The Divorce Planner

TDP LLC

Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner Podcast is your essential guide for navigating one of life's most challenging transitions with financial clarity and confidence. Hosted by divorce prep expert Alex Beattie, each episode delivers actionable strategies to help you prepare effectively for divorce. Each week features conversations with top divorce experts who share tips and insights into the process that will help you gather essential documents, assess your financial realities, identify your priorities, kick-start your healing, negotiate well, and help you reframe this life change as an opportunity.  Whether you're just thinking about divorce, or ready to take action, this podcast empowers you to become your own best advocate.  Subscribe now and transform an overwhelming process into an opportunity to create your best next chapter. Host Alex Beattie has helped hundreds of clients and thousands more through her digital tools. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, Parents Magazine, and Real Simple, and is recommended by divorce professionals nationwide.

Episodes

  1. 1D AGO

    How to Stay Healthy During Divorce: Self-Care Tips from Wellness Expert Jenny Jiles

    If you're feeling completely drained and struggling to take care of yourself during divorce, this episode is exactly what you need. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Jenny Jiles, a nutritionist and holistic wellness expert, for a practical conversation about maintaining your health when everything feels like it's falling apart. Jenny brings real-world strategies that don't require overhauls or expensive supplements. We dive deep into simple, actionable ways to support your body and mind during one of the most stressful times of your life. What we cover: Stress-busting nutrition strategies that actually workEnergy-boosting techniques you can do anywhereMindful eating hacks for when you're too overwhelmed to meal planSleep optimization tricks to help you rest when your mind is racingPractical self-care that fits into your chaotic scheduleThis conversation perfectly illustrates why I'm so passionate about addressing your physical well-being alongside the emotional and practical preparation for divorce. When you're taking care of your basic needs, you're better equipped to make smart decisions and advocate for yourself throughout the process. Episodes like this one help you make sure you don't lose yourself in the overwhelming process of divorce, so you can create the foundation for your best next chapter. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation.

    26 min
  2. FEB 4

    Divorce After 50: Attorney Jorin Rubin Reveals Social Security Benefits & Retirement Strategies

    If you're considering divorce after 50 and feeling overwhelmed about your financial future, this episode is exactly what you need. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Jorin Rubin, a Michigan-based family law attorney, for an essential conversation about navigating "gray divorce"—the fastest-growing divorce demographic today. Jorin breaks down the unique challenges that couples over 50 face when divorcing, from employment fears to complex retirement asset division. We dive deep into the financial strategies and legal considerations that can make or break your post-divorce security. What we cover: Social Security benefits after divorce and how to claim 50% of your ex-spouse's benefitsRetirement account division including 401(k)s, pensions, and the critical QDRO processEmployment challenges for those re-entering the workforce after decadesSpousal support considerations for long-term marriagesValuing complex assets like family businesses and protecting against future windfallsEstate planning updates you must make immediately after divorceTax implications of retirement withdrawals and settlement decisionsWhen you understand the unique financial landscape of divorce after 50, you can make strategic decisions during divorce that protect your future instead of reactive choices that could cost you decades of security. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation.

    26 min
  3. JAN 28

    How to Find Your Authentic Self After Divorce with Empowerment Coach Ana del Castillo

    If you're struggling to find your authentic voice and inner strength during divorce, this episode is exactly what you need. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Ana del Castillo, an empowerment and "rightness" coach, for an inspiring conversation about navigating divorce while staying grounded in who you truly are. Ana specializes in helping individuals, particularly women, achieve what she calls "rightness"—an internal balance of vulnerability and strength, or as she beautifully puts it, "a soft belly and a strong spine." We dive deep into practical strategies for quieting the mental noise and self-doubt that can overwhelm you during this challenging time. What we cover: Building resilience by embracing your emotions without judgmentHealing activities like rage rooms, movement, and free dance to channel difficult feelingsTaking control of your narrative and creating an authentic life based on your valuesBuilding and asserting boundaries post-divorce, including learning to say "no"Small daily victories and why celebrating them matters during tough timesThis conversation perfectly illustrates why I'm so passionate about addressing the emotional side of divorce alongside the practical preparation. When you're grounded in your authenticity and have tools to process your emotions, you're better equipped to make smart decisions and advocate for yourself throughout the process. Episodes like this one help you tackle the emotional side of divorce, so you can navigate this transition with strength and create the foundation for your best next chapter. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation.

    23 min
  4. JAN 21

    Collaborative Divorce vs Traditional Divorce: What You Need to Know with Attorney Renee E. Turner

    If you're considering divorce but the thought of a long, drawn out court battle scares you, this episode is going to be a game-changer for you. I'm sitting down with Renee E. Turner, a family law attorney and collaborative divorce expert, who's here to break down an approach that could save you thousands of dollars while protecting your family's emotional well-being.  Collaborative divorce isn't just about being "nice"—it's a strategic approach that often leads to better outcomes for everyone involved, especially your children. In our conversation, we cover: What collaborative divorce actually is (and what it isn't)Real cost comparisons between collaborative and traditional divorce approachesHow this process can protect your children and set up healthier co-parenting relationshipsWhether collaborative divorce is the right fit for your specific situationPractical steps to get started if you're interestedCommon myths that might be holding you backRenee's top tips for making the collaborative process successfulThis episode perfectly illustrates why I'm so passionate about exploring all your options before jumping into the legal process.  Remember, there's that crucial step most people miss between considering divorce and meeting with an attorney: preparation. Understanding your options—including collaborative divorce—is part of preparing yourself to tackle both the emotional and business sides of divorce effectively. Whether you ultimately choose collaborative divorce or another path, this conversation will help you approach your situation with more knowledge and confidence. That's exactly what being your own best advocate looks like. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation.

    27 min
  5. JAN 14

    How to Heal Emotionally After Divorce: 5 Strategies to Reclaim Your Power With Guest Joanna Nisioti

    If you're struggling with emotional healing during or after divorce, this episode is exactly what you need. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Joanna Nisioti, a divorce recovery coach, for a powerful conversation about reclaiming your strength when divorce leaves you feeling completely powerless. Joanna brings incredible insight into how to find yourself again when everything feels lost. We dive deep into practical strategies for moving beyond victim mentality and reconnecting with your inner strength. What we cover: Moving beyond victim mentality to reclaim your personal agencySetting effective boundaries with difficult exes (that actually work)Healing from divorce trauma without getting stuck in the painMaking sound decisions when emotions are overwhelmingFinding your authentic voice after years of silencing yourselfPractical tools for rebuilding your identity and confidenceThis conversation perfectly highlights why I'm so passionate about addressing the emotional side of divorce alongside the practical preparation. It allows you to jumpstart your healing journey while helping you reclaim your power during a time that can feel very uncertain. As Joanna powerfully shares: "Reclaiming your power isn't about controlling everything around you—it's about reconnecting with the inner strength that's always been there." Episodes like this one help you tackle both the emotional and business sides of divorce, so you can navigate this transition with strength and create the foundation for your best next chapter. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation.

    23 min
  6. JAN 7

    What You Need To Know BEFORE You File For Divorce with Sharie Reyes Albers, Family Law Attorney

    Hey there! In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Sharie Reyes Albers, a seasoned family law attorney from Virginia Family Law Center, for an incredibly valuable conversation about what you can really expect from the divorce process. If you're feeling overwhelmed about the legal side of divorce, this episode is exactly what you need. Sharie brings years of experience and breaks down the legal landscape in a way that's actually understandable. We dive deep into how proper preparation—both financial and emotional—can completely change your divorce experience. What we cover: Inside insights into how the legal process actually worksWhy financial planning is absolutely critical to your future outcomesPractical strategies you can implement right now to prepare effectivelyHow to navigate the emotional challenges while staying focused on your goalsThis conversation perfectly illustrates why I'm so passionate about preparation. When you walk into attorney consultations armed with organized documents, clear financial understanding, and realistic expectations, you save time, money, and stress while getting better results. Remember, there's a crucial step most people miss between considering divorce and meeting with an attorney: preparation. Episodes like this one help you tackle both the emotional and business sides of divorce early in the process, so you can make smart choices and get the outcome you want. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation.

    26 min

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Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner Podcast is your essential guide for navigating one of life's most challenging transitions with financial clarity and confidence. Hosted by divorce prep expert Alex Beattie, each episode delivers actionable strategies to help you prepare effectively for divorce. Each week features conversations with top divorce experts who share tips and insights into the process that will help you gather essential documents, assess your financial realities, identify your priorities, kick-start your healing, negotiate well, and help you reframe this life change as an opportunity.  Whether you're just thinking about divorce, or ready to take action, this podcast empowers you to become your own best advocate.  Subscribe now and transform an overwhelming process into an opportunity to create your best next chapter. Host Alex Beattie has helped hundreds of clients and thousands more through her digital tools. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, Parents Magazine, and Real Simple, and is recommended by divorce professionals nationwide.