The Divorce Planner

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Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner Podcast is your essential guide for navigating one of life's most challenging transitions with financial clarity and confidence. Hosted by divorce prep expert Alex Beattie, each episode delivers actionable strategies to help you prepare effectively for divorce. Each week features conversations with top divorce experts who share tips and insights into the process that will help you gather essential documents, assess your financial realities, identify your priorities, kick-start your healing, negotiate well, and help you reframe this life change as an opportunity.  Whether you're just thinking about divorce, or ready to take action, this podcast empowers you to become your own best advocate.  Subscribe now and transform an overwhelming process into an opportunity to create your best next chapter. Host Alex Beattie has helped hundreds of clients and thousands more through her digital tools. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, Parents Magazine, and Real Simple, and is recommended by divorce professionals nationwide.

  1. Divorce for Dads: Custody, Child Support & Parenting Rights with Attorney Bill Farias

    1D AGO

    Divorce for Dads: Custody, Child Support & Parenting Rights with Attorney Bill Farias

    If you're a dad navigating divorce, you know the challenges are different than what most people talk about. How do you advocate for equal parenting time when the system feels stacked against fathers? What happens to your finances when you're the breadwinner? How do you create a parenting plan that works with demanding work obligations? In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Bill Farias, a family law attorney, for an honest conversation about the real hurdles fathers face during divorce—and we didn't hold back. Bill breaks down what dads actually need to know to protect their relationships with their children and their financial futures. We dive deep into the misconceptions that hurt fathers in divorce proceedings and the strategic moves that help level the playing field. What we cover: The biggest misconceptions about fathers going through divorce and how they hurt your caseHow to advocate for equal parenting time when you're fighting outdated assumptionsWhat breadwinning dads need to know about child support and alimony calculationsCreating a parenting plan that works with demanding work obligationsFinancial strategies to protect yourself while supporting your childrenLegal realities vs. what fathers assume about their rightsThe one piece of advice Bill wishes every dad could hear before starting the divorce processCommon mistakes fathers make that cost them time with their kidsIf you're a dad going through this—or you know someone who is—this episode will help you understand your rights and advocate effectively for yourself and your kids. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation. Podcast Original Music, Editing, and Mixing by: Benjamin Robinson

    26 min
  2. Rewire Your Brain During & After Divorce: The Neuroscience of Healing and Moving On with Dr. Nicole A. Tetreault

    APR 29

    Rewire Your Brain During & After Divorce: The Neuroscience of Healing and Moving On with Dr. Nicole A. Tetreault

    If you're experiencing brain fog, replaying painful conversations on an endless loop, or feeling like you can't think straight during your divorce, you're not imagining it—there's actual neuroscience behind what you're experiencing. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Dr. Nicole A. Tetreault, a neuroscientist, for a fascinating conversation about what's really happening in your brain during divorce and, more importantly, what you can do to heal and rewire it. Dr. Nicole breaks down the science behind why everything feels harder right now—from making decisions to regulating your emotions to stopping negative thought loops—and explains how you can use neuroplasticity to literally rewire your brain for healing and growth. What we cover: What's actually happening in your brain during divorce (stress hormones, frontal cortex access, trauma response)Why you can't think clearly when you need to make major decisionsThe negative thought loop and how to break it using neuroscienceThe power of the pause and how deep breathing resets your nervous systemStress response patterns (fight, flight, freeze, fawn) and which one you default toNeuroplasticity explained and how you can actually rewire your brainHow to stop reacting to your ex by creating new neural pathwaysWhy midlife divorces happen and how they catalyze post-traumatic growthAvoiding toxic patterns when dating again by understanding your triggersOne thing you can do today to start healing your brain (writing down your intention)The role of gratitude in rewiring your thoughtsWhy you need support and how talking things through helps your brain healWhether you're in the middle of divorce feeling like you're losing it, or you're healing on the other side and want to avoid repeating patterns, this conversation provides science-backed strategies to help you understand what's happening and take control of your healing. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation. Podcast Original Music, Editing, and Mixing by: Benjamin Robinson

    29 min
  3. Stay-at-Home Mom Divorce Guide: Legal & Financial Tips from Family Law Attorney Sharie Reyes Albers

    APR 22

    Stay-at-Home Mom Divorce Guide: Legal & Financial Tips from Family Law Attorney Sharie Reyes Albers

    If you're a stay-at-home mom considering divorce and worried about your financial future, this episode is exactly what you need. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Sharie Reyes Albers, a family law attorney from Virginia Family Law Center, for a crucial conversation about protecting your financial stability when you've been financially dependent during your marriage. Sharie breaks down the legal protections and strategies that stay-at-home moms often don't realize are available to them. We dive deep into practical steps you can take right now to safeguard your future and maximize your negotiating position. What we cover: Health insurance options post-divorce and how to maintain coverageFinancial protection strategies during the separation periodCritical documentation that impacts spousal support determinationsYour rights to remain in the family home with your childrenStrategic negotiation approaches when you've been out of the workforceUnderstanding your true value in the marriage partnershipSharie shared: "The financial power many stay-at-home moms bring to negotiations is often drastically undervalued - both by their spouses and sometimes even by their own legal representation." This conversation perfectly illustrates why I'm so passionate about helping people understand their rights and options before jumping into the legal process. When you know what protections are available and how to document your contributions, you can negotiate from a position of strength instead of fear. For more detailed guidance, check out my blog post "Complete Divorce Preparation Guide for Stay-at-Home Moms: Expert Tips": https://www.thedivorceplanner.net/post/complete-divorce-preparation-guide-for-stay-at-home-moms-2024-expert-tips Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation. Podcast Original Music, Editing, and Mixing by: Benjamin Robinson

    20 min
  4. Creating a Bulletproof Parenting Plan During Divorce: Insights from Family Law Attorney Morgan Given

    APR 15

    Creating a Bulletproof Parenting Plan During Divorce: Insights from Family Law Attorney Morgan Given

    Creating a parenting plan during divorce can feel overwhelming. You're trying to predict the future, protect your kids, and navigate legal requirements all while dealing with your own emotions about the end of your marriage. How do you create a plan comprehensive enough to anticipate challenges before they arise—from schedule changes to behavior concerns? In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Morgan Given, a Chicago-based family law attorney who specializes in helping parents understand the critical elements most people miss when creating parenting agreements that actually work. Morgan breaks down the legal language that prevents future conflicts and the specific provisions you need to include now to avoid costly modifications later. We dive deep into both the practical and sensitive aspects of parenting plans that many parents don't think about until problems arise. What we cover: Essential elements most parenting plans overlook and how to avoid those gapsHoliday and vacation scheduling that prevents disputes year after yearClear communication protocols between co-parents to minimize conflictSetting boundaries that protect your children's wellbeing during transitionsHow to address sensitive concerns like a spouse's alcohol use or behavior issuesHandling plan modifications as your kids grow and their needs changeLegal language that matters and why vague terms lead to future battlesBoth legal and emotional perspectives on creating sustainable agreementsWhether you're just starting the divorce process or need to modify an existing agreement, this conversation provides actionable strategies to help you build a parenting plan that protects your children and sets clear expectations for years to come. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation. Podcast Original Music, Editing, and Mixing by: Benjamin Robinson

    21 min
  5. How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce: Conversation Scripts & Expert Tips with Kim Polinder

    APR 8

    How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce: Conversation Scripts & Expert Tips with Kim Polinder

    If you're facing one of the hardest conversations you'll ever have—telling your spouse you want a divorce—this episode is exactly what you need. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Kim Polinder, a relationship coach, for essential guidance on how to have this life-changing conversation with compassion, clarity, and control. Kim breaks down the practical and emotional aspects of "the talk"—from choosing the right timing and location to managing your spouse's unexpected reactions and protecting yourself emotionally. We dive deep into what actually works when you need to deliver difficult news with as much care as possible. What we cover: Choosing the right timing and why when you have this conversation matters as much as what you sayLocation strategy and why where you have the talk can escalate or defuse emotionsWhat to say and what not to say including specific phrases that workManaging unexpected reactions from shock and anger to denial and bargainingHow to stay grounded when emotions escalate (breathing techniques, mantras, grounding strategies)When to pause the conversation and give both of you space to processProtecting your kids and why the conversation with your spouse happens firstPlanning for immediately after including where you'll go and who you'll callWhat to do if you're still living together and how to create space in a shared homeWhether you've been planning this conversation for months or you're just starting to prepare, this episode provides the scripts, strategies, and emotional support you need to navigate one of life's most difficult moments. For detailed conversation scripts and preparation guidance, check out my blog post "How to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce: A Compassionate Guide." Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation. Podcast Original Music, Editing, and Mixing by: Benjamin Robinson

    26 min
  6. CDLP 101: What Is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional with Tami Wollensak

    APR 1

    CDLP 101: What Is a Certified Divorce Lending Professional with Tami Wollensak

    If you're navigating divorce and wondering what happens to your home or how you'll qualify for a mortgage on your own, this episode is exactly what you need. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Tami Wollensak, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP), for an essential conversation about protecting your real estate and mortgage interests during divorce. Most people don't realize there's a specialized professional who can prevent costly mortgage mistakes during divorce—and they wait until after their divorce is finalized to get mortgage guidance, which can be a huge financial mistake. Tami breaks down what a CDLP does, why timing matters more than you think, and how bringing this expert onto your divorce team early can save you from impossible mortgage situations written into your settlement agreement. What we cover: What a CDLP is and how they differ from regular mortgage professionalsThe biggest timing mistake people make with mortgage planning during divorceRealistic mortgage qualification assessments based on your post-divorce incomeCreative mortgage solutions specifically designed for divorce transitionsHow settlement language can make or break your future mortgage eligibilityStructuring support payments to maximize mortgage qualification benefitsCredit protection strategies during and after divorceWhen to bring a CDLP into your divorce team (hint: earlier than you think)As Tami powerfully explains: "The biggest mistake I see is people waiting until after their divorce is finalized to consult with a mortgage professional. Once the divorce decree is signed, you're legally bound to those terms—even if they create impossible mortgage situations." Whether you're hoping to keep the family home, planning to buy a new place, or refinancing to remove your ex-spouse, this conversation provides the specialized guidance you need to make informed decisions that actually work in the real world. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation. Podcast Original Music, Editing, and Mixing by: Benjamin Robinson

    20 min
  7. CDFA 101: What Is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst with Josephti Cruz

    MAR 25

    CDFA 101: What Is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst with Josephti Cruz

    If you're navigating divorce and worried about protecting your financial future, you need to know about one of the most valuable professionals most people have never heard of: a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA). In today's episode, I'm sitting down with CDFA Josephti Cruz for a crucial conversation about when to bring financial expertise into your divorce process and what critical blind spots could cost you thousands. Most people think their divorce attorney handles all the financial aspects, but as Josephti reveals, your attorney isn't enough for comprehensive financial planning during divorce. A CDFA brings specialized expertise in analyzing the long-term financial implications of settlement offers that can make or break your post-divorce financial security. What we cover: What a CDFA does and how they differ from regular financial advisorsWhen to bring in a CDFA (hint: earlier than most people think)Common financial blind spots that cost divorcing people thousandsHow to protect retirement accounts during property divisionWhy your attorney alone isn't enough for financial planningLong-term wealth strategies beyond just settlement dayTax implications of different settlement structuresThe financial mistakes people make that haunt them for yearsWhether you're just beginning to consider divorce or actively negotiating your settlement, this episode provides essential financial guidance to help you make informed decisions that protect your wealth and create a solid foundation for your future. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation. Podcast Original Music, Editing, and Mixing by: Benjamin Robinson

    24 min
  8. Helping Kids Transition Between Two Homes: Expert Tips from Fiona Kong

    MAR 18

    Helping Kids Transition Between Two Homes: Expert Tips from Fiona Kong

    If you're worried about how your children will handle going back and forth between two homes during or after divorce, this episode is exactly what you need. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Fiona Kong, creator of the Home Sweet Homes Journal, for a practical conversation about making transitions easier for your kids—and for you. Fiona developed the Home Sweet Homes Journal from her own experience navigating co-parenting and realizing her children needed a better way to communicate their feelings and experiences across two households. We dive deep into how simple tools and intentional communication can help your children maintain stability and security during one of the biggest changes in their lives. What we cover: Techniques for maintaining stability during transitions between homesEffective communication strategies for keeping both parents involved in daily lifeCreating cohesive parenting plans that support consistency across householdsHow the Home Sweet Homes Journal works as a communication tool for kids and parentsPrioritizing your child's mental health during and after divorceCo-parenting with a united front even when you don't get along with your exAge-appropriate ways for children to express their feelings about the transitionsWhen you have the right tools and strategies, you can create a stable environment where your children feel secure and loved—even across two homes. Want more resources? Check out my blog for expert interviews and grab my free "24 Questions to Ask Your Divorce Attorney" guide. Need personalized help? Book a free 15-minute call or subscribe to my newsletter for weekly tips. Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation. Podcast Original Music, Editing, and Mixing by: Benjamin Robinson

    17 min
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Divorce is hard. Preparing for one doesn't have to be. The Divorce Planner Podcast is your essential guide for navigating one of life's most challenging transitions with financial clarity and confidence. Hosted by divorce prep expert Alex Beattie, each episode delivers actionable strategies to help you prepare effectively for divorce. Each week features conversations with top divorce experts who share tips and insights into the process that will help you gather essential documents, assess your financial realities, identify your priorities, kick-start your healing, negotiate well, and help you reframe this life change as an opportunity.  Whether you're just thinking about divorce, or ready to take action, this podcast empowers you to become your own best advocate.  Subscribe now and transform an overwhelming process into an opportunity to create your best next chapter. Host Alex Beattie has helped hundreds of clients and thousands more through her digital tools. Her work has been featured in The New York Times, Parents Magazine, and Real Simple, and is recommended by divorce professionals nationwide.

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  • Creator
    TDP LLC
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    19
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 TDP LLC
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    The Divorce Planner

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