Loud & Lifted

Betsy Hamm

A women in leadership show with real tools for career growth, visibility, and executive presence. Loud & Lifted is a female leadership podcast hosted by former CEO Betsy Hamm. We flip the script on what it truly takes for women to thrive at work—beyond slogans. Expect raw conversations and 10-minute Quick Lifts with actionable playbooks on authentic leadership, navigating change, overcoming imposter syndrome, and building sponsors who open doors. No fluff, no fake cheerleading—just practical career advice, stories from women founders and operators, and steps you can use today. If you believe in women supporting women with action, not lip service, you’re in.

  1. Likeable Badass Quick Lift: Warmth + Competence = Status (Alison Fragale)

    JAN 29

    Likeable Badass Quick Lift: Warmth + Competence = Status (Alison Fragale)

    Episode Overview This quick recap pulls the most actionable ideas from my conversation with Dr. Alison Fragale, author of Likeable Badass—so you can earn more respect (status), influence outcomes, and still feel like yourself doing it. Be warm → get overlooked. Be strong → get judged. Show confidence → get questioned. … So let’s fix the game instead of blaming you. Summary In this Quick Lift, we break down Alison’s core concept: people make fast judgments about you based on warmth and competence. When you intentionally signal both, you build status—and status becomes influence. The best part? The move is usually adding clarity and confidence, not subtracting kindness. Key Takeaways Status is built (not granted): Warmth + Competence → Respect → InfluencePower vs. status: A title can give power, but respect creates leverage“Too nice” isn’t a personality problem: it’s usually a signal problem (they’re not seeing enough competence/confidence)Self-promotion without backlash: Brag + Thank (claim impact + share credit)Tough conversations land better when you think in a relationship timeline: past + present + future signalsQuick Lift Moves (try these this week) Pick one signal to turn up:Warmth: give public credit, a real check-in, a specific complimentCompetence: crisp POV, decisive language, bring the solutionUse this sentence starter in meetings:“My recommendation is ___, because ___.”Try Brag + Thank once (email, meeting, weekly update, LinkedIn):“I’m proud of . Huge thanks to for __.”Links & Resources Alison's site: https://www.alisonfragale.com/ Alison's Instagram: @alisonfragale Buy Likeable Badass: https://amzn.to/4628vSU Loud & Lifted Podcast: https://www.loudandliftedpodcast.com/ Sign up for L&L newsletter: https://loud-lifted.kit.com/profile/links

    11 min
  2. JAN 21

    Career Growth for Women: The Likeable Badass Method to Build Influence

    Women in leadership often get stuck in the likability vs. competence double bind—and it can stall career growth for women even when performance is strong. In this episode, organizational psychologist Dr. Alison Fragale shares the “Likeable Badass” approach to build leadership confidence, strengthen executive presence, and increase influence at work—without shrinking, over-explaining, or apologizing for being direct. If you’ve ever softened your message, over-explained, or held back from advocating for yourself because you didn’t want to be “that person”… this episode is for you. Alison breaks down why the likability-competence tradeoff shows up so often for women, and the practical shifts that help you build influence without contorting yourself into someone else’s comfort zone. Takeaways Stop aiming to be liked. Aim to be respected and trusted—there’s a difference, and it changes your results.Status isn’t about ego. It’s how your value becomes visible (and rewarded).Warmth without strength gets you overlooked. Strength without warmth can trigger backlash. The goal is both.Self-advocacy doesn’t need to feel salesy—it needs to be clear, specific, and connected to outcomes.Use cleaner language. Less apologizing, fewer “justs,” and no pre-defending your point before you make it.Links & Resources Dr. Alison Fragale Likeable Badass (book)Follow Alison on InstagramLoud & Lifted Podcast: https://www.loudandliftedpodcast.com/ Sign up for L&L newsletter: https://loud-lifted.kit.com/profile/links Guest Bio Dr. Alison Fragale is an organizational psychologist, professor at the University of North Carolina Kenan-Flagler Business School, and bestselling author of Likeable Badass: How Women Get the Success They Deserve. Her academic research on status, power, negotiation, and influence have been published in her field’s top academic journals as well as national media outlets, including The Wall Street Journal and The New York Times. She is a sought-after keynote speaker who uses behavioral science to help individuals, especially women, excel. Prior to her academic career, Alison worked as a consultant for McKinsey and Company, Inc. She holds a B.A. in Mathematics and Economics from Dartmouth College and a Ph.D. in Organizational Behavior from the Stanford University Graduate School of Business.

    35 min

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A women in leadership show with real tools for career growth, visibility, and executive presence. Loud & Lifted is a female leadership podcast hosted by former CEO Betsy Hamm. We flip the script on what it truly takes for women to thrive at work—beyond slogans. Expect raw conversations and 10-minute Quick Lifts with actionable playbooks on authentic leadership, navigating change, overcoming imposter syndrome, and building sponsors who open doors. No fluff, no fake cheerleading—just practical career advice, stories from women founders and operators, and steps you can use today. If you believe in women supporting women with action, not lip service, you’re in.

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