Talk About It

Pastor Don M Smith
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We take relevant topics with a Biblical point of view and we, "Talk About It". "Talk About It" with Pastor Don Smith: Where faith meets real life. Each season, we take a deep dive into one relevant topic – from current events to timeless struggles – and explore it through a Biblical lens. We tackle the big questions, cultural shifts, and personal challenges, offering perspective, insight, and meaningful conversation grounded in Scripture. Join us as we "Talk About It", you know you want to..... AND SO DO I! LETS, "TALK ABOUT IT". 

  1. 4D AGO

    Victim to Victor Part 3 - Misplaced Faith

    Send us Fan Mail Click here to support Talk About It! For more information or booking details, visit www.donmsmith.com Can you fail while relying on God? That’s the uncomfortable question we tackle in this episode as we continue our Victim to Victor series. We pick up the story in Numbers 14. The Israelites have all the evidence of God’s promise, provision, and presence—yet they stand paralyzed at the edge of Canaan, convinced it’s better to return to Egypt than to face the giants. That night, two and a half million people wail in fear. God’s judgment is swift: forty years of wandering for that generation. But then something curious happens. After hearing the verdict, the leaders suddenly decide nowthey have the faith to go into the land. They rush into battle—without Moses, without the Ark of the Covenant, without God’s presence. The result is utter destruction, chased “as bees do” all the way to Hormah, a place whose name means “complete devastation.” What went wrong? They had a promise, but their faith was misplaced. They assumed that because God had promised the land, any attempt to take it—at any time, in any way—would be blessed. They treated God’s promise like a magic formula, ignoring the conditions, ignoring His timing, and ignoring His clear warning not to go. We explore three forms of victimhood that lead to misplaced faith: Deliberate rebellion against God’s commands.Careless application of God’s will—doing what seems good without consulting Him.Taking promises out of context, ignoring the conditions attached to them.Victimhood convinces us that we know better than God. It makes us reject godly wisdom and rush ahead with our own plans, even praying for God to bless them. But when we move without His presence, we end up beaten and wondering why He didn’t show up. The key lesson: faith is not presumption. God’s promises are received by faith, but their application often involves spiritual conflict, timing, and submission to His will. Don’t let victimhood trick you into treating God’s Word like a blank check. Key Scriptures: Numbers 14:1‑4, 19‑23, 44; Deuteronomy 1:44 Support the show

    28 min

  2. MAR 31

    Victim to Victor Part 2 - Overcoming the Victimhood Complex part 2

    Send us Fan Mail Click here to support Talk About It! For more information or booking details, visit www.donmsmith.com We continue our Victim to Victor series by asking a crucial question: How do I know if I’m stuck in a victimhood complex? In this episode, we dig into the hidden signs—the subtle ways victimhood takes root—by looking back at the ten spies who returned from Canaan with a fearful report. Despite overwhelming evidence of God’s promise, protection, and provision, they couldn’t see anything but giants. Sound familiar? We explore how victimhood is ultimately characterized by a doubting heart. It’s that double-mindedness James warns about—keeping one eye on God and one eye on the world, shifting focus from trust to blame. When we’ve trusted God and been disappointed, or tried and failed, victimhood whispers that we can never fully trust Him again. But the cost of victimhood is high: It makes us content with spiritual mediocrity.It blinds us to our own victory (even the Canaanites were terrified of Israel—yet Israel saw themselves as grasshoppers).Most sobering, victimhood risks the future of everyone around us. The ten spies nearly cost an entire nation their destiny.So what’s the remedy? We unpack two critical truths: Recognize the reality of the warfare. This isn’t a small skirmish; it’s an all‑out battle for your mind.Understand the battlefield is the mind. Renewing your mind (Romans 12:2) and wielding the sword of the Spirit—God’s Word—is how we “cast down imaginations” that hold us captive.Whether your wall is a failed marriage, bitterness, fear of relationships, a hidden habit, or the fear of failure itself, you are called to occupy territory. Faith doesn’t operate in the realm of the possible; it begins where human power ends. God delights in impossibilities, and you’ll never test His resources until you attempt what seems impossible. The key question: How will you respond? Will you face your fears and move ahead with God, or shrink back into the comfortable desert of “I can’t”? Do not be a victim to past disappointments or present obstacles. Arm yourself with God’s Word and trust Him in your moment of greatest need. Key Scriptures: James 1:6‑8, Romans 12:2, Ephesians 6, Joshua 2:9 Support the show

    28 min

  3. MAR 24

    Victim to Victor Part 1 - Overcoming the Victimhood Complex

    Send us Fan Mail Click here to support Talk About It! For more information or booking details, visit www.donmsmith.com Welcome to Season 9! We’re kicking off a powerful new series called "Victim to Victor," and in this premiere episode, we’re diving deep into the foundational issue that holds so many of us back: the victimhood complex. Have you ever been given a challenge or a dream by God, only to shrink back in fear, convinced you aren't able to achieve it? You’re not alone. In this episode, we explore a familiar biblical story through a fresh lens: the 12 spies in Numbers 13. After 400 years of slavery, the Israelites stood at the edge of their Promised Land—a land of prosperity, provision, and peace. But when faced with their destiny, fear took hold. We’ll break down: God's Strategic Instruction: Why facing reality and making a plan isn't a lack of faith, but a prerequisite for victory (Ephesians 6). We’ll discuss how victimhood convinces us our story has no happy ending and blinds us to the resources God has already prepared for us.The Two Reports: Twelve spies saw the exact same thing—a rich land filled with giants. Yet, two (Caleb and Joshua) saw opportunity, while ten saw only disaster. What made the difference? We’ll explore how your perspective determines whether you see giants or see God.The Language of the Victim: The ten spies said, "We felt like grasshoppers." That voice of victimhood whispers the same things to us: This addiction is too big. This marriage can't be fixed. This loss has crippled me forever.The enemy uses your past to keep you a victim, but God has a different idea. It’s time to stop turning back to Egypt and start taking possession of the abundant life Jesus promised. Join us as we learn how to exchange the "grasshopper mentality" for the courageous faith of those who move from victim to victor. Key Scriptures: Numbers 13:25-33, Ephesians 6:10-13, Psalm 27:1, John 7:37-38 Support the show

    27 min

  4. MAR 17

    Sexual Purity Part 9 - Counting the Cost

    Send us Fan Mail Click here to support Talk About It! For more information or booking details, visit www.donmsmith.com In this powerful final episode of our Sexual Purity series, we gather everything we've learned and ask the ultimate question: Are you ready to commit—or recommit—to a life of sexual purity?Drawing from the parable of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15, we explore the cost of impurity, the beauty of true repentance, and the hope that awaits those who turn back to the Father. We begin by confronting the enemy of repentance: rationalization. It's easy to make excuses—"I couldn't help the first look"—while deliberately placing ourselves in compromising situations. True repentance means removing temptation and changing the choices that expose us. For those who have fallen, there is hope: whether you're single and have lost your virginity, or married and have broken trust, God offers forgiveness and the chance to embrace secondary virginity—remaining sexually pure from this day forward (1 John 1:9). Forgiveness doesn't erase all consequences, but it stops the damage today and opens the door to future blessings. We then explore the non-negotiable need for accountability. You cannot win this battle alone. Scripture warns that bad company corrupts good character (1 Corinthians 15:33), and those who fall into sexual sin often lack bare-knuckle, no-nonsense accountability. We share the powerful example of a "911" group—friends committed to being available in the moment of temptation, not just after the fall. Honesty about our sin is good, but honesty about our temptation is even better. Who are your 911 friends? We also count the cost of sexual sin: disappointing the Lord, losing virginity, mental images that plague, greater likelihood of future sin, unwanted pregnancy, and disease. But we make one thing absolutely clear: premarital sex is a sin, but pregnancy is not. Children should never pay the price for an adult's sin. Yet this episode is not meant to discourage—it's meant to rally the troops. Using illustrations from The Hobbit and Greek mythology, we expose the sobering truth: Satan knows the chinks in our armor, and his aim is deadly. The church today has grown careless, morally soft, and entertained by what offends God. But our God longs to forgive, restore, and deliver us from the road to death. We close with a final, urgent call: Is sexual impurity your Achilles' heel? If so, these nine episodes may save your life and family from ruin. God doesn't want us paralyzed by fear, but walking daily with Christ, guarding our hearts, and keeping covenant with our eyes. Then—and only then—we go our way "in safety" and "not be afraid" (Proverbs 3:21–26). One final question hangs in the air: Are you ready? Now is the time. Nothing is more fleeting than the moment of conviction. God has made a universe where righteousness is rewarded and unrighteousness is always punished. Purity is always smart; impurity is always stupid. But for those who repent, there is grace beyond measure—a Father who runs to meet us, robes us in righteousness, and calls us His own. If we plant purity today, we will reap a rich harvest. And by the grace of God, we will look back on our lives not with regret, but with joyful gratitude. Key Scriptures: Luke 15:11–32; Proverbs 28:13; 1 John 1:9; 2 Timothy 2:21; Hebrews 10:25; 1 Corinthians 15:33; Proverbs 3:21–26; Jeremiah 17:10 Join us for this culminating episode as we answer the call to live set apart, embrace the Father's forgiveness, an Support the show

    29 min

  5. MAR 10

    Sexual Purity Part 8 - Guidelines for Married People

    Send us Fan Mail Click here to support Talk About It! For more information or booking details, visit www.donmsmith.com In this crucial eighth episode of our Sexual Purity series, we shift our focus to those in covenant relationships—married couples and parents. Because purity isn't just a personal battle; it's a family commitment. Drawing from Scripture and practical wisdom, we explore how to cultivate a thriving marriage, guard against infidelity, and raise children who understand and embrace God's design for sexuality. We begin with a sobering reality: too many marriages have been destroyed by casual relationships at work, school, or even church that slowly turned into infatuation. We need an early detection system because a relationship can become inappropriate long before it becomes sexual. This means being alert with our words, our eyes, and our body language—and cutting through Satan's smoke screen before we choke on it. The heart of this episode is learning to cultivate and guard your marriage. All adultery begins with deception, and most deception begins with "innocent" secrets.  Christian marriages face the same struggles as any other, but we have a supernatural resource to draw upon. When boredom, resentment, or hurt creep in, the answer is never a "new person"—it's a fresh appreciation for the old one. We explore how to rekindle attraction to your mate. Starve your eyes for anyone but your spouse. What we focus on shapes our desires—so by denying bad appetites and meditating on the right things, including being "captivated" by your spouse's love (Proverbs 5:19), you can train yourself to desire what is right. Your spouse's qualities aren't airbrushed or temporary—they're real and lasting. Honesty is essential. Lust thrives in secrecy; nothing defuses it like exposure. If your spouse can't be honest with you about struggles, examine your own response. Do you get defensive? Feel sorry for yourself? Create an atmosphere where honesty can flourish. Confession brings pain, but it also brings growth and deeper intimacy (James 5:16). Then we turn to the next generation: raising pure children. The greatest legacy we can give our children is a loving, affectionate, and pure marriage. Children rarely fail to imitate us. We must: Train them in choice and consequence, wisdom and foolishnessTeach them to love righteousness and hate sinModel and teach self-control—it flows into every areaMaintain gracious but firm control over their relationships and media habitsAvoid double standards—if it's not okay for children, it shouldn't be okay for adultsProtect children through modesty and open conversationFinally, we address your child's sex education. Every child receives sex education—the only questions are when, where, and from whom. Parents should be the primary and ultimate sex educators, framing sexuality not just as biology but in the context of value, responsibility, and marriage. Answer questions honestly and age-appropriately. Don't wait until it's too late. Be positive—talk about the goodness of sex within marriage. And if someone else is teaching your child about sex, it's your job to know what's being said. This episode is a call to action for every married person and every parent. Purity is not just personal—it's generational. By guarding our marriages and discipling our children, we build a legacy of holiness that honors God and protects those we love. Support the show

    34 min

  6. MAR 3

    Sexual Purity Part 7 - Guidelines for Singles

    Send us Fan Mail Click here to support Talk About It! For more information or booking details, visit www.donmsmith.com In this essential seventh episode of our Sexual Purity series, we address the unique challenges and questions faced by singles—whether you're young, never married, divorced, or widowed. In a culture that saturates singleness with sexual temptation, how do we live righteously? Drawing from 1 Corinthians 15:33 and other key scriptures, we offer biblical wisdom and practical guidelines for navigating this season with integrity. We begin by acknowledging the unprecedented pressures on singles today: leisure time, money, social media, transportation, and a media culture that portrays premarital sex as normal—all compounded by the gap between puberty and marriage. The result is overwhelming temptation. But God has not left us without direction. So we tackle the question every single wrestles with: How far is too far? The answer is rooted in understanding God's design. Sexual drives are real, and when stimulated, they naturally move toward climax. Foreplay is designed by God to culminate in intercourse—so if intercourse is forbidden outside marriage, so is foreplay. The line must be drawn before either person becomes sexually stimulated. Fondling and any activity that results in arousal is off-limits. Once your body crosses that line, your convictions won't stop it. If you want a different outcome, you must make different choices—and draw the line far enough back that neither of you crosses it. We also explore the power of choosing friends wisely. Bad company corrupts good character (1 Corinthians 15:33). We become like the people we spend time with, so surrounding ourselves with godly influences is not optional—it's essential for survival. For those considering dating, we offer this perspective: dating is an option, not a necessity. Much temptation comes from the social custom of coupling and isolating young people. If you choose to date, we provide clear, biblical guidelines: Date only believers (2 Corinthians 6:14)Remember Christ is with you all eveningTreat your date as a brother or sister in Christ, not a lover (1 Timothy 5:1–2)Go out in groups, not aloneFocus on conversation, not contactAvoid fast-moving relationships and instant intimacyPlan the entire time in advance—no gapsNever be alone in compromising settings: couches, cars, late nights, bedroomsStay accountable to someoneRemember God is always watching (Jeremiah 16:17)Write out your standards and enforce them yourselfDon't do anything with your date you wouldn't want someone doing with your future spouseBeware of the "moral wear down" in long dating relationships and engagements (1 Corinthians 7:8–9)This episode is not about legalism—it's about love for God and wisdom for the journey. Purity is possible, but it requires intentionality, boundaries, and a dependence on Christ that reshapes every decision. If you're single and wondering how to honor God in your relationships, this episode offers clarity, hope, and a roadmap for walking in purity until marriage—or in contentment and holiness as a single person. Key Scriptures: 1 Corinthians 15:33; Colossians 2:20–23; 2 Timothy 2:3–6; Galatians 5:22–23; 2 Corinthians 6:14; 1 Timothy 5:1–2; Jeremiah 16:17; 1 Corinthians 7:8–9 Join us for this practical, grace-filled episode as we learn to navigate singleness with wisdom, honor God with our bodies, and discover that purity is not about Support the show

    27 min

  7. FEB 24

    Sexual Purity Part 6 - Getting Radical

    Send us Fan Mail Click here to support Talk About It! For more information or booking details, visit www.donmsmith.com In this confrontational and necessary episode of our Sexual Purity series, we tackle the uncomfortable question Jesus Himself raised: How radical are you willing to get? Drawing from Matthew 5:27–30, we examine what it truly means to take drastic action when our eyes, minds, and hearts are under assault. We begin with a shocking illustration: if I invited you to peek through a neighbor's window or hide in the bushes at a make-out spot, you'd call me a pervert. But if I invited you to watch Titanic—which contains those very scenes—suddenly it's "great entertainment." This exposes a dangerous double standard. We have become entertained by sin, normalizing what God calls abomination, and in doing so, we train ourselves and our children to lust. Satan's strategy is simple: make sin normal. But Scripture calls us to something far different. Proverbs 8:13 says, "To fear the Lord is to hate evil." Yet how can we hate evil when we are being entertained by it? Ephesians 5:3–5 warns that impurity must not even be named among us. This episode forces us to hold our entertainment choices up to the light of God's Word. Then we turn to Jesus, the Radical. His words about gouging out eyes and cutting off hands are shocking by design—He wants us to take sexual temptation with life-or-death seriousness. The eye and hand are not the causes of sin, but they are the means of access. If we are going to follow Jesus, we must govern ruthlessly what we see and do. This leads to practical, radical action. If certain people, places, or contexts make sin more likely—stay away. If cable TV is a snare—get rid of it. If the internet is a battlefield—install filters, move the computer to public spaces, or disconnect entirely. These aren't legalistic rules; they're lifelines. As Romans 13:14 commands, "Make no provision for the flesh." We address the objections: "That's too radical!" No—Jesus is radical. Followers of Christ have endured torture and death for Him. Can we not sacrifice television and internet for the sake of our souls? Purity comes only to those who want it badly enough to do whatever it takes. Finally, we offer practical tools: internet filters, accountability partners, resources like https://www.pluggedin.com for entertainment discernment, and even TV fasts to reclaim time for what truly matters. This episode is a call to stop making excuses and start making different choices—because if you want a different outcome, you must make different choices. The battle for purity demands more than good intentions. It demands radical obedience. And the reward is not just freedom from sin, but the joy and peace that can only be found in wholehearted devotion to Christ. Key Scriptures: Matthew 5:27–30; Ephesians 5:3–5; Proverbs 8:13; Romans 13:14 Join us for this uncompromising episode as we answer the question: How desperate are you for victory? How radical will you go for Jesus? The path to purity is narrow—but it leads to life. Support the show

    24 min

  8. FEB 17

    Sexual Purity Part 5 - Wise Strategies

    Send us Fan Mail Click here to support Talk About It! For more information or booking details, visit www.donmsmith.com In this practical and hope-filled fifth episode of our Sexual Purity series, we move from understanding the battle to equipping you with wise strategies to win it. Using the memorable “Parable of the Doughnut,” we illustrate a critical truth: sincere intentions and prayer alone are not enough—we must have clear, deliberate strategies and diligently carry them out. We open by imagining a man who vows to quit doughnuts—praying, seeking accountability, and meaning business—yet continues to surround himself with doughnut culture. The result? Predictable failure. So it is with sexual temptation. Victory requires more than desire; it demands actionable wisdom. Our first and most basic strategy comes straight from Scripture: Flee! (1 Corinthians 6:18). When it comes to sexual immorality, it pays to be a coward. Like Joseph in Genesis 39, we must not only refuse to sin but refuse to be near what tempts us. We explore why it’s always easier to avoid temptation than to resist it, and why keeping your distance isn’t legalism—it’s lifesaving obedience. But fleeing is only the beginning. We must also cultivate our inner life. Self-reformation and “trying harder” will never break lust’s grip. Lasting change flows from time with God—on our knees, in His Word, and in accountable community. As we set our minds on Christ (Colossians 3:1–5), He empowers us to put to death the works of the flesh. Prayer is our lifeline—not just after we fall, but before the battle begins. Jesus calls us to “always pray and not give up” (Luke 18:1). Many feel defeated, believing victory is impossible, but God would never command what He does not empower. This episode confronts the lie that we must wait for heaven to live in purity, declaring that we are called to be overcomers now (1 John 5:4). Through personal testimony, we share how victory is built one day at a time—in 24-hour increments of dependence on God’s grace. You can turn away, shut your eyes, walk out, and click away. Because of Christ, you are not powerless. If you’re tired of good intentions that lead to failure, this episode offers a roadmap: flee, cultivate, pray, and persevere. Redemption is real. Grace is enough. And victory is not a distant dream—it’s a present possibility for those who live in the power of the risen Christ. Key Scriptures: 1 Corinthians 6:18; Genesis 39:10–12; 2 Timothy 2:22; Colossians 3:1–5; Luke 18:1; 1 John 5:4 Join us as we move from struggle to strategy, and from defeat to daily victory. Support the show

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We take relevant topics with a Biblical point of view and we, "Talk About It". "Talk About It" with Pastor Don Smith: Where faith meets real life. Each season, we take a deep dive into one relevant topic – from current events to timeless struggles – and explore it through a Biblical lens. We tackle the big questions, cultural shifts, and personal challenges, offering perspective, insight, and meaningful conversation grounded in Scripture. Join us as we "Talk About It", you know you want to..... AND SO DO I! LETS, "TALK ABOUT IT". 

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  • Creator
    Pastor Don M Smith
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    104
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Talk About It
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