IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

Ben Pugh
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This podcast will help parents of teens keep life's struggles as a teen, and as a parent of a teen, in perspective. Parents will learn real tools to help them help their teens. They will learn how to build a rock solid relationship with their teen so they will have a powerful impact and a positive influence on their teen's life.

  1. 6D AGO

    Your Teen Isn’t the Problem… You Are (Here’s Why)

    "Send Ben a text" If your teen keeps breaking the same rules…  and nothing you try is working… this episode is for you. Most parents think they have a behavior problem. But that’s not the real issue. You don’t have a behavior problem…  you have a boundary problem. In this episode, we break down why consequences often fail and what to do instead. You’ll learn how to stop focusing on what your teen is doing…  and start focusing on what you can control. Because real change doesn’t start with your teen. It starts with you. In this episode, we talk about:  Why your teen keeps repeating the same behavior  Why consequences don’t work the way you think  The difference between behavior and boundaries  What you can control (and what you can’t)  How to respond without more power struggles If you feel stuck, frustrated, or worn out… you’re not alone. You’ve just been focused on the wrong problem. Want to take the next step? Take the Parent Trap Quiz (it takes less than a minute):  https://benpughcoaching.com/ptquizpodcast New episodes every week to help you parent with more clarity, calm, and confidence. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

    30 min

  2. APR 23

    Your Teen Isn’t Lazy… You’re Just Looking at It Wrong

    "Send Ben a text" Is your teen lazy… or are you just looking at it the wrong way? In this episode, we break down why your teen might not be motivated—and why it’s not what you think. Most teens aren’t lazy. They’re motivated by comfort, fun, and what matters to them… not always what matters to you. You’ll learn how motivation really works, why your teen resists what you push, and how to use things like privileges, values, and boundaries to help them take more responsibility—without constant fights. If you’re tired of nagging, pushing, and feeling frustrated… this episode will help you see your teen differently and show you what to do instead. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

    34 min

  3. APR 16

    Why Your Teen Wants Independence But Avoids Responsibility

    "Send Ben a text" In this episode, Ben and Nola Gephart talk about why teens want freedom but often avoid responsibility—and what parents can do about it. You’ll learn how to stop rescuing your teen, empower them to grow up, and help them earn independence the right way. NolaGephartCoaching.com Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

    36 min

  4. APR 9

    Stop Repeating Yourself: Boundaries That Actually Work

    "Send Ben a text" If you feel like you’re repeating yourself every day—and your teen still doesn’t listen—this episode is for you. “Be home on time.” “Do your homework.” “Get off your phone.” And nothing changes. Most parents think they have a teen problem. But what if it’s actually a boundary problem?  In this episode, we break down why most parenting boundaries don’t work—and how to fix them using a simple, practical framework you can start using today. You’ll learn how to stop power struggles, follow through without feeling like the bad guy, and create boundaries that actually work for both you and your teen. Because the goal isn’t to control your teen… It’s to lead yourself. Key Takeaways:  Why control creates resistance  The simple boundary formula that works  How to follow through without constant conflict  Why it’s never too late to change your parenting approach Next Step: If this episode resonates with you, share it with another parent who needs it—and leave a review to help more families find this message. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

    29 min

  5. APR 2

    This Book Wasn’t Written for Parents… But It Might Fix Your Relationship With Your Teen

    "Send Ben a text" What if your teen isn’t the problem? Most parenting advice tells you to fix their behavior. Get them to listen. Change their attitude. But what if that’s exactly why it’s not working? In this episode, I sit down with Randon Young, author of Foundations for Business Relationships, to unpack simple but powerful relationship principles that weren’t written for parents… but might be exactly what you need. We talk about:  • Why focusing on your teen often creates more disconnection  • How trying to “fix” them increases pressure and resistance  • What actually builds trust and connection  • A simple shift you can start using immediately If you feel like you’re trying everything and it’s still not working… this episode will challenge how you think about parenting—and show you a better way forward. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

    27 min

  6. MAR 26

    Why Saying “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough With Your Teen

    "Send Ben a text" You said “I’m sorry”…  But your teen is still upset. Now what? Most parents think an apology should fix things.  But with teens, it often doesn’t—and that’s where the frustration starts. In this episode, I’ll show you why your apology didn’t land…  and what your teen actually needs from you instead. You’ll learn:  Why “I’m sorry” alone often falls flat  The common mistake parents make after apologizing  How to rebuild trust without overexplaining or chasing your teen  What it looks like to lead with connection instead of control If you’ve ever tried to make things right with your teen and felt like nothing changed… this episode will help. Check out the blog: Episode 303 Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

    32 min

  7. MAR 20

    Why Your Teen Feels Disconnected From You (And How to Fix It)

    "Send Ben a text" Do you feel like your teen is pulling away? They don’t talk. They stay in their room. And nothing seems to work. Most parents think the problem is their teen. But what if it’s not? In this episode, I share why teens feel disconnected—and what actually helps you rebuild that connection. It’s simpler than you think. And it starts with you. 🎧 Listen now to learn how to reconnect with your teen. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

    28 min

  8. MAR 12

    How to Build a Relationship Your Teen Always Comes Back To (Let Go of Control)

    "Send Ben a text" Does it feel like your teen is pulling away from you? Most parents respond by trying to control things. They give more advice, fix problems, and try to guide every decision. But control often pushes teens farther away. In this episode of IMPACT! Parenting with Perspective, Ben and Cortni share two powerful parenting ideas: The Pool Edge and The Steering Wheel. You’ll learn why letting go of control can actually strengthen your relationship with your teen—and how to become the safe place your teen will always come back to. Are You Caught in the Parent Trap? Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free. Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen.  Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today. https://benpughcoaching.com/parenttrapquiz

    19 min
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This podcast will help parents of teens keep life's struggles as a teen, and as a parent of a teen, in perspective. Parents will learn real tools to help them help their teens. They will learn how to build a rock solid relationship with their teen so they will have a powerful impact and a positive influence on their teen's life.

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