Faith, Hope & Stories

Epworth United Methodist Church - Rehoboth Beach, Delaware

On "Faith, Hope and Stories," we meet people in our community who are sowing seeds of faith, hope and love. Some you may already know and others you don't know--yet. They're your neighbors and they have a mission, a calling, a purpose. These are their stories. Faith, Hope and Stories is a production of Epworth United Methodist Church in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware. For more information, go to our website: https://epworth.faith/podcast/

  1. 4d ago

    One family's story

    Plucked From the Pews: Susie Hearn on Family, Calling, and Starting OverLee Ann Walling talks with Susie Hearn, an ordained minister, about the unexpected path that led her from Texas (by way of Egypt) and o Delaware. The conversation centers on how Susie and her husband Larry became the primary caregivers for their infant granddaughter after the sudden death of their daughter—and what it means to parent as grandparents.Susie also shares how her call to ministry grew out of retail work, personal loss, and hospital chaplaincy. She reflects on a decade living in Egypt, the importance of welcoming communities, and why Epworth feels like home. Key topicsHow Susie and her husband went from being grandparents to becoming the day-to-day parents of their granddaughter, Holly.The sudden death of Holly’s mother and how the family navigated caregiving and custody.The difference between being a grandparent and being a parent, especially when setting boundaries and making decisions.Holly’s ADHD, school challenges, and the support she receives.Susie’s hopeful story about her son, who struggled in school and later became a physicist and radiation oncologist.Why Susie believes that love—not rigid family roles—is what makes a family.Susie’s path from retail management to seminary, ministry, and hospital chaplaincy.How a painful pregnancy loss helped shape her desire to serve others in hospitals.Why Susie and Larry left Texas, and how politics, climate, and raising a girl influenced their decision.Susie’s memories of nearly 10 years in Cairo, including Egyptian hospitality and everyday acts of kindness.Finding a welcoming church community and seeing Holly connect with church activities and summer camp.Timestamps00:00 — Introducing “Plucked From the Pews” 01:29 — Susie’s family story and becoming Holly’s guardian 04:20 — Custody, conservatorship, and family relationships 05:11 — The shift from grandparent to parent 06:03 — Holly’s ADHD and the family’s support 07:31 — Advice for grandparents raising grandchildren: one day at a time 08:31 — Holly’s strengths and challenges at school 09:29 — A hopeful perspective from Susie’s son’s story 10:26 — Talking honestly about family, age, and love 11:45 — Susie’s path from retail into ministry 14:24 — Personal loss and the calling to hospital chaplaincy 16:12 — Faith, suffering, and finding meaning without blaming God 16:41 — Why Texas became untenable for Susie and her family 18:06 — Chaplaincy, compassion, and meeting people where they are 19:00 — Open and affirming church communities 20:55 — Leaving Texas and finding a new home in Delaware 23:12 — How a short-term opportunity in Egypt became a 10-year adventure 23:37 — Egyptian hospitality and the kindness of strangers 26:24 — Finding community at Epworth 27:50 — Holly’s connection to church and summer camp 28:46 — How Susie and Larry met and eventually married 31:33 — Gratitude for the warmth and friendship of a church community

    One family's story
  2. Sep 27

    Red Rocks Spirituality

    The Salt and Light Express, faith, grief, and finding the next right thingPastor Bo Gordy-Stith interviews Lee Ann Walling about her debut novel, The Salt and Light Express, and the spiritual questions running through it. The conversation also touches on her path at Epworth, her work in communications, and how her own life experiences shaped the book’s themes of grief, community, forgiveness, and love. Key topicsBo introduces Lee Ann Walling as Epworth’s podcast host, musician, and longtime community builder, including her work on the Gordon's Pond Trail and in media and communications for nonprofits.Lee Ann talks about The Salt and Light Express, the first of two planned novels, and how spirituality is woven into everyday life rather than limited to church settings.In the novel, Chris grieves the death of her partner Sally, travels west in an RV, and begins piecing her life back together in Moab, Utah.The book explores how community forms among strangers, including people Chris initially misjudges, such as two Texans in a large motorhome and Jared, a Southern Baptist preacher who becomes a friend.Lee Ann discusses centering prayer, mindfulness, and the tension between wanting to quiet the mind and wanting to pray for specific outcomes like safety, strength, or healing.The novel questions what core beliefs are actually required to live as a Christian in 21st-century America, with the teachings of Jesus and the Beatitudes as a central reference point.Community and local action come up as a contrast to national polarization, with Lee Ann emphasizing feeding people, serving face to face, and working together through practical ministries.The story includes a major forgiveness arc involving a teenage driver whose inattention causes the fatal accident, and Lee Ann explains how research into Delaware law shaped that plotline.Another major thread is found family, as Chris tries to reconnect with relatives who are judgmental and discovers belonging elsewhere.The conversation also covers Claire, a Black character who becomes central to the love story, and how Lee Ann worked through questions of representation and stereotypes with a sensitivity reader.She closes by describing how Epworth has become a place where she feels known and able to contribute through music and podcasting.Timestamps00:00 - Intro to Lee Ann Walling, Epworth, and her creative path 03:08 - Chris, grief, and the spiritual landscape of the novel 04:37 - Misjudging people and discovering community 05:37 - Jesus, the Beatitudes, and the book’s faith questions 07:02 - Prayer, mindfulness, and centering prayer 08:41 - What prayer means in everyday life 09:55 - From autobiographical fiction to a more plotted second novel 12:06 - The next right thing as a life philosophy 13:06 - Forgiveness, non-dual thinking, and community surprises 14:28 - Why community matters more than national outrage 16:25 - Family rejection and reaching for connection 17:33 - Family research, ancestry, and writing from experience 20:09 - Forgiveness in the accident storyline 22:45 - Forgiveness as ongoing practice 23:15 - Spiritual direction and the question, “What were you hoping for?” 26:32 - Claire, love, and the emotional stakes of vulnerability 29:02 - Why the book is hopeful and works well for book clubs 30:20 - How the book is being categorized and what the next novel will explore 31:49 - Leaning into LGBTQ storytelling and lived experience 32:19 - The title, the Beatitudes, and the audiobook 33:13 - Closing thoughts on Epworth and finding a place to serve

    Red Rocks Spirituality
  3. Sep 20

    Raising a Child of Faith

    Raising a Child of Faith with Joy Gordy-StithBack to school season is a natural time to talk about the spiritual side of a child’s formation, and this conversation focuses on what it really takes to raise a child of faith. Lee Ann Walling talks with Joy Gordy-Stith, youth minister at Epworth, about helping teens navigate social media, anxiety, and real-life pressures while giving them a safe place to ask questions and grow.Joy also shares what has shaped her own faith, what church community can do for young people, and how Epworth tries to make youth and children’s ministry relational, not performative. What works with young peopleJoy says the simplest approach is often the best: ask them about what they care aboutHer youth group talks about goats, cars, school plays, and real life issuesShe is often surprised by the insight teenagers bring to faith conversationsWhat parents should aim forJoy says the goal is not control, but foundationKids learn by watching, not just by being told what faith isChurch should become a habit and a natural part of life, not a source of resentmentShe encourages parents to think about what priorities their family is modelingHow the broader church can support youthGet to know the kids by nameBuild community beyond the youth roomShow up in ways that extend beyond SundaysJoy remembers encouragement notes from church during a hard first year of college as a powerful example of supportWhy church should feel like a breath of fresh airJoy wants youth to feel safe, loved, and free to ask questionsShe wants church to be life-giving, not a burden or choreHer deepest hope is that every young person knows there is nothing they could do that would make her stop caring about themTimestamps00:00 - Introducing Joy Gordy-Stith and the question of raising a child of faith 01:08 - Why teens need a safe place in a noisy, online world 02:57 - Social media pressure, bullying, and being affected even off-platform 03:54 - Why asking kids about their interests opens real conversation 04:59 - What youth are actually carrying: family stress, conflict, and hard realities 06:26 - Older students helping younger students find confidence 07:15 - Youth group ground rules: respect, no phones, no recording, confidentiality 09:28 - The story of Benny, the church dog who became part of the ministry 11:21 - What growing up as a pastor’s kid taught Joy about faith 12:42 - The downside of being a clergy child in public 14:49 - Parenting faith through questions, habits, and example 17:12 - Why families prioritize what they value, including sports and church 19:19 - What parents can hope for when kids leave home 21:18 - Building support by knowing kids personally 22:58 - Progressive dinners, lock-ins, and other youth activities 25:56 - Children’s time and why getting kids comfortable in worship matters 27:40 - How Sunday school builds relationships and uses hands-on learning 29:38 - Helping kids explore their own relationship with God 31:02 - Joy’s faith spectrum and making room for honest wrestling 32:00 - Showing kids love, grace, and steady presence 33:32 - Youth service projects and the importance of not using kids as free labor 36:04 - Youth helping with a Christmas carol fundraiser for Miriam’s Table 36:35 - The ministry of simply knowing kids, remembering names, and showing up

    Raising a Child of Faith
  4. Sep 13

    Murray Archibald: Love, Creativity and CAMP

    Murray Archibald on faith, creativity, and building Camp RehobothThis conversation traces Murray Archibald’s life from a preacher’s-kid upbringing in Alabama to co-founding CAMP Rehoboth and helping shape a more welcoming community in Rehoboth Beach. He also reflects on the spiritual breakthrough that reoriented his life, the role of creativity in his faith, and the grief and resilience that followed Steve Elkins’ death. Key topicsIn this episode, Murray Archibald shares how being raised as a preacher’s kid, preacher’s grandkid, and preacher’s great-grandkid shaped his early worldview in North Alabama and North Georgia.He talks candidly about coming out in the late 1960s and early 1970s, feeling the church’s condemnation, and eventually walking away from organized religion for years.Murray describes a powerful spiritual awakening in New York during the AIDS era, which he experienced as hearing God say, “You are my child,” and which reoriented his entire life.He explains how that awakening became a call to serve the community rather than ordination, especially in the context of AIDS and LGBTQ exclusion.Murray recounts meeting Steve Elkins in the White House during the Carter administration, including the chance chain of events that led to a private White House tour and their lasting relationship.He details the origins of CAMP Rehoboth, including the phrase “Create a More Positive Rehoboth,” the influence of Rehoboth’s Methodist campground history, and the early organizing work that followed.He discusses the organization’s mission as connector and community builder, emphasizing neighbor-to-neighbor change over confrontational activism.Murray reflects on the AIDS crisis, the loss of friends in New York, local fundraising efforts, and how that work prepared them to build Camp Rehoboth.He speaks about Steve’s illness, aggressive lymphoma, and death in 2018, and how faith, trust, and community support helped him carry that grief.He describes returning to church at Epworth, feeling welcomed home, and later helping guide the congregation toward becoming a reconciling church.Timestamps00:00 - Murray’s biography and why his story matters 01:30 - Growing up in a family of Methodist ministers 02:48 - Coming out, church condemnation, and leaving religion behind 04:56 - The spiritual breakthrough that “turned my world right side up” 05:55 - AIDS, New York, and the first sense of divine calling 07:19 - Serving community rather than seeking ordination 08:18 - Meeting Steve Elkins at the White House 10:42 - Why Camp Rehoboth was founded 11:57 - “Create a More Positive Rehoboth” and the original concept 12:28 - Building the nonprofit and organizing the first efforts 14:34 - Camp Rehoboth’s mission as community connector 15:49 - The house-and-heart logo and becoming part of the town 16:17 - AIDS in Rehoboth, local losses, and activist work 17:50 - How AIDS organizing prepared them to build Camp Rehoboth 19:33 - Persevering through resistance and overextension 20:25 - Steve’s lymphoma diagnosis and rapid decline 22:17 - Faith as strength during illness and loss 23:15 - Journaling through grief and the legacy of Steve’s life 24:31 - Spirituality and creativity as one connected life 26:48 - Creativity exists in everyone 27:19 - The book project, poetry, and using journals as source material 29:21 - Morning pages as a form of guidance and prayer 31:21 - Returning to church and finding a spiritual home 33:04 - Helping make Epworth a reconciling congregation 34:01 - Board leadership, church governance, and current involvement 35:53 - Closing thanks and Murray’s lasting legacy

    Murray Archibald: Love, Creativity and CAMP
  5. Aug 9

    Dignity, Grace, and Better Angels

    The conversation with Delaware Congresswoman Sarah McBride delves into her personal inspiration, the role of faith and values in guiding her decision-making, the support and acceptance from her family, navigating online discourse and real-life conversations, and responding to adversity with dignity and grace. The conversation covers the importance of representing constituents, serving all constituents, the atmosphere for compromise, cultural regression, the role of imperfect allies, and hope for the future. It emphasizes the need for elected leaders to meet people where they are, serve all constituents, and work towards compromise and change. Websites: https://mcbride.house.gov/ https://sarahmcbride.com/ "Tomorrow Will Be Different" by Sarah McBride Takeaways Navigating through adversity with graceThe role of faith and values in guiding decision-making Importance of representing constituentsThe need for compromise and reaching across the aisle Chapters 00:00 Personal Inspiration and Motivation01:58 Faith, Values, and Decision-Making05:07 Family Support and Acceptance10:09 Online Discourse and Real-Life Conversations15:00 Responding to Adversity with Dignity17:30 Representing Constituents and Meeting People Where They Are19:14 Serving All Constituents and the Role of Elected Leaders21:19 Atmosphere for Compromise and Reaching Across the Aisle25:29 Cultural Regression and Strategies for Change27:25 The Role of Imperfect Allies and Hope for the Future

    Dignity, Grace, and Better Angels
  6. Aug 2

    Faith, Love, and Our Divisions

    Summary In this episode, the Rev. Dr. Vicki Gordy-Stith shares insights on faith, love, social justice, and how to find hope and resilience through spiritual practices. She discusses the disconnect between the core teachings of Jesus and our dividedness as a country and practical ways to live out faith in community. Keywords faith, love, social justice, hope, spiritual practices, Christianity, inclusion, resilience, community, God Key Topics Core teachings of Jesus and their relevance todayThe evolution of understanding God's nature in scriptureThe role of social justice in faith communitiesSpiritual practices for resilience and hopeThe importance of inclusion and love in Christianity Guest Name The Rev. Dr. Vicki Gody-Stith, lead pastor of Epworth United Methodist Church in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware Sound Bites "Read scripture through the lens of Jesus, who embodies love.""The opposite of faith is not doubt, but certainty.""When we focus on community, we see our neighbors as family." Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Story of Faith Journey 02:00 The Core Teachings of Jesus and Their Relevance 02:28 Veering Off Course: Power, Violence, and Misinterpretation 03:39 The Growth of Understanding God in Scripture 05:07 The Sermon on the Mount and Its Message 06:04 Fleeing Christianity and Personal Experiences with God 07:25 The Expanding Understanding of God's Family 08:51 Interpreting Scripture in Context 10:01 Reading Scripture Through the Lens of Jesus 11:47 The Inclusive Life of Jesus and Its Significance 12:40 Faith, Doubt, and Certainty 13:35 Addressing Disillusionment with Christianity and God 14:41 Approaching the News with Faith and Prayer 17:52 Community and Local Action as a Response to Division 20:52 Social Justice as an Expression of God's Love 22:39 The Interconnection of Personal and Social Holiness in Methodism 23:37 Practices of Inclusion and Belonging at Epworth 28:57 Spiritual Practices for Resilience: Gratitude, Awe, and Mindfulness 33:50 The Power of Service and God's Spirit in Us 35:34 Closing Remarks and Themes for Future Focus

    Faith, Love, and Our Divisions

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On "Faith, Hope and Stories," we meet people in our community who are sowing seeds of faith, hope and love. Some you may already know and others you don't know--yet. They're your neighbors and they have a mission, a calling, a purpose. These are their stories. Faith, Hope and Stories is a production of Epworth United Methodist Church in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware. For more information, go to our website: https://epworth.faith/podcast/