Rock Solid Families

Rock Solid Families
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Rock Solid Families is committed to helping educate, equip, and empower families to be all God created them to be! Merrill and Linda Hutchinson began Rock Solid Families in October of 2018. They have over 60 years of combined experience in teaching, public speaking, counseling, ministry, and coaching. After much prayer, Merrill and Linda made the decision to step down from their full time positions in the church and public school to focus on strengthening families. Both believe that healthy schools, churches, and communities depend on strong and healthy families. This weekly podcast is made possible through the generous financial support of community partners. With the help of local sponsors and the word spreading through listeners like you, Rock Solid Families is helping to build stronger communities one family at a time!

  1. 2D AGO

    Renewal Begins with Breaking Free from the Patterns of this World - Ep. 337

    Renewal is not about becoming new people as much as remembering who we already are in Christ. Listen in as I read these words from the apostle Paul to the church in Rome. He was writing to the Romans but so much of it applies to us today as well.  Read Romans 12:1–2  Focus: Step 1 of renewal—stop conforming. What Does “Conform to the Patterns of This World” Mean? Ephesians 4 mentions some of the patterns of this world: In vs. 22 on down You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires. What do the Patterns of this world look like for you today?? Busyness = that somehow how busy your calendar is defines your worth and value PERSONAL COMFORT-That somehow your personal comfort matters more than your character IMPULSIVE REACTIONS-That its ok to just impulsively react rather than intentionally and thoughtfully respond IDENTITY-Who you are is what you do SELF SUFFICIENCY-That its weakness to surrender and be dependent on God. You somehow have to muscle up and do it all yourself. STRIVING FOR MORE- rather being content with what we’ve been given. Key Truth: The truth is most families don’t consciously choose worldliness—they slowly absorb it. We become kind of like a chameleon based on what or who we’re around. Step 1 of Renewal: Awareness Before Action  You can’t renew what you don’t recognize. Practical Reflection Questions for Listeners: What voices are shaping our values more than Scripture? What patterns feel “normal” but don’t feel life-giving? Encouragement: Awareness is not condemnation—it’s an invitation. Advice  Practical Ways to Stop Conforming: Interrupt the Noise around you and Evaluate Evaluate: Media intake Social media rhythms News consumption Ask: Is this shaping my peace or stealing it? Practical Tip:  Try a weekly “noise fast” (one evening with no screens, just presence). Slow Down to Notice What’s Forming You Renewal requires margin. The world disciples through hurry. Practical Tip:  Build in “pause points”: Morning prayer before phones Family check-ins at dinner Sabbath rhythms (even imperfect ones) Name the Lies You’ve Normalized Examples: “This is just how families are.” “We’re too busy to change.” “It’s not that big of a deal.” Truth:  What you don’t challenge, you allow to shape you. Offer Yourself Again Tie back to Romans 12:1: Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Renewal begins with surrender Simple Prayer:  “Lord, I offer You my mind, my time, my reactions, and my family rhythms.”  Hope-Filled Reframe: Renewal Is a Process Paul doesn’t say “be instantly transformed” He says “be transformed by the renewing of your mind” Encouragement for Families: Small changes matter Consistent choices build new patterns God is patient and present in the process Call to Action: Commit to one small shift this week Write it down! Pray over it as a family Closing Line:“Renewal doesn’t start when life slows down. It starts when we choose to stop drifting and start offering ourselves—right where we are.” rocksolidfamilies. Support the show #Rocksolidfamilies, #familytherapy, #marriagecounseling, #parenting, #faithbasedcounseling, #counseling, #Strongdads, #coaching, #lifecoach, #lifecoaching, #marriagecoaching, #marriageandfamily, #control, #security, #respect, #affection, #love, #purpose, #faith, #affairs, #infidelity

    41 min

  2. 12/22/2025

    Mission Of Christ - Ep 336

    Introduction - “If someone asked you, Why did Jesus come? How would you answer?”“And what does His mission have to do with your marriage, your parenting, your friendships?”Those aren’t just questions for each other here on today’s podcast. If you claim to follow this Jesus….It’s a question we ALL have to be ready to answer. 1 Peter 3:15 says “But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect,”Jesus didn’t come just to save us from something—He came to invite us into something.Key Scripture   Luke 19:10 – “For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” Background -  What Was the Mission of Christ? Core Truth  Jesus’ mission was redemption, reconciliation, and restoration—bringing people back to God and restoring God’s design for life and relationships. Break it down: A. To Reveal the Father John 14:9 – “Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father.” Jesus showed us: God’s love, his mercy and his truth all in one being.  B. To Save the Lost Matthew 1:21 She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus,[a] because he will save his people from their sins.” Jesus didn’t come just to  forgive our sins,  but to transform our lives. C. To Fulfill God’s Promises and Establish the Kingdom of God Luke 4: 18-19 but also found in Isaiah 61- The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me  to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor. Discussion Prompt “How does your picture of God change when you look at Jesus?” Advice -  3. How Did Jesus Live Out His Mission? Jesus’ Method Matters A. He Came Close B. He Built Relationships C. He Served, Not Controlled Application The mission of Christ is relational, not performative.It starts at the table, not the stage.4. How Do We Fit Into Christ’s Mission Today?  A. We Are Sent People B. He’s called us to Reflect Him, Not Replace Him C. Mission Begins at Home Challenge - So as we close…Let’s us just share some Practical Ways to Live on Mission This Week  Simple, attainable steps: Pray daily with IntentionPractice PresenceModel Christ at HomeInvite Others InReflection Question “If Christ’s mission was love and restoration, how will my life reflect that this week?” Support the show #Rocksolidfamilies, #familytherapy, #marriagecounseling, #parenting, #faithbasedcounseling, #counseling, #Strongdads, #coaching, #lifecoach, #lifecoaching, #marriagecoaching, #marriageandfamily, #control, #security, #respect, #affection, #love, #purpose, #faith, #affairs, #infidelity

    41 min

  3. 12/08/2025

    Women on Mission - Ep. 335

    In the latest episode of the RockSolid Families podcast host Linda Hutchinson and newcomer coach Kimm Hackworth engage in an empowering discussion about what it means to be a woman on a mission.  As Linda and Kimm dive into the topic, they reflect on the previous discussions from the Strong Dads podcast, which centered around men living with purpose. This leads to an exploration of how women, too, can embrace their missions in everyday life. Kimm shares her early misconceptions that being missional meant only participating in international trips, realizing instead that anyone can live missionally within their daily surroundings regardless of their life circumstances. They emphasize that living on a mission involves aligning one's daily actions with a divine purpose, rather than solely engaging in specific tasks. The conversation touches on the common struggles women face in the church regarding their roles and how societal pressures can stifle their willingness to step into leadership positions. Throughout their dialogue, Kimm recalls influential women in her life, who have demonstrated resilience and dedication to their calling. Linda shares the profound impact her grandmother had on her, illustrating a life lived with faith and purpose, despite numerous challenges. Shifting the focus to biblical examples, they highlight Priscilla, a woman in the New Testament who exemplifies partnership in ministry, and Esther, who courageously stepped into her calling to save her people. These narratives serve to inspire women listening to recognize their own opportunities for impact. As the episode progresses, Linda and Kimm discuss the importance of community, suggesting that the isolation brought on by modern society can hinder women from sharing their stories and living out their missions. They introduce an exciting initiative: the Women on Mission online group launching in 2026. This platform aims to foster connections among women, encouraging them to deepen their relationship with God, each other, and their families. The hosts conclude with a powerful reminder that living missionally is not about adding more tasks to one's life but about reframing one's purpose and being part of God's larger narrative. They invite listeners to reflect on the impact of women in their own lives, urging them to take actionable steps toward living out their missions. rocksolidfamilies.org Support the show #Rocksolidfamilies, #familytherapy, #marriagecounseling, #parenting, #faithbasedcounseling, #counseling, #Strongdads, #coaching, #lifecoach, #lifecoaching, #marriagecoaching, #marriageandfamily, #control, #security, #respect, #affection, #love, #purpose, #faith, #affairs, #infidelity

    36 min

  4. 11/24/2025

    Break Through Your Depression with Thanks and Gratitude - Ep 334

    Overall Prevalence of Depression Current Depression Rate (Adults): The percentage of U.S. adults who report currently having or being treated for depression has exceeded 18% in recent measurement periods (2024-2025 data). This projects to an estimated 47.8 million Americans suffering from depression. Major Depressive Episode (MDE): The prevalence of adults experiencing at least one major depressive episode (MDE) in the past year is estimated to be around 8.3% of all U.S. adults (or 21.0 million people, based on 2021 data).Long-Term Trend: The prevalence of depression in U.S. adolescents and adults increased by 60% over the past decade (based on data comparing earlier periods to August 2021–August 2023).Illness vs Mindset - Body - Mind - Spirit- Need to differentiate these three things Gratitude- Mental Illness caused by organic problems - Your brain and or body is ill. Hormone disturbances, injury, TBI Need to seek out medical diagnosis through a professional.  Mind - Stinkin Thinkin - ruminating on the negativity - a pattern of negative thinking has turned into a way of approaching life. Seeing the bad in everything. Not being thankful. Associating with negative things or activities that pull you down.  Spirit - Spirit Led  - all thoughts have the involvement of the Holy Spirit to guide and direct our thinking.  He gives us the desires of our heart Gratitude and Depression: Finding Light in the Shadows Incorporating gratitude can act as a powerful mental shift, challenging the negative thought patterns often associated with depression. Helpful Tips for People Struggling with Depression Start Small with GratitudeFocus on the Mundane: Don't wait for grand blessings. Be thankful for the small, simple things (a warm cup of coffee, a comfortable bed, a pleasant song). Mindful Engagement:Savor Positive Moments: When something good happens, even if fleeting, pause and fully immerse yourself in the positive Practice Compassion: Extend grace to yourself. Depression is an illness, not a moral failing. Acknowledge your struggle without judgment.Structure and Movement:Maintain Routine: Establish and stick to a daily schedule for sleeping, waking, and activities. Gentle Movement: Engage in light exercise, like a 15-minute walk. Serve someone elseIt takes eyes off yourself and your problems by fixing your eyes on helping someone else.Seek Connection and Professional Help:Reach Out: Intentionally connect with a supportive friend or family member, even if you feel like withdrawing.Consult a Professional: Depression is a serious medical condition. Do not hesitate to seek help from a licensed therapist or psychiatrist. The Biblical Perspective on Depression and Dealing with Distress Scriptural Takeaway: The Bible normalizes extreme sorrow and despair, showing that God is present even in the darkest emotional states.Effective Biblical Coping Mechanisms:Lament and Honest Prayer (Calling Out):Relying on God's Steadfast Love and Future Hope (Gratitude and Trust):rocksolidfamilies.org Support the show #Rocksolidfamilies, #familytherapy, #marriagecounseling, #parenting, #faithbasedcounseling, #counseling, #Strongdads, #coaching, #lifecoach, #lifecoaching, #marriagecoaching, #marriageandfamily, #control, #security, #respect, #affection, #love, #purpose, #faith, #affairs, #infidelity

    39 min

  5. 11/10/2025

    Warning Signs of Toxic Relationships - Ep 333

    Overview In this episode of the RockSolid Families podcast, hosts Linda and Merrill Hutchinson discuss the complexities and dangers of toxic relationships, expanding from previous discussions on gaslighting to encompass various forms of toxic interactions. They emphasize the importance of recognizing unhealthy dynamics in relationships, be it with spouses, family members, coworkers, or friends. Key Points  Understanding Toxic Relationships    - Toxic relationships are characterized by patterns of behavior that diminish or harm individuals' well-being.    - Common forms include controlling behavior, chronic criticism, lack of empathy, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation.    - Relationships can be toxic even if they don’t involve overt aggression; subtle behaviors can be equally damaging over time.  Signs of Toxicity    - Controlling Behavior: Patterns where one person dictates actions and decisions.    - Critical Language:Constant criticism and public humiliation undermine self-esteem.    - Lack of Empathy: Inability to understand or validate the other person's feelings.    - Emotional Manipulation: Gaslighting tactics that twist reality to confuse the victim.    - Ignoring Needs: A lack of mutual understanding and support between parties.    - No Change Over Time: Repeated promises of change without any real action signify deeper issues.  Steps to Address Toxic Relationships    - Bring Issues to Light: Encourage open discussions about concerns to combat the secrecy and shame surrounding toxic behavior.    - Set Healthy Boundaries: Clearly define what behaviors are unacceptable and what will no longer be tolerated in the relationship.    - Seek Professional Support: Engage with counselors or support groups to navigate through toxic dynamics safely.  4. Recommendations for Action    - Encourage individuals to seek help if they recognize toxic patterns in their relationships.    - Share experiences and insights to help others who may be suffering in silence.    - Utilize resources like books on boundaries and emotionally destructive relationships for guidance.  5. Conclusion Linda and Merrill close the episode by highlighting the need for courage in addressing toxic relationships and seeking healing. They invite listeners to share the podcast widely to help others identify and confront unhealthy dynamics in their own lives. Call to Action Listeners are encouraged to reach out to RockSolid Families for support, visit their website for resources, and consider donations to help continue their work in promoting healthy family dynamics. By summarizing these key points, business professionals can glean insights into the importance of healthy relationships both personally and within teams, while also recognizing signs of toxicity that may impact workplace culture. U.S. National Domestic Violence Hotline Call: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) Text: “START” to 88788 Chat: thehotline.org rocksolidfamilies.org Support the show #Rocksolidfamilies, #familytherapy, #marriagecounseling, #parenting, #faithbasedcounseling, #counseling, #Strongdads, #coaching, #lifecoach, #lifecoaching, #marriagecoaching, #marriageandfamily, #control, #security, #respect, #affection, #love, #purpose, #faith, #affairs, #infidelity

    51 min

  6. 10/27/2025

    Halloween - What to do as a Parent? Ep 332

    Main Topic: Halloween and Spiritual Awareness •The podcast’s main focus is on Halloween, exploring whether to celebrate it or not and what spiritual implications it may have. •Merrill and Linda reflect on their upbringing, noting they didn’t grow up with a strict stance on Halloween, viewing it as just a time for trick-or-treating. Key Points Discussed 1.Cultural Desensitization: •The hosts express concern about how society has normalized horror, violence, and gruesomeness, particularly in entertainment. •They emphasize the importance of awareness regarding the messages conveyed through horror films and other media. 2.Parental Responsibility: •The conversation stresses the need for parents to guide their children on how to engage with Halloween. •Parents should consider how traditions might influence children’s perceptions of evil and violence. 3.Spiritual Warfare: •The hosts talk about the concept of spiritual warfare, drawing from Ephesians 6, where they emphasize the importance of being aware of spiritual forces of evil. •They encourage listeners to instill values in their children that honor God and promote a healthy understanding of good and evil. 4.Alternatives to Traditional Celebrations: •Suggestions are provided on how to celebrate Halloween in a way that focuses on positive themes, such as harvest festivals and family gatherings. •They recommend creating a safe space for conversations around the origins of Halloween and avoiding practices that might promote fear or evil. 5.Redemption of the Holiday: •There’s a call to action for families to redeem Halloween by using it as an opportunity for community engagement. •Examples include handing out treats and hosting neighborhood events that promote fellowship rather than fear. 6.Educational Conversations: •The importance of discussing the history and implications of Halloween traditions with children. •Engaging in open dialogue helps children understand the difference between fun and what might be morally or spiritually questionable. Conclusion •The hosts remind listeners to remain alert and intentional about not only how they celebrate Halloween but also how they approach the themes of evil and good in life. •They emphasize that while Halloween can be a fun time, it is essential to maintain a focus on honoring God and promoting a lifestyle of light over darkness. Call to Action •The podcast encourages listeners to reach out for support if they struggle with parenting or other challenges in life. This summary captures the essence of the discussion surrounding Halloween, emphasizing the importance of spiritual awareness and responsible parenting. rocksolidfamilies.org Support the show #Rocksolidfamilies, #familytherapy, #marriagecounseling, #parenting, #faithbasedcounseling, #counseling, #Strongdads, #coaching, #lifecoach, #lifecoaching, #marriagecoaching, #marriageandfamily, #control, #security, #respect, #affection, #love, #purpose, #faith, #affairs, #infidelity

    35 min

  7. 10/13/2025

    Rock Solid Families Introduces Kimm Hackworth to the Team - Ep 331

    RockSolid Families Podcast Episode Introduction The episode kicks off with Merrill and Linda Hutchinson expressing their gratitude to Maxwell Construction for their sponsorship of the podcast, emphasizing the importance of reliable construction for homes and businesses. They highlight their commitment to building stronger families and invite listeners to consider Maxwell for their next projects. Emotional Celebration Merrill reveals a recent emotional experience, sharing that he and Linda hosted a celebration for RockSolid Families, which unexpectedly turned into a surprise retirement party for him. The night was filled with joy, tears, and reflections on his 40 years of service in education and counseling. They discuss the impact of his long career on their community and express appreciation for the support they received from family and friends. New Team Member Introduction The couple introduces Kimm Hackworth, their latest hire at RockSolid Families, who shares her background as a school psychologist and her journey to join the team. Kimm recounts her transition from education to nonprofit work, highlighting her calling to help others navigate their struggles, especially in the context of blended families. Personal Journey and Reflections Kimm shares her personal story of challenges, including divorce and raising children in a blended family. She emphasizes how her past has equipped her to help others facing similar situations. The conversation revolves around the themes of humility, trust, and surrender in one’s spiritual journey, as Kimm explains how her experiences have molded her desire to serve in the ministry. Overcoming Obstacles The discussion shifts to the obstacles and fears Kim faced when transitioning into her new role at RockSolid. She reflects on the unexpected challenges, such as her husband losing his job and Merrill’s cancer diagnosis, but maintains that these experiences have only strengthened her resolve. Kimm reiterates the importance of stepping into the chaos to effect change in the lives of those in need. Encouragement and Ministry Vision Merrill and Linda encourage listeners to recognize their own journeys and how God can use their experiences to bring hope and healing to others. The podcast emphasizes the importance of sharing testimonies and being vulnerable, as it not only aids personal healing but also encourages others who may feel disqualified due to their past. Conclusion and Call to Action The episode concludes with Kimm sharing a powerful quote about ministry, asserting that true service arises when divine resources meet human needs through love. The Hutchinsons invite listeners to support RockSolid Families, participate in their upcoming parenting class, and connect with their community. They remind everyone that strong and healthy families are worth fighting for and express their hope for continued growth and blessing through their ministry. rocksolidfamilies.org Support the show #Rocksolidfamilies, #familytherapy, #marriagecounseling, #parenting, #faithbasedcounseling, #counseling, #Strongdads, #coaching, #lifecoach, #lifecoaching, #marriagecoaching, #marriageandfamily, #control, #security, #respect, #affection, #love, #purpose, #faith, #affairs, #infidelity

    43 min

  8. 09/30/2025

    Rock Solid Families Getting Back to Work! Our first show since Merrill’s cancer diagnosis. Ep 330

    Summary of the RockSolid Families Podcast Episode The episode opens with a heartfelt introduction sponsored by Casey’s Outdoor Solutions and Gift Shop, a local business that beautifies homes inside and out. Linda Hutchinson and her husband, Merrill then take center stage, noting how long it has been since their last recording—two months, following a significant health crisis Merrill experienced. Health Update Merrill shares a deeply personal update about his battle with glioblastoma, a form of brain cancer. He recounts feeling unwell during the week leading to July 23rd, the day he was diagnosed. Before this diagnosis, he had enjoyed a summer filled with fitness and vitality, making the abrupt change all the more shocking. He describes his symptoms, including lapses in judgment and physical coordination, which led him to seek medical help. Despite the grim diagnosis that follows—being informed of the aggressive nature of his cancer—Merrill highlights the importance of processing this news with Linda’s support. They discuss the urgency that has developed in their lives, emphasizing the need to cherish relationships and the time they have together. Faith and Community They reflect on how their faith has provided them with peace amid turmoil. They share insights from scripture, with Linda quoting from 1 Peter, which speaks of a “living hope” that transcends earthly challenges. The couple’s faith journey has brought them closer, and they express gratitude for the overwhelming support from family, friends, and community members during this time. They acknowledge the powerful impact their health situation has had on their relationships, giving them a renewed perspective on the importance of expressing love and appreciation to those around them. Special mentions are made of the support they received from medical staff and the community, reinforcing the notion that one should never take relationships for granted. Rock Solid Families’ Future As they discuss the future of RockSolid Families, they announce Merrill’s retirement from his active role due to his health. He expresses hope for the organization’s continued mission—helping families build strong foundations rooted in faith. They introduce new staff members who will carry on their work, emphasizing the transition is not an end but a new beginning for the ministry. With a focus on legacy, they encourage listeners to act and not delay in nurturing their relationships, underscoring the message that life is fleeting. The couple draws inspiration from Charlie Kirk’s recent passing, emphasizing the call to live meaningfully and to impart wisdom to future generations. Closing Thoughts In closing, the couple reflects on their experiences and the joy and peace they have felt, even amidst grief. They encourage listeners to trust in God, pointing out that even when facing life’s uncertainties, true peace comes from faith. Merrill shares his favorite verses, emphasizing the importance of submitting to God’s plan and the significance of community support. The episode wraps with a heartfelt thank you to their sponsors and supporters, reiterating the importance of building a strong community, one family at a time. They invite listeners to stay connected and to reach out for support, ending with the reminder to cherish every moment and live fully in the present. rocksolidfamilies.org Support the show #Rocksolidfamilies, #familytherapy, #marriagecounseling, #parenting, #faithbasedcounseling, #counseling, #Strongdads, #coaching, #lifecoach, #lifecoaching, #marriagecoaching, #marriageandfamily, #control, #security, #respect, #affection, #love, #purpose, #faith, #affairs, #infidelity

    38 min
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Rock Solid Families is committed to helping educate, equip, and empower families to be all God created them to be! Merrill and Linda Hutchinson began Rock Solid Families in October of 2018. They have over 60 years of combined experience in teaching, public speaking, counseling, ministry, and coaching. After much prayer, Merrill and Linda made the decision to step down from their full time positions in the church and public school to focus on strengthening families. Both believe that healthy schools, churches, and communities depend on strong and healthy families. This weekly podcast is made possible through the generous financial support of community partners. With the help of local sponsors and the word spreading through listeners like you, Rock Solid Families is helping to build stronger communities one family at a time!

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    Rock Solid Families
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2026
  • Episodes
    360
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