Salty Saints

Hayden Holm

Inspiring Latter-day Saint content, without the spirit voice or green jell-o, to strengthen your faith, family, and community. Join us as we navigate staying faithful in spite of the world, the culture, and social media. Tune in for debunkings, discussions on gospel topics, missionary stories, cultural callouts, and navigating questions faithfully.

  1. 9h ago

    Your Teen Can Factory Reset Your Parental Controls

    A cybersecurity pro explains why your teen can factory reset your parental controls, and what actually protects your sons.Tyler Despain has worked in IT and cybersecurity for about ten years and has run his own business for eight. LDS parents: here is the layered plan for your home network, and the teaching no router can replace.JOIN FSDFor The Strength of Dads (FSD) is a free online community for men and fathers: faith, family, finance, fitness.https://strengthofdads.comFSD Discord: https://discord.gg/xhmZwFkRRzSHIRE RUNWalk 145 miles with us as a virtual group in the Lord of the Rings Shire Run. Conqueror Events is giving the FSD community a discount.https://strengthofdads.com[SWAP IN the direct Shire Run page link if you have one]TYLER DESPAINTyler is writing a book, The Great Confounding Tower, on defending your family against the enemy's pattern of attack, and is building a two-hour course on managing technology in the home. Sign up for updates here:https://confoundingtower.comYou can also find Tyler in the FSD Discord (username: Tyler).SCRIPTURE (Doctrine and Covenants 68:25)"And again, inasmuch as parents have children in Zion, or in any of her stakes which are organized, that teach them not to understand the doctrine of repentance, faith in Christ the Son of the living God, and of baptism and the gift of the Holy Ghost by the laying on of the hands, when eight years old, the sin be upon the heads of the parents."WHAT WE COVER- Why a filter alone will not protect your kids, and how teens get around one- Layered protection for your home: router, DNS, phone, TV, console- Why teaching and repentance matter more than software- Matching rules to your child's maturity: zone of proximal development and scaffolding- AI as a "friend": why a teen's chatbot is built to agree with him- Elder Bednar on technology, purpose, and AICHAPTERS0:00 Cold open0:28 Welcome + FSD1:55 Dash of Salt: missionaries on TikTok6:43 Elder Bednar on technology and the family7:44 Tyler's cybersecurity background9:52 Why every family needs a purpose for its tech14:09 Growing up with one family computer16:49 Mistake #1: no intentionality19:53 Getting clear on your intent21:05 Dumb phones, and rules you will actually enforce23:48 Teens and the in-group27:34 Elder Bednar on AI28:50 AI as a teen's "friend"30:38 Apps and AI agents: what to trust34:46 Guarding kids: homeschool vs public school36:21 It's going to get through (D&C 68:25)39:10 Protection in layers (Captain Moroni)42:07 Teaching vs snooping45:43 Zone of proximal development and scaffolding48:10 Outcomes, principles, applications52:35 The mistakes, recapped56:57 Developmental harmony58:44 Tyler's book: The Great Confounding Tower61:47 Sign-offSUBSCRIBE: https://www.youtube.com/@thesaltysaintsLive every Monday and Thursday at 9PM Central.

  2. Oct 29

    "Baptism of Fire" Goes Horribly Wrong + Are 25-Min Classes Working?

    Is the Church’s new 25-minute Sunday class format actually improving learning, or are leaders just trying to cram 50-minute lectures into a compressed window?In this episode, Hayden Holm sits down with high school principal Justin Keate and Leading Saints founder Kurt Francom to break down what’s really happening seven weeks into the schedule change. From why youth classes are thriving under the shorter format to how Elders Quorums and Relief Societies can shift from passive lectures to transformational community hubs, we explore practical ways to reverse-engineer your lessons for maximum engagement. Learn how to handle "chapel seating" challenges, utilize "Think-Pair-Share" facilitation, and build genuine connection in 25 minutes.Plus, in our "Dash of Salt" opener, the panel reacts to the viral video of a self-proclaimed leader allegedly distributing drug-laced gummies as a "baptism of fire." We discuss why members hunger for deep spiritual manifestations, how to distinguish authentic personal revelation from false authority, and why strong local quorum leadership is the ultimate protection against spiritual sensationalism."It's not about teaching or what's being taught—it's about what's being learned."Follow: @LeadingSaints Join FSDhttps://strengthofdads.com/ Sign up for the LOTR Virtual Shire Runhttps://tally.so/r/0QB1Ky Chapters0:00 - The Gummy-Bear Story & The 25-Minute Class Change3:18 - Reacting to the Alleged “Baptism of Fire” Video8:04 - The Search for Deeper Spiritual Experiences13:31 - How Leaders Can Respond with Care and Boundaries18:10 - When Manufactured Spiritual Experiences Cross a Line20:35 - The New 25-Minute Schedule: First Reactions22:34 - Why the Shorter Format Is Clicking with Youth32:15 - Kurt Asks What Adult Classes Are Actually For36:27 - Elders Quorum as a Community Safety Net43:01 - Why Shared Stories Make Doctrine Meaningful49:01 - How a Prayer Circle Led to Real-World Support53:09 - Making Discussion Work in a Large Chapel55:22 - Using "Think-Pair-Share" so Everyone Can Participate1:00:46 - Many Voices, Not One Rushed Lecture1:02:08 - Taking Ownership of Your Ward Class Experience1:07:00 - Where to Find Kurt Francom & Upcoming EventsLinks & Resources🔹 Leading Saints (Kurt Francom): https://leadingsaints.org/🔹 Shane Baldwin Incident Reference: https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=1609981101135191🔹 Goat Meme Reel (Feature Tee-Up): https://www.instagram.com/reel/Dcq8hUwhOQt/

  3. Oct 26

    Why LDS Brides Are Ditching Their Garments For Photos

    How do we maintain reverence for sacred covenants in an era dominated by social media validation and shifting cultural trends?In this episode, our panel sits down to examine the growing friction between modern influencer culture, modesty, and the sacred nature of the garment of the holy priesthood. Moving beyond surface-level dress code debates, we dive into the core spiritual principles of temple preparation, the historical context of temple worship, and how social media subtly reshapes how LDS youth and young adults view their covenants.Together, we explore actionable solutions for parents, leaders, and members to foster genuine reverence, build strong faith-centered communities, and maintain covenant integrity in a modern world.Learn more about the shire run:strengthofdads.comCheck out our upcoming retreat: https://strengthofdads.com/retreat Follow: @TheFellowshipofEve  https://www.instagram.com/ashleyruth/ Chapters00:00 Introduction to the episode and main themes01:59 Discussion on temple covenants and modesty trends04:13 Social media influence on LDS youth and modesty05:55 Weaponization of gospel language against women08:11 Covenant love and the significance of the garment10:06 Cultural differences in temple sealing practices12:32 The importance of reverence and sacredness in temple worship13:59 Parental influence and teaching the next generation16:07 The role of community and accountability in faithfulness18:13 Church teachings on the garment and reverence20:09 Addressing cultural pressures and societal influences21:58 Solutions: fostering reverence and understanding23:57 The importance of personal and family preparation25:57 The influence of social media and peer pressure27:59 The role of church leaders and parents in guidance30:01 Encouraging reverence and sacredness in daily life31:58 The significance of the temple as the house of the Lord33:57 Practical steps for strengthening faith and covenants35:47 The importance of teaching humility and reverence38:00 Addressing cultural misconceptions and stereotypes39:57 The impact of social media on youth and family dynamics42:02 The importance of community and family in faith development44:07 The need for accountability and spiritual discipline46:02 The significance of the garment and temple symbolism48:10 Practical advice for parents and leaders49:59 The future of temple worship and cultural change51:57 Final thoughts and call to action

  4. Oct 22

    Why A "Gay Ex-Mormon" Goes to Church + LGBT Conferences for LDS Youth

    Why would a gay former Church member actively choose to attend Latter-day Saint ward meetings every Sunday? And how does true Christian fellowship contrast with progressive organizations marketing "faith-affirming" youth conferences to teens?In this episode, we are joined by Tember Harward—a Latter-day Saint who previously lived in the homosexual lifestyle before choosing baptism, temple covenants, and traditional marriage. Together, we analyze the rising trend of independent "LGBT Conferences for LDS Youth" like Gather for Youth (GFY), deconstruct their study guides instructing families to "reframe" canonized scripture like D&C 131, and examine why standing on prophetic truth is the ultimate act of Christlike love.From viral counter-narratives of real ward belonging to the hidden traps of "untethered empathy," we break down what parents, leaders, and youth need to know to navigate the modern "Shadow Faith."Check out our community for dads: strengthofdads.com.Tember's Bloghttps://latterdaymusings.com/ Sign up for our retreat!https://strengthofdads.com/retreat Chapters00:00 Introduction to GFY and its controversy02:00 Guest introductions and their backgrounds04:08 Initial impressions of GFY marketing materials05:59 Discussion on the role of allies and community support07:55 Concerns about the content and teaching at GFY10:10 Analysis of the scriptural and doctrinal messaging11:53 The impact of leadership and influence in GFY14:12 Resources for LDS parents and youth safety16:08 The end goal and potential future of GFY17:59 How to protect faith and family from risky programs20:04 Final thoughts and resources for parents#lds

  5. Oct 19

    I Stood Up for the Church's $1 Million Donation (feat. Maddy Packer)

    Why did The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints make a historic $1 million donation to oppose Idaho's Proposition 1? In this episode, Hayden Holm sits down with pro-life advocate Maddy Packer — recently featured in the Salt Lake Tribune — to discuss the high-stakes ballot initiative, institutional moral advocacy in politics, and why she is taking a public stand. Together, we break down Maddy's viral campaign against Prop 1, how Latter-day Saints are reacting to the Church's financial involvement, and the core philosophical question driving the debate: Does the right to choose depend on the right to life?In this episode, we cover:• The $1M Donation: Unpacking the Church's financial involvement in Idaho's Prop 1 ballot fight.• Maddy Packer in the Media: How the Salt Lake Tribune framed her advocacy and the member response to her public platform.• "Right to Choose" vs. "Right to Life": Analyzing Maddy's viral video response to Idaho's ballot initiative.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the debate on church and Prop 1 in Idaho03:36 Church's financial support for anti-abortion initiatives09:56 Media portrayal and language manipulation in social issues14:49 Members' reactions and the polarization within the church19:46 The church's doctrinal stance on abortion and morality25:02 How members can navigate political differences in faith30:09 The importance of voting and civic engagement35:01 Church's involvement in political issues and separation of church and state39:58 The role of clear communication and avoiding word salad45:00 The moral responsibility of members in political participation49:51 Final thoughts and call to action for members—Learn more about For The Strength of Dads: https://strengthofdads.comJoin us at the FSD Men's Retreat — March 4–6, 2027, Rockville, Utah: https://strengthofdads.com/retreat

  6. Oct 15

    LDS Bishop Calls Cops on Trans Person + Confronting Conference Protestors

    What really happened when a bishop called the police on a transgender member at church? In this episode, Hayden Holm sits down with Juliet Ingram to analyze the viral video surrounding the incident, as well as Juliet’s firsthand experience approaching and interviewing street protesters outside General Conference.Together, we unpack the stark difference between aggressive, performative outrage tactics and genuine, Christlike dialogue. From high-stakes local boundary decisions to street evangelists holding "burning in hell" graphics, we discuss how Latter-day Saints can defend their faith, respect sacred spaces, and disarm hostility with calm, quiet curiosity.In this episode, we cover:• The Viral Police Incident: Unpacking the video of an LDS bishop confronting and calling law enforcement regarding a transgender attendee.• Confronting Conference Protesters: Juliet shares what happened when she brought a microphone directly to street evangelists outside the Conference Center.• Aggressive Tactics vs. True Evangelism: Do fear-based signs, megaphones, and online outrage ever actually convert anyone?• The Social Media Echo Chamber: How algorithms amplify outrage culture, apologists, and sensationalized clips during General Conference.• Navigating Sacred Spaces & Boundaries: Balancing compassion, institutional guidelines, and gospel principles in modern church life.• How Members Can Respond: Practical advice for handling public hostility, standing firm in doctrine, and engaging others with love and sincere testimony.Guests & Resources:https://www.instagram.com/mjuliet_ingram/ https://x.com/ThoughtfulSaint/status/2109292220012486694?s=20 📌 Timestamp Chapters:00:00 Introduction to the episode and main themes04:34 Juliet Ingram's perspective on the bishop's response and love in action08:11 The bishop's handling of the protest and calling police11:16 Juliet's interaction with the protester and his reaction15:20 Members' strategies for engaging with protesters at General Conference18:25 The impact of protest tactics on faith and community environment22:13 The spirit of conference and the role of protestors25:20 Effectiveness of protest tactics in converting members30:39 Advice for protesters and engaging with faith respectfully34:00 The importance of understanding and compassion in evangelism37:35 The value of questions and disarming tactics in conversations39:41 The role of protests in strengthening faith and community42:03 The example of Alma and the Zoramites in love and service43:00 Reflections on Lehi's vision and the spirit of conference44:14 Advice for fathers and families in faith and defense45:56 The importance of strong relationships and sincere testimony46:41 Preparing youth for challenging social media and protest encounters47:04 Juliet Ingram's projects and social media presence47:48 Updates on Jeff Borders' book and upcoming projects48:11 Closing remarks and encouragement for faith and kindnessJoin our community and check out our upcoming retreat:https://strengthofdads.com/ 🔔 Subscribe for more faithful discussions on LDS doctrine, church culture, and gospel analysis!#lds

  7. Oct 12

    Why Didn't Conference Mention the Family Proclamation?

    Why wasn't "The Family: A Proclamation to the World" explicitly mentioned at General Conference? In this episode, Hayden Holm and Kimball Call dive into the nuances of LDS doctrine, church culture, and how members can navigate complex social topics like LGBTQ+ issues and the Family Proclamation with deep humility and faith.From Jim Bennett’s viral tweet to David Archuleta’s recent interviews, we explore the difference between changing cultural practices and unchanging eternal doctrine—and why trusting prophetic stewardship is key to staying grounded.In this episode, we cover:• Bringing Questions to Christ: How to navigate doubt, hard questions, and online noise without losing your faith anchor.• The Family Proclamation Debate: Unpacking members' reactions, Jim Bennett's tweet, and why the core principles remain foundational.• Doctrine vs. Culture: Identifying the boundary between eternal covenant standards and evolving church practices.• LGBTQ+ & Church Standards: A thoughtful look at modern cultural conversations, David Archuleta’s interview, and gospel-centered family ideals.• Prophetic Stewardship: Why trust in church leadership matters when culture pressures standards to shift.Check out:https://strengthofdads.com/ 📌 Timestamp Chapters:00:00 - Introduction & Episode Overview01:52 - Kimball Call's Background & Perspective04:00 - Faith Questions & The Example of Harris Quavius07:05 - Bringing Your Hardest Questions to Jesus Christ09:08 - Conference Reactions & The Family Proclamation12:08 - Jim Bennett’s Tweet & The Online Response14:12 - Is The Family Proclamation Unchanging Doctrine?17:57 - Ideal Families vs. Real-World Challenges21:57 - Church Standards, Eternal Doctrine & Cultural Shifts26:53 - David Archuleta’s Interview & LGBTQ+ Discussions30:06 - The Subtlety of Subtle Rebellion vs. Faithfulness33:51 - Temple Ordinances & Doctrinal Consistency38:05 - Stewardship & Trusting Church Leaders42:58 - The Danger of Changing Standards to Appease Culture48:09 - Faith, Love & Humility in Church Discussions52:12 - Final Thoughts: Navigating Your Faith Journey🔔 Subscribe for more faithful discussions on LDS doctrine, church governance, and gospel culture!💬 Drop a comment below: How do you balance holding fast to core doctrine while maintaining love and humility in tough conversations? Let's talk in the comments!#lds

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Inspiring Latter-day Saint content, without the spirit voice or green jell-o, to strengthen your faith, family, and community. Join us as we navigate staying faithful in spite of the world, the culture, and social media. Tune in for debunkings, discussions on gospel topics, missionary stories, cultural callouts, and navigating questions faithfully.

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