Men Get Cheated On Too!

Adam Nisenson
  • 4.5 (10)
  • MENTAL HEALTH

Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.

  1. 5D AGO

    Ep. 37: Jealousy, Comparison, and the Other Person

    When your partner cheats, it’s not just the betrayal that wrecks you. It’s the obsessive spiral about the other guy... who he is, what he had, and why she chose him. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down one of the most painful and under-discussed parts of partner betrayal: the sickening loop of comparison and jealousy that hijacks your mind and bruises your masculinity. Adam explains how the male brain tries to make sense of betrayal by targeting the affair partner, why this mental loop feels like survival, and how to stop giving your power away to someone who was never the point. This episode brings practical tools and deep clarity to help men interrupt obsessive thoughts and shift focus back to their own healing. “You’re not trying to win them back by outperforming someone else. If they are going to show up and rebuild, it has to be because they choose to.” In this episode, you’ll learn: ·       Why jealousy is a normal trauma response, not a weakness ·       How to separate ego pain from real relational threat ·       What your obsessive thoughts are trying to protect you from ·       How to break the mental cycle of stalking, spiraling, and comparing ·       Why logic won’t fix jealousy, but honesty and redirection can This episode is a powerful reminder that your healing has nothing to do with him. It’s about you reclaiming your peace, your worth, and your emotional clarity. You’re not in competition. You’re not crazy. You’re rebuilding. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore more resources at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    12 min

  2. MAR 2

    Ep. 36: The Emotional Rollercoaster: Rage, Numbness, and Back Again

    When your partner cheats, it doesn’t show up as one emotion. It’s all of them, rage, grief, confusion, numbness, hitting you in waves, over and over again. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the emotional chaos betrayed men experience and why this back-and-forth between explosive anger and total shutdown is a normal trauma response, not a character flaw. He breaks down what happens inside your nervous system after betrayal, why your body flips between hyperarousal and collapse, and how to begin working with, not against, your emotional system as you start healing. This episode also covers the trap of dissociation, the role of grief beneath the rage, and why naming your emotional state out loud is one of the most powerful first steps in recovery. “You’re not broken. You’re responding exactly as a nervous system responds when the floor’s been ripped out from under you.” You’ll also hear practical tools to: Understand why anger and numbness are two sides of the same survival coinUse emotional naming and grounding to reduce overwhelmStop avoiding grief and start making space for itRegulate your system without suppressing itGet off the rollercoaster by building emotional clarity and supportWhether you’re still yelling into the steering wheel or feeling nothing at all, this episode gives you the insight, language, and support you need to begin making sense of it. You’re not crazy. You’re not weak. You’re a man in pain, and you don’t have to ride this rollercoaster alone. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore resources at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    13 min

  3. FEB 23

    Ep. 35: Why Some Men Leave After Betrayal, And Why That’s Okay Too

    Leaving after partner betrayal is one of the hardest decisions a man can make, and most people don’t understand the weight of it. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink speaks directly to the men who walked away or are considering it. He breaks down why leaving is not failure, why it isn’t quitting, and why sometimes the strongest choice you can make is the one that protects your peace instead of your image. Adam explores what it means to choose yourself after infidelity, the guilt men often carry when they finally decide they’re done, and the reality that some relationships cannot be repaired no matter how much love is still there. He talks about the grief that comes with letting go of the dream you thought you were building, the confusion of loving someone you can’t stay with, and the clarity that comes when you stop betraying yourself in the name of loyalty. Support the show

    11 min

  4. FEB 16

    Ep. 34: Why Some Men Stay After Betrayal, And Why That’s Okay

    A lot of men stay with their partner after partner betrayal, but nobody talks about it without judgment. In this episode, Adam breaks down the truth behind staying, the shame men carry when they do, and why choosing to stay does not make you weak, blind, or without self-respect. Adam explains the difference between staying with intention and tolerating in silence, and helps you understand what a healthy rebuild actually requires. This episode is a grounded look at real-life relationships, the fear of leaving, the hope for something new, and the courage it takes to rebuild with clarity and boundaries. If you’ve ever questioned why you’re still in the relationship or felt pressured to walk away, this conversation will help you make sense of your own path and your own timeline. Support the show

    12 min

  5. FEB 9

    Ep. 33: The Role of Counseling in Masculine Betrayal Trauma Recovery

    Most men avoid therapy or betrayal coaching after partner betrayal because everything already feels exposed. You are trying to hold it together at work, with friends, with family, and the idea of sitting in a room talking about the pain feels impossible. In this episode, Adam breaks down why support is not weakness for betrayed men. It is how you stop the bleeding. He explains what real therapy and betrayal coaching look like for Masculine Betrayal Trauma, why friends cannot hold the weight you are carrying, and how a structured space helps you organize the chaos, calm your nervous system, and stop blaming yourself for someone else’s actions. This episode shows why getting the right help is a power move for any man rebuilding after infidelity and why you do not have to do it alone. Support the show

    12 min

  6. FEB 2

    Ep. 32: How to Talk to Friends and Family About the Betrayal

    When a man gets cheated on, people don’t know what to say, and sometimes their reactions do more harm than good. In this episode, Adam help’s you unpack how to handle the awkward, painful, and often isolating experience of telling others about your partner’s betrayal. You’ll hear real-world insights on why it feels so hard to talk about, how to avoid shame-based silence or oversharing, and what to say to people who respond with judgment, confusion, or unhelpful advice. If you’ve been struggling with how to explain what happened, how much to share, or how to protect your own story while staying honest, this episode gives you the clarity and language you need. Support the show

    12 min

  7. JAN 26

    Ep. 31: When You Can’t Eat, Sleep, or Think Straight

    Betrayal trauma doesn’t just mess with your heart, it hits your body like a freight train. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down what happens when you can’t eat, can’t sleep, and your mind won’t stop spinning. If you've been walking around in a fog, dropping weight, or obsessively replaying what happened, you’re not crazy, you’re dysregulated. This episode explains the science behind your symptoms and gives you real, body-based tools to start calming your nervous system. Survival is not weakness. It’s the first step in healing. Support the show

    13 min

  8. JAN 19

    Ep. 30: What to Do with All the Rage

    After partner betrayal, rage isn’t just anger, it’s grief in disguise. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, talks directly to men about the intensity of post-betrayal rage and what it’s really trying to tell you. You’ll learn why stuffing it down backfires, how shame and pain often sit underneath it, and what to do when the anger feels like it’s controlling you. This episode offers real tools for understanding and managing your rage without judging it. If you’ve ever felt like you’re about to explode, or if you’ve been told to “calm down” when your whole world has fallen apart, this one’s for you. Learn how to work with the fire, not against it. Support the show

    13 min
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Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.

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  • Creator
    Adam Nisenson
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    38
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Men Get Cheated On Too!
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