MILKLESS

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Searching for that parenthood balance so when our kids are old they look back and say, "yeah, my dad (or mom) was awesome," however we get there. And while we love our kids unconditionally, that doesn't mean we're wimpy pushover dads who have lost every shred of dignity and respect in the home. Let's find that balance together. We are Max Valverde and Matt Naylor. We are MILKLESS. 

  1. #118 | Max's Oldest Turns 10!

    OCT 7

    #118 | Max's Oldest Turns 10!

    Max and Matt break down one of parenting’s hardest skills, keeping your cool when everything’s falling apart. They talk about why kids always seem to test your patience at the worst times, what those triggers are actually teaching you, and how to recover after you blow up. From dad guilt to morning chaos to practical tools that actually help, this one’s a mix of real talk, science, and the kind of humor that makes you feel seen. Whether you’ve yelled at your kid today or just felt close, this episode is for every parent trying to stay calm and connected. Let’s gooo! Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro & Catch-Up 2:45 – Losing Patience Moments 6:10 – Why We Snap 10:25 – Repair After Anger 14:00 – Dad Guilt Explained 18:15 – Triggers & Awareness 22:30 – Staying Calm Tips 27:45 – When to Apologize 33:00 – Letting Go Grace 36:03 – Closing Thoughts Buy Violet Archer on Amazon Here Milkless on Instagram Milkless on TikTok LISTEN + WATCH VIOLET ARCHER Follow on Instagram

    36 min
  2. #117 | When Mom and Dad Do it Differently

    OCT 1

    #117 | When Mom and Dad Do it Differently

    Max and Matt dive into the messy middle ground of parenting as a team, when to be a united front, and when it’s okay (even good) to be different. Sparked by a spicy Instagram post, they unpack what happens when one parent loosens the rules while the other holds the line, and why those differences might actually teach kids resilience. From solo weekends with the kids, to pizza dinners and Dave & Buster’s meltdowns, to the hidden pressures moms and dads face when parenting alone, they bring stories, studies, and plenty of laughs. They also break down research on authoritative vs. authoritarian parenting, how consistency shapes kids’ brains, and why the most important thing might just be that your child goes to bed knowing they’re loved. Let’s gooo! Timestamps: 0:00 Intro & Dave & Buster’s Chaos 3:10 The Instagram Post That Sparked It 7:45 Solo Parenting: Dad vs. Mom Styles 13:20 Do Kids Need a United Front? 19:05 Parenting Styles in Research 25:50 The “Easy Kid” Study & Harsh Parenting 30:40 Why Predictability Shapes Kids’ Brains 35:15 Communication & Avoiding Parenting Resentment 39:37 Closing Thoughts Buy Violet Archer on Amazon Here Milkless on Instagram Milkless on TikTok LISTEN + WATCH VIOLET ARCHER Follow on Instagram

    40 min
  3. #116 | Youth Sports in America pt 2

    SEP 23

    #116 | Youth Sports in America pt 2

    Max and Matt dive deeper into the chaos of youth sports this time focusing on the scoreboards, standings, and the paradox of winning. They break down why so many leagues avoid keeping score, how that overcorrection misses the point, and what kids actually learn from wins and losses. From family dinners lost to the club system, to the pressure of turning every child into the next Messi or LeBron, they unpack the real purpose of youth sports: joy, community, and learning to compete without tying your worth to the outcome. With stories from City League, shoutouts to multi-sport athletes, and a few hilarious detours (including puppies and Red Bull cans), this episode challenges the broken system and imagines a better way forward for kids and families. Buy Violet Archer on Amazon Here Milkless on Instagram Milkless on TikTok LISTEN + WATCH VIOLET ARCHER Follow on Instagram

    42 min
  4. #115 | Youth Sports in America pt 1

    SEP 16

    #115 | Youth Sports in America pt 1

    Max and Matt tackle the wild world of youth sports in America, where rec leagues are disappearing, travel teams dominate, and parents feel trapped in an expensive cycle of tournaments, uniforms, and endless weekends on the road. Max shares his experience founding City League, a local nonprofit bringing back competitive, affordable, community-driven sports for kids. They unpack how the “club track” pressures families into year-round specialization as young as eight, why that’s burning kids out, and what’s really lost when fun disappears from the game. From $600 uniforms to 10-hour car rides, to why multi-sport athletes are actually more likely to succeed, this episode is part rant, part blueprint for a better way forward. Buy Violet Archer on Amazon Here Milkless on Instagram Milkless on TikTok LISTEN + WATCH VIOLET ARCHER Follow on Instagram

    39 min
  5. #114 | How to make fun of your kids (without hurting them)

    AUG 19

    #114 | How to make fun of your kids (without hurting them)

    Max and Matt get into the delicate art of making fun of your kids when it builds connection and when it crosses the line. They unpack why playful teasing, if done right, can actually strengthen relationships and even teach kids emotional intelligence. From family jokes to inside roasts, they share how humour becomes a love language and why tone, timing, and context matter more than the words themselves. They also dive into the do’s and don’ts of raising your kids, the dangers of punching down, and why sometimes the best joke is letting your kids give it right back. With plenty of stories, laughter, and a few cautionary tales, this episode is all about finding joy in the banter without causing lasting damage. Let’s gooo! Buy Violet Archer on Amazon Here Milkless on Instagram Milkless on TikTok LISTEN + WATCH VIOLET ARCHER Follow on Instagram

    40 min
  6. #113 | Overparenting Is Doing More Damage Than You Think Pt. 2

    AUG 12

    #113 | Overparenting Is Doing More Damage Than You Think Pt. 2

    Max and Matt unpack the chaos of raising independent kids in a hyper-scheduled world. As their children grow up, they explore what it looks like to let go of bike rides without parents, drop-in sports, and the lost art of knocking on a friend’s door. They dive into why “playdates” might be ruining everything, the myth of the dangerous world we live in, and how over-parenting may be quietly chipping away at our kids’ sense of self-worth. Through stories, rants, and a surprisingly touching gratitude moment (plus a THC suppository joke), this episode is all about trusting your kids, checking your anxiety, and remembering that sometimes, boring is beautiful. Just waiting for the main episode, then you are all good to upload. Hopefully, within the next hour Buy Violet Archer on Amazon Here Milkless on Instagram Milkless on TikTok LISTEN + WATCH VIOLET ARCHER Follow on Instagram

    24 min
  7. # 112 | Overparenting Is Doing More Damage Than You Think Pt. 1

    AUG 5

    # 112 | Overparenting Is Doing More Damage Than You Think Pt. 1

    Max and Matt dive into the surprising science behind overprotective parenting and how it might literally shorten your child’s lifespan. They explore a British longitudinal study that found links between childhood autonomy and living a longer life, and reflect on what that means for modern parenting. From the fine line between support and smothering, to how bulldozer parents might be raising emotionally fragile kids, this episode is packed with insight and reflection. They break down the value of boredom, unsupervised free play, and why kids need to feel struggle to grow strong. It’s not about neglect, it’s about building resilience through real-life friction. Oh, and there’s plenty of tactical flannel, meditation talk, and rectal gummy jokes too. Welcome to another classic Milkless mix of science, dad life, and existential comedy. Buy Violet Archer on Amazon Here Milkless on Instagram Milkless on TikTok LISTEN + WATCH VIOLET ARCHER Follow on Instagram

    25 min
  8. #111 | Making Violet Archer & Rethinking Kids' TV with Caitlin Murray of Big Time Adulting

    JUL 29

    #111 | Making Violet Archer & Rethinking Kids' TV with Caitlin Murray of Big Time Adulting

    We sat down with Caitlin Murray of @BigTimeAdulting to talk about why we made Violet Archer — a mystery story for kids that actually slows down, leans on story, and treats young brains with some respect. We talk about what’s broken in modern kids’ content, how Violet Archer came to life, and how modern content for kids seems to favor attention grabbing visuals and sounds over story and imagination. Caitlin also shares why she signed on to voice Violet herself - and yes, we do manage to roast a few shows along the way. If you’re a parent who’s tired of kids content that feels like a sugar rush with a theme song, this one’s for you. Buy Violet Archer on Amazon Here Milkless on Instagram Milkless on TikTok LISTEN + WATCH VIOLET ARCHER Follow on Instagram

    42 min
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Searching for that parenthood balance so when our kids are old they look back and say, "yeah, my dad (or mom) was awesome," however we get there. And while we love our kids unconditionally, that doesn't mean we're wimpy pushover dads who have lost every shred of dignity and respect in the home. Let's find that balance together. We are Max Valverde and Matt Naylor. We are MILKLESS. 

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  • Creator
    Milkless Media
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2025
  • Episodes
    118
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 MILKLESS
  • Show Website
    MILKLESS

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