IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective Ben Pugh
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- Kids & Family
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This podcast will help parents of teens keep life's struggles as a teen, and as a parent of a teen, in perspective. Parents will learn real tools to help them help their teens. They will learn how to build a rock solid relationship with their teen so they will have a powerful impact and a positive influence on their teen's life.
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5 Tips for a Healthy and Happy Parent/Teen Relationship
Hey everyone! Today we're diving into how we can build better relationships with our teenagers. I'm thrilled to be here to share some insights I've gathered about connecting with teens. You know, it might surprise you, but even though teens sometimes act like they're not interested, they really do want to connect with us parents!
So, I've got five killer tips to help us moms and dads get closer to our teens. First up, let's make spending time together a blast! Whether it's playing games or going on adventures, having fun together can really strengthen our bond.
Next, let's talk about something I like to call "values." It's all about finding common interests and doing things together that both you and your teen care about. For instance, if you're into sports, why not cheer for your favorite team together?
Now, here's a biggie: let's not take things too personally. Yeah, teens can sometimes say or do stuff that hurts our feelings, but it's not about us—it's just them figuring things out.
Another thing, let's be real with our teens. Pretending to be someone we're not won't help us connect with them. And finally, let's try stepping out of our comfort zones together! Trying new things can create awesome memories and bring us closer.
So, if you're ready to level up your parenting game and create an amazing relationship with your teen, check out these tips and join the fun at IMPACT Live! See you there!
See the full show notes here: https://benpughcoaching.com/197
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
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What We're Getting Right About Teen Screen Time
In today's podcast, we're talking about screen time for teens and what we're getting right.
Teens really value their screens—they're not just for fun but also for connecting with friends and learning. And while it's important to be cautious about screen time, we don't need to ban it completely. Setting boundaries together with your teen is key, and what works for one family might not work for another.
Instead of fighting against screens, why not find ways to make them work for your teen? And let's set a good example by showing them how to have a healthy relationship with technology.
So, maybe we're not totally clueless when it comes to screen time after all. Let's stay open to new ideas and be willing to adapt as technology keeps changing!
Here are the five biggest takeaways:
Teens value their screens for more than just entertainment—they're essential for connection and learning.It's important to be cautious about screen time but not to ban it entirely. Setting boundaries together is key.Every family's approach to screen time will be different, so find what works best for you and your teen.Instead of fighting screens, find ways to make them beneficial, like using them for learning or skill development.Lead by example and show your teen how to have a healthy relationship with technology.For full show notes go to: https://benpughcoaching.com/196
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my New ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
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What We're Getting WRONG About Teen Screen Time
Hey there! Today, we're diving headfirst into the myths surrounding teen screen time. From the belief that all screen time is inherently bad to the fear-driven data shaping our perceptions, we're unpacking it all.
Join us as we challenge the status quo and explore how to navigate the digital landscape with a fresh perspective.
Get ready to reframe your thinking about screens and teens!"
Full show notes: https://benpughcoaching.com/192
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my New ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE! -
"Bad" Parenting and How to Repair Your Relationship
In this episode, I'm diving deep into the idea that those imperfect parenting moments we all have aren't actually roadblocks – they're chances for us to strengthen our bond with our teens. I'll share some personal stories and lessons that have really hit home for me, showing just how powerful vulnerability and owning up to our mistakes can be in building trust with our kids.
We'll talk about practical ways to make things right after a slip-up, like waiting for the right moment to apologize and being open about our struggles. Plus, I'll emphasize why it's never too late to improve your relationship with your teen – seriously, don't count yourself out!
And there's this cool concept I want to introduce you to called the "Wheel of Life." It's all about practicing positive parenting habits during the good times so you're better equipped to handle the tough stuff when it comes around. Trust me, it's a game-changer.
So if you're ready to turn those "oops" moments into opportunities for connection and growth with your teen, then this episode is definitely for you. Let's dive in and start building those stronger relationships today!
Full show notes: https://benpughcoaching.com/194
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my New ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE! -
6 Simple Steps to Empower Your Teen
In this episode, parenting expert Ben shares invaluable insights on empowering teens in today's challenging world. Drawing from his experience as a foster parent, high school principal, and parenting life coach, Ben outlines six simple yet powerful steps to help parents foster independence, resilience, and confidence in their teens.
From finding mentors to engaging in empowering conversations, Ben emphasizes the importance of trusting teens and allowing them to take ownership of their actions and decisions. By challenging conventional parenting norms and encouraging open dialogue, parents can build stronger relationships with their teens while equipping them with essential life skills.
Tune in to discover practical strategies for empowering your teen and fostering a supportive environment where they can thrive. It's time to embrace a new approach to parenting and empower the next generation for success.
For full show notes go to: https://benpughcoaching.com/193
Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my New ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE! -
IMPACT INTERVIEW: From Failing at School to Thriving in Life. Real Mom Story with Ashley
5 Key Takeaways from my conversation Ashley
Supporting Teen Interests: As parents, we should really get behind our teens' passions, even if they don't fit the typical school mold. It's about encouraging what they love and finding ways to make learning meaningful for them.Valuable Skills Outside School: Look at what happened with Ashley's son! He found success flipping dirt bikes, cars, and other stuff. It just shows that there are different paths to building skills and confidence beyond what's taught in classrooms.Focus on Personal Growth: I've learned that it's crucial for us parents to focus on our own growth too, especially when our teens aren't vibing with school. It's okay to seek support and figure out how to navigate these challenges together.Shift in Perspective: Ashley's story really hits home. When she changed her outlook, her relationship with her son improved big time. It's all about showing respect and support, even when their choices might not be what we expected.Embracing Different Paths: We need to realize that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to success. As parents, we should be open to embracing the unique paths our teens take, even if it's different from what we imagined.Take the free Parent Trap quiz
If you have a teen you should take this Parent Trap Quiz .
It will help you uncover specific parenting patterns that might be hindering your relationship with your teen.
By identifying your Parent Trap, you gain the tools to have better communication, resolve conflicts, and build greater confidence in your parenting decisions.
This self-awareness ultimately strengthens your relationship with your teen, which leads to a more open and harmonious connection.
This quiz is your gateway to becoming the parent of your dreams and paving the way for a happier and healthier family life.
TAKE THE QUIZ
Already taken the quiz?
Check out my New ABSOLUTELY FREE Audio Course: Parenting from the Inside Out!
🎧 LISTEN HERE!
Customer Reviews
Awesome!
Great perspective! Even though I don't have teenagers yet so much the Ben says applies to my young family and will set us up for success when they grow up.
So grateful I found this!
I just want to say thank you. Ben, I heard you for the first time ever today. I’ve been listening to a lot of podcasts lately on my way to and from work, while doing projects around the house etc… and I have been struggling trying to be a better parent. I’ve been having this internal struggle within myself, and I searched “lds parenting” on the Apple podcast and an interview came up with you and Jordana Thiessen. I’m so glad I listened to it. I immediately went to your podcast afterwards “Impact” and listened to like 6 in a row this afternoon.
You are saving my life, truly as a parent. I have great kids. Two boys ages 9 and 12 (almost 13) and with my oldest we are just starting to see pre-teen tendencies that remind me of myself as a teenager…. But for some reason am at a loss on how to handle appropriately. I’m LDS, but grew up in a very emotionally controlling family,and my wife grew up the same but controlled in more of a physical sense…. And so we both have these backgrounds that aren’t the best and trying to implement new ideas into our parenting very much feels like pioneering into the unknown for me. And I’m not confident about it. I worry that I’m just setting my kids up for failure, that I’m not helping them to reach their potential.
Anyways I know you have a lot going on and I’m not trying to bother you at all….but I just want you to know your podcast, your help, your ideas are going to help me immensely. I recognize that I need to change from the “old parenting “ style, or the style that I few up with. I need an update, I just don’t know where to turn. But I feel with your knowledge, and help that I finally found a chance to change in a positive way. I know we believe in eternal families…. But I want my kids to grow up and be excited about that idea haha not like “great I’m sealed to those weirdos” or my worst fear: my kids grow up and not feel loved by their parents. I think with your help I’ll be able to keep my relationship with my kids healthy. That’s all I want… is to have and keep healthy relationships with them. Your stuff is fantastic, and I’ve never messaged anyone like this before, or wanted to leave a review so bad before but I just needed to. Thank you thank you thank you… I love it.
Great for dads, too!
I really enjoy the perspective Ben brings to parenting! I find it helps to hear this guidance from another male who is also involved in coaching, church, and youth groups!