The Cauldron

Em Shindel

A podcast for neurodivergent business owners who are tired of trying to force their brains into systems that weren't built for them.Hosted by Em Shindel, a business systems consultant and late-diagnosed AuDHDer, The Cauldron is where we stir up honest conversations about building sustainable businesses with AuDHD-friendly systems, anti-hustle approaches, and a whole lot of permission to do things differently.Expect real talk about the messy intersection of neurodivergence and entrepreneurship, no shame. Joined by co-host Elliott, Em explores what it actually takes to work with your brain instead of against it.New episodes every week. Grab your favorite beverage and settle in.

Episodes

  1. Rating ADHD coping mechanisms

    2D AGO

    Rating ADHD coping mechanisms

    Elliott and Em rate ADHD coping mechanisms from S-tier (life-changing) to F-tier (actively made things worse). Some ratings surprised them. Some mechanisms got very personal. And Em delivered her hottest take yet about a digital bird. In this episode: The S-Tier (Life-changing): Notion (for Em)Body doubling (for Em)Medication (both)Therapy/coaching (Em) The F-Tier (Do not recommend): Physical planners (Em: "F tier immediately")Time blocking (Em's PDA + time blindness combo)Habit stacking (need habits to stack them)Things in weird places strategyBuying duplicates on purpose (vs. accidentally having 6 ketchup bottles) Unexpected moments: They both rated Pomodoro technique C-tier at the same timeThe clothing/sensory vulnerability conversation (trigger warning: weight talk)Em's relationship with ADHD gamification apps: "I don't give a f**k about that bird"Elliott wants to try visual timersVoice memos work great for Em, not at all for ElliottThe doom box gets a D but they both still use it Key insight: What works is wildly personal. Post-it notes are A-tier for Elliott, B-tier for Em. Time blocking is necessary for Elliott's work, F-tier rage-inducing for Em. Quotable moments: "I don't give a f**k about that bird""My bean is destitute, living in squalor""How dare past Emilee tell current me what to do?" Also discussed: The financial advisor meeting with Kari where they rated financial priorities at the same time, why laying out clothes the night before backfires with sensory issues, and why accountability partners can trigger rejection feelings. thecauldronpod.com @thecauldronpod Interested in a collab? Email us! Media kit

    36 min
  2. You can't hack your way out of neurodivergent burnout.

    MAR 12

    You can't hack your way out of neurodivergent burnout.

    In episode 5, Em said you can't hack your way out of burnout. Today, she's talking about what actually DOES help - and why that's complicated. T This one's hard to record because Em is currently still healing from burnout. Talking about burnout while in burnout feels like trying to explain how to get out of quicksand while you're still in it. But maybe that's exactly why this conversation matters. In this episode: What burnout actually is (not just tired, not just needing a vacation)How neurodivergent burnout looks different (ADHD burnout vs. autistic burnout)Why "just take a mental health day" doesn't workThe trial and error of figuring out what helpsWhat HASN'T worked (spoiler: playing video games for 12 hours after a weekend didn't fix it)Why this shows up differently for so many peopleThe mistakes you have to make to figure it out Key insight: Most people have experienced burnout to varying degrees - which means most people are also trying to figure out what works through trial and error. Reality check: As it turns out, playing your favorite video game for 12 hours hasn't fixed the burnout. But we live and we learn. And maybe that works for someone else - if that's the case, lucky duck. thecauldronpod.com @thecauldronpod Interested in a collab? Email us! Media kit

    32 min
  3. Everything you've been told about consistency is wrong

    MAR 5

    Everything you've been told about consistency is wrong

    Episode 5: Hot Takes - Popular Productivity Advice That's Actually Hurting You Today's episode is different - no deep dives, just rapid-fire opinions on ADHD, business, and productivity. Em throws hot takes at Elliott and they discuss what's actually helpful vs. what's actively harmful for neurodivergent brains. Spoiler: Most of it is harmful. ADHD Hot Takes: Why "ADHD is a superpower" is toxic positivity (it's a disability, full stop)Self-diagnosis is valid (and why gatekeeping formal diagnosis is a problem)Medication doesn't need to be a last resort"High-functioning" is a harmful label that measures masking, not realityTime blindness isn't the worst ADHD symptom (it's different for everyone, different days) Business Hot Takes: Morning routines are neurotypical propaganda (all routines are, actually)"Just batch your content" ignores how ADHD brains workScaling is a trap designed to make you feel inadequateYou need BOTH a business coach and a therapistThe 4-hour workweek gave everyone false expectationsLinkedIn is corporate cosplay (Em f*****g hates LinkedIn)Passive income is a lie (you still have to do the work of selling)Following your passion is good advice (if it makes sense for you) Productivity Tools: Notion is perfectly rated (used to be underrated, now gets the recognition it deserves)Planners are a scam for ADHD brains (unless they work for you, then congrats)Post-it notes are elite (and a good busy signal in shared workspaces)Google Calendar mobile app is garbage (Notion Calendar wins)To-do lists: depends on the person, the headspace, the formatBullet journaling is beautiful but useless (for Em at least)The Pomodoro Technique is hell (you're just getting into flow when the timer goes off) Productivity Culture: Atomic Habits wasn't written for neurodivergent people (and has been either useless or damaging for every ADHDer Em knows)"Rise and grind" culture is ableistRest IS productiveConsistency is overrated (and misunderstood - it's about returning, not repeating)You cannot hack your way out of burnout Key moment: Elliott discovers post-it notes work as a "busy signal" in shared workspaces Teaser: Burnout episode coming (because you can't hack your way out of it, and healing requires rest and help - which not everyone has access to) Mentioned: Candace Nelson thecauldronpod.com @thecauldronpod Interested in a collab? Email us! Media kit

    40 min
  4. Why can't I just start this task?

    FEB 26

    Why can't I just start this task?

    "Just start." "Just do it." "Take the first step." If you have ADHD, this advice makes you want to scream. Because the problem isn't that you don't want to start - it's that you literally can't make your body do the thing. In this episode, Em and Elliott talk about the wall between thinking and doing, what's actually happening in ADHD brains when the start button won't work, and why "just start" adds shame instead of helping. Plus: what actually works instead (and why Em refuses anesthetic at the dentist). In this episode: The wall: thinking obsessively about a task and being physically unable to beginWhat it looks like from the outside (Elliott's perspective on the "I need to clean the kitchen" texts)The science: ADHD brains have a faulty start button (like the Tucson that can't find the key fob even though you're holding it)The paradox that makes you feel like a liar: sometimes you CAN start immediately on interesting thingsWhy "just start" adds shame instead of helpingWhat actually works: body doubling, externalizing the first step, removing friction, pairing with dopamine, the 90-second trick, medicationTwo types of "I can't start": protection (your brain knows you don't have capacity) vs. executive dysfunction (you need support)The laundry damned-if-you-do situationHow neurotypical people just... brush their teeth without thinking about it (wild)Elliott's reminder: being imperfect is perfect Key moment: "I can do anything for 90 seconds" - Em's philosophy from refusing anesthetic at the dentist (yes, really) Resources mentioned: Root Systems mini courseAvoidance behavior cheat sheet thecauldronpod.com @thecauldronpod Interested in a collab? Email us! Media kit

    32 min
  5. The thing your ADHD partner needs (but won't tell you)

    FEB 19

    The thing your ADHD partner needs (but won't tell you)

    What's it actually like to be the partner watching from the other side? In this episode, Em hands the mic to Elliott to talk about what it's been like to be married to someone building a business - and someone with ADHD - from his perspective. The hard parts, the good parts, and what he wishes he'd known at the beginning. This one gets vulnerable. Em asks Elliott the questions she's maybe been afraid to hear the answers to, and he answers honestly. In this episode: The hobby cycling problem (and Elliott's secret wish for a 3D printer)What surprised Elliott most about Em building a businessThe hard parts: weird hours, work bleeding into everything, and the sugar mama goalWhy leading with curiosity instead of judgment matters so muchThe good parts: watching Em realize her worthWhat Elliott wishes he'd known at the beginning: patience and communicationThe hardest question: "Am I important enough for things to pause so I get some attention?"Key insight: Focus works differently for ADHD brains, and sometimes the person on the other side needs to know they're important enough to interrupt the hyperfocus. thecauldronpod.com @thecauldronpod Interested in a collab? Email us! Media kit

    33 min
  6. The question neurodivergent people ask (that neurotypical people never have to)

    FEB 11

    The question neurodivergent people ask (that neurotypical people never have to)

    Where's the line between "this system doesn't work for my brain" and "I just don't want to do hard things"? This is the question neurodivergent people ask ourselves constantly - and get it wrong in either direction and you're screwed. Think everything is enabling? Burnout. Think everything deserves permission? Nothing gets done. In this episode, Em sits down with Elliott to have an honest (and vulnerable) conversation about where the line actually is, how to tell the difference, and what to do when you're not sure. In this episode: Why this question is so loaded (and shame-inducing)Real examples: the laundry situation that happens in their house every weekThe problem with vulnerability without power (and what's missing from the Brené Brown approach)The key distinction: Are you moving toward something that works, or away from all effort?Permission requires experimentation. Enabling avoids it.The "is this sustainable?" testWhy accommodation isn't the same as enablingWhat to do when what works now stops working laterKey takeaway: Give yourself space and permission, but not enabling the part of you that just wants to avoid doing hard things because they're hard. (Em's still working on this one too.) Resources mentioned: The Hearth community - thehearth.co thecauldronpod.com @thecauldronpod Interested in a collab? Email us! Media kit

    28 min
  7. Why ADHDers pay more for everything

    FEB 6

    Why ADHDers pay more for everything

    In this episode, Em and Elliott talk about the extra cost (in time, money, energy, and guilt) that neurodivergent brains pay trying to use systems designed for neurotypical people. From forgotten car registrations to unused gym memberships to the endless cycle of productivity tools that don't stick, we're breaking down why consistency doesn't mean repetition for ADHD brains. In this episode: What the ADHD tax actually isThe neuroscience behind why "just do it" doesn't work for ADHD brainsReal examples of how the ADHD tax shows up in life and businessThe three principles that actually work: Rhythms over routines, rooting your rhythm, and systems in motion thecauldronpod.com @thecauldronpod Interested in a collab? Email us! Media kit

    27 min
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A podcast for neurodivergent business owners who are tired of trying to force their brains into systems that weren't built for them.Hosted by Em Shindel, a business systems consultant and late-diagnosed AuDHDer, The Cauldron is where we stir up honest conversations about building sustainable businesses with AuDHD-friendly systems, anti-hustle approaches, and a whole lot of permission to do things differently.Expect real talk about the messy intersection of neurodivergence and entrepreneurship, no shame. Joined by co-host Elliott, Em explores what it actually takes to work with your brain instead of against it.New episodes every week. Grab your favorite beverage and settle in.

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  • Creator
    Em Shindel
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