SOFT x SAVAGE

Laura Patricia Martin
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Becoming the woman you’re meant to be isn’t always comfortable — evolution requires standards, emotional regulation, capacity, and devotion to your future self. Soft x Savage is for women stepping into partnership, motherhood, wealth, and leadership without losing softness or self. Not performative empowerment or aesthetic healing — but refinement, discipline, discernment, and self-trust for the woman rising with elegance, power, and real-life depth.

  1. 4D AGO

    Ep. 207: Why People Ignore You (Even When You’re Doing Everything Right)

    UNRELATABLY RELATABLE IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT You’re doing the work. You’re visible. And yet… you’re still being overlooked where it actually matters. This episode is for the woman who feels like she’s doing everything “right,” but isn’t getting the recognition, respect, or attention she knows she’s capable of holding. We’re talking about why visibility alone doesn’t create influence — and why so many women end up visible but invisible at the same time. If you’ve ever thought: “Why does it feel like no one really sees me?”“Why do I keep getting passed over?”“Why does showing up feel exhausting instead of powerful?”This episode will land. IN THIS EPISODE, WE DIVE INTO: — The invisibility paradox: why effort doesn’t equal recognition — The unspoken rules of visibility most women were never taught — How overworking and people-pleasing actually make you easier to ignore — Why boundaries create respect, not distance — How to stop shrinking, softening, and over-explaining when eyes are on you — What it actually takes to be noticed, remembered, and respected This isn’t about doing more. It’s about showing up differently. WHO THIS EPISODE IS FOR This episode is for you if: You crave attention but freeze when you get itYou feel seen on the surface but not valued at depthYou’re tired of being “liked” instead of respectedYou know you’re meant to lead, influence, and be recognized NEXT STEPS If this episode hit, this is part of a larger visibility series on: Being seen without burning outHolding attention without people-pleasingBuilding influence through energy, boundaries, and presence If you’re ready to stop being invisible where it counts, this is your work. JOIN THE MOVEMENT: Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — a 12-month high-level container for women ready to lead, be seen, and build influence without shrinking. DM “VISIBLE” on Instagram for details. SUBSCRIBE + SHARE: New episodes drop every Monday at 9 a.m. EST. If this episode spoke to you, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a woman who’s ready to stop being overlooked. Being seen is a skill. This is where you learn it.

    36 min

  2. FEB 1

    Ep. 206: Ways Visibility Reveals Your Attachment Style, How To Be Seen More, & Why Showing Up Feels Dangerous

    Being seen isn’t neutral. It’s activating. Every time you post, speak up, or step into leadership — do you feel yourself softening, over-explaining, or people-pleasing? That’s your attachment style showing up. Visibility exposes what’s really going on inside your nervous system and the ways you’ve been coping with fear, rejection, and abandonment. Oversharing, bending yourself, saying yes too often — it’s all connected. Once you understand it, you can reclaim your energy, your authority, and your influence. IN THIS EPISODE — Why being seen triggers people-pleasing, over-functioning, and over-explaining — How your attachment style shows up in business, relationships, and leadership — The exact mindset shift to stop shrinking when eyes are on you — Why visibility feels dangerous and what to do about it — How to show up without apology, perform, or bend for approval If you’re ready to stop spinning, stop shrinking, and show up fully in your life and business, this episode is your roadmap. JOIN THE UNRELATABLY RELATABLE: Build a reputation that converts attention into consistent 10K months by becoming the kind of brand premium buyers already trust. Click here FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: ⁠Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training⁠ — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentHigh Demand Woman Training Replay — $47 to add $10K/month with aligned systems SHOP + SUPPORT — My exact ⁠Amazon storefront⁠ (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARE Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    45 min

  3. JAN 26

    Ep: 205: Want More Visibility? Master Your Relationships First

    Visibility isn’t just about posting more or being louder.It’s about who you let into your world, who you spend your energy on, and who you allow to shape your identity. This episode is about being seen in a way that actually lasts — and that starts with mastering your relationships and environment. If you’ve ever felt: stuck in the “grey area” with people like you’re a people pleaser but you don’t know how to stop like you’re “too much” or “too intense” like you don’t belong or don’t know where to find aligned friends like you’re constantly adjusting yourself to be accepted …this episode is for you. We talk about: being selective with who gets your energy taking responsibility for people pleasing why we’re afraid of being seen as “a bitch” how comfort keeps you invisible why the grey area is a trap how to create an environment that supports your growth This is visibility training.Not the kind that looks cute online.The kind that builds your power, your confidence, and your presence JOIN THE MOVEMENT: Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand. DM “SOCIETY” on Instagram for insider to apply. FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: ⁠Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training⁠ — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentHigh Demand Woman Training Replay — Become a match to high value clients & men SHOP + SUPPORT — My exact ⁠Amazon storefront⁠ (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARE Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    30 min

  4. JAN 19

    Ep. 204: You Don’t Need More Visibility... You Need To Better Mental Health

    Everyone wants to be seen.More eyes. More attention. More validation.In business, in relationships, in rooms they feel invisible in. But here’s the part most people skip:If your mental health isn’t solid, being seen will not feel safe — and it will not last. This episode reframes the conversation around visibility, influence, and being chosen by starting where it actually begins: your mental health. Not in a soft way.In a foundational, self-leadership way. Because being seen isn’t just about showing up.It’s about having the capacity to hold attention, relationships, and responsibility without burning out or self-sabotaging. IN THIS EPISODE — Why the desire to be seen is often rooted in nervous system dysregulation— Visibility in business vs visibility in relationships— Mental health as the foundation for influence and leadership— Why “more eyes on you” won’t fix what isn’t stable internally— The difference between craving attention and being available for it If you’ve been asking for more visibility, more recognition, or more opportunities — this episode will help you check whether you’re actually available for what you’re asking for. This is the foundation. JOIN THE MOVEMENT: Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand. DM “SOCIETY” on Instagram for insider to apply. FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentHigh Demand Woman Training Replay — $33 to add $10K/month with aligned systems SHOP + SUPPORT — My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARE Love the episode? Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    35 min

  5. JAN 12

    Ep. 203: Time Management & Boundaries That Actually Get You Results

    A no-fluff breakdown of why you’re busy but not moving forward — and what to do about it. If you feel behind, exhausted, or like your goals are slipping through your fingers… this episode is your wake-up call. We’re not here to manage time. We’re here to respect it. Listen in to stop spinning, start prioritizing, and finally build momentum that sticks. IN THIS EPISODE, WE DIVE INTO: — Why “I don’t have enough time” isn’t the real problem— The hidden payoff of being needed by everyone— How self-sabotage shows up and how to shut it down— CEO-level boundaries and respecting your own energy— Systems, priorities, and day-one execution over motivation— Using labels (ADHD, depression, overwhelm) as leverage, not excuses JOIN THE MOVEMENT: Ready to stop negotiating with your goals? Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand. DM “SOCIETY” on Instagram for insider bonuses. FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentJoin Bolder Branding Academy — The signature space where we rebuild the digital expression of the woman you’re becoming. Identity first. Expression next. Premium presence always.SHOP + SUPPORT My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) Love the episode? Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    43 min

  6. JAN 5

    Ep. 202: In & Outs for 2026 to Get Hotter and Richer

    2026 is my all-in year. No excuses. No hiding. No half-measures. I’m taking full ownership of my growth, mindset, and personal brand, and sharing exactly what it takes to get hotter, richer, and more alive than ever. In this episode, I break down the daily habits, productivity strategies, and mindset shifts high-achieving women need to leave behind what’s holding them back and step fully into their power, presence, and influence. If you’re a woman entrepreneur, mompreneur, or ambitious woman looking to scale your business, own your energy, and live intentionally, this episode is a roadmap for: Creating intentional mornings and routines that fuel success Building confidence, authority, and influence in your personal brand Navigating relationships and partnerships without shrinking your energy Selling boldly, showing up consistently, and scaling with ease Designing a life that blends play, romance, and high-performance Your Next Move If this episode helped you reconnect with who you’re becoming, screenshot it, share it to your Stories, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast. Resource Links Join Bolder Branding Academy — The signature space where we rebuild the digital expression of the woman you’re becoming. Identity first. Expression next. Premium presence always. Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant depth, power, and conviction in your content. Laura’s Amazon Favorites — My essentials for crafting a Soft x Savage home & lifestyle.

    34 min

  7. 12/29/2025

    Ep. 201: 2025 Wrapped: The Most Defining Podcast Moments

    This is the final episode of the year. No new teaching new framework. Just the moments that landed hardest. This episode is a compilation of the most listened-to, saved, and shared conversations from the podcast this year—the ones women returned to when something in their business or identity was shifting. If you’ve been:– Rebuilding your brand to match who you are now– Preparing your business for motherhood, maturity, or more responsibility– Feeling the friction of outgrowing strategies that once worked– Wanting to be taken seriously without becoming hardened or performative This episode will resonate. These clips reflect the themes that kept coming up again and again this year:Identity before strategy.Stability before scale.Presence over noise. Listen straight through or drop into the moments that meet you where you are. We’re not closing a chapter.We’re raising the standard. Similar Episodes Ep. 146: Stop Handing Your Magic Over to ChatGPT (And Unlock Your True Creative Power Instead)Ep. 155: The Feminine Edge—Commanding Influence Without Losing Your SoftnessEp. 187: Quitting Corporate America to Chase Love in Spain, Build a 7-Figure Brand… and Make Sh*t Happen with Samantha Daily Your Next Move If this episode helped you reconnect with who you’re becoming, screenshot it, share it to your Stories, and tag ⁠@itslaurapatriciamartin⁠ + ⁠@softxsavagepodcast⁠. Resource Links ⁠Join Bolder Branding Academy⁠ — The signature space where we rebuild the digital expression of the woman you’re becoming. Identity first. Expression next. Premium presence always. ⁠Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training⁠ — $22 for instant depth, power, and conviction in your content. ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My essentials for crafting a Soft x Savage home & lifestyle.

    37 min

  8. 12/22/2025

    Ep. 200: How to Stay Mentally in the Game When You’re Not Seeing Results

    There’s a moment every driven woman faces where effort and evidence stop matching. You’re doing the work. You’re staying consistent. You’re showing up in your business, your leadership, your life. And yet… the results haven’t caught up yet. This episode is for that moment. In the 200th episode of the podcast, Laura Patricia Martin pulls back the curtain on what it actually takes to stay in the game when success feels delayed and why mindset, faith, and long-term conviction matter more than motivation ever could. This isn’t about hype. It’s not about hustle. And it’s definitely not about timelines that pressure you into abandoning your own calling. It’s about the internal strength required to keep moving forward when no one is clapping yet. Inside this milestone episode, Laura shares: •What 200 episodes taught her about consistency and long-term leadership • Why real success often requires staying committed without immediate reward • How comparison quietly erodes confidence—and how to opt out • The mindset shift that allows you to stop chasing short-term wins • What faith actually looks like when the outcome isn’t visible yet • Why ego wants speed—but purpose requires patience • The power of “borrowing conviction” from your future self • How to make decisions as the woman you’re becoming, not the one who’s doubting • Ways to measure progress without diminishing your growth • Why honoring how far you’ve come changes how far you’ll go next This episode is a reminder that momentum isn’t always loud. Sometimes it looks like staying. Sometimes it looks like trusting. Sometimes it looks like continuing to build even when the proof hasn’t arrived. If you’re an entrepreneur, leader, or visionary woman who’s committed to the long game, this conversation will anchor you back into yourself. Not rushed. Not reactive. But rooted. Because the women who create lasting success aren’t the ones who quit when it’s quiet. They’re the ones who trust what they’re building—long before the world sees it. Similar Episodes: - Ep. 198: Becoming *Her* Again — Identity Shifts Before the New Year - Ep. 194:Why “10x” Energy Is Keeping You Broke — Get Rich as F*ck by Going Deeper, Not Harder With Megan Hatfield - Ep. 187:Quitting Corporate America to Chase Love in Spain, Build a 7-Figure Brand… and Make Sh*t Happen with Samantha Daily Your Next Move If this episode helped you reconnect with who you’re becoming, screenshot it, share it to your Stories, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin⁠ + ⁠@softxsavagepodcast⁠. Tell me which routine or identity shift you’re committing to — I’ll be cheering you on. Resource Links ⁠Join Bolder Branding Academy⁠ — The signature space where we rebuild the digital expression of the woman you’re becoming. Identity first. Expression next. Premium presence always. ⁠Download Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training⁠ — $22 for instant depth, power, and conviction in your content. ⁠Laura’s Amazon Favorites⁠ — My essentials for crafting a Soft x Savage home & lifestyle.

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Becoming the woman you’re meant to be isn’t always comfortable — evolution requires standards, emotional regulation, capacity, and devotion to your future self. Soft x Savage is for women stepping into partnership, motherhood, wealth, and leadership without losing softness or self. Not performative empowerment or aesthetic healing — but refinement, discipline, discernment, and self-trust for the woman rising with elegance, power, and real-life depth.

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  • Creator
    Laura Patricia Martin
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    207
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Laura Patricia Martin
  • Show Website
    SOFT x SAVAGE

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