So When Do I Take My Clothes Off?

Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger

We’re women who never stopped talking, questioning, debating — and occasionally challenging one another — about how to keep moving forward. We still love gathering, laughing, and talking things through, often with a glass of wine in hand, trying to make sense of what life has taught us so far… and what we’re still figuring out. Because the truth is, life doesn’t come with instructions — and the questions don’t stop just because you’ve lived a little. Which brings us to the title. So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? isn’t really about sex (though that may come up). It’s a metaphor for those moments when we quietly ask ourselves: When do I speak up? Let go? Start over? Try something new? Stop caring what everyone else thinks? Whether you’re navigating relationships, reinvention, loneliness, or simply wondering “Is this it… or is there more?” — you’re not alone. And if you need company, you can drop into a conversation with women who sound a lot like you — sharing stories, supporting one another, and telling the truth without pretending we’ve got it all figured out. We also know we don’t have to do this alone. So we bring in experts — from health and wellness to beauty, relationships, money, and longevity — people who help us understand our bodies, our choices, and ourselves without shame or hype. And yes, we love products. Smart ones. Thoughtful ones. Things that make life easier, healthier, and a little more fun. We are not invisible — we’re engaged, curious, and paying attention. So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? is a starting point — for conversations that begin with “When do I…?” We dig deep. We laugh (often at ourselves). We’re honest about where we are — and we invite you to be honest too. Because while some things change, our appetite for connection, clarity, and a good laugh absolutely hasn’t. Follow us at @getinthegroove1 and @sowhendoi on Instagram for more!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. So When Do I… Open Up My Heart Again? With Marci and Lynn

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    So When Do I… Open Up My Heart Again? With Marci and Lynn

    Today, we're explore the question that inspired our podcast: So when do I take my clothes off? However, the real question is much deeper: When do we let ourselves be seen again? We’re joined by Marcy Dinkins and Lynn Williams, two women navigating dating after 50 following the loss of their husbands. Through very different journeys, they share what it’s really like to re-enter the dating world—awkward first dates, unexpected sparks, shifting identity, and the challenge of opening your heart again. We talk about confidence, independence, dating apps, and the reality of building a new life while honoring the one you had. If this resonates with you, we hope it serves as a reminder that you don’t have to rush, settle, or follow anyone else’s timeline when it comes to dating later in life. This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26. Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1 Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison Music - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    42 min
  2. So When Do I… Feel Beautiful As I Am? With Bobbi Brown

    APR 19

    So When Do I… Feel Beautiful As I Am? With Bobbi Brown

    At what point do we stop trying to look younger and start trying to look like ourselves? In this episode, we’re joined by Bobbi Brown—legendary makeup artist, founder of multiple beauty brands, and the force behind Jones Road—who changed the industry by championing natural, real beauty long before it was the norm. Together, we'll talk about the pressure to look younger, the difference between beauty and youth, and why feeling comfortable in your own skin is what actually creates confidence. Bobbi shares her philosophy on enhancing what’s already there, simple ways to feel more like yourself, and how she continues to evolve without chasing trends. Maybe the goal isn’t to rewind the clock and instead to feel good in your skin, as it is today. This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26. Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1 Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison Music - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    39 min
  3. So When Do I… Tell My Best Friend I Have Alzheimer's

    APR 12

    So When Do I… Tell My Best Friend I Have Alzheimer's

    What happens when one of life’s hardest questions becomes real? In this deeply personal and courageous episode, we sit down with our dear friend, Barbara Corday, and her husband Roger to talk about something so many of us fear but rarely know how to face: an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. Together, we explore what it actually feels like to live with memory loss in real time—the small moments, the quiet frustrations, the unexpected grace—and what it means to love and care for someone through it. This episode is a reminder that behind every diagnosis is a person still living, still feeling, still navigating their world, and that the people beside them are learning, too. If you or someone you love is going through something similar, we hope this conversation makes you feel a little less alone. Because as always… we’re still figuring it out, together. This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26. Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1 Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison Music - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    29 min
  4. So When Do I… Start Dressing for Who I am Now, and Not Who I Was? With Stacy London

    APR 5

    So When Do I… Start Dressing for Who I am Now, and Not Who I Was? With Stacy London

    What happens when your closet is full, but you still feel like you have nothing to wear? Maybe some of the clothes in your closet no longer feel aligned with who you are, and that's okay. As we age, our bodies change, our lives change, and our style has to change with us. In this episode, we sit down with Stacy London—stylist, author, cultural fashion voice, and someone many of us know from What Not to Wear—for an honest conversation about style, aging, and identity. Stacy, whose bestselling book The Truth About Style helped redefine the conversation around fashion and self-image, has spent decades helping women understand that getting dressed is about much more than trends. Her work today continues to focus on confidence, self-expression, and what it means to stay visible and fully yourself at any age. This conversation is about more than clothes. It’s about curiosity, confidence, reinvention, and giving ourselves permission to evolve. This podcast is proudly sponsored by Caddis, eyewear designed for people who see life clearly at every age. Use code "SOWHENDOI20" at checkout to enjoy 20% until 5/16/26. Don’t forget to subscribe and follow for more: > Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/ > TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1 > YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1 Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis Berger Co-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer Ganus Co-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClelland Social Media Manager - Skylar Harrison Music - Ben Berger Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    49 min

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We’re women who never stopped talking, questioning, debating — and occasionally challenging one another — about how to keep moving forward. We still love gathering, laughing, and talking things through, often with a glass of wine in hand, trying to make sense of what life has taught us so far… and what we’re still figuring out. Because the truth is, life doesn’t come with instructions — and the questions don’t stop just because you’ve lived a little. Which brings us to the title. So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? isn’t really about sex (though that may come up). It’s a metaphor for those moments when we quietly ask ourselves: When do I speak up? Let go? Start over? Try something new? Stop caring what everyone else thinks? Whether you’re navigating relationships, reinvention, loneliness, or simply wondering “Is this it… or is there more?” — you’re not alone. And if you need company, you can drop into a conversation with women who sound a lot like you — sharing stories, supporting one another, and telling the truth without pretending we’ve got it all figured out. We also know we don’t have to do this alone. So we bring in experts — from health and wellness to beauty, relationships, money, and longevity — people who help us understand our bodies, our choices, and ourselves without shame or hype. And yes, we love products. Smart ones. Thoughtful ones. Things that make life easier, healthier, and a little more fun. We are not invisible — we’re engaged, curious, and paying attention. So When Do I Take My Clothes Off? is a starting point — for conversations that begin with “When do I…?” We dig deep. We laugh (often at ourselves). We’re honest about where we are — and we invite you to be honest too. Because while some things change, our appetite for connection, clarity, and a good laugh absolutely hasn’t. Follow us at @getinthegroove1 and @sowhendoi on Instagram for more!   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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