SOFT x SAVAGE

Laura Patricia Martin
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Becoming the woman you’re meant to be isn’t always comfortable — evolution requires standards, emotional regulation, capacity, and devotion to your future self. Soft x Savage is for women stepping into partnership, motherhood, wealth, and leadership without losing softness or self. Not performative empowerment or aesthetic healing — but refinement, discipline, discernment, and self-trust for the woman rising with elegance, power, and real-life depth.

  1. 2D AGO

    Ep 214: you can just decide to turn your energy on and that be that

    THE MATRIARCH MASTERMIND IS OPEN-- Message me to apply At any given moment — any moment — you can just decide you're so back. Not when life settles. Not when you feel ready. Not when the situation resolves itself or the timing is perfect or someone gives you permission. Right now. In this body. In this season. Whatever is happening behind the scenes. That's what this episode is about. And if you've been waiting for a sign — this is it. We've been conditioned to think that getting back to yourself is a process. A healing arc. A program. Something you have to earn your way into slowly and carefully. It's not. It's a decision. And the sooner you make it the sooner everything changes. IN THIS EPISODE— The difference between losing yourself and losing the signal (and why it matters)— What's actually jamming your signal — the "should," the hiding, the urge to blow it all up and start over— Why your vulnerability is not your weakness — it's the thing that makes you magnetic— Why you don't need new circumstances, a new era, or a new anything — you need to decide— How to come alive again without performing harder You don't need proof. You don't need to feel ready. You just need to decide she's still in there. Because she is. JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand. FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentHigh Demand Woman Training Replay — $111 to add $10K/month with aligned systems SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode? Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    24 min

  2. MAR 30

    Ep. 214: Your "It Factor", Manifesting in a Bad Mood & Why Certainty is the Real Strategy w/ Mikayla Jai

    You don't have to be in a good mood to manifest. You don't have to have it all figured out. You don't have to wait until the trauma is healed, the fear is gone, or the doubt has quieted down. You just have to be certain. That's the thread running through this entire conversation with Mikayla Jai — manifestation coach, mindset expert, and one of the most unapologetically herself humans I've had on the show. We went deep. Like, really deep. On what it actually means to embody your it factor. On why most women are accidentally blocking their own manifestations. On the difference between reacting and responding when life tries to knock you off your axis. And on why your energetic capacity matters more than your strategy. If you've been doing all the things and still feel like something's missing — this episode is going to show you exactly what it is. — What the "it factor" actually is and how to start embodying yours today— Why you can manifest even on your worst days if your identity is aligned— How environment shifts and movement can instantly change your energy and accelerate your results— The role of decision and conviction in creating a certainty that draws things to you— Why letting go of past trauma speeds up manifestation more than any strategy— The difference between reacting and responding — and how to stay in alignment when things go sideways— How authentic self-expression online is directly tied to the results you're getting— What energetic capacity means and why it's the real ceiling on your growth— Practical steps to manifest big love and money starting today This one's a full body reset. CONNECT WITH MIKAYLA JAI— Instagram: @themikaylajai JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand. FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentHigh Demand Woman Training Replay — $111 to add $10K/month with aligned systems SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    56 min

  3. MAR 23

    Ep. 213: 5 unconventional strategies that are quietly making me more money (& way happier)

    BOLDER BRANDING ACADEMY IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT Nobody talks about these ones. Not because they don't work — but because they don't look like "business advice." They look like going outside. Asking for help. Getting a little feral. Reconnecting with the version of you that used to do things just because they felt good. But here's what I know: the seasons where I've grown the most weren't the ones where I worked the hardest. They were the ones where I showed up the most fully — in my body, in my community, in my joy, in my personality. This episode is about those strategies. The unconventional ones. The ones that don't make it into the highlight reels but are quietly responsible for some of my biggest income and fulfillment wins. If you've been grinding and wondering why it still feels off — this is your episode. IN THIS EPISODE— Why asking for help (and actually receiving it) is one of the most underrated business moves you can make— How physical discipline bleeds directly into your confidence, your energy, and your sales— The role your authentic, unfiltered personality plays in your income — and why toning it down is costing you— Why isolation is one of the most dangerous things for a high-achieving woman— How getting into the right rooms creates exponential growth faster than anything else— Reconnecting with your 16-year-old self — and why she might be the key to your next level— The simple daily habits (yes, including sunlight) that are building unshakable confidence from the outside in Be feral. Be unfiltered. Be unapologetically you. JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand. Click here to apply FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: Magnetic Messaging — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentHigh Demand Woman — $111 to add $10K/month with aligned systems SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    33 min

  4. MAR 16

    Ep. 212: stop faking it, it's not working

    BOLDER BRANDING ACADEMY IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT You've been doing everything right.Showing up. Posting. Putting yourself out there. And it still isn't working the way it should. This episode is for the woman who's been performing a version of herself she thinks people want to see — and wondering why it feels hollow, exhausting, and unconvincing. Because here's the thing: they can tell. And more importantly — so can you. IN THIS EPISODE, WE DIVE INTO: — Why hiding your struggles is actually what's stalling your growth— The difference between faking confidence and identity-based confidence— How your personal narrative is either building trust or costing you it— Why confession — not perfection — is what creates real authority— The shame cycle around "not being enough" and how to rewrite it— How emotional honesty accelerates success and deepens connection— What an actual identity shift looks like versus putting on an alter ego— The story you're telling yourself and whether it's working for or against you This episode is for you if: You've been waiting to be "further along" before you speak upYou feel like you have to perform a version of yourself that's ahead of where you actually areYou know your story is powerful but you've been too ashamed to tell itYou're ready to build authority from truth instead of a polished facadeNEXT STEPS: If this episode hit, this is part of a larger series on: Building a brand that's rooted in who you actually areUsing your story as a marketing asset — not a liabilityCreating influence through identity, not imitation JOIN THE MOVEMENT: Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — a 12-month high-level container for women ready to lead, be seen, and build influence without shrinking. Click here to apply. JOIN BOLDER BRANDING ACADEMY: Ready to build a brand that actually sounds like you and sells for you? Click here SUBSCRIBE + SHARE: New episodes drop every Monday at 9 a.m. EST. If this episode spoke to you, subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a woman who's been performing when she could be owning. Stop faking it.It was never going to work anyway.

    37 min

  5. MAR 9

    Ep. 211: Healing Trauma Bonds, Queen Energy & Why You Keep Attracting the Same Person w/ Andrea Crowder

    What if the pressure you've been living under was never yours to carry? We've been taught that growth has to be hard. That healing is heavy. That if you're not grinding, you're not serious. But what if the fastest path to the life, love, and leadership you actually want — is pleasure? In this episode, I'm sitting down with Andrea Crowder, transformational coach and healer, and this conversation went places I didn't expect. We talk about the stories you've been living inside since childhood — the ones running your relationships, your business, your self-worth — and how to un-choose them faster than you think is possible. If you've ever found yourself shrinking in love, over-functioning in relationships, or wondering why you keep attracting the same dynamic no matter how much work you do — this episode is going to make something click. IN THIS EPISODE — The real difference between pressure and pleasure in growth and entrepreneurship — How your childhood archetypes are quietly running your adult relationships — The power of un-choosing your triggers (and why it's faster than you think) — How to heal inner princess patterns and step into queen energy for real — What self-leadership, sovereignty, and boundaries actually look like in love — Rebuilding trust and renewing yourself after long-term partnerships — Andrea's Leadership Quiz and quick trauma-clearing tools you can use today This one isn't just an interview. It's a permission slip. CONNECT WITH ANDREA CROWDER — Take the Leadership Quiz HERE — find out which leadership archetype is running your life — Ignite His Leadership — 21 Day Challenge to ignite his leadership JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand. FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentHigh Demand Woman Training — Add $10K/month with aligned systems SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact Amazon storefront (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    48 min

  6. MAR 2

    Ep. 210: You Can't Build a Movement While Playing Small in Private

    UNRELATABLY RELATABLE IS OPEN You talk about standards. You preach self-trust. You tell your audience to go all in. But behind closed doors — are you actually living it? There's a gap between the woman you are on your platform and the woman you are when no one's watching. And your audience feels it, even when they can't name it. That gap is what's quietly capping your growth, your influence, and the movement you're trying to build. This episode is the hard truth you didn't know you needed — and the roadmap to close it. IN THIS EPISODE— What "playing small in private" actually looks like for high-achieving women— The values gap: why your business can only grow as far as your private alignment allows— 3 private practices to close the gap between what you preach and how you actually live— Why shrinking privately is a protection mechanism — and how it's sabotaging everything you're building— One powerful challenge to walk away with and start today If you're ready to stop performing your values and start living them, this episode will change how you show up — in private and in public. JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand. DM "SOCIETY" on Instagram for insider to apply. FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: ⁠Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training⁠ — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentHigh Demand Woman Training — To add $10K/month with aligned systems SHOP + SUPPORT— My exact ⁠Amazon storefront⁠ (supplements, skincare, and home luxuries) SUBSCRIBE + SHARELove the episode?Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    19 min

  7. FEB 23

    Ep. 209: What's The Point?! Getting Out of a Funk Without Toxic Positivity

    Have you ever found yourself flat? Not depressed. Not ungrateful. Just… disconnected from the life you're building and completely unable to explain it without sounding like you're complaining? That's the funk. And nobody talks about it honestly. In this episode, Laura gets real about what it actually feels like to be in a season where nothing is technically wrong but nothing feels fully right either — and why all the advice you're getting (gratitude lists, "just get back to basics," good vibes only) is making it worse. This isn't a toxic positivity episode. This is the conversation your best friend would have with you if she was also doing the work. In This Episode: Naming the funk — what it actually feels like to be in that in-between place where you're not broken but you're not lit up either, and why it's more common than anyone admits What doesn't work — calling out the wellness culture advice that sounds good but leaves you feeling worse for not "bouncing back" fast enough What actually helped — the real, unglamorous nervous system work, routines, boundaries, and communication shifts that moved the needle in hard seasons The reframe — why the funk isn't the enemy and what it's actually trying to tell you about what needs to shift Quotes From This Episode: "You're not starting over. You're starting honest." "The funk isn't a sign that something is wrong with you. It's information." "Nobody's coming to save you from this season — but you don't need saving. You need clarity." Ready to Stop Editing Yourself Down? If this episode hit home, Unrelatably Relatable is for you. This is a 2-week live group program for the woman who knows she has an edge — but keeps softening it, hiding it, or waiting until she feels "ready" to claim it. We go deep on visibility, identity, and showing up as the version of you that actually converts — in your content, your relationships, and your life. Starts February 24th. 👉 Join here Spots are limited. Don't wait until the funk passes to do the work — this IS the work. JOIN THE MOVEMENT:Apply for the Soft x Savage Mastermind — the 12-month high-level experience for women building a movement, not just a brand. Click here to apply. FREE & LOW-COST RESOURCES: Magnetic Messaging Mini-Training — $22 for instant clarity and influence in your contentHigh Demand Woman Training Replay — $97 to add $10K/month with aligned systems SHOP + SUPPORT:My exact Amazon Storefront — supplements, skincare, and home luxuries SUBSCRIBE + SHARE:Love this episode? Subscribe, leave a review, and tag @itslaurapatriciamartin + @softxsavagepodcast on IG for a chance to win our weekly giveaway.

    25 min

  8. FEB 16

    Ep. 208: Stop Trying to Be Relatable, Why Being Digestible Is Killing Your Influence

    UNRELATABLY RELATABLE IS OPEN FOR ENROLLMENT You’re not too much.You’re just surrounded by people who benefit from you being smaller. This episode is for the woman who knows she’s operating at a different level — different standards, different discipline, different obsession — but keeps softening herself to be more relatable. You joke about your ambition.You downplay your intensity.You pretend you don’t love the pressure. And then you wonder why you feel invisible. Being relatable might make you likable.But it will never make you powerful. In This Episode: — Why trying to be relatable is quietly killing your authority— The difference between being liked and being respected— How high standards and discipline get mislabeled as “intimidating”— Why bold women shrink in rooms they’ve already outgrown— The psychology behind sanding down your edge— How to stop being digestible and start being distinct We’re talking about visibility, confidence, influence, leadership, and identity — but not in a soft way. This is about owning your edge.Owning your ambition.Owning the fact that you love the game. This is for the woman who: — Has high standards and refuses to lower them— Works weekends because she wants to, not because she has to— Feels “different” in most rooms— Has been called intense, intimidating, or too ambitious— Knows she’s in a different league You don’t need to be more relatable. You need to be more precise about who you’re for. Why This Matters Relatable builds comfort.Authority builds demand. If everyone feels comfortable around you, you’re not leading. And if you’re ready to stop blending in and start building real influence — this episode will hit. New episodes drop every Monday at 9 a.m. EST. If this resonates, share it with the woman who’s done shrinking. And if you’re ready to fully step into being unrelatably relatable — click here

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Becoming the woman you’re meant to be isn’t always comfortable — evolution requires standards, emotional regulation, capacity, and devotion to your future self. Soft x Savage is for women stepping into partnership, motherhood, wealth, and leadership without losing softness or self. Not performative empowerment or aesthetic healing — but refinement, discipline, discernment, and self-trust for the woman rising with elegance, power, and real-life depth.

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  • Creator
    Laura Patricia Martin
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    215
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Laura Patricia Martin
  • Show Website
    SOFT x SAVAGE

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