That AuDHD Teacher

Emily Sigglekow

Welcome to That AuDHD Teacher, a podcast about making sense of life through the lens of a late AuDHD diagnosis. I'm Emily, an early childhood teacher and someone who spent years wondering why life always seemed a little harder than it looked for everyone else. After being diagnosed with Autism and ADHD as an adult, so many pieces of my life started to make sense. Each episode is an honest conversation about neurodivergence, mental wellbeing, teaching, and the everyday experiences that often go unseen. So lets get comfortable and make sense of this beautifully complicated brain together.

  1. 6d ago

    ADHD, Fitness and Mental Health: Learning to Prioritise Yourself with Marc Paisant

    What happens when you spend years trying to understand yourself, your relationship with food, and your mental health, and eventually discover that looking after your physical health is only one part of the picture? In this episode of That AuDHD Teacher, I’m joined by Marc Paisant for a really honest conversation about his experience of living with undiagnosed ADHD, navigating anxiety and low self-esteem, and finding a new relationship with fitness. Marc shares how ADHD was first recognised by a teacher when he was at school, why that early suggestion never went any further, and what it was like finally receiving support as an adult. We talk about the difference ADHD treatment made to his everyday life, his experiences with therapy, and how he began rebuilding his confidence and taking care of his physical health. But one of the most important parts of our conversation is the realisation that getting physically fit doesn't automatically resolve everything happening mentally. Marc talks about learning to forgive his former self, understanding his relationship with food, and changing the way he approaches exercise, not as a way to run away from difficult feelings, but as an opportunity to work through them. We also discuss emotional eating, ADHD and food, building sustainable habits, starting running when you're a beginner, and why prioritising yourself isn't selfish. In this episode, we talk about: Marc's experience of being recognised as potentially having ADHD at school, but not receiving a diagnosis until adulthood What changed when he finally received ADHD support ADHD, anxiety and the experience of living with mental fog Therapy, self-worth and learning to believe you're good enough Marc's fitness journey and the challenges he faced along the way Why physical fitness and mental health need separate attention Emotional eating, food habits and ADHD Learning to forgive the person you used to be Using exercise to work through stress rather than avoid it Starting small, building habits and making time for yourself Why self care benefits the people around us, too Find Marc and his work: Website: https://marcpaisant.com/ Marc's podcast, Relatively Normal: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/relatively-normal/id1473698428 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/paisant_fitness/ Marc also shares his work through the 6AM Run podcast and community. His website is the best place to find his current links and social channels. About That AuDHD Teacher I'm Emily, an early childhood teacher from New Zealand and a late-diagnosed AuDHDer. That AuDHD Teacher explores neurodivergence, identity, lived experience, mental health and the many things that shape how we understand ourselves. Follow the podcast for more honest conversations with people sharing their experiences and perspectives. This episode shares personal experiences and is not intended to replace individual medical, mental health or nutrition advice.

  2. 6d ago

    ADHD and Autism in Children: Early Signs, Early Intervention and Supporting Neurodivergent Children | Dr Inyang Takon

    What if the support a neurodivergent child needs didn't have to wait for a diagnosis? In this episode of That AuDHD Teacher, I'm joined by Dr Inyang Takon, a consultant paediatrician specialising in neurodevelopmental and neurobehavioural disorders, with extensive experience assessing and supporting children with ADHD, autism, epilepsy, tic disorders and other developmental differences. We talk about why neurodivergent children can go unrecognised, the common misconceptions surrounding ADHD and autism, and why behaviour that is often labelled as naughty, lazy or oppositional may actually be a sign that a child is struggling. Dr Takon shares her insights from working with children, families and schools in the UK, including the importance of early identification, the impact of cultural beliefs and expectations, and how educators can recognise patterns of behaviour that might otherwise be missed. We also explore a particularly important message: children don't need to wait for a formal diagnosis before receiving support. With the right strategies, understanding and intervention, we can start making a difference much earlier. In this conversation, we discuss: • Common myths and misconceptions about ADHD and autism in children.• Why a child being academically capable doesn't mean they can't be neurodivergent.• Why hyperactivity isn't the only presentation of ADHD.• Recognising less obvious signs of ADHD in educational settings.• How teachers can monitor patterns, introduce strategies and communicate concerns with parents.• Supporting parents who may be reluctant to consider a neurodevelopmental assessment.• The importance of early identification and intervention.• Why waiting for a diagnosis shouldn't mean waiting to provide support.• Cultural differences, stigma and the way neurodivergence is understood across communities.• ADHD medication and the role of psychoeducation and behavioural support.• What parents can document and prepare before seeking an assessment.• The importance of looking beyond diagnosis and focusing on everyday support. Dr Takon also shares more about her work developing resources for parents and professionals, including School Doctor, her Early Intervention Matters podcast and Brain Diverse. One of my biggest takeaways from this conversation is that we need to move away from seeing diagnosis as the starting point for support. We can observe, understand, adapt and support children while they are waiting for answers. Whether you're a parent, teacher, early childhood educator, health professional or someone interested in neurodiversity, I hope you find this conversation helpful. CONNECT WITH DR INYANG TAKON: Website: https://www.drtakon.com/ School Doctor: https://school-doctor.com/ School Doctor resources: https://school-doctor.com/resources/ Early Intervention Matters podcast: https://www.drtakon.com/ Brain Diverse: https://braindiverse.org/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/early_interventionmatters/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/inyang-takon-paeds/ Substack: https://neuropaeddoc.substack.com/ Email: eim@drtakon.com ABOUT THAT AuDHD TEACHER: I'm Emily, an early childhood teacher and late-diagnosed AuDHDer. That AuDHD Teacher explores the experiences of neurodivergent people, late diagnosis, autism, ADHD and the many different ways we experience the world. Thank you for listening. If you enjoyed this episode, please follow the podcast, leave a rating or share it with someone who might find this conversation helpful. Until next time, be kind, take care and I'll see you in the next one.

  3. Oct 29

    Non-Romantic Limerence: When You Can't Stop Thinking About Someone

    What happens when you can't stop thinking about someone, but it isn't romantic? In this episode of The AuDHD Teacher, I'm introducing a topic that I think deserves much more attention: non-romantic limerence. While limerence is often discussed in the context of romantic attraction, intense preoccupation with another person can also centre on friendships, colleagues, mentors, teachers, or people whose approval means a great deal to us. As a late diagnosed AuDHDer, this is something I've experienced personally, and for a long time, I struggled to understand why certain people occupied so much space in my mind. Why could a small interaction stay with me for days? Why could a message make me feel so happy, while a delayed reply or change in someone's behaviour left me questioning everything? In this episode, I explore what non-romantic limerence can feel like, the role of uncertainty and reassurance, why someone might become so emotionally significant, and how experiences associated with ADHD, autism, masking and social uncertainty might overlap with these feelings. This is a personal introduction to the topic rather than a definitive guide. Limerence isn't a formal mental health diagnosis, and non-romantic limerence isn't an established clinical subtype. I'm sharing my own perspective and exploring a concept that has helped me make sense of experiences I didn't previously have the language to describe. Because sometimes, the hardest part isn't just experiencing these feelings. It's wondering why you feel them so intensely in the first place. If you've experienced something similar, I'd love to hear your thoughts. This is a conversation I'd like to continue. Follow The AuDHD Teacher for more conversations about AuDHD, late diagnosis, neurodivergence, relationships and the experiences we don't always talk about. Content note: This episode discusses intense attachment, social uncertainty and emotional distress.

  4. Oct 23 ·  Bonus

    Is ADHD Really a Superpower? Paris Hilton, Disability and Privilege

    Paris Hilton has spoken openly about ADHD as her “superpower”, but why does that language feel empowering to some people and uncomfortable, even hurtful, to others? In this episode of That AuDHD Teacher, I’m unpacking the conversation around ADHD, disability, strengths and the pressure to find the positive in our neurodivergence. Inspired by Paris Hilton’s ADHD advocacy and her recent conversations about creating environments that help her thrive, I’m exploring why we need to be able to talk about both the strengths and the very real challenges of ADHD. I also unpack a perspective shared by neurodivergent advocate Sonny Jane Wise: ADHD can be a disability that comes with strengths, depending on our access to resources, accommodations, support, privilege, and the environments we live and work in. What does that actually mean, and why does it matter? Because having ADHD can come with creativity, passion, hyperfocus and innovative thinking. It can also mean executive dysfunction, overwhelm, exhaustion, barriers at school and work, and needing support to do things other people seem to manage more easily. Those experiences aren’t mutually exclusive. This isn’t about dismissing Paris Hilton’s lived experience or telling anyone they’re wrong for seeing their ADHD as a superpower. It’s about asking a bigger question: what happens when we turn one person’s empowering experience into an expectation for everyone? ADHD doesn’t have to be a superpower to be valid. And acknowledging disability doesn’t mean denying our strengths. Let’s make room for the whole experience. Follow That AuDHD Teacher for honest conversations about ADHD, autism, neurodivergence, education and what it means to thrive in a world that isn’t always built for our brains. Content note: This episode discusses ADHD, disability, ableism, privilege and barriers to support.

  5. Oct 21

    Late Diagnosed ADHD, Dyscalculia and Self Acceptance with Marvie Corbett

    What happens when you spend your whole life thinking you're not smart enough, only to discover that your brain works differently? In this episode of That AuDHD Teacher, I'm joined by Marvie Corbett, a licensed clinical social worker, therapist and author, for an honest conversation about late diagnosed ADHD, dyscalculia, executive functioning and learning to understand ourselves with more compassion. Marvie shares how experiencing postpartum anxiety and depression eventually led to her ADHD diagnosis, and how discovering she also had dyscalculia helped her make sense of years of academic struggles. We talk about the impact of believing you're lazy or unintelligent, the relief of finally understanding why certain things are harder, and how diagnosis can change the way we see our younger selves. We also explore why ADHD can be missed in girls and women, how neurodivergent traits can be mistaken for character flaws, and why struggling with organisation, motivation or task initiation doesn't necessarily mean someone doesn't care. Marvie shares her approach to supporting neurodivergent children and families, including understanding individual executive functioning strengths and support needs rather than relying on one-size-fits-all strategies. We also discuss parenting neurodivergent children when you are neurodivergent yourself, finding practical ADHD strategies, medication, creativity, and the importance of recognising both the challenges and strengths of neurodivergent brains. This conversation is a reminder that understanding how your brain works can help you replace shame with self-understanding. If you've ever wondered why things seem to come more easily to everyone else, or why trying harder hasn't always been enough, this episode is for you. In this episode, we discuss: • Late diagnosed ADHD and dyscalculia • Academic struggles, self esteem and feeling unintelligent • Postpartum mental health and discovering ADHD • ADHD in girls and women • Executive functioning and practical support strategies • Neurodivergent parenting and understanding children's behaviour • ADHD medication, timers and managing distractions • Neurodivergent strengths, creativity and self acceptance • Why understanding your brain can change your life Follow That AuDHD Teacher for more conversations about AuDHD, late diagnosis, neurodivergence and navigating life as a neurodivergent adult. This episode shares personal experiences and perspectives and is not a substitute for individual medical or mental health advice.

  6. Oct 14

    Living with ADHD: Late Diagnosis, Learning Differences, Sleep and Finding What Works | Paul McKee

    What happens when you spend years believing you're not good at learning, only to discover that your brain works differently? In this episode of That AuDHD Teacher, I'm joined by Paul McKee, a former teacher and online education entrepreneur who shares his experience of living with ADHD, navigating learning differences, and discovering how to work with his brain rather than against it. Paul was labelled as struggling academically during childhood, despite being highly capable when learning was approached in a way that suited him. After years of figuring things out for himself, he received an ADHD diagnosis in adulthood and began to understand his experiences in a completely different light. We talk about what it was like growing up misunderstood at school, how Paul discovered his own learning patterns, and why finding the right strategies can make such a difference. We also explore ADHD and sleep, the challenges of managing energy and focus, recognising similar traits in your children, and how understanding your neurodivergence can influence the way you approach work and entrepreneurship. Paul also shares his journey from teaching and engineering into online education, including why he decided to make educational resources more accessible through his website, Free Worksheets. Explore Paul's free educational resources: https://freeworksheets.com/ Free Worksheets provides worksheets for teachers, parents and homeschoolers, with resources created by teachers. Paul's goal is to help make educational resources accessible without the expensive paywalls that can make them difficult to access. In this conversation, we explore: Paul's childhood experiences and his journey to an ADHD diagnosis as an adult Learning differences and why traditional education doesn't work for everyone Finding strategies that fit your individual ADHD brain ADHD, sleep difficulties and creating a sleep routine that works for you Recognising ADHD traits in your children and supporting them as they grow The relationship between ADHD, creativity, risk-taking and entrepreneurship Why understanding yourself matters more than following a one size fits all checklist Paul's mission to make educational resources freely available to teachers, parents and homeschoolers This is a conversation about self understanding, challenging the assumptions we make about ability, and discovering that there isn't one right way to learn, work or navigate life. If you enjoy honest conversations about ADHD, autism, AuDHD and neurodivergent experiences, follow That AuDHD Teacher for more episodes. Hosted by Emily Sigglekow, a New Zealand early childhood teacher sharing conversations and reflections on life as a neurodivergent adult. This episode shares personal experiences and is for informational purposes. Individual experiences of ADHD, sleep and treatment vary.

  7. Oct 9

    Late Diagnosed AuDHD: Masking, Burnout and Finding Yourself with Dr Amanda Wilson

    What happens when you discover you're autistic and have ADHD after spending decades trying to fit in? In this episode of That AuDHD Teacher, I'm joined by Dr Amanda Wilson, an AuDHD orthodontist from Hawaii who received her autism and ADHD diagnosis at 51. We talk about late diagnosis, masking, autistic burnout and the complicated process of understanding yourself through a new lens. Amanda shares what it was like growing up as a girl who was desperate to fit in, learning to hide the parts of herself that felt different, and looking back at childhood experiences that make much more sense now. We discuss the grief that can follow a late diagnosis, the friendships and relationships that change when you start unmasking, and the relief of finding people who understand you. We also get into the realities of neurodivergent burnout, including losing the ability to speak, navigating workplaces that don't always understand you, and finding ways to work and communicate that better suit your brain. Amanda reflects on her experiences as an orthodontist, the challenges of being neurodivergent in a demanding career, and how creating content has given her a new outlet for purpose and joy. This is an honest conversation about what it means to be a late diagnosed AuDHD woman, why masking can be so exhausting, and what can happen when you finally start giving yourself permission to be who you are. If you've ever wondered why you've spent your life feeling different, pushed yourself to the point of burnout, or started re-examining your past after an ADHD or autism diagnosis, this conversation is for you. In this episode, we discuss:• Late diagnosed autism and ADHD (AuDHD)• Childhood signs of autism and ADHD in girls• Masking, people pleasing and the pressure to fit in• Grief, identity and relationships after diagnosis• Unmasking and why everyday things can become harder• Autistic burnout and losing the ability to speak• Neurodivergence, workplace challenges and career burnout• Boundaries, self acceptance and finding your people• Using creativity and technology to support neurodivergent communication That AuDHD Teacher is a podcast hosted by Emily, an early childhood teacher from New Zealand exploring the realities of living with AuDHD, late diagnosis, identity and navigating a world that doesn't always make room for neurodivergent people. If this episode resonates with you, follow That AuDHD Teacher and leave a rating or review to help other neurodivergent listeners find these conversations.

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Welcome to That AuDHD Teacher, a podcast about making sense of life through the lens of a late AuDHD diagnosis. I'm Emily, an early childhood teacher and someone who spent years wondering why life always seemed a little harder than it looked for everyone else. After being diagnosed with Autism and ADHD as an adult, so many pieces of my life started to make sense. Each episode is an honest conversation about neurodivergence, mental wellbeing, teaching, and the everyday experiences that often go unseen. So lets get comfortable and make sense of this beautifully complicated brain together.

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