Loud & Lifted

Betsy Hamm
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A women in leadership show with real tools for career growth, visibility, and executive presence. Loud & Lifted is a female leadership podcast hosted by former CEO Betsy Hamm. We flip the script on what it truly takes for women to thrive at work—beyond slogans. Expect raw conversations and 10-minute Quick Lifts with actionable playbooks on authentic leadership, navigating change, overcoming imposter syndrome, and building sponsors who open doors. No fluff, no fake cheerleading—just practical career advice, stories from women founders and operators, and steps you can use today. If you believe in women supporting women with action, not lip service, you’re in.

  1. Quick Lift Olympic Gold Mindset for Women in Leadership: Pressure, Confidence & Comparison

    1D AGO

    Quick Lift Olympic Gold Mindset for Women in Leadership: Pressure, Confidence & Comparison

    You can be the best in the world at something… and still battle self-doubt, comparison, and “do I belong here?” thoughts. In this under-10-minute Quick Lift, We are breaking down the most actionable lessons from Olympic gold medalist Charlotte Worthington—so you can use them in your next big meeting, pitch, or hard conversation. In this Quick Lift, you’ll take away: A 10-second pressure reset you can use before high-stakes momentsA simple way to “rehearse” your mindset so you’re not surprised by anxious thoughtsA process-over-outcome focus to stay present and performA reframe for comparison that builds confidence and community: swap comparison for admirationFollow Loud & Lifted for more confidence tools, career growth for women, and real conversations about women in leadership. Follow Charlotte!

    9 min
  2. Stop comparing yourself: Lessons from an Olympian

    FEB 5

    Stop comparing yourself: Lessons from an Olympian

    Ever notice how the higher you achieve, the louder the expectations get? Olympic gold medalist Charlotte Worthington gets it—because she’s lived it in the most high-stakes arena possible. In this episode, Charlotte shares how she built mental toughness in a sport that’s equal parts fearless and strategic, why confidence is a practice (not a personality trait), and the simple mindset shift that changed everything for her: swap comparison for admiration. You’ll hear about: How Charlotte went from new BMX rider to Olympic track fast (without “waiting until she was ready”)The tools she uses to stay calm under pressure: breathing + visualization + thought rehearsalWhy “I have to be the best in the room” is a trap (and what to do instead)Individual sport vs. team energy—and how she learned to drop ego and embrace supportThe confidence reframe every woman in leadership needs: comparison → admirationLinks / Resources Follow Charlotte on Instagram: @ChazWertherBook mentioned: Ego Is the Enemy by Ryan HolidayLoud & Lifted Links

    35 min
  3. Likeable Badass Quick Lift: Warmth + Competence = Status (Alison Fragale)

    JAN 29

    Likeable Badass Quick Lift: Warmth + Competence = Status (Alison Fragale)

    Episode Overview This quick recap pulls the most actionable ideas from my conversation with Dr. Alison Fragale, author of Likeable Badass—so you can earn more respect (status), influence outcomes, and still feel like yourself doing it. Be warm → get overlooked. Be strong → get judged. Show confidence → get questioned. … So let’s fix the game instead of blaming you. Summary In this Quick Lift, we break down Alison’s core concept: people make fast judgments about you based on warmth and competence. When you intentionally signal both, you build status—and status becomes influence. The best part? The move is usually adding clarity and confidence, not subtracting kindness. Key Takeaways Status is built (not granted): Warmth + Competence → Respect → InfluencePower vs. status: A title can give power, but respect creates leverage“Too nice” isn’t a personality problem: it’s usually a signal problem (they’re not seeing enough competence/confidence)Self-promotion without backlash: Brag + Thank (claim impact + share credit)Tough conversations land better when you think in a relationship timeline: past + present + future signalsQuick Lift Moves (try these this week) Pick one signal to turn up:Warmth: give public credit, a real check-in, a specific complimentCompetence: crisp POV, decisive language, bring the solutionUse this sentence starter in meetings:“My recommendation is ___, because ___.”Try Brag + Thank once (email, meeting, weekly update, LinkedIn):“I’m proud of . Huge thanks to for __.”Links & Resources Alison's site: https://www.alisonfragale.com/ Alison's Instagram: @alisonfragale Buy Likeable Badass: https://amzn.to/4628vSU Loud & Lifted Podcast: https://www.loudandliftedpodcast.com/ Sign up for L&L newsletter: https://loud-lifted.kit.com/profile/links

    11 min

  4. JAN 21

    Career Growth for Women: The Likeable Badass Method to Build Influence

    Women in leadership often get stuck in the likability vs. competence double bind—and it can stall career growth for women even when performance is strong. In this episode, organizational psychologist Dr. Alison Fragale shares the “Likeable Badass” approach to build leadership confidence, strengthen executive presence, and increase influence at work—without shrinking, over-explaining, or apologizing for being direct. If you’ve ever softened your message, over-explained, or held back from advocating for yourself because you didn’t want to be “that person”… this episode is for you. Alison breaks down why the likability-competence tradeoff shows up so often for women, and the practical shifts that help you build influence without contorting yourself into someone else’s comfort zone. Takeaways Stop aiming to be liked. Aim to be respected and trusted—there’s a difference, and it changes your results.Status isn’t about ego. It’s how your value becomes visible (and rewarded).Warmth without strength gets you overlooked. Strength without warmth can trigger backlash. The goal is both.Self-advocacy doesn’t need to feel salesy—it needs to be clear, specific, and connected to outcomes.Use cleaner language. Less apologizing, fewer “justs,” and no pre-defending your point before you make it.Links & Resources Dr. Alison Fragale Likeable Badass (book)Follow Alison on InstagramLoud & Lifted Podcast: https://www.loudandliftedpodcast.com/ Sign up for L&L newsletter: https://loud-lifted.kit.com/profile/links Guest Bio Dr. Alison Fragale is an organizational psychologist, professor at the University of North Carolina Kenan-Flagler Business School, and bestselling author of Likeable Badass: How Women Get the Success They Deserve. Her academic research on status, power, negotiation, and influence have been published in her field’s top academic journals as well as national media outlets, including The Wall Street Journal and The New York Times. She is a sought-after keynote speaker who uses behavioral science to help individuals, especially women, excel. Prior to her academic career, Alison worked as a consultant for McKinsey and Company, Inc. She holds a B.A. in Mathematics and Economics from Dartmouth College and a Ph.D. in Organizational Behavior from the Stanford University Graduate School of Business.

    35 min
  5. Quick Lift: Handling Narcissists, Bullies & Micromanagers bosses

    JAN 15

    Quick Lift: Handling Narcissists, Bullies & Micromanagers bosses

    Micromanagers, Narcissists, and Bullies — and how to protect your peace without losing your edge. Have you ever worked for someone who monitors you like a toddler near an open staircase? You don’t get bonus points for suffering quietly. In this Loud & Lifted: Quick Lift, Betsy recaps insights from "The Management Guru" Lynda Harvey to give you a playbook for the three most draining leadership personalities. We break down exactly how to spot them and the specific, repeatable moves you can use this week to protect your confidence. In this episode, we cover: The Micromanager: Distinguishing between "trust issues" vs. "power trips"—and the "Train Your Boss" method to stop the hovering before it starts.The Narcissist: Why you can't win by confronting them, and how to use the "Gray Rock" method to disappear from their drama radar.The Bully: The difference between tough leadership and abuse, and how to "document like a detective" to protect your career record.Key Takeaway: If leadership protects the bully, that’s the culture. Learn when to stay and fight, and when to protect your next move.

    10 min
  6. How to Deal with a Toxic Boss (Micromanager, Narcissist & Bully Guide)

    JAN 8

    How to Deal with a Toxic Boss (Micromanager, Narcissist & Bully Guide)

    Bad bosses don’t just ruin your day—they can destroy your confidence and make you question your sanity. If you’re dealing with a toxic work environment, a micromanaging boss, or constant gaslighting, this episode is your survival guide. We are joined by Lynda Harvey (aka the Management Guru) to break down the three most common toxic manager types: the Micromanager, the Narcissist, and the Bully. We share the exact scripts and strategies you need to "train your boss," protect your peace with the Gray Rock method, and know exactly when it’s time to exit. In this episode, you’ll learn: The 3 Toxic Archetypes: How to spot toxic boss behavior before it breaks you.The "Train Your Boss" Technique: Proactive steps to stop a micromanaging boss in their tracks (like calling them before they call you).Narcissist Neutralization: Using the "Gray Rock" theory to handle gaslighting, lack of accountability, and credit-stealingDocument or Depart: The "detective" method for handling workplace bullying and when to go to HR (or the EEOC).Chapters 01:04 Meet Lynda Harvey (Management Guru) 03:28 The micromanager that broke the system 6:29 Why she started training managers 8:06 The 3 toxic boss types 8:24 The real problem: managers aren’t trained 9:08 How bad managers get created 10:15 Micromanagers: control + mistrust 12:38 Two micromanagers (including the “necessary evil”) 13:51 How to manage a micromanager (observe + get ahead) 15:35 If they don’t change: your decision point 17:21 Narcissistic bosses (men + women) 18:15 Narcissist patterns: blame, gaslight, control 19:33 When you outshine them: isolation + stolen credit 23:16 Gray rock: stay boring, stay safe 24:31 Documentation that protects you 26:51 Script your responses (3 options) 28:17 Bully bosses: what counts (and why it’s messy) 30:03 Document like a detective (proof matters) 31:47 Direct conversation vs. escalation 34:07 Escalate: HR, EEOC, and exit plan 35:00 The big takeaway (and what to do next) 35:54 Managing high performers 37:31 One-size leadership doesn’t work About the Guest: Lynda Harvey teaches leaders and employees how to speak fluent corporate and navigate toxic work culture without losing their edge. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lynda.leads/?hl=en Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lynda.leads LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lyndaharvey01/ Stay Connected with Loud & Lifted: Website: https://www.loudandliftedpodcast.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loudandliftedpodcast/ Sign up for email: https://loud-lifted.kit.com/402d3a8d4a

    40 min
  7. Recap: Confidence, Personal Brand & Leadership Growth for Women

    12/18/2025

    Recap: Confidence, Personal Brand & Leadership Growth for Women

    In this solo episode,we are looking back at Season 1 of Loud & Lifted and pulling out the big themes that kept showing up in every conversation with women in leadership — from founders and executives to small business owners. Think of this as your 2025 rewind: what actually matters if you want to grow your career, expand your impact, and stop playing small? This episode walks through the patterns we saw across the season and connect the dots into a simple, usable roadmap you can take into the next year. No fluff, no clichés — just real talk, honest stories, and practical moves you can actually try this week. We’ll dig into: Confidence on purpose – how the women this season built it, not “found” itGrowth doesn’t happen in your comfort zone – and what it really takes to step outYour personal brand is already talking - you need to decide what it’s sayingBeing intentional about exposure – getting in the right rooms, with the right peopleCommunity, support, and sponsors – why you cannot do big things aloneIf you’ve missed episodes, this is your shortcut. If you’ve listened to them all, this is your playbook for applying what you heard so you can become more visible, more confident, and more in control of your next move.

    17 min
  8. Quick Lift: Tough Conversations? Here's What Works

    12/11/2025

    Quick Lift: Tough Conversations? Here's What Works

    Replay tough conversations on a loop in your head? In this under-10-minute Quick Lift, Betsy Hamm recaps communication expert Sarita Maybin’s simple scripts for saying the hard thing without being the office villain. You’ll learn how to use Sarita’s AIR framework (Awareness, Impact, Request), swap blamey “you” statements for confident “I/we” language, and upgrade one everyday line like “I noticed…” / “I’m wondering…” so you sound clear, not cruel. Perfect for women in leadership who want more confidence, stronger executive presence, and fewer 3 a.m. “I wish I’d said that differently” replays.

    10 min
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A women in leadership show with real tools for career growth, visibility, and executive presence. Loud & Lifted is a female leadership podcast hosted by former CEO Betsy Hamm. We flip the script on what it truly takes for women to thrive at work—beyond slogans. Expect raw conversations and 10-minute Quick Lifts with actionable playbooks on authentic leadership, navigating change, overcoming imposter syndrome, and building sponsors who open doors. No fluff, no fake cheerleading—just practical career advice, stories from women founders and operators, and steps you can use today. If you believe in women supporting women with action, not lip service, you’re in.

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  • Creator
    Betsy Hamm
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    45
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Betsy Hamm 2025
  • Show Website
    Loud & Lifted