Meredith for Real: the curious introvert

Meredith Hackwith Edwards
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Each episode explores a taboo question or cultural blind spot with an expert who is themselves, a paradox -Like the atheist doctor who studied near death experiences for 50 years (ep 224)Or the deeply religious man studied by NASA who sees UFOs regularly (ep 261).The mission is to inspire the kind of curiosity that looks for & celebrates nuance, because we all deserve a more curious future.So tune in each week (new episodes every Monday) to question things like American individualism (ep 260), trigger warnings (ep 208) & circumcision (ep 178).Still not sure where to start?Other listeners loved ep 230 - Can a sexless marriage survive? and ep 237 - Black man who attends KKK rallies: race & friendship

  1. 5D AGO

    Ep. 334: Football: Are We Cheering for Brain Trauma?

    Did the NFL cover up what they knew? Is football causing early dementia?   Mark Fainaru-Wada is an award-winning investigative reporter & journalist with ESPN. He’s also the co- author of League of Denial, the book co-written with his brother, that inspired the Frontline documentary by the same name. In this episode, you’ll hear how the discovery of Chronic Traumatic Encephalopathy – CTE – sparked investigations & research & denial. Mark unpacks our culture comfort with violence, the danger of blaming everything on CTE & what it took get the NFL to address concussion injury concerns.   If you like this episode, you’ll also like episode 204: ARE LOW FAT DIETS HEALTHY? HEART HEALTH & HECKLERS [REMASTERED]      Guest: https://a.co/d/0iybv8zh https://youtu.be/SedClkAnclk?si=uAp4KvLWOCSKqGe3   Host:   https://www.meredithforreal.com/   https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/  meredith@meredithforreal.com https://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal   https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert    Sponsors:  https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/  https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/    01:22 — Has interest in CTE faded since the documentary? 01:38 — The story that launched the investigation 02:37 — Minimization or an actual cover-up? 04:32 — What CTE actually looks like in real life 05:00 — The hidden danger: repetitive hits 07:50 — Why football is harder to confront than smoking 08:43 — Our cultural comfort with violence 11:23 — The difference between TV and the sideline 12:30 — Frequency vs intensity of brain trauma 13:28 — The high percentage of CTE in former players 14:05 — Could anything else cause CTE? 15:02 — When the NFL finally acknowledged the link 16:05 — The lawsuits and congressional pressure 16:33 — Why ESPN supported the investigation 19:12 — “There is no Santa”: confronting fan identity 19:49 — How fans rationalize uncomfortable facts 21:12 — Why some people still call CTE bad science 22:21 — Financial incentives behind the doubt 22:53 — The religious undertones of football culture 23:23 — The gladiator appeal of football players 24:34 — Why football feels mythic in America 25:41 — Why youth football is a separate debate 26:11 — The question every parent asks 27:05 — Why more kids are switching to flag football 27:38 — The NFL’s marketing push toward moms 29:52 — When is tackle football “safe”? 31:26 — New rules to limit head impacts 33:11 — When marketing meets safety messaging 33:44 — Why football can’t admit its core problem 33:50 — Can better helmets solve brain trauma? 35:00 — Why helmets were never the real solution 36:05 — The danger of blaming everything on CTE 36:42 — Why the brain is always complicated 38:36 — Why nuance keeps getting lost 40:21 — The race and class dynamics of youth football 42:09 — The future of CTE research 43:41 — Final reflections on football’s uncertain future Request to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/

    45 min

  2. MAR 2

    Ep. 333: Does Age = Pain? How to NOT Age Like Everyone Else!

    Is it possible to age without aches & pains? Are some people just cursed with bad genes?    Eileen Kopsaftis is a physical therapist with a Fellowship in Applied Functional Science & a nutrition educator diploma with decades of hands-on work in acute hospital care, outpatient rehab & nursing homes. She is currently serving as a chronic pain & health conditions consultant with Have life-Long Well Being. In this episode, you’ll hear how to identify real & realistic goals while aging, how mindset & community matter more than you realize, how to navigate your next doctor’s appointment & why your insurance could be limiting your outcomes.   If you like this episode, you’ll also like episode 251: FOOD ADDICTION: CHARACTER FLAW OR REAL DEPENDENCE? [REMASTERED]    Guest: https://havelifelongwellbeing.com/ https://www.facebook.com/EileenKopsaftisOfficial   Host:   https://www.meredithforreal.com/   https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/  meredith@meredithforreal.com https://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal  https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert    Sponsors:  https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/  https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/    02:05 — Common vs. Normal Aging 04:18 — Why Modern Life Accelerates Decline 05:05 — “I Might As Well Enjoy Life” Thinking 05:55 — Lessons From Home Health Visits 07:28 — Habits That Predict Independence 08:10 — Compassion vs. Personal Responsibility 08:55 — What Healthy 90-Year-Olds Actually Do 09:40 — “At My Age I Should Rest” 10:45 — The Reality of Nursing Home Dependency 11:30 — Independence Is Not Luck 12:05 — The Social Side of Healthy Aging 13:05 — Finding Friends Who Move 13:55 — Pickleball and the Comeback of Activity 14:50 — Why Mindset Comes First 15:45 — Speaking Aging Into Existence 17:05 — When Pain Disappears Instantly 18:30 — How to Navigate Doctor Visits 23:00 — Lie #1: Tests Equal Answers 25:45 — When Shoulder Pain Starts at the Ankle 26:30 — Whole-Body Problem Solving 27:05 — Why Pain Treatment Often Fails 27:45 — Finding the Right Clinician 30:20 — Insurance vs. Cash Pay Care 32:40 — Why People Think PT “Doesn’t Work” 33:20 — Lie #2: Stop Moving to Stop Pain 34:45 — Shrinking Movement Shrinks Life 35:30 — Bone-on-Bone Pain Explained 37:50 — The Three Biggest Pain Culprits 39:10 — Sitting, Weak Glutes, and Back Pain 39:55 — Why Ankles Cause Knee Problems 41:25 — Lie #3: You Need a Stair-Free Home 42:50 — The Hidden Danger of “Aging in Place” Homes 43:30 — Choosing Friends Who Support Vitality 44:10 — Resources, Courses, and Online Community Request to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/

    48 min

  3. FEB 23

    Ep. 332: The Cult Origins of Teen Rehab: How are these places still open??

    How are these abusive teen rehab centers still open? Why are parents still sending their kids there? Can’t they be shut down?   Maia Szalavitz is an award-winning author and journalist who covers addiction and neuroscience. Her book, Help at Any Cost: How the Troubled-Teen Industry Cons Parents and Hurts Kids, is the first comprehensive look at systemic abuse in “tough love” programs and helped spur Congressional hearings & GAO investigations.  In this episode, you’ll hear how the abusive teen rehab centers featured in Netflix’s The Program & Wayward (think Straight Inc., The Seed, Synanon & wilderness camps) began with tough love doctrine, why you can legally treat kids worse than prisoners, why parents aren’t suing & why regulations just don’t stick. We also weave in the perspective of struggling parents who feel that the anti-troubled teen industry is hurting their healing efforts.    If you like this episode, you’ll also like episode 248: SURVIVING THE TROUBLED TEEN INDUSTRY: SEPARATING IDENTITY FROM EXPERIENCE [REMASTERED]   Guest: https://x.com/maiasz  https://maiasz.com/   Resources: Boy who was raised as a dog https://a.co/d/0bA3dxmi  Pace Center for Girls Pensacola https://www.pacecenter.org/locations/florida/escambia-santa-rosa/  Gulf Coast Kids House https://www.gulfcoastkidshouse.org/  Greenhouse Counseling https://www.ghcpensacola.com/    Host:   https://www.meredithforreal.com/   https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/  meredith@meredithforreal.com https://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal   https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert    Sponsors:  https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/  https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/    02:00 — The cult origins: Synanon begins 04:00 — “I must have needed that” psychology 05:00 — The rattlesnake assassination attempt 07:00 — The Seed and brainwashing teens 08:00 — Straight Incorporated goes national 10:00 — Why parents don’t believe abuse reports 12:00 — Utah wilderness programs rise 13:00 — The death of Aaron Bacon 14:00 — Moral panic & religious fear 15:00 — Good parents, fatal decisions 16:00 — Why regulation keeps failing 17:00 — Regulatory capture in Utah 20:00 — Unannounced inspections change everything 22:00 — Why traumatized kids need gentleness 27:00 — Warehouses of neglect 28:00 — Should therapy have an FDA? 29:00 — Renaming punishment as treatment 32:00 — Exhausted parents & marketing fear 34:00 — How small power corrupts 42:00 — Why lawsuits rarely succeed 44:00 — Private right of action explained 45:00 — Does awareness help or hurt? 46:00 — Educational consultants & kickbacks 54:00 — Local resources for struggling families 55:00 — Undoing drugs & keeping people alive Request to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/

    56 min

  4. FEB 16

    Ep. 331: Disentangling Faith from Religious Trauma [REMASTERED]

    What do you do if you have religious trauma, but don't want to abandon your faith? Catherine Quiring is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who specializes in helping ex-evangelicals overcome religious trauma. In this episode, she shares what that looked like for her, how to know if you have limiting thoughts leftover from controlling doctrine, how to keep your faith while you separate from systems of control & how to find your own thoughts in a sea of “shoulds.”   This episode originally aired June 12, 2023   If you like this episode, you’ll also like episode 156 with Joshua Harris: SHOULD SEX BE SAVED FOR MARRIAGE?   Guest: https://www.instagram.com/catherinequiring https://www.cqcounseling.com/ https://www.facebook.com/cqcounseling    Host:   https://www.meredithforreal.com/   https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/  meredith@meredithforreal.com https://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal   https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert    Sponsors:  https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/  https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/    01:00 — Why harmful church experiences are more common than we think 03:00 — Fear tactics, hell doctrine & covert narcissism 04:00 — Codependent faith & the pressure to feel God 05:00 — OCD spirituality & micromanaging your soul 06:00 — When people become “projects,” not peers 07:00 — Catherine’s story: trauma at seven 11:00 — Deconstruction vs. deconversion (not the same) 12:00 — “You’re in or you’re out” — high-control community dynamics 13:00 — Wheaton College & the first cracks in certainty 14:00 — Reimagining God: from judge to shepherd 15:00 — Releasing harmful doctrine & reclaiming the divine 16:00 — Why this healing can take 20 years 17:00 — Step negative three: just notice how you feel 18:00 — Interoception vs. judgment 19:00 — Exploring Christian possibilities (hello, Jinger Duggar) 20:00 — Interoception vs. introspection 21:00 — Digging yourself out vs. listening to your body 22:00 — Your body has a language 23:00 — The painful “playback” of manipulation 24:00 — Talking to yourself like a friend would 25:00 — Reclaiming the parts that helped you survive 26:00 — When submission theology hits marriage 27:00 — The hidden pressure on men to be “the voice of God” 28:00 — Boundaries, anxiety & interrupting the cycle 29:00 — When honesty strengthens (or exposes) a marriage 30:00 — Practical healing recap 31:00 — Resources for staying Christian — but freer 32:00 — Books that unlock self-trust 33:00 — Curiosity as a spiritual superpower 34:00 — The Order of St. Hildegard & anti-oppressive faith 35:00 — Finding community after deconstruction 36:00 — Where to connect with Catherine Request to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/

    37 min

  5. FEB 9

    Ep. 330: Is Your Happiness Being Politicized? [REMASTERED]

    If you're not happy, it means something is wrong ... right?    Dr. Loretta Breuning is a PhD researcher & author. Since becoming unconvinced by prevailing theories on human behavior, she has researched everything from monkeys to the mafia. Now she’s not only helping people hack their brain, she’s shedding light on how the altruistic outlook may be popular, but ultimately damaging.   In this episode, she explains WHY we believe that if we are unhappy something is wrong, how simply “getting back to nature” can backfire, the problem with happiness studies & (this is important) how to start your own happiness plan.   This episode originally aired March 7, 2024.   If you like this episode, you’ll also like episode 275: IS AMBITION ANTI-HAPPINESS? REASONABLE HAPPINESS & FETISHIZING WEALTH   Guest: https://innermammalinstitute.org/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-happy-brain/id1377502232  https://www.instagram.com/inner.mammal.inst/ https://innermammalinstitute.org/course/   https://www.facebook.com/LorettaBreuningPhD  https://twitter.com/lbreuning     Host:   https://www.meredithforreal.com/   https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/  meredith@meredithforreal.com https://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal   https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert    Sponsors:  https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/  https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/    02:05 — Rousseau’s “nature is happy” legacy 02:48 — Why academia spreads the meme 03:36 — The medical model of unhappiness 04:18 — Blaming society vs building skills 07:24 — Hunter-gatherer reality check 09:58 — Culture shapes how we report happiness 10:32 — Why Americans hesitate to say “I’m happy” 11:32 — Cortisol: when expectations miss 13:42 — Childhood culture becomes adult politics 14:06 — Status envy in academia 15:10 — Moral superiority as serotonin 15:48 — The “I did it the right way” trap 16:38 — Everyone thinks they’re the overlooked underdog 18:06 — Popularity: the motivator no one admits 19:02 — How biology gets politicized 23:18 — Why therapy and religion sell unhappiness 24:08 — The media and your happy chemicals 25:02 — News as a brain-chemical cocktail 31:04 — How not to throw the baby out with the bathwater 34:08 — Reward yourself like animal training 34:42 — Train your inner mammal Request to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/

    36 min

  6. FEB 2

    Ep. 329: Antique Vibrator Museum: Bees, Buffalos & Stigma [REMASTERED]

    How old is the oldest vibrator? Does self-pleasure steal affection from your partner? Carol Queen has a Ph.D. in Sexology & a passion for pleasure. She is the curator of the Good Vibrations Antique Vibrator Museum in San Francisco, CA. In this episode, she shares the origin story of the museum & explains how vibrators went from doctor’s offices to bedside tables. She also explains why partner sex & self-sex are different activities, why pleasure should be a part of sex ed & addresses common vibrator concerns.   This episode originally aired March 7, 2022.   If you like this episode, you’ll also like episode 214: WHAT ARE RULES OF MONOGAMY? THE PSYCHOLIGIST SWINGER   Guest: http://antiquevibratormuseum.com/  https://carolqueen.com/ https://twitter.com/carolqueen BlueSky @carolqueen.bsky.socia    Host:   https://www.meredithforreal.com/   https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/  meredith@meredithforreal.com https://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal   https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert    Sponsors:  https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/  https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/    01:20 — What is a sexologist, actually? 04:45 — How the Antique Vibrator Museum started 07:35 — The one vibrator with a confirmed sex history 08:05 — The hippie-built DIY vibrator story 08:55 — What early vibrators looked like 09:30 — Hand-crank vibrators before electricity 11:10 — Cleopatra’s bee vibrator myth 11:55 — Papyrus boxes, gourds, and historical speculation 14:20 — Treating “hysteria” with vibration 18:05 — Why vibrators beat toasters in 1917 18:45 — What this says about women’s pleasure historically 19:35 — Was sex really that bad back then? 21:00 — The orgasm gap explained 22:20 — The wandering uterus theory (yes, really) 23:10 — Masturbation stigma and cultural norms 25:30 — Fear: “Will a vibrator replace my partner?” 26:40 — Fear: “Will I damage my nerves?” 27:20 — Temporary numbness vs long-term harm 28:05 — Feeling intimidated choosing a vibrator 30:05 — Where to get trustworthy vibrator guidance 30:40 — Good Vibrations resources and educators 31:15 — Carol’s book and recommended reading 31:55 — Where to follow Dr. Carol Queen 32:30 — Final thoughts on curiosity, pleasure, and stigma Request to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/

    32 min

  7. JAN 26

    Ep. 328: What If It’s Not in Your Head? Mold Illness & Medical Blind Spots

    Dr. Neil Nathan is Board Certified in Family Medicine and Pain Management as well as a Founding Dip-low-mitt of the American Board of Integrative Holistic Medicine & International Society for Environmentally Acquired Illnesses. He spent over 50 years treating patients with chronic conditions related to environmental factors & now dedicates himself consulting & mentorship, writing several books for both health care professionals & patients. In this episode, you’ll hear mold allergy vs illness, what symptoms mold toxicity can imitate, how to really test & what healing protocol can look like.   If you liked this episode, you’ll also like episode 234: FELON TO MILLION DOLLAR BUSINESS OWNER [REMASTERED]   Guest: https://neilnathanmd.com/   Host:   https://www.meredithforreal.com/   https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/  meredith@meredithforreal.com https://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal   https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert    Sponsors:  https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/  https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/    01:35 — Conditions mold mimics 04:00 — “It’s not psychological” 05:00 — Why medicine lags behind 06:00 — The mold hoax narrative 08:00 — How common mold really is 11:00 — Mold and Alzheimer’s risk 12:00 — GI symptoms decoded 13:00 — Fatigue that doesn’t resolve 18:00 — Mold toxicity vs allergy 19:00 — Immune system tipping points 20:00 — Stress, illness, and timing 21:00 — Hive consciousness explained 22:00 — Candida cravings aren’t you 23:00 — Zombie mold metaphor 24:00 — EMFs enter the picture 27:00 — Testing for mold toxicity 38:00 — Low-carb for mold healing 41:00 — Alcohol’s real impact 42:00 — Magnesium’s critical role 43:00 — Chronic deficiency mystery 47:00 — Hormones after mold 48:00 — Limbic system overload 49:00 — Vagus nerve dysfunction 50:00 — Mast cell activation 51:00 — Rebooting nervous systems 52:00 — Brain retraining programs 58:00 — Detox hygiene at home 59:00 — Why bleach backfires 01:00:00 — Dust vs airflow 01:01:00 — Water damage vigilance 01:02:00 — Detox tools worth using 01:04:00 — Balance over biohacking 01:05:00 — What healing really requires 01:06:00 — Living with intention 01:07:00 — Final takeaways & resources Request to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/

    53 min

  8. JAN 19

    Ep. 327: He Ate His Own Foot!? Grief, Friendship & Foot Tacos [REMASTERED]

    When the Redditor known as Incrediblyshinyshart lost part of his leg in a motorcycle accident & had to have it amputated, he made an unusual choice – to eat it. He shares his thoughts on mourning, cannibalism & why eating part of his own body was life-changing.   This episode originally aired July 4, 2022.   If you liked this episode, you’ll also like episode 234: FELON TO MILLION DOLLAR BUSINESS OWNER [REMASTERED]   Guest: https://www.reddit.com/user/incrediblyShinyShart   Host:   https://www.meredithforreal.com/   https://www.instagram.com/meredithforreal/  meredith@meredithforreal.com https://www.youtube.com/meredithforreal   https://www.facebook.com/meredithforrealthecuriousintrovert    Sponsors:  https://www.jordanharbinger.com/starterpacks/  https://www.historicpensacola.org/about-us/    00:00 — A crash that changes everything 02:24 — Why incineration felt wrong 04:26 — The taxidermy dead end 05:15 — Dark humor as grief language 06:07 — The ethical cannibalism question 06:35 — An opportunity you’ll never get again 07:00 — A chef, a freezer, and surreal logistics 07:58 — A meal that felt like ceremony 09:47 — Becoming part of the people who love you 10:15 — Dark jokes before the first bite 12:55 — No hesitation at the table 14:42 — Ancient rituals and modern meaning 15:45 — Growth through the unthinkable 16:47 — Facing mortality head-on 17:10 — Life keeps getting better 18:40 — Was the dinner essential? 19:32 — Connection as closure 19:58 — Looking back with fondness 20:22 — Final thoughts from Shiny   Request to join my private Facebook Group, MFR Curious Insiders https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1BAt3bpwJC/

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Each episode explores a taboo question or cultural blind spot with an expert who is themselves, a paradox -Like the atheist doctor who studied near death experiences for 50 years (ep 224)Or the deeply religious man studied by NASA who sees UFOs regularly (ep 261).The mission is to inspire the kind of curiosity that looks for & celebrates nuance, because we all deserve a more curious future.So tune in each week (new episodes every Monday) to question things like American individualism (ep 260), trigger warnings (ep 208) & circumcision (ep 178).Still not sure where to start?Other listeners loved ep 230 - Can a sexless marriage survive? and ep 237 - Black man who attends KKK rallies: race & friendship

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