Masks Off For People-Pleasers & Perfectionists

Kim Gross
Masks Off For People-Pleasers & Perfectionists

A podcast for people-pleasers and perfectionists who are ready to unhook from their patterns so they can finally feel free to be their true selves and be confident. Through solo episodes and interviews, Host Kim Gross, shares tools and techniques to help listeners develop self-awareness and transform unhealthy patterns. Join us each week as we explore topics such as overcoming fear of judgement, cultivating self-compassion, and the skills for doing the healing work to create the life that you desire. www.kimgrosscoaching.com

  1. 45 MIN. AGO

    "Pivot to Prosper: Overcoming Setbacks with Dr. Keith Brown"

    In this episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross is joined by Dr. J. Keith Brown, also known as the Pivot Guy. They discuss Keith's extensive career of over 30 years in coaching and writing, his personal journey through setbacks, and his approach to helping people get unstuck using his ‘Pivot to Prosper’ framework. Keith shares his unique concept of 'Tordations' for reprogramming the mind positively and the importance of celebrating small victories. Together, they emphasize the need for practical discipline and strategic mental work to move forward in life. About Keith Brown: Dr J Keith Brown, "The Pivot Guy," is a Teacher, Speaker, Coach, and Author with over thirty years of experience helping clients practically pivot so they can heal and prosper in any area of life. He is the creator of the Towardations, a form of affirmations used by folks around the world, has spoken to all types of audiences around the United States, is the author of twelve works of non-fiction and fiction, and has worked one-on-one with hundreds of people over his long career. Keith is a husband, father, and grandfather of one. Connect with Keith:  www.thejkeithbrown.com   (all of my socials are @thejkeithbrown) Connect with Kim: New Book: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/free-to-be.php TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kimgrosscoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimgrosscoaching/ website: www.kimgrosscoaching.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kim.gross.104 Facebook Masks Off Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/masksoffcommunity YouTube:YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCaWJfO7ZFd4aYBX3e-clj9Q Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/2Et9BMqdFriIQ9bUxcfQeg Apple podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masks-off/id1513846583 Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/notifications/?filter=all Unmasked Newsletter: http://subscribepage.io/masksoffnewsletter People-pleasing quiz: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/quiz.php

    27 min
  2. NOV 14

    "Empower Your Life: Strategies for Breaking Free from Limiting Beliefs"

    In this episode of 'Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists,' host Kim Gross and guest Laura discuss the struggles of feeling stuck in patterns and belief systems, and introduce tools and techniques to help create the life you desire. Laura, a bestselling author and expert in quantum field studies, shares her extensive background in mindset development and empowerment. The conversation touches on the importance of personal growth, connection, and the challenge of stepping outside one's comfort zone. They delve into the concepts of resistance and non-resistance, offering practical advice on how to shift thought processes and overcome internal blocks to achieve personal and professional goals. About Laura:  As the Global Top Selling Author of The Science of Empowerment, Thought Energy Mindset Transformational Coach and Speaker, and Mind Development & Human Awareness Activator, Laura’s skill set, gathered wisdom, and personal discipline to advance human potential is evident in her creative work.  The care and consideration that supports her clients, attendees, and listeners around the globe, is evident at first greeting. High energy output and the feeling that all things are possible, begins the Co-creative relationship that she is sought after and known for. Connect with Laura: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laura-brennan-ballet-bb426751/ https://www.instagram.com/thescienceofempowerment/ https://www.facebook.com/laura.brennan.56614/  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsBfQy8Sp78NZIZ9Q-OqrMg  https://thescienceofempowerment.com/ laurabballet@gmail.com (private email) not to share. Listeners can contact me via the website Connect with Kim: New Book: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/free-to-be.php TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kimgrosscoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimgrosscoaching/ website: www.kimgrosscoaching.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kim.gross.104 Facebook Masks Off Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/masksoffcommunity YouTube:YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCaWJfO7ZFd4aYBX3e-clj9Q Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/2Et9BMqdFriIQ9bUxcfQeg Apple podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masks-off/id1513846583 Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/notifications/?filter=all Unmasked Newsletter: http://subscribepage.io/masksoffnewsletter People-pleasing quiz: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/quiz.php

    39 min
  3. NOV 7

    The Role of Trauma in Illness

    In this episode of 'Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists,' host Kim Gross talks with Cindy Costley, a trauma survivor and an EBDT practitioner, who shares her personal journey of dealing with chronic illness. Cindy discusses her experiences with severe allergic reactions and how her physical symptoms were linked to unresolved trauma from her past. She explains the importance of listening to one's body and the process of desensitization for healing. The conversation underscores the connection between emotional health and physical well-being, encouraging listeners to honor their bodies and address underlying emotional causes of chronic symptoms. About Cindy:  My name is Cindy Costley, and I am a Trauma Survivor and Mast Cell Thriver, an Electromagnetic Body Desensitization Therapy (EBDT) Practitioner, and a Medical Intuitive.  For 34 years, I struggled with severe mast cell issues, often described as “the girl allergic to the world.” At the age of 48, I became extremely ill, embarking on an incredible healing journey that led to my full recovery and a completely new life, all because I learned that my "allergic reactions" were my body's way of keeping me safe after suffering from severe sexual trauma as a child. Learning to listen to my body, and the messages it has been trying to get me to listen to for years has been the biggest blessing. I am now asymptomatic and I help others heal through my EBDT (Electromagnetic Body Desensitization Technique). The key to healing is recoding the way our bodies respond to triggers and releasing trapped emotions that are causing mental and physical dysregulation in the body.  Connect with Cindy:  cindy@theunderlyinganswers.com / 805-946-2866 / www.theunderlyinganswers.com /  https://www.instagram.com/theunderlyinganswers/ / https://www.facebook.com/groups/theunderlyinganswers /   Connect with Kim: New Book: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/free-to-be.php TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kimgrosscoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimgrosscoaching/ website: www.kimgrosscoaching.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kim.gross.104 Facebook Masks Off Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/masksoffcommunity YouTube:YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCaWJfO7ZFd4aYBX3e-clj9Q Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/2Et9BMqdFriIQ9bUxcfQeg Apple podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masks-off/id1513846583 Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/notifications/?filter=all Unmasked Newsletter: http://subscribepage.io/masksoffnewsletter People-pleasing quiz: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/quiz.php

    25 min
  4. OCT 31

    "The Art of Non-Resistance: Achieving Your Desires with Ease"

    In this episode, Kim delves into the transformative power of patience and non-resistance in realizing dreams and achieving inner liberation. Drawing insights from David Bayer, Melody Beatty, and personal experiences, the discussion highlights the importance of aligning with one's intuition and gut feelings. Kim shares challenges faced as a new teacher and the lessons learned about trusting oneself and taking measured actions without yielding to perfectionism and comparison. Listeners are invited to explore a freer, more joyful existence by embracing these principles, with references to Kim’s book, 'Free to Be: A Pathway to Inner Liberation'. The episode encourages audience engagement through book purchases, website visits for additional resources, and sharing feedback. Connect with Kim: New Book: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/free-to-be.php TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kimgrosscoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimgrosscoaching/ website: www.kimgrosscoaching.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kim.gross.104 Facebook Masks Off Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/masksoffcommunity YouTube:YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCaWJfO7ZFd4aYBX3e-clj9Q Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/2Et9BMqdFriIQ9bUxcfQeg Apple podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masks-off/id1513846583 Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/notifications/?filter=all Unmasked Newsletter: http://subscribepage.io/masksoffnewsletter People-pleasing quiz: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/quiz.php

    15 min
  5. OCT 24

    Finding Freedom through Intuition

    In this insightful episode of 'Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists,' host Kim Gross converses with Naomi Fox Reina, an expert Light Filled Astrologer and Human Design Specialist. They explore the paths to living authentically by tuning into one's intuition, escaping societal pressures, and overcoming the pitfalls of perfectionism. The discussion highlights the importance of self-honesty, mindfulness, and the freedom found in letting go and surrender. Naomi provides in-depth explanations of human design types, particularly the dynamics of generators and the impact of undefined root centers, emphasizing the power of responding to life rather than forcing actions. The conversation also delves into the significance of Virgo placements in astrology, exemplified by Brené Brown's work, and offers listeners tools and resources for achieving personal growth and alignment through astrology and human design. Naomi shares practical advice for finding inner peace and living a fulfilled life. About Naomi: Naomi Fox Reina is the founder of lightfilled.co. She has a Divine Affinity for Astrology and certifies Light-Filled Astrologers and Light-Filled Human Design Experts to bring more light, alignment, and freedom to the world. When she's not geeking out about Astrology and HD charts, you'll find her spending time with her family or hiking around the red rocks of St George. She has 3 children, 3 step children, and is blissfully married to her best friend, Ralph. Connect with Naomi: Website: https://lightfilled.co  Facebook Page: https://facebook.com/lightfilled.co, Facebook Group: https://facebook.com/groups/lightfilled.co, Instagram: https://instagram.com/lightfille.co, TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@lightfilled.co, YouTube: https://youtube.com/@lightfilledco,  Pinterest: https://pinterest.com/lightfilledco  LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/company/lightfilledco  Connect with Kim: New Book: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/free-to-be.php TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kimgrosscoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimgrosscoaching/ website: www.kimgrosscoaching.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kim.gross.104 Facebook Masks Off Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/masksoffcommunity YouTube:YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCaWJfO7ZFd4aYBX3e-clj9Q Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/2Et9BMqdFriIQ9bUxcfQeg Apple podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masks-off/id1513846583 Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/notifications/?filter=all Unmasked Newsletter: http://subscribepage.io/masksoffnewsletter People-pleasing quiz: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/quiz.php

    36 min
  6. OCT 17

    Unmask Your Inner Gold: From Patterns to Presence

    In this episode, we delve into the concept of living a life bound by patterns and masks, particularly for those who identify as people pleasers, perfectionists, or controllers. Using a story about a golden Buddha statue covered in clay, we explore how these masks conceal our true selves. The discussion centers on understanding these patterns, how they are inherited or developed, and the profound impact they have on our sense of self and connection with others. Listeners are encouraged to recognize their own patterns and begin a journey towards inner liberation and authenticity, as discussed in the new book 'Free to Be: A Pathway to Inner Liberation.' Practical steps and personal anecdotes highlight the importance of vulnerability and discernment in forming deep connections. The episode concludes with an invitation to engage further through the author's website and coaching services. Connect with Kim: New Book: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/free-to-be.php TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kimgrosscoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimgrosscoaching/ website: www.kimgrosscoaching.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kim.gross.104 Facebook Masks Off Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/masksoffcommunity YouTube:YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCaWJfO7ZFd4aYBX3e-clj9Q Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/2Et9BMqdFriIQ9bUxcfQeg Apple podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masks-off/id1513846583 Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/notifications/?filter=all Unmasked Newsletter: http://subscribepage.io/masksoffnewsletter People-pleasing quiz: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/quiz.php

    24 min
  7. OCT 10

    From Safety to Self: Navigating Inner Liberation

    In this episode of 'Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists,' host Kim Gross is joined by Andrew Dewar, an energy healer and co-founder of 'Five Year You.' They delve into the challenges of overcoming people-pleasing tendencies and the journey to self-discovery and inner safety. Andrew shares his personal story, including growing up with a severely autistic sister and the trauma that stemmed from it, leading to a life of high alert and conformity. The discussion highlights the importance of understanding and healing from childhood wounds, exploring inner child therapy, and living life from the inside out. The conversation revolves around shedding masks to reveal one's true self and how doing so attracts genuine relationships. The episode also introduces Kim’s upcoming book, 'Free to Be: A Pathway to Inner Liberation,' which aims to guide readers through a similar journey of self-discovery. About Andrew:  Andrew Dewar, co-founder of Five Year You, is a former Certified Professional Accountant, turned Certified Advanced Energy Healer who coaches people on living their life on purpose instead of by accident. Known for his commitment to financial freedom—exemplified by paying off his mortgage in just six years—Andrew’s true passion lies in helping others navigate profound life transformations. As someone who has confronted and overcome personal traumas, Andrew knows the power of purposeful living. He understands that for many, there comes a pivotal moment in midlife when they realize the life they’re living is not the life that fulfills them. It’s in this moment that Andrew steps in, guiding individuals to shift from living life by accident to living a life of purpose. Through his own journey of self-discovery, growth, and resilience, Andrew has amassed a wealth of insights and tools designed to support those ready to redefine their lives. With unwavering kindness and vulnerability, he shares his story as a testament to the transformative power of intentional living. Andrew’s mission, through Five Year You and his podcast of the same name, is to empower one million people to embrace their potential, rewrite their stories, and become the best versions of themselves in five years. He recently co-founded a personal development company called and launched a podcast by the same name. The ultimate goal of Five Year You is to help one million people become their best selves in five years.  Connect with Andrew; Email: hello@fiveyearyou.com Five Year You Website Five Year You Podcast  Five Year You Instagram Five Year You TikTok Andrew Dewar Instagram Connect with Kim: New Book: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/free-to-be.php TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kimgrosscoaching Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimgrosscoaching/ website: www.kimgrosscoaching.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kim.gross.104 Facebook Masks Off Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/masksoffcommunity YouTube:YouTube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCaWJfO7ZFd4aYBX3e-clj9Q Spotify:  https://open.spotify.com/show/2Et9BMqdFriIQ9bUxcfQeg Apple podcast:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/masks-off/id1513846583 Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/notifications/?filter=all Unmasked Newsletter: http://subscribepage.io/masksoffnewsletter People-pleasing quiz: https://www.kimgrosscoaching.com/quiz.php

    38 min
4.9
out of 5
32 Ratings

About

A podcast for people-pleasers and perfectionists who are ready to unhook from their patterns so they can finally feel free to be their true selves and be confident. Through solo episodes and interviews, Host Kim Gross, shares tools and techniques to help listeners develop self-awareness and transform unhealthy patterns. Join us each week as we explore topics such as overcoming fear of judgement, cultivating self-compassion, and the skills for doing the healing work to create the life that you desire. www.kimgrosscoaching.com

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