Saved & Single

Jasmine Mays
  • 5.0 (3)
  • CHRISTIANITY
  • UPDATED WEEKLY

Saved & Single is a podcast for men and women navigating singleness through faith, whether never married, divorced, or widowed. Hosted by Jasmine Mays, this show creates space for honest conversations about dating apps, sex and celibacy, loneliness and disappointment, healing, situationships, stewardship, and purpose. Through solo episodes, guest stories, and pastoral wisdom, Saved & Single reminds you that singleness isn’t a waiting room, it’s a season meant to be lived fully and faithfully.

Episodes

  1. 3D AGO

    What Marriage Is REALLY Like (And What You Need to Fix Before You Get There): Angela Palin | Ep. 08

    We hear “marriage is hard”… but what does that actually mean? In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with Angela, who has been married for 28 years, to break down what marriage really looks like behind the scenes, beyond the wedding, beyond the romance. They talk about communication, compromise, respect, and the real work it takes to build a lasting relationship. If you’re single, divorced, or widowed and desire marriage, this episode will challenge you to look at what you need to develop now before the relationship ever begins. This conversation will help you prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship instead of just hoping for one.

    1h 2m

  2. MAR 19

    What Christian Singles Should Actually Be Doing (While Trusting God) | Ep. 07

    In Episode 7 of Saved & Single, Jasmine breaks down what Christian singles should actually be doing while trusting God for a spouse. Following her conversation with Christian matchmaker Jackie Dorman, she shares personal insights on long-term singleness, hope deferred, emotional healing, and why many believers feel stuck in the waiting season. This episode explores the balance between faith and action, and what it really looks like to partner with God instead of passively waiting. Jasmine discusses non-negotiables vs. preferences, the importance of community, doing the inner work, and how to prepare for a healthy, God-centered relationship. If you’re a Christian single over 40 navigating dating, healing, and the desire for marriage, this episode will give you clarity, encouragement, and practical next steps. _______ Saved & Single is a podcast for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or never married and want honest conversations about faith, relationships, healing, and purpose. If you're navigating dating, singleness, or rebuilding life after divorce, this podcast is for you. Follow the show and share this episode with someone pursuing marriage God’s way. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/savedandsinglepod

    44 min

  3. MAR 11

    Stop Waiting on God to Send Your Spouse | Christian Matchmaker Jackie Dorman on Dating Over 40 | Ep. 06

    In Episode 6 of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with Christian matchmaker Jackie Dorman of Last Year Single to talk about one of the most common messages Christian singles hear: "Just wait on God." But what happens when waiting turns into years of singleness? Jackie shares why many Christian men and women stay stuck in long-term singleness, how the church sometimes creates shame around dating, and why faith and action must work together when pursuing marriage. In this conversation, we discuss: • Why so many Christians stay single longer than they expected • What it really means to trust God while dating • The importance of community and intentional relationships • How to identify non-negotiables in dating • Where Christian singles can actually meet potential partners • Why waiting passively may not be the answer This episode is packed with practical wisdom for Christian singles who want to pursue marriage without compromising their faith. 📖 Jackie’s Book 💍 Last Year Single Program 📸 Instagram Follow Jackie on IG Saved & Single is a podcast for Christian singles over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or never married and want honest conversations about faith, relationships, healing, and purpose. If you're navigating dating, singleness, or rebuilding life after divorce, this podcast is for you. Follow the show and share this episode with someone pursuing marriage God’s way. Follow us on Instagram: @savedandsinglepod

    56 min

  4. MAR 4

    Where Are the Christian Men? | A Godly Man’s Take on Dating, Divorce, Leadership & Abstinence: BZ "The Voice" | Ep. 05

    In Episode 5 of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with BZ “The Voice” Cullins, our first male guest, to talk about Christian dating from a man’s perspective after divorce. BZ shares his testimony, lessons from marriage, and how his faith shapes the way he approaches relationships today. We discuss what “God first” really looks like, why many men don’t approach women anymore, how a Christian man develops spiritual leadership, and why abstinence matters in dating. If you’re navigating singleness, dating, and faith after 40, this conversation offers honest insight into what Christian men are thinking and what it takes to build a relationship that honors God. Saved & Single is the podcast for Christian men and women 40+ navigating dating, divorce, celibacy, and relationships while putting Jesus first.

    1h 6m

  5. FEB 25

    I Got Saved… and Had to Stop Having Sex (After 18 Years): Yarelli’s Story | Ep. 04

    What happens when you give your life to Jesus… but you’ve been living like you’re married for 18 years? In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with her best friend, Yarelli, to talk about celibacy, abstinence, and learning to honor God in real life, especially when you live with your partner. Yarelli shares how her daughter’s cancer journey led her to Christ, how Scripture convicted her, and the uncomfortable conversation that changed everything: “We can’t keep doing this.” This is a raw conversation for Christian singles over 40 navigating dating, desire, boundaries, and obedience. If you’ve ever wondered how to “do it God’s way” without shame, this episode is for you.

    54 min

  6. FEB 18

    Moving Forward When the Marriage Ends: Pastor Sandy’s Story | Ep. 03

    Divorce changes more than your relationship status; it can shake your confidence, your faith, and your sense of identity. In this episode of Saved & Single, Jasmine sits down with her mother, Pastor Sandy Mays, for a raw and deeply honest conversation about marrying out of fear, ignoring red flags, standing in faith for years, and eventually choosing to move forward when the marriage didn’t heal. Pastor Sandy shares how prayer, Scripture, and time with God didn’t just sustain her; they rebuilt her from the inside out. This episode is for anyone who didn’t expect to be single again and is learning how to grieve the loss of a marriage while trusting God with what comes next. If you’re navigating divorce, heartbreak, or the quiet fear that your best days are behind you, this conversation will remind you that healing is possible and your life is not over. Click here to download Pastor Sandy's prayers for emotional healing after divorce .

    57 min

  7. FEB 11

    Marriage, Divorce & Infidelity in the Church: Dr. Tammie's Story | Ep. 02

    In this powerful episode of the Saved & Single Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Tammie Carter Jenson to talk honestly about marriage, divorce, infidelity, and healing, even inside the church. Dr. Tammie shares her real-life journey through two painful marriages, public divorce, betrayal, and the emotional toll of trying to do things “the right way” while quietly suffering. We discuss the stigma surrounding divorce in Christian spaces, why infidelity is more common than people admit, and how discernment matters just as much as faith. This episode is for men and women over 40 who are divorced, widowed, or single and trying to trust God again after heartbreak. It’s a conversation about surrender, healing, and what it looks like to rebuild your life and your faith without shame. If you’ve ever wondered whether God can redeem your story, this episode will meet you right where you are.

    1h 8m

  8. FEB 10

    Did God Forget About Me? The Truth About Being Saved & Single | Ep. 01

    Welcome to the Saved & Single Podcast, the show for the grown & sexy Christians navigating singleness, dating, and the desire for marriage in a way that honors God. In this first episode, I’m setting the foundation for what this podcast is really about: real-life singleness after 30, 40, 50+,not teeny-bopper dating advice, and not advice from people who haven’t dated in 20 years. We’re talking about the real thoughts many of us carry: “Did God forget about me?”“Will I be alone forever?”“Is singleness a curse… or is God doing something in me?”I share my own story and the truth I had to learn the hard way: your life does not begin when you meet “the one.” You are complete, separate, and whole right now, and God has a plan for your life today, not just “someday.” Before you go, here are your 3 takeaways for the week: Detox from the lie that being single means you’re behind or less than.Lean into your spiritual growth (even if it’s just 5 minutes a day).Live like your life has already started because it has.🎧 Subscribe, share this with a single friend (or your single parent!), and follow us on Instagram: @savedandsinglepod.

    30 min
  • 8 Episodes

Ratings & Reviews

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About

Saved & Single is a podcast for men and women navigating singleness through faith, whether never married, divorced, or widowed. Hosted by Jasmine Mays, this show creates space for honest conversations about dating apps, sex and celibacy, loneliness and disappointment, healing, situationships, stewardship, and purpose. Through solo episodes, guest stories, and pastoral wisdom, Saved & Single reminds you that singleness isn’t a waiting room, it’s a season meant to be lived fully and faithfully.

Information

  • Creator
    Jasmine Mays
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    8
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Jasmine Mays
  • Show Website
    Saved & Single

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