Not Your Average Neighbor

Ann Roushar

Not Your Average Neighbor is a podcast that celebrates inspiring individuals and the incredible work they do in our communities. Hosted by Ann Roushar, each episode shines a light on stories of resilience, connection, and good news. Join us every Wednesday as we build a neighborhood that uplifts and inspires—one story at a time!

  1. 6D AGO

    Grief, Healing & Creating Meaningful Celebrations of Life with Amy Heart

    In this heartfelt and deeply meaningful episode of Not Your Average Neighbor, Ann sits down with certified celebrant and funeral director Amy Heart from Murdoch Funeral Homes to talk about grief, healing, funeral planning, and the importance of community support during life’s hardest moments. Amy shares her personal journey into funeral service, what it means to help families celebrate life in deeply personalized ways, and why modern funerals are evolving far beyond tradition. Together, Ann and Amy explore the emotional realities of grief, how to better support grieving loved ones, and why planning ahead can be one of the greatest gifts you leave behind for your family. They also discuss Amy’s community grief program “Journeys,” which creates safe and welcoming spaces for people navigating loss through workshops, social connection, mindfulness, yoga, journaling, and more. This episode is honest, compassionate, and filled with practical wisdom for anyone who has experienced loss — which, ultimately, is all of us. 🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode - Why grief has no timeline or “correct” process - How funerals and celebrations of life are changing - The importance of personalized remembrance - Practical ways to support grieving friends and family - Why pre-planning can ease stress for loved ones - How community connection helps people heal ⏱️ Episode Highlights - Amy Heart’s journey into funeral service - What it means to be a certified celebrant - The evolution of modern funeral traditions - Inside the “Journeys” grief support program - Real conversations about loss and remembrance - Why small acts of kindness matter during grief

    46 min
  2. APR 20

    Rewriting Confidence & Owning Your Identity with Alexandra Braasksma

    In this episode of Not Your Average Neighbor, we’re joined by the vibrant, unapologetic, and inspiring Alexandra Braasksma—a Cedar Rapids realtor, educator, mom, and self-proclaimed “wig enthusiast” who’s redefining confidence on her own terms.From navigating early career uncertainty to stepping into leadership in real estate, Alex shares how she built a life rooted in authenticity—even when it meant doing things differently than expected. But this conversation goes far beyond business.We dive into a deeply personal journey—her experience with hair thinning in her 20s, the emotional impact it had on her confidence, and how that led her to discover a whole new level of self-expression through wigs. What started as insecurity turned into empowerment… and eventually, a collection of over 80 wigs and a bold message:Do what feels right for YOU. 💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode* How Alex transitioned from corporate burnout to a thriving real estate career* Why leadership and teaching became a natural extension of her purpose* The real, unfiltered emotional impact of hair loss—and how it affects identity* How wigs became more than just a solution—they became self-expression* Breaking the stigma around beauty, confidence, and “what people will think”* Why confidence isn’t about fitting in—it’s about choosing yourself daily🔥 Key Takeaways* Confidence is built, not given. Sometimes it starts with doing something uncomfortable.* There’s no “right way” to show up. Whether it’s wigs, tattoos, or bold life decisions—own it.* People’s opinions matter less than your alignment. Period.* You’re allowed to evolve. Identity isn’t fixed—it’s something you get to create.🎧 Why You Should ListenIf you’ve ever held yourself back because of how you look, what people might say, or whether you “fit the mold”—this episode is your permission slip to stop.Alex brings humor, honesty, and a refreshing perspective that will make you rethink confidence, identity, and what it really means to show up as yourself.

    44 min
  3. APR 10

    From Iowa to Washington on a Cross-Country RV Adventure

    In this episode of Not Your Average Neighbor, host Ann Rochar welcomes back one of her favorite guests, Skyler Slifka, for an honest and entertaining conversation about adventure, family, and finding your place in the world.After selling their home in Iowa, Skyler and her family packed up a fifth-wheel camper and spent nearly a year traveling across the United States before ultimately settling in Washington State. She shares what it was really like to road-school her kids, live in an RV, explore national parks, and build a new life in the Pacific Northwest.The conversation also dives into personal growth, trusting your instincts while traveling, and the unexpected life lessons that come from stepping outside your comfort zone. And of course, no visit from Skyler would be complete without some lively Bravo TV commentary.Key Topics & Highlights🚐 Life on the Road -Skyler and her family sold their Iowa home and set out on a cross-country RV journey. -They traveled primarily across western states including Montana, Wyoming, Oregon, Washington, California, Nevada, Arizona, Michigan, and South Dakota. -The trip lasted close to a year and included homeschooling the kids while traveling. -Skyler recommends doing a trial run trip before committing to full-time RV travel to make sure the lifestyle works for your family.🌲 Why Washington Became Home -After exploring the country, the family settled in the Seattle / Lacey, Washington area. -Skyler now works at a State Farm agency in Olympia and continues to embrace the outdoor lifestyle. -She regularly explores the region’s mountains, waterfalls, and state parks. -The family has built a new community with activities and leadership opportunities for their children.Follow Skyler on all socials  @skylerthecreative !

    56 min
5
out of 5
8 Ratings

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Not Your Average Neighbor is a podcast that celebrates inspiring individuals and the incredible work they do in our communities. Hosted by Ann Roushar, each episode shines a light on stories of resilience, connection, and good news. Join us every Wednesday as we build a neighborhood that uplifts and inspires—one story at a time!