing for a future relationship, building with your partner, or simply looking for healthier conversations about love, purpose, faith, family, and personal growth, this podcast is for you. New episodes every Wednesday.  Join Samantha and Durelle as they share the stories, lessons, systems, and values that have helped them build a life they love - their way. Follow Samantha: IG: @samanthacassandra TikTok: @samanthacassandra_  Follow Durelle: IG: @durellebailey TikTok: @durellebailey The Bailey Way is produced by EPYC Media Network

  • 6 Episodes

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
7 Ratings

About

Hosted by Durelle and Samantha Bailey — married for nine years and building life side by side — this show is a real, unfiltered look at what it takes to grow together intentionally. We believe marriage should be aspirational. Structured. Strategic. Not accidental. Each week, we share honest conversations about relationships, financial alignment, business, faith, personal growth, and the systems that have helped us move from instability to ownership — and from survival to vision. This isn’t about pretending to have it all figured out. It’s about choosing alignment, choosing growth, and building on purpose — the Bailey Way.

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  • Creator
    Durelle & Samantha Bailey
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    6
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © All rights reserved.

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