Language of Love with Dr. Laura Berman The Language of Love

Ever felt like stress could be the invisible third wheel in your relationship? It's not just you. Stress has this uncanny ability to seep into our lives like an uninvited guest at a party—especially when it comes to relationships.

In this Language of Love Session, we catch up with Marla and Ken. Since our last chat they have been on quite a journey together through some major stresses, and they are learning to accept each others bids for connection which resulted in discovering a new hobby! It has not only led to “sprouting” some beautiful blooms, but also deepened their connection.

Marla opens up about her experiences with hormone therapy and the hurdles she's faced during intimate moments. But here's the kicker: with a bit of guidance on from me and a positive mindset, they're tackling these challenges head-on. It's clear these two are committed to not just surviving but thriving in their relationship journey.

For those who might have missed our previous episodes, I highly recommend going back and checking them out to get the full context of Marla and Ken's journey. It's been an enlightening experience, not just for them but for all of us listening in. So many of you tell me you’ve been learning along with them. 

So, let's delve into how things have been progressing since our last conversation including: 

How to recognize stress triggers in relationships

The overall impact of stress on relationships

Role kf hormone therapy in relationships and intimacy

Exploration of self-stimulation and overcoming resistance

Importance of approaching challenges with an open mind and curiosity


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Why does it seem like the nice guys finish last? Women say they want one, but they always seem to go for the bad boy in the end. 

In this Language of Love Bite, I uncover the truth about why women often find themselves captivated by the so-called "jerks," leaving nice guys in the dust and overlooked in favor of these "bad boys." It's not about advocating for guys to mistreat women, but rather understanding the complexities of attraction.

I am exploring:

The complex interplay of psychological and emotional factors in relationships

Women's past trauma and its impact on relationship preferences

The discrepancy between women's stated desires and their actual attraction

Women's self-worth and self-esteem affecting their acceptance of love and kindness

Guidance for nice guys to assert their opinions, desires, and boundaries in relationships


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The saying goes, “A parent is only as happy as their least happy child.” While this may be a bit of a codependent edict, it’s true that when your child is struggling with anxiety, depression or in any other way it takes a deep toll on the family system. And as parents we try everything we can think of to help, but often those efforts don’t create any substantive change. 

In this episode of the Language of Love, I welcome back my good friend Kristina Kuzmic, a writer, creator, and mother, to discuss her new book, I Can Fix This and Other Lies I Told Myself While Parenting My Struggling Child. If you're a regular listener, you'll likely recall our in-depth chat in 2023 about her book 'Hold On, But Don't Hold Still,' where we explored personalized parenting and supporting our children through mental health challenges.

Today, Kristina shares her journey of parenting Luca, her son who battled depression, ADHD, and anxiety. At a certain point he became suicidal and a danger to himself and others. Kristina’s journey and the amazingly authentic way she shares it is inspiring and instructive. 

We have a heart-to-heart chat about the importance of empathy and connection over trying to fix or control their struggles. She shares important and effective lessons she learned the hard way about how to best to support our kids through their toughest times.

 Kristina and I deep dive into:

What it takes to parent children who are struggling

Kristina's backstory that led her to write her book

Why we should embrace empathy over control with struggling children

The ways our Children's struggles require that we address our unhealed parts

The importance of self-care for parents to better support struggling children

Redefining “good motherhood”


Check out Kristina's new book, I Can Fix This and Other Lies I Told Myself While Parenting My Struggling Child, as well as her previous bestseller, Hold On, But Don't Hold Still, for valuable insights. Follow her on LinkedIn, Website, Facebook, or Instagram for updates on her projects. And don’t forget, you can visit my website for helpful courses and resources designed for you.

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Have you ever thought about what it's like to live under the same roof with someone who once promised to love and protect you, but now subjects you to a relentless storm of emotional jabs, verbal assaults, gaslighting and manipulation?

Welcome back to another Language of Love Session. Today, I'm chatting with Mia, who's on a journey of healing and self-discovery after leaving an emotionally abusive relationship with a narcissist. We're diving into her  journey of self-discovery and navigating the challenges of sharing space with her ex while sorting out the drama of divorce.

Setting boundaries is a big part of our conversation today—so crucial for reclaiming your confidence after a rough patch. I'm reminding Mia (and you, too!) about the power of letting those pent-up emotions out. It's like clearing out your closet—you've got to make space for the new by letting go of the old!

Here is what we explore:


The emotional toll of narcissistic relationships

How to recover from codependency and reclaim your own truth (again and again)

The steps to leaving an abusive relationship

Expressing and releasing emotions in a safe and non-destructive manner

Encouragement to allow oneself to feel and release sadness without suppression

Creating a safe space for holding your own boundaries

Importance of ongoing support and guidance during the transition out of the relationship


Remember, if you're going through a tough time, swing by my website for resources and courses. Let's tackle this healing journey together and come out stronger!

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Are you ever uncertain about your sexual confidence? Whether it's feeling self-conscious with your partner or nerves about your first time, rest assured, you're not alone. No matter your level of experience, I'm here to help you feel more comfortable with your sexuality. 

In this  Language of Love Bite, I dive into a topic that many people shy away from discussing—sexual confidence. Strengthening your sexual confidence can greatly enhance both your mental well-being and your relationships. It might feel like opening Pandora's box, but fear not! I'll guide you through how to cultivate that crucial sexual confidence, unveiling the seven keys to mastering it. I'll reveal what it takes to bring your A-game to the bedroom, leaving your partner craving more. Get ready to feel empowered and equipped with everything you need to excel between the sheets!

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We can add so much to our existence in this modern world by tapping into the ancient traditions that have so much to teach us.  When it comes to grief and loss, rituals can provide opportunities for profound healing, connection and community. 

Cynthia Ruiz, a professor, bestselling author, executive coach, and leadership expert joins us in this Language of Love Conversation to explore the transformative power of sacred ceremonies and rituals in today's busy world. Her latest book, “Sacred Ceremony and Rituals for Today's World,” is a cornerstone for our discussion. Drawing from her Cherokee heritage, Cynthia illuminates the purpose and practice of sacred ceremonies, a cornerstone of human experience across cultures and time. These rituals, she explains, are not just relics of the past but vital tools for personal growth and healing in our contemporary lives.

Here is what we unravel:

Importance of self-protection rituals and protecting one's energy

Significance of rituals and ceremonies in Native American culture

The importance of incorporating sacred ceremony into everyday life

Elements involved in creating a sacred ceremony

Use of the four elements - fire, water, earth, and air - for release and cleansing

Letting go of toxic relationships and making room for positive energy


Cynthia's wisdom is readily accessible in her book “Sacred Ceremony and Rituals for Today's World,” You can also connect with her on LinkedIn, Facebook, or Website. Visit my website to explore courses designed to enhance your relationships.
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