Beyond The Yard Podcast

Beyond The Yard

Beyond the Yard Podcast is where Naval Academy grads, military leaders, athletes, entrepreneurs, and everyday people share raw stories, honest perspectives, and the lessons that shaped them beyond the uniform. Blending humor, leadership, culture, and unfiltered conversation, the crew dives into real-life debates and powerful interviews that connect through authenticity, growth, and community.

Episodes

  1. 6d ago

    Beyond The Yard Podcast Ep 8 | Christina Danai

    In this episode of Beyond the Yard, Christina joins Eaz and Gage for an honest conversation about graduating from the U.S. Naval Academy, becoming a Surface Warfare Officer, confronting a serious mental-health crisis, leading aboard Littoral Combat Ships, and submitting her resignation while deployed—with separation orders already in hand. So what made her stay? Christina explains the “SWO guilt” that changed her plans, the leaders who recognized her potential, and how she went from nearly leaving the Navy to becoming a commander selected for command at sea. The conversation also explores: ⚓ Her transition from Las Vegas speed skating to Navy ROTC ⚓ Life at the Naval Academy as a member of the Class of 2012 ⚓ Choosing Surface Warfare—and discovering what SWO life truly demanded ⚓ Seeking mental-health treatment when the stigma was much stronger ⚓ Why the LCS training pipeline transformed her confidence ⚓ Becoming the “CHENG with the Bangs” ⚓ Resigning her commission while deployed ⚓ The mentorship that convinced her to remain in uniform ⚓ Helping shape the Surface Warfare Command Leadership Assessment ⚓ How today’s junior SWOs are being trained differently ⚓ Leadership, coaching, travel, DJing, and building life beyond the uniform ⚓ Her selection for command at sea ⚓ A hilarious round of rapid-fire questions Christina’s story is about resilience, self-awareness, mentorship, and the impact one leader can have when someone is ready to walk away. CHAPTERS 00:00 — Welcome to Beyond the Yard 02:04 — From Las Vegas to the Naval Academy 05:11 — Speed skating, ROTC, and choosing a new path 08:23 — Gospel Choir, SHAPE, and Academy life 11:12 — Learning to stand up for others 14:04 — Becoming a Surface Warfare Officer 21:38 — Mental health, leadership, and going LIMDU 27:43 — Preparing to resign from the Navy 29:16 — The LCS training pipeline 40:26 — Becoming “CHENG with the Bangs” 46:24 — Resigning her commission on deployment 47:39 — The “SWO guilt” that made her stay 49:31 — Working inside the SURFPAC Commander’s Action Group 51:11 — Transforming command leadership assessment 52:30 — Training the Navy’s future OODs 53:50 — Leadership lessons from senior officers 55:44 — Has the SWO community changed? 01:03:21 — Mentorship, service, and professional organizations 01:03:46 — Christina’s life as DJ XXXTina 01:05:35 — Coaching, travel, and CONNNECT 01:12:56 — “Unstoppable is the one who wants nothing” 01:15:11 — Family, purpose, and making her parents proud 01:17:42 — Rapid-fire questions 01:22:58 — Where to follow Christina FOLLOW CHRISTINA DANAI Instagram: @cd_connnect CONNNECT: www.connnect.life Party Peas: @partylikeapea Website: www.partypeas.com FOLLOW BEYOND THE YARD Instagram, TikTok & Threads: @beyondtheyardpodcast X: @beyondtheyard_ YouTube: @beyondtheyardpodcast Listen to full episodes on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and iHeartRadio If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental-health crisis in the United States, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Service members and veterans can press 1 after calling 988 or text 838255. The opinions expressed during this podcast are personal and do not represent the official positions of the U.S. Department of Defense, Department of the Navy, or United States Naval Academy. #BeyondTheYardPodcast #NavalAcademy #SurfaceWarfare

    Beyond The Yard Podcast Ep 8 | Christina Danai
  2. Aug 23

    Beyond the Yard Podcast Ep. 6 | Ricky Dobbs Part 1

    Ricky Dobbs was never supposed to be just a football story. The former Naval Academy quarterback opens up about the unexpected path that took him from Atlanta to Navy, the recruiting moment that almost changed everything, and why basketball may have been his real first love all along. What starts as a conversation about Navy football quickly turns into a bigger story about identity, opportunity, and the discipline it takes to thrive when everyone knows your name. Jackson, Geoff, and Eaz bring out the stories behind the nickname "the mayor," the reality of life stationed overseas, and the mindset that helped Ricky navigate elite athletics, military service, and public service. You'll discover: How Ricky went from youth running back to Navy quarterbackWhy Coach Brian Bohannon's honest recruiting pitch stood out from every other offerThe surprising reason Bahrain became one of his favorite places in the worldWhat it feels like to be recruited by major programs while still being overlooked for your sizeWhy he still thinks about playing Division I basketball and what held him backRicky also shares the schools that came calling, the Georgia moment that lit a fire under him, and how a growth spurt changed the way he saw his future. Beneath the laughs and good-natured teasing, there's a real conversation here about knowing your worth, betting on yourself, and making the most of the lane you're given. This one is especially for Navy alumni, football fans, basketball fans, and anyone who loves a story about unlikely paths and hard-earned confidence. If you want the kind of episode that mixes nostalgia, military life, and a little friendly competition, hit play.

    Beyond the Yard Podcast Ep. 6 | Ricky Dobbs Part 1
  3. Aug 12

    Beyond the Yard Ep. 5 | The Surprising Truth About Military Life: What Civilians Get Wrong

    Dive into the often misunderstood world of military life with the Beyond the Yard Podcast, where hosts Geoff, Gage, and Eaz pull back the curtain on the realities of serving in the armed forces. Many civilians have misconceptions about what military life truly entails, and this episode sets the record straight with engaging anecdotes and candid discussions. If you've ever wondered about the truth behind military stereotypes, this episode is a must-listen. Join Geoff, Gage, and Eaz as they tackle common myths, from the notion of laziness within the ranks to the emotional availability of service members. Gage shares insights on the harsh realities of equipment and environment, challenging the idea that military life is all about glory. Ease adds another layer, highlighting the emotional complexities that come with the job and how public perception often fails to capture the true character of those in uniform. You'll discover why the concept of "hurry up and wait" is more than just a phrase, but a critical part of military training, and how it shapes the way service members handle pressure. The hosts delve into their personal experiences, revealing the adjustments they faced transitioning from civilian life to military discipline, including the surprising elements of camaraderie and support that often get overlooked. This conversation is essential for anyone seeking to understand the sacrifices and challenges faced by the military community. Ignorance can lead to misconceptions that further alienate veterans and active-duty personnel from society. By listening, you gain a deeper appreciation for the lives led by these dedicated individuals and the lessons they bring back to civilian life. Whether you're a veteran, a family member, or simply curious about military culture, this episode is packed with insights that will challenge your perspective. Tune in to hear the real stories and experiences that define military life, and become part of the conversation that bridges the gap between service members and civilians.

    Beyond the Yard Ep. 5 | The Surprising Truth About Military Life: What Civilians Get Wrong
  4. Jul 30

    Beyond the Yard Ep.4 Hidden Cost of Being Strong: Navigating Dependability in Work + Family Life

    Have you ever felt the weight of being the "strong one" in your circle—the friend everyone leans on, the parent who’s always there, the leader who never falters? In this candid episode of Beyond the Yard, we dive deep into the emotional toll of being the dependable one. Discover why so many people find themselves in this role and the hidden costs associated with it. Join Gage, Eaz, Geoff, and Darryl as they explore the complex dynamics that shape our relationships. Why do some individuals naturally become the go-to person in times of need? You’ll uncover: - The psychological factors that drive people to take on the role of the strong one - The difference between being a dependable friend and an emotionally isolated one - How family dynamics influence our responsibilities and relationships - Strategies to maintain balance while supporting others without losing yourself - Real-life anecdotes that illustrate the challenges and victories of being the dependable one As they share personal stories and reflections, the hosts reveal the broader implications of this role in our lives. It’s not just about being there for others; it's about recognizing your own needs and the importance of support in return. This episode is essential for anyone who has ever felt overwhelmed by the expectations of being the strong one. Tune in for an enlightening discussion that will leave you questioning the nature of support and responsibility—perfect for parents, friends, and anyone navigating the complexities of relationships. You deserve to be supported just as much as you support others.

    Beyond the Yard Ep.4 Hidden Cost of Being Strong: Navigating Dependability in Work + Family Life
  5. Jul 25

    From Denied Commission to Naval Officer: Kevin Deese's 10-Year Fight | Beyond the Yard Podcast Ep. 1

    USNA Class of 2014 grad Kevin Deese shares the untold story of how an HIV diagnosis weeks before graduation nearly ended his Navy career — and how he fought all the way to the Pentagon to change DoD policy forever. 🎙️ ABOUT THIS EPISODE What would you do if the Navy told you that you couldn't commission — four years into a Naval Academy education, weeks before graduation? For USNA Class of 2014 graduate Kevin Deese, the answer was simple: fight. For ten years. In this episode of Beyond the Yard — the podcast for U.S. Naval Academy alumni, midshipmen, and military community members — Kevin sits down with hosts Darryl, Gage Trotter, and Brandon "Eaz" Carter for a raw, unfiltered conversation about resilience, identity, service, and what it truly means to answer the call. ⚓ WHAT YOU'LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE ✅ What it was like being a gay midshipman at USNA during Don't Ask, Don't Tell ✅ How Kevin received an HIV diagnosis at Walter Reed just weeks before commissioning — and was told there was nothing he could do ✅ What graduation day looks like when your diploma folio only has one side filled ✅ How he navigated civilian life while never giving up on his Navy commission ✅ The step-by-step legal and bureaucratic battle — from exception-to-policy requests to a federal lawsuit naming him as lead plaintiff ✅ How a phone call the morning after the 2016 election changed everything ✅ Finally commissioning as a U.S. Navy Reserve officer in 2024 — 10 years later ✅ Why he may be the only person to have both graduated from USNA and completed Officer Development School (ODS) ✅ His current run for New York State Assembly (149th District) and why local government matters ✅ The 3 Naval Academy traits that carried him through: resilience, relationship-building, and being the man in the arena 🔗 FOLLOW KEVIN DEESE Campaign: https://www.kevindeese.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deeseforassembly/ https://www.instagram.com/kevdeese/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@deeseforassembly 🎙️ ABOUT BEYOND THE YARD Beyond the Yard is a podcast by Naval Academy graduates, for the entire Navy and military community. We go beyond the ranks, the rates, and the résumés to talk about real life — the wins, the failures, and everything in between. New episodes dropping soon. 🔗 BEYOND THE YARD PODCAST Instagram https://www.instagram.com/beyondtheyardpodcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@beyondtheyardpodcast X / Twitter https://x.com/beyondtheyard_ Email beyondtheyardpodcast@gmail.com 🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode 👍 Like this video if Kevin's story hit home 💬 Comment below — what part of Kevin's journey resonated most with you?

    From Denied Commission to Naval Officer: Kevin Deese's 10-Year Fight | Beyond the Yard Podcast Ep. 1
  6. Jul 3

    Beyond the Yard Ep. 3: From Naval Academy to Pro Boxer: Stephanie Simon's Fight for Reinvention

    From Naval Academy Plebe to Pro Boxer: Stephanie Simon's Fearless Reinvention She was told to be an officer. She chose to be a fighter — in every sense of the word. In this episode of Beyond the Yard, we sit down with Stephanie Simon — USNA Class of 2017, former Marine Corps AAV officer, and now a professional boxer and entertainer building her name in Los Angeles. Steph opens up about her plebe year chaos at the Academy, how a boxing requirement turned into a full-blown career, and the moment she walked away from active duty to chase a dream most people are too afraid to name out loud. We get into the double standard female officers face that enlisted Marines never see, the "Matrix" moment that made her stop caring what the Marine Corps thought of her, and why she believes fame and money don't fix what's broken inside. Steph breaks down her move to LA, training streamers and musicians alongside pro fighters, her advice on staying true to your identity when everyone around you is "winning," and her very real goal: becoming the biggest name in women's boxing. Funny, raw, and honest — this is a conversation about rebuilding your identity outside of a uniform, chasing an unconventional dream, and refusing to shrink yourself to make other people comfortable. Follow Stephanie Simon: Instagram/TikTok: @StephSimonBoxing | YouTube: StephanieSimon123 #USNA #WomensBoxing #MarineCorps

    Beyond the Yard Ep.  3: From Naval Academy to Pro Boxer: Stephanie Simon's Fight for Reinvention

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Beyond the Yard Podcast is where Naval Academy grads, military leaders, athletes, entrepreneurs, and everyday people share raw stories, honest perspectives, and the lessons that shaped them beyond the uniform. Blending humor, leadership, culture, and unfiltered conversation, the crew dives into real-life debates and powerful interviews that connect through authenticity, growth, and community.

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