The Toast and The Tea

Jessica and Molly

A new podcast serving up hilarious stories, unforgettable moments, and insider insights from two people who've truly seen it all. Hosted by Jess and Molly—best friends for over 20 years and professional wedding singers (and occasional fixers) for 15+ years—this show pulls back the curtain on the wild world of weddings and special events. Expect candid takes, behind-the-scenes chaos, and true stories so unbelievable you'll swear they're urban legends. Whether you're planning your own wedding or work in the industry, you'll laugh, cringe, and gain a whole new appreciation for what it takes to create a truly magical day... even if it comes with a little side-eye.

Episodes

  1. 1d ago

    Episode 10: The Wedding Story Where a Jacket Got Sucked Into the HVAC

    Episode 10 is pure wedding-industry ridiculous in the best possible way: a guest's outfit inspired by Carrie Bradshaw, a bandleader climbing over an HVAC colon, a jacket literally eaten by the AC, and a bride who may have just invented the most uncomfortable dance-floor power move ever. Molly and Jessica are back with a reception rewind that turns into a full-on deep dive into the wildest things happening at modern wedding and  the trends they’d happily never see again.  They trade stories from the field, compare notes on what vendors actually notice, and unpack the stuff no guest ever sees.

  2. Sep 25

    Episode 9: The Harpist Who Makes Everything Fancier

    This week, Jess and Molly sit down with Micky York, the musician, published author, professor, and most importantly, Fake Benny from Dancing Queen: An ABBA Salute. He plays keys, harp, and sings across weddings, pits, and Chicago stages. From hot takes on sock-less groomsmen to keeping a harp in tune in cold, rainy weather, Micky shares his takes on the strange, glamorous, reality of being the person everyone assumes is “just” playing background music. Purchase Micky’s book, "The Pain of Cooking" at www.mickropolis.com and find him on IG at @mdlyork or @dancingqueen_abbasalute.

  3. Sep 18

    Episode 8: The Groomzilla Who Stopped His Own Perfect Wedding Moment

    A groom who can't stop stage managing his own wedding and a bride who changed venues the day of the event (a happy ending!) It's peak season and Molly and Jess once again share crazy stories from recent events and also discuss burnout relief for wedding vendors, from list-making to walking to the deeply scientific concept of a “fart walk."

  4. Sep 11

    Episode 7: When the Power Went Out, the Groom's Dad Went Nuclear

    Jessica gets screamed at in the rain, a power outage threatens the whole event, and the band has to decide in real time whether to keep the party alive or walk away. For anyone that’s worked or attended a wedding with Mother Nature calling the the shots, this one is for you.

  5. Sep 4

    Episode 6: When the Wrong Song Sounds Exactly Like the Right Song

    The wrong first dance song can turn a wedding into a full-blown crisis ...for 1 maybe 2 people. Molly and Jess get discuss what actually makes a first dance work, why some first dances feel magical, others feel like homework, and one felt even X-rated. If you’ve ever planned a wedding, worked one, or just love the behind-the-scenes disasters people never admit out loud, this one is for you. Jessica and Molly swap stories from the trenches of wedding entertainment, including a father-daughter dance that went on so long it started to feel like a performance piece, a bride who counted 167 steps of her choreography, and the very real consequences of choosing a song that sounds simple but isn’t. Along the way, they break down what makes a first dance memorable, when to let the band handle it, and why “just one friend that DJs” can become a logistical nightmare.

  6. Aug 29 ·  Bonus

    Bonus Episode with DJ Bobby Drumstix (that's not really his name)

    Bobby Drumstix (not his real name) joins the conversation as the hosts’ first guest, bringing a funny behind-the-scenes perspective from the wedding world. After some playful intro banter, he shares stories about getting trapped in a maze-like venue loading area and encountering an unforgettable wedding crasher in pink earmuffs.

  7. Aug 28

    Episode 4: Eat the Mistake and Move On

    The best event advice is brutally simple: don’t take it personally, apologize fast, and know when to eat the mistake and move on. Jessica and Molly unpack the real-life wedding and event disasters that prove why grace under pressure matters more than perfection. Jess and Molly also share what it’s like to build a podcast while running events from a basement studio, navigating aging as women in entertainment, and learning how to stop letting every hiccup wreck the whole week.

  8. Aug 21

    Episode 3: Why is Everyone Wearing White?

    White at a wedding can get you mistaken for the bride, spark family drama, and completely derail the night - especially when everyone in the bridal party is wearing it. If you care about wedding etiquette, dress codes, or the increasingly chaotic politics of what people wear to the altar, this episode is for you. It is funny, candid, and full of hot takes you will absolutely want to repeat at the next wedding you attend.

  9. Aug 14

    Episode 2: Terrible Wedding Toasts

    Wedding speeches that run 48 minutes. A father of the bride who throws a mic. Molly and Jessica break down why speeches go off the rails, how long they should actually last, and why post-pandemic weddings seem to have forgotten the sweet spot between heartfelt and unbearable. Oh and Molly talks about brides crowdsourcing on Reddit and why she's a fan.

  10. Jul 31

    Introducing The Toast and The Tea: The Wedding Fails That Made Us Cry, Laugh, and Hide

    In this episode of The Toast and the Tea, Jess and Molly swap their most unforgettable wedding-day mishaps — from falling face-first in the grass to navigating stage disasters, runaway shoes, and dress-related emergencies. They also dig into the wild energy of wedding guests, the dangers of too many espresso martinis. Along the way, they share real-world insights from the wedding industry, including what happens when guests get too comfortable, why planners matter, and how to keep the party going without losing control of the dance floor.  If you love funny behind-the-scenes stories, wedding chaos, and brutally honest vendor talk, this episode is for you. Send your WTF wedding stories, weird questions, or just feel good stories to jessandmollytea@gmail.com.

  • 10 Episodes

5
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13 Ratings

About

A new podcast serving up hilarious stories, unforgettable moments, and insider insights from two people who've truly seen it all. Hosted by Jess and Molly—best friends for over 20 years and professional wedding singers (and occasional fixers) for 15+ years—this show pulls back the curtain on the wild world of weddings and special events. Expect candid takes, behind-the-scenes chaos, and true stories so unbelievable you'll swear they're urban legends. Whether you're planning your own wedding or work in the industry, you'll laugh, cringe, and gain a whole new appreciation for what it takes to create a truly magical day... even if it comes with a little side-eye.

Information

  • Creator
    Jessica and Molly
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Jessica and Molly

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