Mama, Let's Talk

Angela Hare
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Mama, Let's Talk is the podcast for moms who are ready to ditch the pressure of perfection and lean into real, meaningful connection with their daughters- and themselves. Hosted by a certified Life Coach, mama of girls, and self proclaimed recovering perfectionist, this show dives into the messy, magical, and often misunderstood parts of motherhood. From raising strong willed daughters to navigating mom guilt, we get real about what it takes to build unshakable bonds in a world full of noise, pressure, and comparison. Each episode brings relatable stories, mindset shifts, and practical tools to help you parent with more confidence, communicate with more compassion, and create a relationship that's rooted in trust- not just rules. If you're craving deeper conversations, heart opening insights, and a gentle reminder that you're not alone- this is the podcast for you. Because connection will always matter more than perfection.

  1. 3D AGO

    Ep 43: The Enneagram & Your Kids: A Compassionate Guide for Real-World Parenting Type 9

    “Type Nines don’t avoid conflict because they don’t care, they avoid it because they care so deeply. And when they feel safe enough to be seen, they don’t lose their gentleness… they discover their strength.” --Angela In this episode, listeners will learn: How Enneagram Type Nine children experience conflict, overwhelm, and emotional pressure, and why shutdown is a go to response.What “merging,” procrastination, and numbing out really mean at different developmental stages.Practical, real-life parenting language that helps Type Nine kids feel safe enough to speak up, express preferences, and stay engagedA gentle but firm discipline and repair approach that protects sensitivity without enabling avoidance or self-abandonment Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator Life Coaching App! In this episode of Mama, Let’s Talk, we gently close out the Enneagram parenting series with Enneagram Type Nine, the Peacemaker child. Often labeled “the easy one,” Type Nine kids are empathetic, adaptable, and deeply relational. But beneath their calm exterior is a rich inner world shaped by a core fear of conflict, disconnection, and being overlooked. This episode walks parents through how Type Nine traits show up across childhood, adolescence, and teen years. Along the way, we unpack why avoidance, indecision, and emotional numbing are actually protective strategies rooted in a nervous system wired for harmony. Most importantly, this episode offers grounded, compassionate tools: calming phrases, real-life scenarios, discipline strategies, and a simple repair ritual that teaches Type Nine kids they don’t have to disappear to keep the peace. When parents learn how to slow the moment, invite their child’s voice, and hold boundaries with warmth, Type Nines don’t lose their peace, they grow into grounded, confident, quietly powerful humans who know they can be honest and belong. Connect with Angela: Follow Angela on InstagramSubscribe to The Balanced Mama BlogGet In TouchGrab Your Extra Tools HereShop Our ProductsDisclaimer Music by Mood Maze

    41 min

  2. JAN 27

    Ep 42: The Enneagram & Your Kids: A Compassionate Guide for Real-World Parenting Type 8

    “Your Eight isn’t fighting you, they’re fighting to feel safe. And when they trust that you won’t overpower or abandon them, they don’t have to stay armored anymore.” --AngelaIn this episode, listeners will learn: Why Type Eight behavior is self protection rooted in safety and power dynamics, not defiance or aggression.How Type Eight children show up at different ages and what they need most in each stage.Why traditional discipline strategies often backfire with Eights and how to set firm boundaries without triggering power struggles.Practical, real-life language for explosive reactions, power struggles, emotional shutdowns, and post-conflict repair that builds trust instead of fear. Get your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator Life Coaching App! If you’re parenting a child who feels intense, strong-willed, fiercely independent, or constantly pushing back against rules and authority, this episode is for you. In this episode, we’re diving deep into Enneagram Type Eight, the Challenger child, often misunderstood as “too much,” when in reality they’re wired for strength, protection, and truth. This episode helps parents understand what’s really happening beneath the behavior of Type Eight kids, from explosive reactions and power struggles to their hard-shell, soft-heart dynamic. You’ll learn how to respond in moments of conflict, how to discipline without feeding control battles, and how to repair after hard moments in a way that restores dignity and trust. Because when a Type Eight child feels respected and secure, their intensity becomes leadership, their fire becomes protection, and their strength becomes one of the greatest gifts they’ll bring into the world. Buckle up, mama. This one is not for the faint of heart. Connect with Angela: Follow Angela on InstagramSubscribe to The Balanced Mama BlogGet In TouchGrab Your Extra Tools HereShop Our ProductsDisclaimer Music by Mood Maze

    39 min

  3. JAN 20

    Ep 41: The Enneagram & Your Kids: A Compassionate Guide for Real-World Parenting Type 7

    "Your Type Seven isn’t running toward fun as much as they’re running away from the fear of getting stuck in pain.." --Angela In this episode, listeners will learn: Why Type Seven children use movement, excitement, and optimism as emotional protectionHow avoidance, impulsivity, and constant busyness are coping strategies, not character flawsAge-specific guidance for supporting Type Sevens from early childhood through the teen yearsHow to discipline and repair in ways that slow Type seven kids down without shutting them downGet your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator Life Coaching App! Type Seven kids are the joy-seekers, idea generators, and big dreamers of the Enneagram. They are full of energy, imagination, and optimism and in this episode, we go beyond managing their behavior and into understanding the why underneath it. We discuss a Seven’s need for constant motion and positivity, how these are often driven by a deep fear of being stuck in emotional pain, and why slowing down can feel threatening to them, even when everything looks “fine” on the surface. This episode offers compassionate, practical tools to help parents become grounded guides for their Type Seven children, supporting their joy without reinforcing emotional avoidance. From age-by-age insights to discipline strategies that preserve connection and freedom, this conversation will help you anchor your Seven’s light so it doesn’t burn out when life gets hard, but instead grows deeper, steadier, and more resilient. Connect with Angela: Follow Angela on InstagramSubscribe to The Balanced Mama BlogGet In TouchGrab Your Extra Tools HereShop Our ProductsDisclaimer Music by Mood Maze

    38 min

  4. JAN 13

    Ep 40: The Enneagram & Your Kids: A Compassionate Guide for Real-World Parenting Type 6

    "You are not parenting a problem—you’re supporting a protector. And when you respond to the fear instead of the behavior, everything shifts." --Angela In this episode, listeners will learn: What your child’s constant questions are really telling you and why they’re about safety, not controlHow fear shows up differently at each age and what your child is really asking for beneath the behaviorHow to set boundaries that build confidence instead of amplifying fearPractical steps for helping your child come back to calm, without shameGet your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator Life Coaching App! Parenting a Type Six child can feel exhausting; constant questions, hesitation, worry, and resistance that seem to come out of nowhere. In this episode, we slow it all the way down and help parents understand what’s actually happening beneath the surface. Type Six kids aren’t trying to be difficult, they’re wired to anticipate risk and protect themselves and the people they love. This compassionate, real-world guide walks parents through how Type Six energy shows up at different ages, why traditional reassurance and discipline often backfire, and what actually helps these thoughtful, loyal kids feel safe enough to grow. You’ll learn how to become the steady presence your child needs, not by trying to remove fear, but by walking beside them as they learn they can handle it. If you’ve ever felt worn down, confused, or unsure how to help your anxious child, this episode could be the clarity you've been searching for. Connect with Angela: Follow Angela on InstagramSubscribe to The Balanced Mama BlogGet In TouchGrab Your Extra Tools HereShop Our ProductsDisclaimer Music by Mood Maze

    44 min

  5. JAN 6

    Ep 39: The Enneagram & Your Kids: A Compassionate Guide for Real-World Parenting Type 5

    "Your Type Five’s need for space isn’t a rejection of you, it’s how they stay regulated enough to stay connected. When you stop pushing and start protecting their energy, they don’t disappear… they return." --Angela In this episode, listeners will learn: How shutdown, silence, and logic function as regulation strategies for Type Five childrenThe nervous-system wiring of Type Fives, including their limited energetic capacity and sensitivity to overstimulationDevelopmentally appropriate parenting tools for Type Fives across childhood and adolescenceDiscipline and repair strategies that protect autonomy while still teaching accountability and emotional growth Parenting a Type Five child can leave even the most loving parents lying awake at night wondering, Am I missing something? In this episode of Mama, Let’s Talk, we explore the inner world of the Enneagram Type Five, the Observer Child, through a compassionate, real-world lens that replaces pressure with understanding. Come along as we discuss why Type Five kids need more space and energetic protection than most, what their withdrawal really means, and what it looks like to actually support their growth. From early childhood through the teen years, this episode walks you through practical language, discipline approaches, and repair rituals that honor both autonomy and connection. If you’re raising a child who retreats to recharge, leads with logic, and processes deeply before sharing, this episode will help you stop questioning yourself and start parenting with clarity, confidence, and compassion. Connect with Angela: Follow Angela on InstagramSubscribe to The Balanced Mama BlogGet In TouchGrab Your Extra Tools HereShop Our ProductsDisclaimer Music by Mood Maze

    44 min

  6. 12/30/2025

    Ep 38: Thank You 2025

    “Every year leaves fingerprints on us, some beautiful, some painful, and when we take the time to honor them, we stop surviving our lives and start choosing them.” --Angela In this episode, listeners will learn: How intentional reflection creates clarity, emotional release, and alignment before stepping into a new yearWhy honoring both what a year gave and what it took is essential for real growthHow to consciously choose what to leave behind instead of carrying them forward unconsciouslyHow to step into the next year with grounded intention rather than perfection, pressure, or hustle As 2025 comes to a close, this episode invites you to slow down instead of rushing ahead. Rather than jumping straight into goals, vision boards, or resolutions, we pause to reflect with honestly, gentle intention. This is a sacred space to honor what the year gave you, grieve what it took, recognize who you became, and decide what you’re no longer willing to carry forward. Through guided prompts, personal stories, and grounded insight, this episode walks you through releasing old weight and stepping into 2026 with clarity, presence, and alignment. It’s not about toxic positivity or pretending the year was easy, it’s about honoring the growth that happened anyway and choosing who you want to become next, on purpose. Connect with Angela: Follow Angela on InstagramSubscribe to The Balanced Mama BlogGet In TouchGrab Your Extra Tools HereShop Our ProductsDisclaimer Music by Mood Maze

    38 min

  7. 12/23/2025

    Ep 37: The Enneagram & Your Kids: A Compassionate Guide for Real-World Parenting Type 4

    “Sensitivity isn’t a weakness to be fixed; it’s intelligence that needs protection.” --Angela In this episode, listeners will learn: How to understand what’s really happening beneath a Type Four child’s big emotions and emotional spiralsWhy sensitivity isn’t something to fix, quiet, or toughen up, and how to protect it insteadAge-specific insight into how Type Four sensitivity shows up from early childhood through the teen yearsPractical language, discipline strategies, and repair tools that help a Type Four child feel safe, seen, and deeply understood In this episode, I’m guiding you into the emotional world of the Enneagram Type Four child, the deeply sensitive, intuitive, emotionally rich kid who feels life in full color. If you’re parenting a child who feels everything deeply, struggles with feeling misunderstood, or carries a quiet ache beneath their creativity and depth, this conversation is for you. We walk through what’s happening underneath those big feelings, how sensitivity evolves across different ages, and how your presence, not fixing, minimizing, or rushing, becomes the anchor your child needs. This episode offers clarity, compassion, and practical tools to help you create emotional safety, build trust, and support your child’s depth without losing yourself in it. Connect with Angela: Follow Angela on InstagramSubscribe to The Balanced Mama BlogGet In TouchGrab Your Extra Tools HereShop Our ProductsDisclaimer Music by Mood Maze

    34 min

  8. 12/16/2025

    Ep 36: The Enneagram & Your Kids: A Compassionate Guide for Real-World Parenting Type 3

    “Your achiever isn’t chasing trophies. They’re chasing worth.”--Angela In this episode, listeners will learn: Why Enneagram Type Three kids often tie their self-worth to performance, and how this belief forms at different agesHow to respond to loss, burnout, and emotional shutdown without reinforcing the “love equals achievement” narrativeSpecific calming phrases and language that help Type Three kids feel safe, grounded, and loved beyond resultsA simple but powerful repair ritual (The Spotlight Swap) that separates identity from performance and rebuilds emotional security In this episode, we dive deep into parenting the Enneagram Type Three child, the Achiever. These kids are driven, capable, magnetic, and often admired, but beneath the confidence is a tender fear: Am I still lovable if I don’t succeed? I walk you through what this looks like at every stage of development, from the applause-loving toddler to the quietly exhausted teen, and explain why losses, mistakes, and rest can feel so threatening to their nervous system. This episode is a compassionate guide for helping your Type Three child shine without believing their worth is always on the line. You’ll learn how to shift from pressure to presence, how to respond in those big emotional moments after failure, and how to anchor your child in unconditional worth. The goal isn’t to dim their ambition, it’s to protect their heart so they can grow into confident, whole humans who know they matter even when the lights go out. Connect with Angela: Follow Angela on InstagramSubscribe to The Balanced Mama BlogGet In TouchGrab Your Extra Tools HereShop Our ProductsDisclaimer Music by Mood Maze

    37 min
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Mama, Let's Talk is the podcast for moms who are ready to ditch the pressure of perfection and lean into real, meaningful connection with their daughters- and themselves. Hosted by a certified Life Coach, mama of girls, and self proclaimed recovering perfectionist, this show dives into the messy, magical, and often misunderstood parts of motherhood. From raising strong willed daughters to navigating mom guilt, we get real about what it takes to build unshakable bonds in a world full of noise, pressure, and comparison. Each episode brings relatable stories, mindset shifts, and practical tools to help you parent with more confidence, communicate with more compassion, and create a relationship that's rooted in trust- not just rules. If you're craving deeper conversations, heart opening insights, and a gentle reminder that you're not alone- this is the podcast for you. Because connection will always matter more than perfection.

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  • Creator
    Angela Hare
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    43
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright 2026 Angela Hare
  • Show Website
    Mama, Let's Talk