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 The world is filled with attitudes of selfishness, impatience and rudeness, so when a woman displays the godly attribute of kindness, it is a striking contrast.  This podcast episode will answer what, why, where and how of kindness in a believer's life. Oh, and listen to see if you would pass "the kindness quiz."

A good character is the best tombstone. Those who loved you and were helped by you will remember you when forget-me-nots have withered. Carve your name on hearts, not on marble.  ~Charles Spurgeon

This Changes Everything!
Practice Kindness in Your Marriage
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Is it enough for you to "slug through life" just making it through the tough situations of your day, or is there more? How can we rise above and live a life of fulness and joy? There are communicable traits of God, that you and I can emulate. What difference it make if we have these traits in our lives! But how can we display these attributes? As we begin a series on Being a Woman Of Godly character, we'll start with how we see attentiveness in a young boy in the Scriptures, and we'll learn how we can influence others as we show this kind of character to those around us.

I Samuel 3
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Transcript for this episode - Attentiveness
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Hear on today's episode the one thing you need in order to reflect the heart of God.  Without it all you do is in vain.

1 Corinthians 13 for Moms
If I live in a house of spotless beauty with everything in its place,
but have not love,
I am a housekeeper not a homemaker.

If I have time for waxing, polishing, and decorative achievements,
but have not love,
my children learn cleanliness not godliness.


If I scream at my children when they don’t follow instructions,
get frustrated and fault them for every mess in our house,
and have no grace and love
my children learn that Mom cares more about having things done exactly her way
than about listening to the needs and hearts of her children.


Love leaves the dust in search of a child’s laugh.
Love smiles at the tiny fingerprints on a newly cleaned window.
Love wipes away the tears before it wipes up the spilled milk.
Love picks up the child before it picks up the toys.


Love accepts the fact that I am the ever-present “mommy,”
the taxi-driver to every childhood event,
the counselor when my children fail or are hurt.


Love crawls with the baby, walks with the toddler, and runs with the child,
then stands aside to let the youth walk into adulthood.


Before I became a mother I took glory in having it altogether.
Now I glory in knowing that God’s in control and His grace is sufficient for each day.


All the projections I had for my house and my children
have faded away into insignificance,
And what remain are the memories of my kids.


Now there abides in my home scratches on most of the furniture,
dishes with missing place settings,
and bedroom walls full of stickers, posters, and markings,
But the greatest of all is the Love
that permeates my relationships with my children.


-adapted from 1 Corinthians 13 by Jim Fowler

Six Suggestions for Stressed Out Moms
A Heart of Motherly Affection
Loving Your Child Through It All







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What the heart loves, the eyes will seek and find. When we stop and make an inspection about what we've been seeking for, it will tell us much about what's going on in our heart. What should we be seeking? Hear what God's Word says in  today's podcast. 


After listening to the podcast, is there some reevaluating you need to do? What have you been seeking for? If the spirit of God has pricked your heart, how might you seek Him more fervently?  
Psalm 27:4
Jeremiah 29:13
Hebrews 12:2
Matt.  10:29-31 
John 15:5
Isaiah 45:7
I Cor. 10:13 
Psalm  119:18
Psalm 27:8
Acts 8:27-38 
Matt 6:24 
If you want to know what your heart loves, think back to what you’ve been looking for today. 


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Waiting for God to answer a request is difficult.  Are we to stay completely inactive while we're watching for His response to our prayers?   Listen and learn what you need to be doing during the quiet moments of waiting.


Luke 1
Elizabeth Stayed
1. She stayed faithful to the Lord
2. She stayed home to do the next right thing
3. She stayed submissive to God and her husband
4. She stayed close to God

Proverbs 8:34

What do you need to be actively doing while you are waiting for God to answer your prayer?  Are you being faithful in all the responsibilities He has given you, or are you waiting until you get what you've asked for? 

Remember while you wait:
God is providential and knows what you do notThink on His faithfulness in the past.He will energize you for the days ahead.God does not shout at us; He speaks in the quiet.Blog posts ~
When You're Waiting on God
Lessons in Waiting
Go Pray
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 Is it possible that a ”righteous woman“ could have an unanswered prayer request? In today’s podcast we’ll dig into the Scriptures and learn about a request that seemed improbable to the human heart. God was doing some incredible work that can encourage us as we deal with our own improbabilities. 

Luke 1
Elizabeth - A woman who obeyed
The daughter of a priestThe wife of a priestShe knew God's Word - Romans 10:17She loved God's WordShe obeyed God's WordShe believed God's WordShe walked in personal holiness James 2:18, Ephesians 2:12-16


When God Doesn't Answer Our Prayer


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