The Raising Bilinguals Podcast

David & Ana
  • 5.0 (10)
  • Parenting
  • Updated Weekly

Practical guidance for parents raising bilingual kids — whether you're a native speaker, a language learner, or somewhere in between. Each week, we explore the real challenges of building a bilingual family: staying consistent, choosing a strategy, and raising children who actually use both languages. Hosted by the team behind How to Spanish Podcast, The Raising Bilinguals Podcast combines research-backed insights with honest stories from families actually doing this. Join our community at theraisingbilinguals.com

  1. 5d ago

    Why "Bilingual" Classes Aren't Really Bilingual — And What to Do Instead (New Host)

    Season 2 opens with a big announcement: Anne — who joined us as a guest in Episode 12 — is now a permanent co-host. And the three of us wasted no time getting into something real: the frustrating gap between what gets labeled "bilingual" and what actually provides immersive exposure for your child. We share our own disappointed searches for resources and classes, explain why constant translation works against acquisition, and talk about what to do when the community you need simply doesn't exist yet. Spoiler: you build it. What We Cover The big Season 2 announcement: Anne joins as co-host Why most "bilingual" resources aren't genuinely immersive — and how to tell the difference Why translation is a trap: when everything is translated, children learn to wait instead of acquire Why children need to see other children using the target language — and what one French bookshop moment did for our son's motivation Anne on introducing Mandarin: even full English immersion at home wasn't enough — the culture and community had to be built deliberately From consuming to creating: Anne's Instagram account, the community meetups, and what happens when you stop waiting for the resource to exist The Raising Bilinguals community: now hosting online meetups with children interacting across languages (German, Chinese, English, Spanish)   Join the community and get access to the episode guides with practical strategies by age  *first 50 users get special launch price: https://community.theraisingbilinguals.com/ Checkout the app: https://studio.com/howtospanishpodcast/raising-bilinguals Visit our webpage: https://www.theraisingbilinguals.com Our Spanish Project: https://www.howtospanishpodcast.com

  2. Sep 1

    Ann: 3 Kids, 4 Languages — What We All Need to Hear

    Our second and final guest episode of Season 1 — and the one that will carry you into Season 2. Anna is a lifelong friend who has been raising her three children in English, American Sign Language, and Mandarin for nearly nine years. She is Mexican, Spanish is her first language, and none of the languages she's teaching her children are her native tongue. In this conversation she shares what each of her three children has taught her, what the trickiest age really is (and when it gets easier), the sandwich rule for mixed-language social situations, and what she would do differently — which turns out to be the most honest advice in the whole season. What We Cover Anna's story: homeschooled from age 6, self-taught English through audio immersion, six months in England at 16 that changed everything Why she and her husband decided to raise their children multilingually before they were even married What each child has taught her: the firstborn pioneer, the middle child still in process, the youngest beneficiary The pandemic effect: her firstborn at 2½ was in total English immersion and arrived at playgrounds expecting everyone to speak English How siblings speak to each other in English by choice — and why that changes everything for the younger ones The sandwich rule: how to address children who speak different languages in the same moment What metalinguistic awareness looks like at age 5 (asking for vocabulary mid-conversation) and age 8 (carrying a word all day until she can ask for the translation) Why ages 3–5 are the trickiest — and why after 8 both languages are fully there Emotional conversations in the target language: why staying in it for the hard ones is the most important thing she'd do differently ASL and Mandarin: how to introduce a language you don't speak natively Where to find her real-life multilingual family content Follow Ann's journey: https://www.instagram.com/ann.sprinkles Join the community and get access to the episode guides with practical strategies by age *first 50 users get special launch price: https://community.theraisingbilinguals.com/ Checkout the app: https://studio.com/howtospanishpodcast/raising-bilinguals Visit our webpage: https://www.theraisingbilinguals.com Our Spanish Project: https://www.howtospanishpodcast.com

  3. Aug 25

    How to Raise a Bilingual Child When Your Partner Doesn't Speak the Language ft. @BirdsongToys - EP11

    Our first guest episode. Ashley Rivera grew up in Colombia, moved to the US at 11, and is now raising her daughter Olivia in Spanish — while her husband speaks only English. She shares her Three C's framework (Connection, Consistency, Community), what the science says about language acquisition from the womb, and her very practical playbook for making bilingualism work when you're the only person in your home who speaks the language. Plus: the tip about preparing vocabulary before major parenting milestones that we wish we'd heard sooner. 🐦Follow Ashley HERE https://birdsongtoys.com https://www.youtube.com/@BirdsongToys https://www.instagram.com/birdsong_toys/ Join the community and get access to the episode guides with practical strategies by age *first 50 users get special launch price: https://community.theraisingbilinguals.com/ Checkout the app: https://studio.com/howtospanishpodcast/raising-bilinguals Visit our webpage: https://www.theraisingbilinguals.com Our Spanish Project: https://www.howtospanishpodcast.com

  4. Aug 18

    You Don't Have to Be a Native Speaker to Pass on a Language - EP 10

    This is Episode 10 — the Season 1 finale. Ana is flying solo today, and she's talking directly to non-native speaker parents: the ones who wonder if they're good enough, if their accent is a problem, if they're simply crazy for trying. Spoiler: they're not. She covers where the "native speaker only" myth comes from, why it has no basis in the research, what non-native bilingual parenting actually looks like from the inside, and why any consistent exposure — however imperfect — is better than none. Plus a recap of everything Season 1 covered, and a preview of what's coming next. What We Cover The "native speaker" myth: where it came from, and why it keeps parents from starting when they absolutely could What bilingualism research actually shows about cognitive, social, and professional outcomes — and why it doesn't ask who taught the language Non-native bilingual parenting as its own distinct field of study — and what the research is finding about its specific risks and outcomes Ana's honest account of being called "crazy" while pregnant and why that comment still resurfaces What actually matters: consistency, emotional connection, and presence over perfection The modeling argument: showing your child what it looks like to learn, make mistakes, correct them, and keep going Any exposure counts — from full immersion to one book at bedtime Season 1 recap across all 10 episodes Preview of Episodes 11 and 12: our first guests, both non-native speaker parents from the community Join the community and get access to the episode guides with practical strategies by age  *first 50 users get special launch price: https://community.theraisingbilinguals.com/ Checkout the app: https://studio.com/howtospanishpodcast/raising-bilinguals Visit our webpage: https://www.theraisingbilinguals.com Our Spanish Project: https://www.howtospanishpodcast.com

  5. Aug 11

    Raising Bilinguals From a Place of Joy — Why It Matters and How to Actually Do It

    Joy in the bilingual journey isn't decoration — it's the mechanism. In Episode 9 we explore why parenting from a place of joy actually makes your child's language acquisition faster, deeper, and more sustainable, and why a burnout-driven approach eventually stops working for everyone. We cover three research frameworks (Self-Determination Theory, play-based learning, and savoring), what kills joy in bilingual homes, a powerful mindset reframe for the hard days, and six micro-activities you can start today with no preparation. What We Cover What joy actually is — and why it's different from happiness What cultivates joy (positive relationships, nature, self-awareness) and what kills it (pressure, emotional overload, negative social environment) Self-Determination Theory: the three innate needs your child has — autonomy, competence, and relatedness — and how a joyless bilingual regimen quietly destroys all three Why play IS learning, not a break from it Savoring: how to make good moments stick instead of letting them pass The "I have to" vs. "I get to" reframe — small shift, big difference on a hard day From our home: our son asking how to say things in Spanish (his second language) and why it's unexpectedly tender even when it makes us nervous Six micro-activities you can do in five minutes or less Join the community and get access to the episode guides with practical strategies by age *first 50 users get special launch price: https://community.theraisingbilinguals.com/ Checkout the app: https://studio.com/howtospanishpodcast/raising-bilinguals Visit our webpage: https://www.theraisingbilinguals.com Our Spanish Project: https://www.howtospanishpodcast.com

  6. Aug 4

    What We'd Do Differently: 6 Honest Reflections After 3 Years - EP 8

    Our son just turned three. And after three years of raising him in English — as non-native speakers, in Mexico, surrounded by Spanish — we wanted to stop and look back. Not to dwell, but to learn. In Episode 8 we share six things we'd do differently if we were starting over: honest, specific, and applicable to any bilingual family regardless of where you are in the journey. Plus a reminder that works: our son now uses English 90–95% of the time. Whatever you're doing, it's worth doing. What We Cover Three years in: where we are, what worked, and what surprised us Why our son defaults to English when he's emotional — and what that tells us about native-level acquisition 6 reflections: flexibility with family, connecting with other families, pushing yourself as a non-native speaker, the majority language myth, practicing the language as a couple, and writing down your deep why The grandmother and the Spanish book — and what it taught us about connection over strategy Why you don't need to teach the majority language (the environment does it for you) David on imposter syndrome: holding back as a non-native speaker and why that was a mistake Ana on overexplaining: stopping the need for other people's approval What a "deep why" actually looks like — and why you need to write yours down Join the community and get access to the episode guides with practical strategies by age  *first 50 users get special launch price: https://community.theraisingbilinguals.com/ Checkout the app: https://studio.com/howtospanishpodcast/raising-bilinguals Visit our webpage: https://www.theraisingbilinguals.com Our Spanish Project: https://www.howtospanishpodcast.com

  7. Jul 28

    Making It Joyful: Games, Traditions, and Creative Ideas for Your Bilingual Home - EP 7

    After episodes on science, fears, myths, and restarts — this one is just fun. In Episode 7 we share 13 practical ideas for bringing joy into your bilingual home: games you can start this week, traditions anchored to moments your child will remember for years, and creative activities that make language the vehicle for imagination rather than a task to manage. Some of these ideas came from our community. We also return to wins and struggles — including a big language moment with our son and a compromise Ana had to make for violin class that taught us something important. What We Cover Why fun is not optional — emotions and memories are the mechanism by which language gets stored Category 1 — Games and Rituals: The Secret Language Moment, The Language Jar, Language Detective, The Language Knock, The Language Tax Category 2 — Traditions That Build Emotional Memory: The Birthday Tradition, The Language Meal, The Annual Book Category 3 — Creative Activities: The Bilingual Playlist, The Language Treasure Hunt, The Language Voice Memo, The Cooking Show in the Language, The Language Trip, Re-Enacting a Story This week's win: our son said "allow me to help you" — spontaneously, in English, at almost three years old This week's struggle: the violin teacher only speaks Spanish, which led to an unexpected but right compromise Join the community and get access to the episode guides with practical strategies by age *first 50 users get special launch price: https://community.theraisingbilinguals.com/ Checkout the app: https://studio.com/howtospanishpodcast/raising-bilinguals Visit our webpage: https://www.theraisingbilinguals.com Our Spanish Project: https://www.howtospanishpodcast.com

  8. Jul 21

    If You Started, Stopped, and Want to Come Back - EP6

    Life happens. Sometimes you stop. And then the guilt sets in — the feeling that you've failed, that the language is gone, that starting again is harder than starting from scratch. In Episode 6 (the sister episode to Episode 5) we talk about what actually happens when a bilingual journey pauses, what the research says about language reactivation, and how to come back in a way that sticks. Stopping is not failing. The language is still there. And the way back is almost always smaller than you think. What We Cover Why stopping feels like failing — and why it isn't The difference between a passive language and a lost one (spoiler: they're not the same) One documented case: a child reactivated a minority language within 10 days after months of silence Three questions to ask yourself before restarting: why did you stop, where is your child now, and what's the smallest sustainable version you can do starting tomorrow? How to assess your child's current language state without pressure or testing The restart approach by age: babies, preschoolers, school-age children, and teens What to do when you're the one who lost confidence — not your child Our story: how Ana used Formula One driver interviews to casually reconnect our son with English after an immersion week in Spanish The role of humor in rebuilding confidence: bilingual jokes and wordplay as a low-pressure re-entry point

See All (13)

Ratings & Reviews

5
out of 5
10 Ratings

About

Practical guidance for parents raising bilingual kids — whether you're a native speaker, a language learner, or somewhere in between. Each week, we explore the real challenges of building a bilingual family: staying consistent, choosing a strategy, and raising children who actually use both languages. Hosted by the team behind How to Spanish Podcast, The Raising Bilinguals Podcast combines research-backed insights with honest stories from families actually doing this. Join our community at theraisingbilinguals.com

Information

You Might Also Like