Parenting Shrink Wrapped

Samantha Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner

Parenting Shrink Wrapped is your all-access pass to the wild and wonderful journey of raising kids! Hosted by Dr. Melissa Wellner, a double board-certified psychiatrist and child and adolescent psychiatrist, and Samantha Straub, a licensed therapist, educator, and parenting coach, this dynamic duo brings a perfect mix of professional expertise and mom humor. With five kids between them—and thousands more they’ve supported in their professional roles—they’re here to share practical strategies and real-life stories that will help you navigate everything from tantrums to teen drama. Whether you're handling sleepless nights or the chaos of carpool, you'll find relatable advice and a good laugh along the way. Strap in, because parenting is a ride, and we're here to make it a little smoother!

  1. 4d ago ·  Video

    Building Confidence in Teens

    Send us Fan Mail What actually builds confidence in teens? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam and Melissa talk with Jasmyne Chandler, trauma-informed life coach and founder of Guided Passages, about why meaningful challenges, mentorship, nature, and rites of passage can be so powerful for teenagers. Jasmyne shares how her wilderness programs give teens opportunities to disconnect from technology, push themselves physically, reflect on who they are becoming, and experience being truly seen and heard by both peers and adults. The conversation also explores why praise alone doesn't create confidence, the self-criticism many teens carry, why adolescents naturally seek novelty and risk, and how parents can give kids safe opportunities to stretch themselves. In This Episode: Why doing hard things helps teens develop real confidenceWhat a modern rite of passage can look likeWhy teens need opportunities to be taken seriouslyHow being heard and witnessed affects teen connectionSelf-hatred, comparison, and negative self-talk among teensWhy successful and high-achieving teens aren't immuneHow nature and time away from devices can create space for reflectionWhy teenagers naturally seek novelty, challenge, and increasing independenceHow safe challenges can provide an alternative to unhealthy risk-takingWays parents can create meaningful growth experiences without a wilderness tripJasmyne offers one-on-one virtual coaching for tweens, teens, and young adults ages 12–24, along with in-person programs and wilderness experiences through Guided Passages. About Jasmyne Jasmyne Chandler is an International Coaching Federation Certified, Trauma-Informed Professional Life Coach for teens, young adults, and parents. She is also the mom of two teens and has spent the past 17 years working with young people as a high school teacher, GED instructor and advisor, life coach, council facilitator, and wilderness rites of passage guide. She is the founder of Guided Passages, which offers youth programs, wilderness rites of passage trips, and life coaching for teens, young adults, and parents in Southern Oregon and beyond. Her work focuses on supporting teens, young adults, and their parents through additional guidance, mentorship, and encouragement to help shift stuck energy, negative self-talk, and disconnection so they can better embrace and accept who they are, move toward positive change, and create the lives and relationships they truly desire. Connect with Guided Passages: guided-passages.com Get Jasmyne’s free resource: 5 Steps to Minimize Teen Anxiety Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    Building Confidence in Teens
  2. Sep 7 ·  Video

    Analog Childhoods, AI Parents, and the Tech Middle Ground

    Send us Fan Mail Parents are being encouraged to give their kids an analog childhood while relying more and more on AI, smartphones, and technology in their own daily lives. Is that hypocrisy, or simply the reality of raising kids in the middle of a massive technology experiment? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam and Melissa unpack the pressure, guilt, and judgment surrounding screen time and explore a more realistic middle ground. They talk about how online parenting trends can make technology choices seem more extreme than they really are, why too much input may be part of the problem for both overwhelmed parents and developing teen brains, and why warm parenting still requires clear and consistent limits. They also share practical ways to create values- and skills-based tech boundaries, build more boredom, focus, and face-to-face connection into family life, and recognize that teens may still need technology to maintain meaningful social relationships. The conversation also explores where AI might fit into family life, the questions parents should ask before using it, and why kids deserve a voice in the digital footprint adults create for them. Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    Analog Childhoods, AI Parents, and the Tech Middle Ground
  3. Aug 31 ·  Video

    When Drinking Stops Feeling Like a Choice: Understanding Gray Area Drinking

    Send us Fan Mail Do you have to hit rock bottom before you're allowed to question your relationship with alcohol? Absolutely not. In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner sit down with gray area drinking coach, Maureen Benkovich, for a shame-free conversation about the space between casual drinking and alcohol dependency. Maureen shares her personal story of how alcohol gradually became intertwined with socializing, infertility, depression, stress, and her identity. From the outside, she was successful, active, and functioning. On the inside, alcohol was taking up more and more mental space. The conversation explores why drinking less isn't simply about willpower. Maureen breaks down how alcohol affects brain chemistry and explains how our brains can learn to associate drinking with relaxation, reward, celebration, socializing, and stress relief. She also walks Sam and Melissa through her 4R Method: Recognize, Replace, Rewire, and Renew, a framework designed to help people understand the role alcohol is playing in their lives and begin building healthier patterns. In This Episode: What "gray area drinking" meansSigns alcohol may no longer be serving youWhy alcohol can become a coping mechanismHow alcohol affects dopamine, stress, anxiety, and sleepWhy drinking less isn't simply about willpowerAbout Maureen Maureen Benkovich is a gray area drinking coach, keynote speaker, host of the Sober Fit Life podcast, and former pharmaceutical sales representative, personal trainer, and competitive figure athlete. Drawing from both her personal experience and science-backed coaching approach, Maureen helps high-achieving adults change their relationship with alcohol without shame, labels, or waiting for rock bottom. Through her signature 4R Method: Recognize, Replace, Rewire, and Renew, she helps clients build new coping strategies and create sustainable change. Connect With Maureen Visit SoberFitChick.com to learn more about Maureen, take her "Am I Drinking Too Much?" quiz, explore her coaching programs, and find the Sober Fit Life podcast. And be sure to listen to Maureen's episode featuring Sam and Melissa, where they continue the conversation by exploring the messages parents may inadvertently send their kids through their own drinking habits. Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    When Drinking Stops Feeling Like a Choice: Understanding Gray Area Drinking
  4. Aug 24 ·  Video

    How to Help Your Teen Build a Healthy Relationship With Food

    Send us Fan Mail Are the things we say about food unintentionally affecting how our kids feel about eating and their bodies? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam and Melissa are joined by Christiana Cortina, founder of Nutrida, for an important conversation about food, body image, diet culture, and preventing disordered eating in children and teens. Christiana explains why seemingly positive messages about “healthy” eating can sometimes create anxiety, guilt, shame, or rigid food rules. They discuss why restricting foods can create scarcity, how kids learn from the way adults talk about their own bodies, and why labeling foods as “good” or “bad” can be confusing for children. They also tackle a common issue for parents of teens: What do you do when your teenager isn't eating enough? From skipped breakfasts to executive functioning challenges around preparing meals, the conversation offers practical ways parents can make food more accessible without turning mealtimes into another battle. In This Episode: How diet culture shows up in today's “healthy eating” messagingWarning signs of disordered eatingWhen parents should seek professional supportWhat a healthy relationship with food actually looks likeHow parents can break generational patterns around food and body imageAbout Christiana Christiana Cortina, MS, is the founder of Nutrida, a family-focused nutrition practice dedicated to helping individuals and families build positive, sustainable relationships with food. Using a weight-inclusive and compassionate approach, Christiana supports children, teens, adults, and parents navigating nutrition, feeding challenges, body image concerns, and disordered eating without shame or rigid rules. A former elementary school teacher, she brings a child-centered perspective to her work and helps families create more peaceful and connected experiences around food and mealtimes. Connect With Christiana Website: Nutrida / Feed Your Soul Instagram: @nutrita_feedyoursoul Email: nutridallc@gmail.com Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    How to Help Your Teen Build a Healthy Relationship With Food
  5. Aug 17 ·  Video

    Are You Parenting on Autopilot? How to Become a More Intentional Parent

    Send us Fan Mail What if some of the skills that make you a better leader at work could also make you a better parent at home? And what if parenting could make you a better leader, too? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam and Melissa sit down with executive coach, leadership expert, and Ambitious Dads founder, Jeff Hittner, to explore the surprising overlap between leadership and parenting. After interviewing more than 200 fathers, Jeff discovered that many dads care deeply about being good fathers but don’t always have the tools, role models, support, or even language to talk about the challenges they’re facing. Jeff shares what he calls the six dad gaps, including challenges around time, confidence, brotherhood, role models, co-parenting, and legacy. But this conversation isn’t only for dads. Sam, Melissa, and Jeff explore how all parents can become more intentional about the way they show up for their children, especially when they’re tired, stressed, frustrated, or running on autopilot. About Jeff Hittner Jeff Hittner is an executive coach, leadership expert, and founder of Ambitious Dads, a movement helping fathers lead with as much clarity and purpose at home as they do at work. After discovering he couldn’t become a biological father, Jeff reimagined fatherhood as an identity grounded in emotional presence and intentionality, and is now the proud dad of two boys. Having interviewed more than 200 fathers about the challenge of succeeding both at work and at home, he began writing extensively on the topic and launched the Ambitious Dads Podcast, sitting uniquely at the intersection of executive coaching and modern fatherhood. Learn more at ambitiousdads.com. Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    Are You Parenting on Autopilot? How to Become a More Intentional Parent
  6. Aug 10 ·  Video

    Is Your Child Ready for the Latest Trend? Let's talk about Ebikes, technology and more.

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner unpack one of the biggest parenting trends of the summer and explain why this conversation goes far beyond bikes. While e-bikes offer fun, freedom, and independence, they also introduce new questions about child development, executive functioning, peer influence, and risk-taking. Sam and Melissa discuss why children's brains haven't changed even though technology has, and why parents should consider developmental readiness before handing over the handlebars. In This Episode The different classes of e-bikesExecutive functioning and adolescent decision-makingPeer pressure and risk-takingHelmet safety and traffic awarenessQuestions to ask before buying an e-bikeHelping kids build independence safelyWhether your family owns an e-bike or is simply considering one, this episode provides practical tools for making thoughtful parenting decisions that prioritize safety, responsibility, and long-term growth. As always, thank you for listening. We love you, we love your kids, and thank you for raising the next generation of world changers. Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    Is Your Child Ready for the Latest Trend? Let's talk about Ebikes, technology and more.
  7. Aug 3 ·  Video

    What My Parents Did Right: A 19-Year-Old Reflects on Growing Up with Divorce and ADHD

    Send us Fan Mail What do children actually remember after their parents divorce? In this unique episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner welcome 19-year-old college student Tilghman Grim to share his firsthand perspective on growing up with divorced parents and ADHD. Rather than hearing from experts alone, this conversation gives parents the rare opportunity to hear directly from someone who has lived the experience. Tilghman reflects on what helped him feel secure, what his parents did well, and the lessons he's carried into adulthood. One of his important reminders? "Co-parenting is not a competition." The conversation also explores parenting children with ADHD, healthy boundaries around technology, the importance of listening before speaking, and why children don't need perfect parents. They simply need parents who continue to love them, support them, and show up consistently. In This Episode What children really remember after divorceWhy co-parenting isn't about winningGrowing up with ADHDHealthy technology boundaries for kidsRaising resilient childrenWhy perfect parenting doesn't existPractical encouragement for divorced and co-parenting familiesAbout Our Guest Tilghman Grim is a 19-year-old rising junior at the College of Charleston, where he studies History and Political Science, and currently works as a dockmaster at the Annapolis Yacht Club. The son of Mike Grim and Christa Welch, and brother of Isabel Grim, Tilghman shares his perspective on growing up with divorced parents since the age of five. Although the early years were challenging, he reflects with gratitude, saying, "I would have no idea who I'd be today if everything that happened never happened." A lifelong warm-weather lover, he's happiest when he's out on the water.  Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    What My Parents Did Right: A 19-Year-Old Reflects on Growing Up with Divorce and ADHD
  8. Jul 27 ·  Video

    High-Conflict Co-Parenting: How to Reclaim Your Power and Protect Your Kids

    Send us Fan Mail Co-parenting is challenging enough when two parents generally get along. When the relationship is contentious, every pickup, schedule change, forgotten belonging, or parenting decision can become part of a larger power struggle. In this episode, Sam and Melissa are joined by co-parent coach and conflict resolution expert Amy Armstrong to discuss how high-conflict co-parenting affects children and what parents can do when they feel powerless. Amy explains why trying to control or correct the other parent often reduces your influence. She introduces the idea of being “pro-me, not anti-you,” which helps parents shift their energy away from fighting the other person and toward becoming the parent they want to be. They also discuss what to do when a child says they do not want to spend time with the other parent. When there is no safety concern, Amy recommends combining an appropriate challenge with empathy and choices. In this episode, you’ll learn: How co-parenting conflict can take on a life of its ownWhy children often become caught in the middleWhat it means to be pro-me instead of anti-youWhy criticism and forced feedback can backfireHow parents can increase their influence without controlling the other personWhat to do when a child resists parenting timeHow to validate a child without rescuing themWhy children need to know they can handle hard thingsHow small experiments help children and parents build confidenceWhen a counselor, coach, or neutral professional may be helpfulWhy the court system cannot solve every co-parenting problemAbout Amy: Amy Armstrong is a co-parent coach, mediator, parent coordinator, and nationally recognized leader in conflict resolution, coach education, and program design. She works with parents and professionals through the Center for Family Resolution and the Center for Coach Development. Resources: Amy is also the author of Real-Time Parenting: Choose Your Action Steps for the Present Moment and the forthcoming book Boundary Basics: Simple Steps to Resolve Conflict. Be sure to download this resource from Amy especially for the Parent Shrink Wrapped audience, The No-Regret Response Kit  Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    High-Conflict Co-Parenting: How to Reclaim Your Power and Protect Your Kids
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Parenting Shrink Wrapped is your all-access pass to the wild and wonderful journey of raising kids! Hosted by Dr. Melissa Wellner, a double board-certified psychiatrist and child and adolescent psychiatrist, and Samantha Straub, a licensed therapist, educator, and parenting coach, this dynamic duo brings a perfect mix of professional expertise and mom humor. With five kids between them—and thousands more they’ve supported in their professional roles—they’re here to share practical strategies and real-life stories that will help you navigate everything from tantrums to teen drama. Whether you're handling sleepless nights or the chaos of carpool, you'll find relatable advice and a good laugh along the way. Strap in, because parenting is a ride, and we're here to make it a little smoother!

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