35 episodes

The Knowing Her Sexually podcast helps Christian husbands who want to better understand their wife sexually so they can know and love her more deeply.

Knowing Her Sexually J Parker and Chris Taylor

    • Religion & Spirituality
    • 4.8 • 24 Ratings

The Knowing Her Sexually podcast helps Christian husbands who want to better understand their wife sexually so they can know and love her more deeply.

    "Be Worth Sleeping With," with Kevin A. Thompson

    "Be Worth Sleeping With," with Kevin A. Thompson

    Today, we are not just two Christian wives, but are joined by guest Kevin A. Thompson to discuss his blog post, "I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either," and its great takeaways.

    Resources
    I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either - Kevin A. Thompson Kevin's Full Website: kevinathompson.com Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work by Kevin A. Thompson Happily: 8 Commitments of Couples Who Laugh, Love & Last by Kevin A. Thompson Fearless Families: Building Brave Homes in an Uncertain World by Kevin A. Thompson Will Your Pastor Preach on Sex? | Hot, Holy & Humorous (with Kevin preaching on sex!) Happily Book Review: Contrarian Advice for a Great Marriage | Hot, Holy & Humorous Would Your Spouse Say You're a Christian? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Are You Owed Sex in Marriage? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Why I Won't Just Tell Your Spouse to Have Sex with You Already | Hot, Holy & Humorous Episode 6: Does Choreplay Work? | Knowing Her Sexually The Worst Way to Get Laid | Knowing Her Sexually Friends, Partners, & Lovers: Great Resource (review) | The Forgiven Wife

    This Week's Takeaway
    Ask your wife this simple question: What are the times you feel most loved by me? Listen to what she says and start doing more of that.

    • 25 min
    She Did It with a Boyfriend, So Why Not with Me?

    She Did It with a Boyfriend, So Why Not with Me?

    Chris and J tackle a question some husbands have asked: "Why won't my wife engage in a specific sexual activity with me when she did with a previous boyfriend?"
    Resources
    Your Wife’s Past - Knowing Her Sexually Entering Marriage with Sexual Baggage | Hot, Holy & Humorous Why You Feel Worse Than He Does about the Premarital Sex | Hot, Holy & Humorous Lessons Learned from Premarital Sex | The Forgiven Wife Transforming the Scars from a Premarital Past | The Forgiven Wife Do I Have To? | The Forgiven Wife This Week's Takeaway
    Pray for your wife to heal from her sexual baggage.
    Visit our website: khsministry.com

    • 12 min
    When Sex Hurts Her

    When Sex Hurts Her

    Is sex painful for your wife? J and Chris talk about what causes pain and how you can help your wife deal with it.

    Resources
    Episode 32: What Does Your Wife Need Before You Enter? Dealing with Vulvovaginal Atrophy without Hormones - The Forgiven Wife DIY Sex Swing - The Forgiven Wife When It Hurts: Maintaining Sexual Intimacy While Dealing with Pain - The Forgiven Wife Working Through Physical Pain in the Marriage Bed | Hot, Holy & Humorous Having Sex When You Have a Disability | Hot, Holy & Humorous Q&A with J: "Pain and UTIs Have Shut Down My Sex Life" | Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Your Wife Needs Extra Lube Wedge pillows (affiliate link) Penis sleeve (affiliate link) Sex swings (affiliate link)

    This Week's Takeaway
    Ask your wife if she has experienced pain during intercourse.

    • 16 min
    What Does Your Wife Need Before You Enter?

    What Does Your Wife Need Before You Enter?

    How do you know when your wife is ready for your penis to enter her vagina? It may not be what you think. J and Chris clue you in on what to look for.
    Resources
    Why woman are different from men and vice versa, by Amanda Gore Why Your Wife Needs Extra Lube - Knowing Her Sexually Let's Talk Lube | Hot, Holy & Humorous Good Clean Love Almost Naked Organic Water-Based Personal Lubricant Sliquid Naturals – Silver Silicone Based Personal Lubricant Jo Classic Hybrid Personal Lubricant - Married Dance Coconut Oil (made for the kitchen but works great for sex!)
    includes affiliate links This Week's Takeaway
    Next time you and your wife make love, continue foreplay until she asks you to enter her.
    Visit our website: khsministry.com

    • 13 min
    Why Do Women Overextend Themselves?

    Why Do Women Overextend Themselves?

    A woman's sexual interest is affected by everything else going on in her life, yet many overextend themselves so much that they don't have time or energy for sex. Chris is joined by Gaye Christmus from Calm.Healthy.Sexy. to explain why this happens and give husbands suggestions for how to create a change.

    Resources
    Calm.Healthy.Sexy. Where Do You Need to Say "No" to Say "Yes" to Your Marriage? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Don't Touch Me: I'm Busy! | Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Words Women Need to Learn to Say Husbands, How to Help Your Wife Feel Sexy Again How to Manage Your Family's Schedule this School Year 4 Simple Ways to Reduce Stress in Your Life and Marriage Calm. Healthy. Happy. - 17 Simple Ways to Slow Down, Feel Great, and Create Your Best Life as a Woman, Wife, and Mom

    This Week's Takeaway
    For overextending with outside responsibilities, make an agreement with your wife that before either of you takes on a new responsibility, you'll talk with each other about it.

    For overextending herself at home, ask her what is causing her the most stress and offer to take on the responsibility for those things.

    • 18 min
    What Your Wife Should Be Doing Differently

    What Your Wife Should Be Doing Differently

    Quite a few emails and comments we receive express hurt and frustration about wives avoiding sex. In todays' episode, J and Chris talk about what wives should be doing—and we share some insight about what you can do to help.

    Resources
    Your Husband's Hurt - The Forgiven Wife You Go First - The Forgiven Wife Why Is He Trying to Fix Sex When It's the Relationship That Is the Problem? - The Forgiven Wife Who Are You Praying to Change in Your Marriage? | Hot, Holy & Humorous Why I Won't Just Tell Your Spouse to Have Sex with You Already | Hot, Holy & Humorous Sex Chat for Christian Wives

    This Week's Takeaway
    Write out the ways you think your wife might be hurting and pray about what you've noted.

    • 17 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
24 Ratings

24 Ratings

JShrop ,

Great podcast! Thank you for this!

This is a great Podcast, especially for men who desire to pursue their wives in Godly way. My wife and I have an incredible marriage and I have wanted to grow in my ability to pursue her heart and to meet her needs in the bedroom like she does mine. This is a beautiful podcast that gives great information and tips on how to pursue my wife in a honorable way that will bless her heart and deepen our sexual intimacy.

Josephdan459 ,

Love the new show!

Excited to hear more episodes and learn how to communicate better with my wife.

BikerMike75 ,

Willing to Learn

Truthful. Honest. Helpful. Understanding.

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