More than Roommates

Scott Kedersha, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough
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Welcome to More Than Roommates, where we want to help you take the next step to be more intentional in your marriage. We want to help you avoid falling into the trap of being merely roommates with your spouse. We hope that through authentic, biblical, and practical conversation you will gain tools and wisdom to help you take one step closer to the Lord and the marriage He intends for you and your spouse. Listen in as Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, and Derek Davidson help you intentionally strengthen your relationship.

  1. Episode 167- Make this the Best Valentine's Day Yet

    2D AGO

    Episode 167- Make this the Best Valentine's Day Yet

    Valentine’s Day can feel commercial, awkward, or unnecessary—but it’s actually a powerful opportunity to fight complacency and intentionally love your spouse. In this episode, the More Than Roommates crew unpacks why celebrating your marriage matters, how simple intentionality can transform connection, and practical ways to make this Valentine’s Day meaningful. Discussion Questions: 1- What makes you feel most loved on days like Valentine’s Day? 2- When Valentine’s Day approaches, what expectations (spoken or unspoken) do you each carry? 3- What can we do this week to celebrate our marriage? Resources: The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman

    29 min
  2. Episode 166- Navigating Mental Illness in Marriage

    FEB 3

    Episode 166- Navigating Mental Illness in Marriage

    In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and John Elmore to discuss what it looks like to walk faithfully with your spouse through mental illness. With biblical clarity, compassion, and practical wisdom, John shares how he and his wife Laura have navigated OCD, stigma, treatment, and the call to love your spouse as yourself even when it is difficult. Discussion Questions: 1- When one of us is struggling emotionally or mentally, do we tend to fix, minimize, or walk alongside? How can we grow in being more present? 2- Are there areas where mental or emotional health struggles feel stigmatized or unspoken in our marriage? 3- How do we discern when to show compassion versus when to gently coach one another forward? 4- What fears do we carry about seeking outside help (therapy, medication, counseling)? Resources: ReGeneration Recovery Ministry

    31 min
  3. Episode 165- More Than Parents: Marriage in Different Parenting Seasons

    JAN 27

    Episode 165- More Than Parents: Marriage in Different Parenting Seasons

    Parenting introduces new pressures at every stage, but it doesn’t have to pull your marriage apart. In this episode, the MTR Team walk through four major parenting seasons and share how couples can stay united, intentional, and More Than Roommates at every stage. Discussion Questions: 1- Which parenting season are we currently in, and how is it impacting our marriage right now? 2- Do we feel like we’re truly on the same team—or unintentionally siding with our kids over one another? 3- How do our differences (personality, discipline style, love language) strengthen or strain our marriage? 4- What is one intentional habit we can reintroduce (or start) to protect our marriage in this season?

    27 min
  4. Episode 164 - How to DATE Your Spouse

    JAN 20

    Episode 164 - How to DATE Your Spouse

    What if the difference between feeling like roommates and feeling deeply connected was as simple as dating your spouse again? In this episode, the team unpacks the powerful framework of DATE—Dialogue, Affection, Time, and Ephesians 5 (love and respect)—and how practicing it can transform your marriage in any season. Discussion Questions: 1- Which part of DATE do we currently do best? Which one do we tend to neglect? 2- How has busyness, kids, or phones affected our dialogue? 3- How can I love or respect you more clearly this week—in how I say things, not just what I say? 4- What would one simple, realistic date look like in our current season?

    27 min
  5. Episode 163- Should Married Couples Ever Separate?

    JAN 13

    Episode 163- Should Married Couples Ever Separate?

    Separation is often presented as a healthy solution when marriage feels hard—but is it really? In this episode, the More Than Roommates team explores what separation actually means, why it so often leads to divorce, when it may be necessary, and how couples can pursue healing and restoration with Biblical wisdom and community. Discussion Questions: 1- Why do you think separation so often leads to divorce rather than healing? 2- How does selfishness subtly show up in your marriage during hard seasons? 3- What role does community currently play in helping you protect and strengthen your marriage? 4- How could you better “water your own grass” in this season? Resources: Episode 83 Divorce part 1 Episode 84 Divorce part 2 Episode 127 Healing from Sexual Abuse  Watermark statement on marriage and divorce

    24 min
  6. Episode 162- Joy in Marriage

    JAN 6

    Episode 162- Joy in Marriage

    Joy in marriage isn’t about perfect circumstances—it’s about a deep, Spirit-formed posture of the heart. In this episode, Derek, Gabrielle, and special guest Andrew Owen explore how biblical joy sustains marriages through hardship, disappointment, and everyday life, and how couples can actively choose joy together. Discussion Questions: 1- When you think about your marriage right now, would you describe it as joyful? Why or why not? 2- How would you define the difference between joy and happiness in your relationship? 3- What currently tends to rob joy in your marriage (fear, anxiety, unmet expectations, bitterness)? 4- How can you better encourage one another daily so your hearts don’t become hardened?

    22 min
  7. Episode 161 - Looking back and Looking Ahead at New Years

    12/30/2025

    Episode 161 - Looking back and Looking Ahead at New Years

    As the year comes to a close, join the More Than Roommates team for a short conversation about what it looks like to look back and look ahead as we all seek to be more intentional in our marriages. The MTR team reflects on what God's Word says about rememberance and how that applies to our marriages. Discussion Questions: 1- Start, Stop, Continue- as you apply that idea to your marriage, what do you want to focus on in this new year? 2- How have you seen God move in the last year? What are you grateful for? 3- What is a place in your life you are still waiting to see God move?

    11 min
  8. Episode 160 - How to be Intentional during Christmas

    12/23/2025

    Episode 160 - How to be Intentional during Christmas

    In the midst of a busy and often distracting Christmas season, this episode challenges couples to choose presence over just more presents. The More Than Roommates team offer practical, biblical encouragement to help you slow down, be intentional, and truly connect with your spouse and Jesus during the holidays. Discussion Questions: 1- When you think about this Christmas season so far, where have you been most distracted? Where have you felt most present? 2- What tends to pull your attention away from your spouse during the holidays (phones, stress, schedules, comparison, etc.)? 3- What does presence look like for you personally? What about for your spouse? 4- How can you intentionally create moments of connection in the days ahead—even if Christmas has already passed? Resources Episode 51 - How to make this Your Best Holiday Season

    12 min
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Welcome to More Than Roommates, where we want to help you take the next step to be more intentional in your marriage. We want to help you avoid falling into the trap of being merely roommates with your spouse. We hope that through authentic, biblical, and practical conversation you will gain tools and wisdom to help you take one step closer to the Lord and the marriage He intends for you and your spouse. Listen in as Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, and Derek Davidson help you intentionally strengthen your relationship.

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  • Creator
    Scott Kedersha, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    194
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Harris Creek
  • Show Website
    More than Roommates

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