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Hi! We're Emma and Fin! We're a married couple in our early thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over a decade. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories.

Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by blending swinging and polyamory into a unique hybrid that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.

We hope you enjoy the show and who knows, maybe someday you'll even be willing to share your own story. We'd love to hear it!

Normalizing Non-Monogamy - Interviews in Polyamory and Swinging Emma and Fin

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.6 • 184 Ratings

Hi! We're Emma and Fin! We're a married couple in our early thirties who have been exploring non-monogamy for over a decade. Every week we interview people from across the spectrums of gender, sexuality, and relationship styles to hear their amazing stories.

Many of our guests identify as swingers or polyamorous. However, quite a few have redefined non-monogamy in their own way by blending swinging and polyamory into a unique hybrid that works for them. We hope that by giving a voice to the diverse community exploring non-monogamy that we can show people they are not alone and inspire them to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.

We hope you enjoy the show and who knows, maybe someday you'll even be willing to share your own story. We'd love to hear it!

    Ep 180 - G

    Ep 180 - G

    G joins us for what is quite possibly the most powerful discussion we've had on the show about self-discovery and knowing one's self. At only 25 years old, G has lived all over the world while building amazing communities and relationships that have helped them better understand who they are. Beyond that, their approach to life and relationships, both romantic and not, is beautiful. We both took so much away from this conversation and hope you do as well.
     


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    • 1 hr 20 min
    Ep 179 - Loving Without Boundaries (Kitty Chambliss)

    Ep 179 - Loving Without Boundaries (Kitty Chambliss)

    Kitty is on a simple mission: To love and to educate. She describes herself as a cheating serial monogamist for the first 10-15 years of her dating life, and then she discovered consensual non-monogamy. For nearly the past 20 years she has been exploring non-monogamy with her husband and it has completely changed her life.



     


    Kitty is also the host of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, author of The Jealousy Survival Guide, and a coach for people who are interested in and exploring non-monogamy. Check out all of her work at lovingwithoutboundaries.com.




     


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    • 1 hr 3 min
    Ep 178 - The V Spot (Katt)

    Ep 178 - The V Spot (Katt)

    Katt brings such incredible energy and positivity to this powerful discussion on personal growth and self-discovery. As she describes it, she grew up as a prude who was pretty much afraid of all things sex. However, in the last few years she has completely redefined her approach to relationships and sex. She is currently exploring solo polyamory and spending time with the people she wants to, when she wants to. You're not going to want to skip this one...


     


    Katt and her best friend also host The V Spot Podcast which she describes as a vegan-ish survival podcast for best friends. If you love Katt's vibe, you'll love their podcast. Check it out!



     


    Check out the full show notes here.


    Click here to join our May 20 Virtual Meet and Greet!
    Join Our Patreon Community!
    $10 Off - Online STI Testing
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    • 1 hr 12 min
    Ep 177 - Claire

    Ep 177 - Claire

    Claire is in her mid thirties and always felt like a misfit in her relationships. That is, until she started exploring ethical non-monogamy about seven years ago... In this fantastic conversation, she shares with us how she and her partner navigated opening their relationship, how they manage their time and energy, and how she's grown since starting her polyamorous journey.


     


    Claire is also a coach who works with people in non-traditional relationships to help them create a road map for a path that works for them on a deep level. You can find her at Intuitive Loving for more information.



     


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    • 59 min
    Ep 176 - 2HotWives (Ams + Kat)

    Ep 176 - 2HotWives (Ams + Kat)

    Ams and Kat are the hosts of the 2HotWives podcast and are on a mission to create a community where like-minded women can explore their sexual interests and embrace great sex as the ultimate in self-care. We have an amazing conversation with them about their journeys into the swinging lifestyle with their husbands, what they've learned along the way, and how they've each grown individually and together.

     


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    • 1 hr 2 min
    Ep 175 - Axel

    Ep 175 - Axel

    Axel and his wife opened their relationship a few years ago after she came to him and let him know that she had fallen in love with another guy. This was a wakeup call that they had put their marriage on cruise control and that something had to change. Over the last few years they have rethought their entire approach to the relationship and their lives overall. Now they’re happily married and have found a way to blend swinging, polyamory, and BDSM into an intentional and dynamic relationship that is thriving. We hope you enjoy this conversation as much as we did.


     

     



    Axel has also written a book called Marriage and Beyond (Note: We said the incorrect name during the show, the book is not Rethinking Relationships), that will be published soon. He has taken all of the information he has learned throughout his journey, combined it with interviews from others who are exploring and studying non-monogamy, and consolidated it into an incredible resource for us all. Please check out his website to sign up for the pre-launch and support this incredible work
     



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    Join Our Patreon Community!
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    https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/
     

    • 1 hr 4 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
184 Ratings

184 Ratings

Amy Ammen ,

So intelligent. Great interviews and info

I appreciate the hosts thoughtful approach to every topic they address. Thorough, kind. Plus I love the tempo and their voices.

HonMyChest ,

One of the Good Ones

I’ve heard many episodes of podcasts where hosts interview a person who talks about non monogamy like a hot topic in the way it’s being presented. What I appreciate about this podcast is that it speaks to the day to day lives of people navigating it having their own experiences. We can find ways to navigate this space as people interested in exploring outside monogamy as a way to set a foundation for boundaries as well. Very useful.

ZCakcpl907 ,

Best podcast EVER

This is going to sound cheesy as heck, but Fin and Emma and the podcast community they have created have changed our world. Open, honest, accepting, and inclusive—if these adjectives ring your chime then tune in! *Warning* this podcast is addictive.

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