The Wisdom Trust Podcast for Gay Men 50+

Loren Crawford

The Widsom Podcast is for gay men in the second half of life who are seeking deeper connection, greater purpose, and a stronger sense of belonging. Through honest conversations, personal stories, and thoughtful discussions, we explore what it means to build a life that feels fully alive after 50. Together we'll talk about friendship, purpose, wellbeing, spirituality, relationships, personal growth, and navigating life's transitions with wisdom and authenticity. Whether you're looking for your next chapter, your people, or simply a reminder that you're not alone, you'll find meaningful conversations and practical insights to support your journey. Because nobody should have to navigate this chapter of life alone.

  1. 4d ago

    Still Becoming, Still Notorious: Gay Life After 60 with M Sebastian Araujo

    Send us Fan Mail What if some of the most interesting parts of your life are still unfolding? M Sebastian Araujo joins Loren Crawford for a colourful conversation about love, creativity, community and staying open to change after 60. From New York’s fashion world and AIDS activism to life in the Vermont woods, Sebastian shares a story full of unexpected turns. We explore his partnership of more than 40 years, living with HIV, his work in patient advocacy, and his return to painting, drawing and writing. With humour and candour, he reflects on being visible as an older gay man, finding your people, and giving yourself permission to keep becoming. Join our free Wisdom Trust community for gay men over 50: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about Explore your next chapter with Loren in a free Next Chapter Clarity Session: https://loren-next-chapter-clarity.lorendc.chatgpt.site/ Read Sebastian’s writing: https://substack.com/@msebastianaraujo Contains frank language and discussion of HIV/AIDS, loss and sexuality. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewisdomtrust5 👉Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewisdomtrust50 👉Substack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Still Becoming, Still Notorious: Gay Life After 60 with M Sebastian Araujo
  2. Oct 15

    His Family Disinherited Him. He Built a Life of Joy.

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when people you love let you down—and moving forward feels difficult? Psychotherapist Cam Delgado joins Loren Crawford to share a life shaped by love, service, loss and reinvention. Cam recounts being disinherited after a false story about his HIV status reached his parents. He describes the painful years that followed and the small practices that helped him find his way toward a more fulfilling life. Now 74, he reflects on caring for a partner who died of AIDS, his “Bliss Report,” his personal view of forgiveness and the possibilities that remain when we keep exploring. His guiding image is a lotus growing from mud: something beautiful emerging from painful ground. An honest conversation for gay men over 50 about letting go and making room for what comes next. Continue the conversation in The Wisdom Trust, a community for gay men over 50 seeking deeper connection, friendship and meaning: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about Follow The Wisdom Trust Podcast for more conversations about living fully in the second half of life. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewisdomtrust5 👉Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewisdomtrust50 👉Substack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    His Family Disinherited Him. He Built a Life of Joy.
  3. Oct 5

    Feeling Stuck After 50? Find What Makes You Feel Alive

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when you reach the second half of life and realize you’re not quite sure what comes next? For Peter Langlois, that question emerged after he walked away from something that had consumed an enormous amount of his time and energy. Suddenly, there was space—and with it came the question: What now? An unexpected invitation led Peter to explore purpose and passion. What he discovered affected him enough that he eventually became a certified Passion Test facilitator himself. But this conversation is about much more than one tool. Peter and I talk about finding purpose without making it another achievement, revisiting things we once loved, taking chances later in life, friendship, loneliness, retirement, trusting other people and letting go of other people’s ideas about what our lives should look like. And Peter offers a wonderfully simple challenge for this stage of life: “Don’t wait. Just try it.” Because purpose after 50 doesn’t have to mean finding one grand mission. Sometimes it begins by noticing what makes you curious. What gives you energy? What have you always wanted to try? What makes you feel alive? The Wisdom Trust is a podcast and community for gay men over 50 exploring connection, friendship, purpose, conscious aging and a richer second half of life. Want to move from listening to participating? Join The Wisdom Trust to meet other like-minded gay men, take part in live conversations, respond to community prompts, share what you’re navigating and begin building deeper connections and friendships. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewisdomtrust5 👉Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewisdomtrust50 👉Substack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Feeling Stuck After 50? Find What Makes You Feel Alive
  4. Sep 24

    Gay Men Over 50: Is Comfort Keeping You From Becoming Who You Really Are?

    Send us Fan Mail Have you become comfortable—or have you become yourself? For gay men over 50, the second half of life can bring questions we may have spent decades avoiding. Who am I now? What am I holding onto because it feels safe? How much of my life reflects what I genuinely want—and how much comes from who I learned I was supposed to be? In this episode of The Wisdom Trust, Loren Crawford talks with psychotherapist and Somatic Experiencing teacher Burns Galloway about inner work, authenticity, aging, identity, purpose and connection. Inner work isn't limited to therapy. It can include spiritual practice, coaching, self-inquiry, listening to the body, questioning old beliefs and becoming more conscious about how we want to live. Burns also challenges some familiar assumptions: Do we always need a purpose? What happens when we stop performing for other people? And can comfort itself become something that keeps us from changing? Perhaps most importantly, they explore why meaningful change can be difficult in isolation. The Wisdom Trust is a podcast and community for gay men over 50 who want deeper connection, meaningful friendship, honest conversation and a richer second half of life. Join the community!  Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewisdomtrust5 👉Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewisdomtrust50 👉Substack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Gay Men Over 50: Is Comfort Keeping You From Becoming Who You Really Are?
  5. Sep 16

    Gay Men Over 50: It’s Time to Find Your People

    Send us Fan Mail What does it take to rebuild your life—and find your people—after 50? In this episode of The Wisdom Trust, Loren Crawford talks with Steven Nofziger, a 55-year-old gay father whose journey has included a conservative religious upbringing, coming out later in life, rebuilding family relationships, moving across the country, finding love, and creating a new community. When Steven moved to Boston, he made a decision: he was going to show up. He joined a gay ski club, a tennis group, a running group, and Gay Fathers of Greater Boston. Slowly, those experiences became friendships, belonging, and a new life. Today, Steven helps create the kind of community he once needed himself. Loren and Steven also talk about the “second adolescence” some men experience when coming out later, sobriety, joy, creativity, staying active, friendship, resilience, and the wisdom we inherit from gay men who came before us. At the heart of this conversation is a simple challenge: Finding your people requires showing up. If you're a gay man over 50 looking for deeper friendship, connection, chosen family, and a richer second half of life, join us inside The Wisdom Trust. And when you arrive, don't stay on the sidelines. Come introduce yourself. We want to know you. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewisdomtrust5 👉Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewisdomtrust50 👉Substack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Gay Men Over 50: It’s Time to Find Your People
  6. Sep 9

    Gay Men Over 50: It’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Yourself

    Send us Fan Mail Is it ever too late to reinvent yourself? After more than 20 years in real estate, Ray Aubel reached a point in midlife when the career he'd built no longer felt rewarding. Then the pandemic created space to ask a bigger question: What did he actually want to do with the rest of his life? That question eventually led Ray to train as a hypnotherapist and positivity coach working largely with the LGBTQ+ community. In this episode of The Wisdom Trust, Loren Crawford talks with Ray about changing direction later in life, the fear that comes with starting again, the old emotional patterns many gay men carry, and why our past doesn't have to dictate our future. They also explore shame, internalized homophobia, emotional awareness, purpose, and the importance of being genuinely ready for change. Ray's message for anyone wondering whether they've waited too long: "It's never too late and you're never too old." The Wisdom Trust is a podcast and community for gay men over 50 exploring friendship, purpose, belonging, reinvention, chosen family, conscious aging, and what it means to create a richer second half of life. Join The Wisdom Trust community for more conversations about navigating this stage of life together. Come Meet Your People at The Wisdom Trust: 👉Skool: https://www.skool.com/the-wisdom-trust/about 👉Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewisdomtrust5 👉Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewisdomtrust50 👉Substack: https://thewisdomtrust.substack.com 👉YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheWisdomTrust50 👉Web: https://wisdomtrust50.com/ 👉Podcast webpage: https://wisdomtrust50.com/conversations

    Gay Men Over 50: It’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Yourself

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The Widsom Podcast is for gay men in the second half of life who are seeking deeper connection, greater purpose, and a stronger sense of belonging. Through honest conversations, personal stories, and thoughtful discussions, we explore what it means to build a life that feels fully alive after 50. Together we'll talk about friendship, purpose, wellbeing, spirituality, relationships, personal growth, and navigating life's transitions with wisdom and authenticity. Whether you're looking for your next chapter, your people, or simply a reminder that you're not alone, you'll find meaningful conversations and practical insights to support your journey. Because nobody should have to navigate this chapter of life alone.

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