The Deep Dive with Adam Roa

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The Deep Dive is a show about what it means to live honestly, love fully, and create from the inside out. Hosted by spoken word artist, poet, and transformational coach Adam Roa, each episode goes beneath the surface of the things that matter most: love, heartbreak, creativity, self-expression, purpose, and the courage it takes to become more fully yourself. No scripts. No performance. Just real conversation, lived experience, and the kind of depth that most content is too afraid to go to.

  1. 12H AGO

    The Unsexy Conversation For Deeper Intimacy

    In this episode I share a framework I've used for years to establish safe containers for intimacy. It sounds unsexy, but it has led to some of the most pleasurable experiences of my life. If you want to go deeper into what you actually desire before your next conversation like this, this is where I'd start: Soul Scavenger Hunt (free) — a guided experience for getting underneath the surface of what you want. https://create.adamroa.com/soul-scavenger-hunt My debut book Crazy Love is coming soon: https://www.adamroa.com/crazylove

    29 min

  2. MAY 14

    4 Pillars of Safety A Woman Provides In Relationship

    This is the follow-up to my podcast on what a man provides. Because a woman provides four pillars of safety too. Physical. Mental. Emotional. Spiritual. They just look different. And most people are too afraid, too politicized, or too unaware to say what they actually are. If you love a man and want to understand what he's actually carrying, this one is for you. If you are a man who has never been able to name what you needed, maybe this helps. If this opens something in you, the Soul Scavenger Hunt was built for exactly this. It's free. https://create.adamroa.com/soul-scavenger-hunt My debut book, Crazy Love, is coming out soon. Join the waitlist: https://www.adamroa.com/crazylove

    31 min

  3. MAY 7

    What's a man's role in modern relationship?

    Something changed in this relationship that hadn't changed in any of the ones before it. Being the man finally felt natural. And it made me ask a question I hadn't been willing to sit with: what am I actually here to provide? This podcast is my answer. Not a position on gender roles. Not a defense of any label or movement. This is an explanation of what I've found to be the 4 key pillars I can provide to my partner in order to create a healthy relationship. If this lands and you want to start with yourself, the Soul Scavenger Hunt is exactly that kind of inner work. https://create.adamroa.com/soul-scavenger-hunt  My debut poetry book Crazy Love is coming soon. A deep dive into the journey of love and relationships: https://www.adamroa.com/crazylove

    25 min

  4. MAY 5

    I spent 5 Days In Complete Darkness

    I spent 5 days in complete darkness over New Year's. No light, minimal sound, no phone. I went in hoping for a psychedelic experience or, at minimum, the deepest rest of my life. What I found instead was just myself, and a voice I'd been carrying for years that I'd never really heard clearly before. This one stayed with me. I think it might stay with you too. If you're craving that kind of honest inward look, the Soul Scavenger Hunt was made for it. It's free and it'll take you somewhere real: https://create.adamroa.com/soul-scavenger-hunt My book Crazy Love is coming. If it's been calling you, get on the waitlist: https://www.adamroa.com/crazylove

    26 min

  5. MAY 1

    Am I Still An Artist If I Use AI?

    For the last two months I've been making music with AI, and I didn't tell anyone. I wasn't sure if I was still an artist, or if I was cheating somehow. I've spent years as a poet and writer. I know what it takes to develop a craft. And I know how painful it is to watch something you've spent decades building get compressed into a single click. So I sat with it. I tested it. I sent songs to my closest friends and asked them to tell me the truth. And what came back taught me something about creativity I didn't expect. This is the full conversation I've been having with myself. At the end of the episode I share the first song. Wish It Was You is out now on all streaming platforms. Soul Scavenger Hunt (free): https://create.adamroa.com/soul-scavenger-hunt Crazy Love Poetry Book: https://www.adamroa.com/crazylove

    26 min

  6. APR 27

    Monogamy & Commitment Are Not The Same Thing

    Most of the arguments people have about monogamy are actually arguments about something else entirely. Monogamy is a value. Something you choose and practice inside a relationship, the way you'd choose honesty or accountability. Commitment to a person is different. It's about building a life together, showing up through the hard parts, choosing each other over time. These two things have been bundled together for so long that most people have never stopped to examine whether they're actually the same. In this episode I'm making that distinction clearly, looking at why the conflation happens on both sides of the conversation, and asking a question I think is more useful than the one most people are arguing about. This isn't an argument for or against any particular relationship structure. It's an argument for actually knowing what you're choosing and why. Soul Scavenger Hunt (free): https://create.adamroa.com/soul-scavenger-hunt Crazy Love Book: https://www.adamroa.com/crazylove

    24 min

  7. APR 23

    How Do We Fix The Manosphere

    This is part three of my Inside the Manosphere series, and it was the hardest one to make. Not because the ideas are difficult. But because I knew going in that nuanced content doesn't travel as far as outrage. I'm making it anyway. In this episode I talk about what the manosphere actually gets right, where it goes wrong, why the algorithm is making all of this worse, and what I think we actually need to do differently, including what you do with a conversation like this one after you hear it. If you haven't listened to parts one and two yet, start there. They're the two episodes just before this one in the feed. Soul Scavenger Hunt (free): https://create.adamroa.com/soul-scavenger-hunt Crazy Love waitlist: https://www.adamroa.com/crazylove

    24 min

  8. APR 20

    Men Without Power Have No Value

    This is the episode I wasn't sure I was going to make. Not because the ideas are controversial. But because saying them honestly, in public, means being willing to sit with the response. This is part two of my series on the manosphere, and it goes somewhere personal. I talk about power, attraction, the real asymmetry between men and women, and why I think the discomfort with this conversation is itself part of the problem. I also share something from my own life that I've never talked about publicly before. This is not a takedown of women. It's not a defense of the manosphere. It's an attempt at the kind of honest conversation we keep avoiding. Goodies for you: Soul Scavenger Hunt (free): https://create.adamroa.com/soul-scavenger-hunt Crazy Love waitlist: https://www.adamroa.com/crazylove

    31 min
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The Deep Dive is a show about what it means to live honestly, love fully, and create from the inside out. Hosted by spoken word artist, poet, and transformational coach Adam Roa, each episode goes beneath the surface of the things that matter most: love, heartbreak, creativity, self-expression, purpose, and the courage it takes to become more fully yourself. No scripts. No performance. Just real conversation, lived experience, and the kind of depth that most content is too afraid to go to.

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  • Creator
    Adam Roa
  • Years Active
    2016 - 2026
  • Episodes
    419
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © All rights reserved
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    The Deep Dive with Adam Roa

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