Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery with Eirik Gislason

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Welcome to Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery with Eirik Gislason— A podcast that dives headfirst into the psychology, strategy, execution, and missteps of collaborative negotiation. Every successful deal is locked inside the perception of value, risk, and power - and negotiators are entrusted with the keys of influence and advocacy to determine if that deal is possible. Hosted by negotiation expert and real estate strategist, Eirik Gislason, Shear Line drills down on one key element of negotiation strategy to understand why deals are made, or missed - click, or clash. If you want to master the art of collaboration, negotiation, communication, and trust—this is your line. Welcome to Shear Line.

  1. 3d ago

    Episode 210 | The Mail Bag: Private Listings and Renovation Costs

    In this special Mail Bag episode, Eirik Gislason is joined once again by fan-favorite part-time co-host Jay Billiet as they celebrate a podcast milestone and tackle some of the most thought-provoking questions submitted by their audience, including the ongoing battle over Clear Cooperation, Compass, Zillow, and private listings; negotiating with sellers who stand to lose money on the sale of their property; and evaluating unrenovated properties in a market shaped by inflation and rising renovation costs.  Through the lens of collaborative negotiation, Eirik and Jay explore the interests beneath the surface and the strategies that help create clarity and better outcomes in today's increasingly complex market.  If you have questions for Eirik and Jay for an upcoming Mail Bag episode, please email your questions to Eirik at egislason@bhsusa.com. Filmed at Brown Harris Stevens' Studio 1873, Part of the Mastery of Real Estate (MORE) Network. Subscribe to Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shear-line-negotiation-mastery-with-eirik-gislason/id1809006572 Host: Eirik Gislason https://www.bhsusa.com/real-estate-agent/the-excelsior-team https://www.linkedin.com/in/eirikgislason/ https://www.instagram.com/eiriktheexpert https://archwaypartnersinc.com/ Guest: Jay Billiet  Sponsor: Stage and Fold | https://stageandfold.com/ Brown Harris Stevens is one of the largest privately owned real estate brokerages in the country, with more than 40 offices across four states: New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida. https://bhsusa.com/

    46 min

  2. May 21

    Episode 209 | Live From The Real Deal NYC Forum

    What happens when two skilled negotiators sit down live at the The Real Deal NYC Forum with no script, no agenda, and a hot mic? You get strategy, best practices, deal insights… and apparently an impromptu Arnold Schwarzenegger impersonation. In this special live episode of Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery recorded at the Metropolitan Pavilion, Eirik welcomes back one of the podcast's favorite returning guests, Ben Willig, D.A.D. at Brown Harris Stevens, for a free-flowing conversation on real-world negotiation strategy and the conversations agents are having right now behind closed doors. It's candid, unscripted, insightful, occasionally chaotic – enjoy! Filmed at Brown Harris Stevens' Studio 1873, Part of the Mastery of Real Estate (MORE) Network. Subscribe to Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shear-line-negotiation-mastery-with-eirik-gislason/id1809006572 Connect with Eirik Gislason: https://www.bhsusa.com/real-estate-agent/the-excelsior-team https://www.linkedin.com/in/eirikgislason/ https://www.instagram.com/eiriktheexpert https://archwaypartnersinc.com/ Guest: Ben Willig https://www.bhsusa.com/bhs-leadership/ben-willig Sponsor: Stage and Fold | https://stageandfold.com/ Brown Harris Stevens is one of the largest privately owned real estate brokerages in the country, with more than 40 offices across four states: New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida. https://bhsusa.com/

    35 min

  3. May 7

    Episode 208 | Silence: The Source of Great Strength

    What if the most powerful move you could make in a negotiation is saying nothing at all? In this episode of Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery, we welcome Andres Perea-Garzon, luxury real estate expert and Brown Harris Stevens colleague, for a conversation that challenges one of the most common instincts in any high-stakes interaction: the need to fill the silence. That instinct doesn't just weaken your position, it often reveals more than intended and gives away control in the process. Used strategically and intentionally, silence becomes your advantage, creates clarity, slows emotional reactions, and compels the other side to share more than they planned. It establishes control and signals confidence without saying a word. This episode is a powerful reminder that the space between words is often where the real conversation begins, and where the strongest negotiators separate themselves. Filmed at Brown Harris Stevens' Studio 1873, Part of the Mastery of Real Estate (MORE) Network. Subscribe to Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shear-line-negotiation-mastery-with-eirik-gislason/id1809006572 Connect with Eirik Gislason: https://www.bhsusa.com/real-estate-agent/the-excelsior-team https://www.linkedin.com/in/eirikgislason/ https://www.instagram.com/eiriktheexpert https://archwaypartnersinc.com/ Guest: Andres Perea-Garzon Sponsor: Stage and Fold | https://stageandfold.com/ Brown Harris Stevens is one of the largest privately owned real estate brokerages in the country, with more than 40 offices across four states: New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida. https://bhsusa.com/

    36 min

  4. Apr 23

    Episode 207 | Rivalry in Negotiation: Fuel or Fire?

    In this episode of Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery, Eirik Gislason sits down with NYU Stern Professor Gavin Kilduff to explore the powerful role of rivalry in negotiation, competition, and decision-making. While most professionals think of competition as a function of market conditions, pricing, and deal structure, Kilduff's research reveals something deeper. Competition is relational. When you introduce prior interaction, history, and familiarity, competition evolves into rivalry, fundamentally changing how people think, feel, and behave. This episode breaks down how rivalry can elevate performance by increasing focus, effort, and motivation, while also exposing the hidden risks such as ego-driven decisions, emotional escalation, misinterpretation of intent, and a breakdown in trust and collaboration. If you want to improve your negotiation skills, better understand competitive behavior, and learn how to balance collaboration and competition in real-world deals, this episode is a must-listen. Filmed at Brown Harris Stevens' Studio 1873, Part of the Mastery of Real Estate (MORE) Network. Subscribe to Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shear-line-negotiation-mastery-with-eirik-gislason/id1809006572 Connect with Eirik Gislason: https://www.bhsusa.com/real-estate-agent/the-excelsior-team https://www.linkedin.com/in/eirikgislason/ https://www.instagram.com/eiriktheexpert https://archwaypartnersinc.com/ Guest: Gavin Kilduff  Sponsor: Stage and Fold | https://stageandfold.com/ Brown Harris Stevens is one of the largest privately owned real estate brokerages in the country, with more than 40 offices across four states: New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida. https://bhsusa.com/

    40 min

  5. Mar 26

    Episode 206 | How Good Is My Intelligence?

    In this episode of Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery, Eirik Gislason welcomes back returning guest Jacob Feldman for a valuable and practical conversation about one of the most overlooked skills in negotiation: the ability to evaluate the quality of the information we gather before we build strategy on top of it. In real estate and in life, we are constantly surrounded by half-finished stories, loaded language, broker remarks, assumptions, and implied meaning. But how often do we stop to ask whether something is definitionally true, implicatively true, or simply assumed?  Together, Eirik and Jacob break down a simple but powerful framework for sorting information into three buckets: what we know, what we think we know, and what we still need to know. From "motivated seller" to "bring offers" to "we've had strong interest," this episode explores how false certainty sneaks into negotiations, why inference is so often mistaken for evidence, and how asking better questions leads to better clarity, better strategy, and better outcomes. Filmed at Brown Harris Stevens' Studio 1873, Part of the Mastery of Real Estate (MORE) Network. Subscribe to Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shear-line-negotiation-mastery-with-eirik-gislason/id1809006572 Connect with Eirik Gislason: https://www.bhsusa.com/real-estate-agent/the-excelsior-team https://www.linkedin.com/in/eirikgislason/ https://www.instagram.com/eiriktheexpert https://archwaypartnersinc.com/ Guest: Jacob Feldman Sponsor: Stage and Fold | https://stageandfold.com/ Brown Harris Stevens is one of the largest privately owned real estate brokerages in the country, with more than 40 offices across four states: New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida. https://bhsusa.com/

    40 min

  6. Mar 12

    Episode 205 | Real Estate Icon Richard Grossman on Leadership and Long-Term Growth

    In this episode of Shear Line, Eirik sits down with one of the true icons of New York City real estate, Richard Grossman, for a conversation about collaboration, leadership, growth, and what it really takes to build a lasting career in this business. Richard has mentored generations of agents and shaped the industry through decades of strategic leadership, and this conversation is packed with wisdom on skill-building, business development, meaningful networking, and the mindset behind sustained success in negotiations and business. We talk about his powerful framework, The Trinity — win, make money, and control the deal — and why true confidence is built through competency, curiosity, and a commitment to constant learning. This is an episode about influence, generosity, mastery, and the kind of leadership that makes everyone around you better. Connect with Eirik and Archway Partners Coaching by visiting archwaypartnersinc.com where you can learn more about their coaching and training opportunities including our Partners Experience Platform which includes access to courses, modules, scripts and, tools as well as weekly small group coaching sessions with Eirik, live on the platform. Filmed at Brown Harris Stevens' Studio 1873, Part of the Mastery of Real Estate (MORE) Network. Guest: Richard Grossman Sponsor: Stage and Fold | https://stageandfold.com/ Subscribe to Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shear-line-negotiation-mastery-with-eirik-gislason/id1809006572 Connect with Eirik Gislason: https://www.bhsusa.com/real-estate-agent/the-excelsior-team https://www.linkedin.com/in/eirikgislason/ https://www.instagram.com/eiriktheexpert https://archwaypartnersinc.com/ Brown Harris Stevens is one of the largest privately owned real estate brokerages in the country, with more than 40 offices across four states: New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida. https://bhsusa.com/

    58 min

  7. Feb 26

    Episode 204 | Overcoming Limiting Beliefs in Negotiation

    On this episode of Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery, host Eirik Gislason sits down with Matthew Wynter of Brown Harris Stevens and host of the Boro4Boro podcast for a powerful conversation on self-efficacy, mindset, and performance. Together, they explore how limiting beliefs quietly shape outcomes, the discipline required to reframe them, and practical strategies agents can use to build confidence, sharpen negotiation skills, and consistently operate at a higher level. Filmed at Brown Harris Stevens' Studio 1873, Part of the Mastery of Real Estate (MORE) Network. Guest: Matthew Wynter Sponsor: Stage and Fold | https://stageandfold.com/ Subscribe to Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shear-line-negotiation-mastery-with-eirik-gislason/id1809006572 Connect with Eirik Gislason: https://www.bhsusa.com/real-estate-agent/the-excelsior-team https://www.linkedin.com/in/eirikgislason/ https://www.instagram.com/eiriktheexpert https://archwaypartnersinc.com/ Brown Harris Stevens is one of the largest privately owned real estate brokerages in the country, with more than 40 offices across four states: New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida. https://bhsusa.com/

    52 min

  8. Feb 12

    Episode 203 | The Triple Win: How Strong Culture Creates Better Deals and Better Teams

    We spend a lot of time talking about outcomes in negotiation. Price. Terms. Wins and concessions. But long before any deal is signed, something far more powerful is already shaping the negotiation and the results: company and team culture. In this episode, recorded live at the Inman Conference in New York City, I'm joined by Mike Morgan, a "culture warrior" whose career spans leadership roles at Whole Foods Market, Amazon, and now Bramlett Partners in Austin. Together, we explore the deep connection between strong culture and great negotiations – why trust, curiosity, and psychological safety are not "soft skills," but strategic advantages. We talk about the idea of the "Triple Win", how leaders can create environments where people feel heard and valued, and why the best outcomes are rarely forced, but discovered.  If you care about building teams, retaining talent, or creating more value at the negotiating table, this conversation is for you. Because in the end, people aren't obstacles to outcomes. They're the pathway to them. Filmed as Part of the Mastery of Real Estate (MORE) Network by Brown Harris Stevens. Subscribe: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/shear-line-negotiation-mastery-with-eirik-gislason/id1809006572 Watch: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL7_x00Dbn3OSUo1bS37AcfjgF7BLI93lr Connect with Eirik Gislason: https://www.bhsusa.com/real-estate-agent/the-excelsior-team Follow Eirik Gislason on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/eirikgislason/ Follow Eirik Gislason on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eiriktheexpert Learn More About Coaching with Eirik Gislason: https://archwaypartnersinc.com/ Brown Harris Stevens is one of the largest privately owned real estate brokerages in the country, with more than 40 offices across four states: New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida. https://bhsusa.com/ #ShearLinePodcast #EirikGislason #negotiation #strategy #psychology #nycrealestate #brownharrisstevens #morenetwork #nyc

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Welcome to Shear Line: Negotiation Mastery with Eirik Gislason— A podcast that dives headfirst into the psychology, strategy, execution, and missteps of collaborative negotiation. Every successful deal is locked inside the perception of value, risk, and power - and negotiators are entrusted with the keys of influence and advocacy to determine if that deal is possible. Hosted by negotiation expert and real estate strategist, Eirik Gislason, Shear Line drills down on one key element of negotiation strategy to understand why deals are made, or missed - click, or clash. If you want to master the art of collaboration, negotiation, communication, and trust—this is your line. Welcome to Shear Line.

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