LET’S TALK WITH BEN, BRAD & COIT

LET'S TALK
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This isn’t just another men’s podcast. It’s real conversations. Real laughter. Real growth. Hosted by Ben De Boef, Brad Dorethy, and Coit Willis, this show blends lighthearted humor with honest discussions about the issues men actually face — faith, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, struggles, purpose, and everything in between. Whether you’re saved, searching, skeptical, or somewhere in the middle, this podcast creates space for men to talk openly, grow intentionally, and pursue becoming fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ. We’ll make you laugh. We’ll challenge you. We’ll move you forward. Because men were never meant to do life alone. New episodes weekly. Pull up a chair and join the conversation.

  1. 4d ago ·  Video

    WHY MEN NEED THE HOLY SPIRIT FOR BATTLE

    Carrying the Fire: Holy Spirit, Power, and BattleThis episode of Let's Talk with Ben, Brad, and Coit centers on the Holy Spirit and why spiritual power matters for men who want to live ready for battle. They unpack the baptism in the Holy Spirit, the meaning of tongues, and why Jesus told his followers to wait for power before going out.Brad shares his own powerful encounter with the Holy Spirit after salvation, and Coit explains how the Spirit equips believers for witness, prayer, and endurance in everyday spiritual warfare. Key topicsIn this episode, Ben opens the series connection to being built for battle and explains why Holy Spirit power is essential, not optional.Coit defines the Holy Spirit as the third person of the Trinity and frames baptism in the Spirit as a separate work from salvation and water baptism.Brad shares his testimony of being radically saved in 1995, then later being filled with the Holy Spirit and speaking in tongues.The hosts walk through Acts 1 and Acts 2, emphasizing Jesus' instruction to wait in Jerusalem for power before ministry.They discuss Joel 2 and the promise that God would pour out His Spirit on all flesh, including sons, daughters, young men, and old men.The episode breaks down different uses of tongues, including public tongues with interpretation and private prayer language.Coit highlights Romans 8 and the Spirit's role in intercession when believers do not know how to pray as they should.The conversation addresses cessation theology and why the hosts believe tongues and Spirit baptism are still for today.Brad and Coit both point to the personal, edifying effect of praying in the Spirit daily as preparation for spiritual battle.The episode closes with prayer for listeners to receive the fire, power, and presence of the Holy Spirit.Timestamps00:00 - Opening the built for battle series and introducing Holy Spirit power 00:38 - Why the Holy Spirit is the central piece of spiritual readiness 01:37 - Who the Holy Spirit is as the third person of the Trinity 02:03 - The three baptisms and why the Spirit baptism matters 02:52 - Brad's salvation story and first radical encounter with God 04:45 - Being filled with the Holy Spirit without human prompting 06:02 - Jesus' command to wait for power in Jerusalem 06:58 - Joel 2, Acts, and the promise poured out on all flesh 08:09 - Why the baptism in the Holy Spirit is for believers today 09:09 - Public tongues, private tongues, and the question of who receives them 10:21 - Why public tongues need interpretation in church settings 11:08 - Two public uses and two private uses of tongues 12:16 - Romans 8 and intercession through the Spirit 12:46 - A story of intercession while a missionary was held at gunpoint 13:44 - Personal prayer in tongues as direct prayer to God 14:38 - How praying in the Spirit builds you up like a house 15:27 - False fire, deception, and protecting the real move of God 16:39 - Why cessation theology misses the ongoing work of the Spirit 17:44 - "Face to face" means Jesus' return, not the closing of gifts 19:15 - Eagerly desiring spiritual gifts with biblical balance 20:20 - Why it is short sighted to close yourself off from God's gifts 21:03 - Jesus baptized and led by the Spirit into the wilderness 21:59 - Brad's story of receiving the Spirit at age 11 and then witnessing 24:14 - Camp testimony and students physically sensing the Spirit 25:39 - Why the church cannot become Father, Son, and Holy Bible only 26:35 - The Holy Spirit as counselor and guide for witness 27:22 - Praying for listeners to receive the fire of the Holy Spirit

    WHY MEN NEED THE HOLY SPIRIT FOR BATTLE

  2. Aug 5 ·  Video

    THE ARMOR MEN LEAVE BEHIND EVERY MORNIG

    Arm Yourself for Battle: Spiritual Warfare and ManhoodAre you aware of the invisible war happening around us and within us? Most men go through their days fighting flesh and blood, unaware of the spiritual forces actively seeking to destroy our purpose, identity, and peace. In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit share personal stories, Biblical insights, and practical advice on how to recognize and gear up for the real fight — spiritual warfare. Episode SummaryJoin us as we explore the nature of spiritual warfare from a biblical perspective, focusing on how often we fight flesh and blood when the real enemy operates behind the scenes. We discuss the importance of seeing others through God's eyes rather than fleshly reactions, and how to equip ourselves daily with the armor of God. Learn practical steps to discern the unseen battles and to stand firm against the enemy’s schemes. Key Talking PointsPersonal stories of physical and spiritual fights, including Brad’s high school encounter and military experiencesThe biblical foundation of spiritual warfare in Ephesians 6:12 and the full armor of GodRecognizing the enemy behind fleshly conflicts and how spiritual deception influences our perceptionsThe importance of guarding our hearts and minds from spiritual lies about our identity and purposeThe concept of being "dangerous" spiritually — capable of standing firm and fighting back when neededPractical ways to put on the armor every day through prayer, the Word, and intentional spiritual disciplineScripture ReferencesEphesians 6:12-17 — The full armor of GodJohn 10:10 — The thief comes to steal, kill, and destroyGenesis 3:1 — The serpent's deception2 Corinthians 10:3-5 — Spiritual warfare for the destruction of strongholdsPractical TakeawaysPray daily for eyes to see and ears to hear what’s happening behind the scenesStudy and meditate on Ephesians 6 to understand each piece of armor and its applicationGuard your mind and heart, especially regarding your identity, purpose, and the way you see othersRecognize that every conflict is connected to a spiritual battle — choose love and compassion over fleshly reactionsBe prepared spiritually by reading the Word and staying in prayer before stepping into the world each dayCall To ActionStart today by making it a habit to put on the full armor of God each morning. Pray, ask for discernment, and look for opportunities to stand firm in faith. Share this episode with a brother in Christ who needs encouragement to see the unseen battle and to fight with spiritual weapons. Timestamps00:00 - Recognizing the unseen war around us 03:25 - The spiritual nature of the real enemy 07:55 - Biblical foundation of spiritual warfare in Ephesians 6 12:01 - Guarding our identity and purpose against spiritual deception 17:25 - The importance of spiritual readiness and danger in masculinity 22:42 - Seeing people through God's eyes rather than the enemy’s distortion 28:30 - Practical steps to put on the armor of God daily 34:32 - How to make spiritual armor a daily rhythm Resources & LinksLinktr.ee/Letstalkthepod for more resources and connection

    THE ARMOR MEN LEAVE BEHIND EVERY MORNIG

  3. Jul 29 ·  Video

    THE KEY MEN OVERLOOK

    Are men meant to fight alone, or is real strength found in community?In this episode of Let’s Talk, we dig into the biblical and cultural truths about brotherhood, vulnerability, and how isolation is our enemy's greatest weapon. Ben, Coit and Brad unpack the dangerous solo warrior myth we see in media and history — and reveal why true resilience requires surrounding yourself with brothers who will sharpen and protect you, especially in spiritual battles.They share powerful stories, from the surprising lion licks in Africa to the transformative power of authentic community in churches and CrossFit groups. You’ll discover how true community isn’t just about proximity — it’s built on shared passions, healthy conflict, and vulnerability. But avoiding that can leave men exposed to unseen dangers: substance abuse, emotional disconnection, and spiritual attack.Learn how the biblical call in 1 Peter 5.8 to stay alert in the face of an enemy prowling like a lion relates directly to your life today. Ben and Brad emphasize that real strength comes from being honest about your struggles, stepping into safe environments, and leading with vulnerability — not perfection. They challenge you to rethink the solo warrior image and reveal practical steps to find, build, and sustain real community rooted in faith, fun, and shared purpose.Whether you're feeling isolated at church, unsure how to start authentic friendships, or simply want to be a better brother to others, this conversation is your blueprint for fighting the fight with others by your side. Because in this battle called life, one thing’s certain: you don’t have to — and shouldn’t — fight alone. FAITH FOCUS: We explore how God's design for community mirrors the military’s unit strategy — fighting together, standing guard against spiritual lions, and encouraging one another in vulnerability as Christ’s body. If this episode challenged or inspired you, subscribe and share it with a brother. Tune in every Wednesday at 8AM for more honest conversations on becoming built for battle—together.

    THE KEY MEN OVERLOOK

  4. Jul 22 ·  Video

    THE HIDDEN WAR IN YOUR MIND

    The Subtle But Prevalent Mental Pollutants for Christian MenIn this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit dive into the often overlooked mental pollutants that Christian men willingly invite into their minds daily—distractions disguised as entertainment and staying informed. They explore how these influences shape our thoughts and spiritual health, and provide practical insights to guard our minds. What you'll gain:Awareness of common mental pollutants in modern lifePractical strategies to guard your mind and deepen your faithReflection on how media consumption impacts your spiritual walkKey talking points:The influence of negative news and media on mental healthWhy staying constantly informed can be a form of mental pollutionThe impact of pornography, raunchy movies, and inappropriate entertainment choicesbiblical perspective on guarding the mind (Philippians 4:8, Romans 12:2)Actionable steps to reduce exposure and protect your spiritual wellbeingStandout Quotes:“The way we stay informed can become an entry point for mental pollution.”“Limiting negative media is a spiritual discipline.”“What we consume shapes our thoughts—make it count for faith.”Scripture References:Philippians 4:8Romans 12:2Practical Takeaways:Audit your daily media consumption and identify pollutantsReplace negative content with Scripture and faith-building resourcesSet boundaries around entertainment and news intakeConnect with us:https://linktr.ee/letstalkthepodJoin us as we discuss how to recognize and eliminate the mental pollutants that hinder our spiritual growth, helping you live with greater clarity and faithfulness.

    THE HIDDEN WAR IN YOUR MIND

  5. Jul 15 ·  Video

    THE HIDDEN WAR INSIDE YOUR HOME

    Ready to lead your family with purpose and faith? In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore the vital, battle-worthy role of men defending and building their households according to God's design. Discover how to be spiritually vigilant, intentionally build legacy, and reflect Christ's love within your family. Your greatest victory isn't just in work or wealth—it’s in cultivating a legacy rooted in love, faith, and steadfast leadership. In this episode:The biblical call to fight for our families with both spiritual and practical weaponsBalancing the spiritual and physical protection of your homeRecognizing the subtle signs that your family’s defenses are downThe power of legacy and how our family’s story impacts future generationsPractical steps for guarding your home against screen invasions and negative influencesThe importance of sacrificial love and spiritual vigilance in everyday leadershipStandout Quotes:"The most important battles we face as men aren’t out in the world—they are within the four walls of our own homes." 🔥"Fight for your family. It’s a legacy battle that leaves a kingdom impact." ✝️"God didn't design us to be passive; He calls us to stand guard and lead with love.""Legacy isn’t about buildings or bank accounts—it’s about the people you raise in faith.""Peace on earth starts in the home when men stand up and fight the good fight."Scripture References:Nehemiah 4:14 – "Fight for your families"Ephesians 6:11-17 – Spiritual armor for protectionRevelation 12:11 – Overcoming by the blood and testimonyPractical Takeaways:Prioritize prayer and spiritual vigilance daily—guard your home in the SpiritLead with sacrificial love, humility, and owning your mistakesBe intentional with your time: build valuable moments with your familyUse technology wisely—set boundaries to protect your household from harmful influencesRemember, your legacy is built in everyday faithfulness, not just big victoriesNext Steps:Reflect on the legacy you're leaving—what story are you writing with your actions?Commit to one practical change today: pray with your family, set tech boundaries, or own a mistake openlyJoin a local men's group or accountability partner to stay encouraged and held accountable in your leadershipResources:Let’s Talk the Podcast — Stay connected, get resources, and continue the conversation! Never forget, with Christ at the center, you’re equipped to lead your family to victory. Build intentionally, fight bravely, and leave a legacy that lasts for eternity.Blessings in His name—see you next time!

    THE HIDDEN WAR INSIDE YOUR HOME

  6. Jul 8 ·  Video

    ARE YOU FOLLOWING THE RIGHT COMPASS

    In this episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore what it truly means to stand firm in our convictions as men built for battle. They emphasize that the Holy Spirit is our guide, helping us discern God’s voice from the enemy’s, and reveal how biblical conviction leads to freedom, transformation, and alignment with God's purpose. |KEY TOPICS| The difference between common personal convictions and Spirit-led convictionsHow revelation from God produces true conviction and transformationThe importance of humility and healthy fear of our own capacity for sinGuardrails: practical personal convictions to protect your marriage, family, and integrityHow to discern whether conviction is from Holy Spirit or the enemyThe significance of aligning our goals with God's calling rather than personal ambitionsThe dangers of following our heart and culture’s “follow your feelings” mentalityBuilding spiritual compasses: Holy Spirit vs personal convictionsPractical steps to respond when feeling defensive or tempted to run from convictionHow to remain humble, teachable, and receptive to Holy Spirit in everyday life |SCRIPTURE REFERENCES| Jeremiah 17:9 — "The heart is deceitful above all things."John 16:8 — "When He comes, He will convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment."Psalm 139:23-24 — "Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts." Develop an ongoing relationship with the Holy Spirit through prayer and Bible reading, asking Him to guide your convictions.Create personal guardrails based on biblical principles—things you will not compromise.Regularly evaluate your goals: Are they aligned with God's calling or your own ambitions?Practice humility by acknowledging your human frailty and need for God's grace daily.Respond to conviction with repentance and obedience, even when it’s uncomfortable.Trust that as you listen and obey, the Spirit produces freedom, peace, and fruitfulness in your life. Brothers, lean into the Holy Spirit today—ask Him to reveal any areas in your life that need conviction and correction. Commit to aligning your goals with God's purpose and build your life on biblical truth and Spirit-led guidance. Share this episode with other men seeking to build relationships God's way, and visit our linktree for resources to deepen your walk with Jesus. https://linktr.ee/letstalkthepod 00:00 - Welcome & introduction to building a life built for battle 02:08 - The importance of conviction in our walk with Christ 09:55 - What are real convictions? Biblical and cultural perspectives 14:21 - The Holy Spirit’s role in producing conviction and transformation 22:43 - How to discern Holy Spirit conviction from personal preferences 33:20 - Building spiritual compasses aligned with God's purpose 41:14 - Practical steps to respond when feeling defensive or tempted to run 44:30 - The importance of humility and being teachable 47:46 - Encouragement to listen to the Holy Spirit and stay humble 48:10 - Closing prayer and challenge to pursue God's conviction Links: Let's Talk Podcast on Linktree

    ARE YOU FOLLOWING THE RIGHT COMPASS

  7. Jul 1

    UNLOCK GOD'S POWER IN YOUR QUIET MOMENTS

    Winning the War on Your Knees: Building a Strong Prayer LifeFeeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure how to pray effectively? You're not alone—and today, we're focusing on how purposeful prayer can transform your walk with Christ and empower you to face life's battles with hope and strength rooted in Jesus. Join Ben, Brad, Coit, and special guest Timothy Tuttle as they explore the power of prayer, breaking down simple, practical steps to deepen your relationship with God through honest, authentic communication. In this episode, you'll learn how prayer is more than words—it's a conversation of the soul with your Heavenly Father. We discuss the importance of consistency, the prayer templates that help keep you grounded, and how prayer acts as both a shield and a sword in life's battles. Expect encouragement to pursue intimacy with Jesus daily and practical tips to start or strengthen your prayer life today, no matter where you're at. Key Talking Points Prayer as a dynamic conversation, not just religious dutyThe importance of simple, authentic prayers ("Help me," "Thank you," "Lord, I need You")Using the Lord's Prayer as a template for effective prayerThe role of prayer in building spiritual resilience ("gas on the plane")Prayer’s dual role: offensive (uniting against spiritual strongholds) and defensive (shielding from trials)The power of praying in the Spirit and in tongues for spiritual edificationPractical steps for new believers: start voicing thoughts, pray consistently, and find a quiet placeThe significance of timing: prayer before the day begins, in moments of need, and throughout life's daily routineThe importance of unlocking our hearts and being vulnerable before GodHow prayer influences future generations and spiritual legacyCall to ActionTake a step today—whether it’s a quick, honest prayer while driving, a quiet moment in your home, or joining a prayer group. Commit to intentionally making prayer a regular part of your life and build that vital relationship with Jesus. Share this episode with a friend who needs encouragement to pray more intentionally. And, most importantly, ask God to teach you how to pray His way—for His glory and your transformation. Timestamps (00:00) - Introduction: Why most men struggle with prayer(03:26) - The power of prayer & why it's essential in spiritual warfare(07:59) - What is prayer? Understanding its true nature(10:50) - Authenticity in prayer: Job's boldness & vulnerability(15:00) - Practical steps to start praying today(20:34) - How to incorporate prayer into daily routines(25:26) - Jesus' example: The importance of seeking solitude for prayer(30:55) - The Lord’s Prayer as a simple but powerful template(35:32) - Prayer as both a shield & a sword in spiritual battles(45:39) - Recognizing the power of simple prayers & resting in God's presence(50:07) - Overcoming doubts: Prayer works & the legacy of prayer in your family(58:37) - The greater work of prayer—preparing your heart for revivalLinks & Resources Let's Talk Podcast - LinkTree

    UNLOCK GOD'S POWER IN YOUR QUIET MOMENTS

  8. Jun 24

    DUST OFF YOUR BIBLE - THE WEAPON YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO LEAVE IDLE

    Are you feeling unprepared for the spiritual battles you're facing? In this empowering episode, Ben, Brad, and Coit explore how to build yourself up as a man of God—focused on readiness, the importance of God's Word, and practical ways to stay in the fight. Learn how to armor up and wield the sword of the Spirit with confidence, so you can face life's challenges with divine strength and hope rooted in Jesus. In this episode:The meaning of being built for spiritual battle and the importance of readinessWhy the Bible is our ultimate weapon and how to select the right translationRecognizing the spiritual battle around us and the lies that threaten our faithHow to develop daily rhythms and community support to stay in God's WordPractical steps for new believers or those feeling distant from GodThe importance of knowing and defending biblical truth in a world of counterfeit teachingsStandout Quotes:"The Bible is a weapon of war—a divine tool to fight against darkness." 🔥"Knowing the Word can be like having your daily compass—your true North in a chaotic world.""Get a word out of the Word every day—it's the Holy Spirit's way to refresh and sharpen your soul.""Study the real, so you can spot the fake—know what Scripture says, so we're not deceived."Scripture References:Ephesians 6:10-18 — The Armor of God2 Timothy 3:16 — The Word as God-breathed and usefulHebrews 4:12 — The Word sharper than a double-edged swordIsaiah 58 — A call to true service and hearing God's voicePractical Takeaways:Prioritize daily time in Scripture—start with a few verses, then grow.Engage in community Bible studies or men's groups to deepen understanding.Get a good study Bible, like the Fire Bible, for better insight.Recognize the spiritual fight—you're in a war for your soul, your family, and your future.Lead your family in Bible reading—be a spiritual general in your home.Next Steps:Start today: open your Bible, even if it's just a few verses.Find one or two men to read and pray with regularly.Study a book like John, Psalms, or Proverbs to begin your journey.Share what you learn with others—be accountable, be consistent. resources:Let’s Talk the Podcast for more encouragement and toolsTimestamps: 00:00 - The importance of being built for battle as men of God 02:02 - Defining readiness and preparation in spiritual warfare 03:14 - Picking up the sword: Choosing the right Bible translation 08:38 - Recognizing the spiritual battle around us and the danger of false teachings 12:10 - The Bible as our true North—standing on God's inerrant Word 14:29 - Navigating social media and worldly influences that obscure truth 17:51 - The importance of knowing the real Scripture to spot counterfeits 22:47 - Practical tools to stay in the Word daily and grow in community 29:20 - Building a rhythm of Scripture and support to face life's battles 36:02 - Leading the next generation in God's Word and faith

    DUST OFF YOUR BIBLE - THE WEAPON YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO LEAVE IDLE
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This isn’t just another men’s podcast. It’s real conversations. Real laughter. Real growth. Hosted by Ben De Boef, Brad Dorethy, and Coit Willis, this show blends lighthearted humor with honest discussions about the issues men actually face — faith, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, struggles, purpose, and everything in between. Whether you’re saved, searching, skeptical, or somewhere in the middle, this podcast creates space for men to talk openly, grow intentionally, and pursue becoming fully devoted followers of Jesus Christ. We’ll make you laugh. We’ll challenge you. We’ll move you forward. Because men were never meant to do life alone. New episodes weekly. Pull up a chair and join the conversation.

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