Men Get Cheated On Too!

Adam Nisenson
  • 4.5 (11)
  • Mental Health

Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.

  1. 6d ago

    Ep. 52: The Myth of Just Getting Over It

    At some point after betrayal, you hear it. Maybe from others. Maybe from yourself. “Just get over it.” It sounds simple. It sounds like the answer. But it creates more pressure than progress and leaves a lot of men feeling like they’re failing at something they don’t even understand. “You don’t get over betrayal. You work through it.” In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down why this message is so damaging and how it pushes men to suppress what they actually need to process. He explains why betrayal does not follow a clean timeline, why healing is not linear, and why trying to rush it often makes things worse instead of better. Inside this episode: ·       Why “getting over it” is not how healing works ·       How pressure and timelines distort your recovery ·       The difference between processing and emotional bypassing ·       Why suppressed pain always comes back ·       What real healing actually looks like in day-to-day life ·       How to measure progress without expecting perfection This episode helps you step out of the pressure to be done and into a process that actually works. You’re not behind. You’re not weak. You’re working through something that changed you. This isn’t about rushing past what happened. It’s about giving yourself the space to move through it in a way that lasts. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    13 min

  2. Jun 15

    Ep. 51: What If You Still Love Them?

    After betrayal, there’s something a lot of men don’t expect to still be there. The love. And that creates a kind of confusion that can feel impossible to sort out. You’re dealing with anger, hurt, and broken trust, but at the same time, you still feel connected. You still care. And now you’re left asking what that means about you and what you’re supposed to do with it. “You can love someone and still recognize that what happened changed everything.” In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down one of the most misunderstood parts of betrayal recovery. He explains why love does not just disappear, why that does not make you weak, and why your feelings and your decisions are not the same thing. This is about separating emotion from action so you can start making clear, grounded choices instead of reactive ones. Inside this episode: Why love doesn’t shut off after betrayal and what that actually meansThe difference between real love and trauma bondingWhy love alone is not enough to rebuild a relationshipHow to hold your feelings without letting them control your decisionsWhen love starts turning into self-betrayalWhy choosing distance can be an act of strength, not failureThis episode helps you stop questioning yourself and start understanding what you are actually feeling. You can love someone and still choose yourself. You can care and still walk away. And you can hold that complexity without letting it pull you off track. This isn’t about forcing yourself to stop loving them. It’s about deciding what that love means now, and whether it supports the life you are trying to rebuild. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    13 min

  3. Jun 8

    Ep. 50: This Isn’t Where It Ends

    After betrayal, it can feel like everything is over. Not just the relationship, but the life you thought you were building. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to that moment where it feels like your story has been rewritten without your permission. “This is not the end of your story. It’s a chapter you didn’t choose.” Adam breaks down why betrayal feels final and how that belief can quietly shape your future if you are not aware of it. He walks you through the shift from seeing this as an ending to recognizing it as a turning point. Inside this episode: Why betrayal feels like the end of everythingThe difference between grief and giving upHow to stop defining yourself by what happenedWhat it means to take your story backHow to move from reaction to intentionThis episode is about reclaiming your future. You didn’t choose what happened, but you still choose what comes next. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    12 min

  4. Jun 1

    Ep. 49: The Cost of Betrayal to Your Self-Esteem

    Betrayal does not just damage trust. It changes how you see yourself. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down how infidelity cuts into your sense of worth and why so many men quietly start questioning if they were ever enough. “You didn’t become less. You started believing a lie about yourself.” Adam explains how the mind turns someone else’s decision into a personal identity wound. He walks through why comparison, self-doubt, and internal criticism take over, and how to start separating your worth from what happened. Inside this episode: Why betrayal attacks your identity, not just your relationshipHow comparison and self-doubt take holdThe role of shame in lowering self-esteemHow to rebuild confidence through action, not avoidanceWhat it means to reconnect with who you were before thisThis episode helps you take your identity back and rebuild your self-worth from the inside out. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    13 min

  5. May 25

    Ep. 48: When You’re Trying to Protect Your Kids From the Fallout

    When kids are involved, betrayal becomes more than your own pain. Now you are trying to hold everything together while also protecting them. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks to the pressure men feel to stay strong, stay steady, and somehow keep their kids unaffected while they are still hurting themselves. “Your kids don’t need you to be perfect. They need you to be present.” Adam walks through the balance between honesty and protection, and why trying to hide everything can create more confusion for kids. He explains how to show up in a way that provides stability without emotionally overwhelming them. Inside this episode: How to talk to kids without overexposing themThe difference between honesty and emotional dumpingWhy kids sense more than you thinkHow to create stability through consistency and presenceWhat it means to be strong without shutting down emotionallyThis episode gives you a grounded way to show up for your kids while still honoring your own healing. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    11 min

  6. May 18

    Ep. 47: When You’re Angry at Yourself for Missing the Signs

    One of the hardest parts of betrayal is not just what they did. It’s what you start saying to yourself after. You replay everything, looking for missed signs, and the question keeps coming back, how did I not see this? In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, addresses the self-directed anger that many men carry after betrayal. “You’re judging your past self with information you didn’t have at the time.” Adam breaks down how hindsight distorts reality and turns reflection into self-attack. He explains why this pattern is not about truth, but about trying to regain control after something that made no sense. This episode helps you separate what was actually visible from what only feels obvious now. Inside this episode: Why hindsight creates unfair self-judgmentHow self-blame becomes a false sense of controlThe difference between awareness and self-attackHow to rebuild trust in your own judgmentWhat self-compassion actually looks like for menThis episode helps you stop turning the betrayal inward and start rebuilding your relationship with yourself. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    12 min

  7. May 11

    Ep. 46: How to Stop Living in the Past

    After betrayal, your mind keeps pulling you back. The conversations, the signs, the moments that now feel different. It plays on repeat, and no matter how much you think it through, it doesn’t stop. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down why your mind keeps looping the past and why this does not mean you are stuck or broken. “Reliving the past doesn’t rewrite it. It reinforces it.” Adam explains the difference between processing and reliving, and why most men unknowingly stay trapped in the same mental loops long after the betrayal. He walks you through how trauma keeps things feeling unfinished, and what it actually takes to start coming back to the present. Inside this episode: Why your brain keeps replaying what happenedThe difference between healing and mental repetitionHow to interrupt thought loops without suppressing your painPractical tools to stop feeding the past and start strengthening the presentWhat it really means to let go without minimizing what happenedThis episode helps you shift out of constant replay and back into your life. You don’t forget the past. You stop living in it. For support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Visit BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    12 min

  8. May 4

    Ep. 45: The Impact of Betrayal on Your Career

    Most men don’t realize how deeply betrayal can affect their professional lives. You try to stay focused, show up, and keep producing, but the emotional chaos doesn’t clock out just because you’ve walked into the office. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks to the hidden impact betrayal has on your career, identity, and ability to function in high-pressure environments. Adam breaks down how trauma bleeds into your work ethic, drive, and even your confidence. He explains why betrayed men often struggle with attention, short fuses, or emotional numbing at work, and how the pressure to keep performing can become its own burden. Whether you’re in a leadership role, working with clients, or trying to manage coworkers, the truth is your betrayal doesn’t stay at home, it follows you. Inside this episode: ·       Why betrayal trauma interrupts focus, memory, and motivation ·       How shame shows up in professional settings ·       What happens when you lose your confidence or drive ·       Why men hide their pain at work and how it isolates them ·       How to protect your career without pretending everything’s fine This episode gives you practical strategies to regulate before meetings, reclaim your sense of pride in what you do, and stop letting betrayal chip away at your professional self. You’ve worked too hard to lose yourself here. For more support, email Adam@BetrayalShrink.com Explore resources at BetrayalShrink.com Support the show

    13 min
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Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.

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  • Creator
    Adam Nisenson
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    53
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Men Get Cheated On Too!
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