The Show UP Dad

David Mendonca
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The Show UP Dad

As Fathers, we sometimes underestimate the influence we wield in our homes. Our Passion is to "Ignite the Fire for Father Engagement". What would your life be like if you felt celebrated rather than merely tolerated at home? As a father, I have experienced the void created by my absence. I know what it's like to chase success in the workplace while your family falls to second place. This is a podcast for Hard working Fathers looking to level up the Fathering skills and be more than just a paycheck or provider for the home.

  1. MAR 24

    Navigating Fatherhood: A Veteran's Perspective

    summary In this episode of The Show Up Dad, host David Mendonca speaks with Sean Kimball, a Navy veteran and father who shares his journey through the challenges of fatherhood, divorce, and the complexities of gender ideology. Sean reflects on his experiences, the impact of his military service on his family life, and the importance of faith, love, and community support in navigating these struggles. The conversation emphasizes the need for boundaries, the power of prayer, and the role of discipleship in spiritual growth, ultimately encouraging fathers to be present and engaged in their children's lives. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood and Resilience 01:11 Sean's Journey: From Navy Veteran to Fatherhood Challenges 04:24 Navigating Divorce and Fatherhood 06:32 Confronting Gender Ideology and Family Dynamics 09:56 The Impact of Hormones and Mental Health 13:05 Faith, Prayer, and Parental Love 16:45 Restoration and Identity in Christ 19:57 Community Support and Helping Others 22:09 The Importance of Emotional Vulnerability in Men 24:45 The Power of Love and Boundaries 32:52 The Importance of Discipleship 45:15 Navigating Spiritual Battles and Obedience

    49 min

  2. MAR 10

    "Linemen Under the SON ",Britt Jackson: A Journey of Faith and Family

    summary In this episode of The Show Up Dad, host David Mendonca engages in a heartfelt conversation with Britt Jackson, a journeyman lineman and devoted father. They explore themes of fatherhood, faith, and the importance of raising godly offspring. Britt shares his personal journey, including his recent baptism experience with his wife and the impact of faith on his family dynamics. The discussion delves into the challenges of parenting, the role of the church in discipleship, and the significance of obedience to God's word. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the importance of love, the power of free will, and the necessity of taking thoughts captive to navigate life's challenges with faith. The episode concludes with encouragement for listeners to let go and let God, and to show up for their families with love and commitment. Takeaways: Britt's journey reflects the importance of faith in family life.Baptism was a significant milestone for Britt and his family.Raising godly offspring is a key responsibility for parents.The way we act reflects our relationship with God.It's never too late to start focusing on faith.Life is a continuous process of sanctification.Letting go and letting God is essential in difficult times.Taking thoughts captive is crucial for mental well-being.Love is a choice and requires action.We are called to be obedient to God's word.

    48 min

  3. FEB 26

    The Spiritual Battle of Fatherhood

    In this episode of The Show Up Dad, host David Mendonca and guest Luis Mascorro delve into the complexities of fatherhood, family dynamics, and the importance of faith in navigating life's challenges. They discuss the significance of putting God first, the role of fathers in spiritual warfare, and the necessity of repentance and forgiveness. The conversation emphasizes the dangers of bitterness, the influence of the spiritual realm, and the power of prayer and fasting. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to accept Christ and live a life of purpose and integrity, resisting the enemy and fostering a loving family environment. Takeaways Putting God first leads to a harmonious family life. Fathers play a crucial role in spiritual warfare. Armor of God is essential for protecting families. Repentance is a heartfelt act of letting go. Bitterness can poison relationships and lives. The spiritual realm influences our daily lives. Accepting Christ is a vital step for hope. Prayer and fasting are powerful tools against the enemy. Living with integrity is crucial for parenting. The enemy seeks to destroy family unity.

    58 min

  4. FEB 10

    The Birth of Hunter's Heart: A Mother's Mission

    Summary: In this episode of The Show Up Dad, host David Mendonca speaks with Shana Fisk, founder of Hunter's Heart, a nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting men in psychologically abusive relationships. Shana shares her personal story of loss, the challenges of recognizing red flags in relationships, and the importance of seeking help. The conversation highlights the epidemic of psychological abuse among men, the impact of narcissism, and the role of social media in raising awareness. Shana emphasizes the need for open conversations about mental health and encourages listeners to reach out for support. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Fatherhood and Support for Dads 00:51 Shana Fisk's Journey and the Birth of Hunter's Heart 05:08 Understanding Psychological Abuse in Relationships 10:41 Red Flags in Relationships: A Parent's Perspective 16:03 The Epidemic of Psychological Abuse Among Men 21:30 The Impact of Narcissism and Emotional Immaturity 27:06 The Role of Social Media in Raising Awareness 32:24 Conclusion and Call to Action for Support 34:56 Hunter's Heart: A Mission of Awareness 41:52 Turning Grief into Purpose 47:17 Finding Hope and Support in Darkness

    49 min

  5. JAN 28

    Breaking Free from Diet Culture: A Dad's Journey

    Summary In this episode of the Show Up Dad podcast, host David Mendonca speaks with Justin Nault, a passionate advocate for nutrition and health. Justin shares his journey from being a professional musician to becoming a nutritional therapist, driven by personal experiences and a desire to challenge mainstream diet culture. The conversation delves into the importance of food quality, the dangers of processed foods, and the impact of societal norms on health and wellness. Justin emphasizes the need for self-care, emotional expression, and the importance of questioning authority in health matters. The episode concludes with resources for listeners to improve their health and well-being.

    54 min

  6. JAN 6

    "Boxing, Writing, and the Influence of Family", Mark Connor'

    In this episode of the Show Up Dad podcast, host David Mendonca speaks with renowned boxing trainer and author Mark Connor about his journey through boxing, writing, and the profound influence of family and faith on his life. They discuss the importance of fatherhood, the impact of father wounds, and the necessity of forgiveness in healing. Mark shares his experiences with mentorship and community, emphasizing the role of supportive figures in shaping young men's lives. The conversation highlights the cultural perspectives on fatherhood and the significance of being present for one's family.takeaways Mark Connor's journey began at age 10 when he started boxing. The influence of parents can shape a child's confidence and aspirations. Mark's book intertwines poetry with autobiographical elements. The importance of being a present father is central to the conversation. Forgiveness is essential for healing from past wounds. Cultural perspectives on fatherhood can vary significantly. Father wounds can have lasting effects on children and their relationships. Community support and mentorship are vital for young men. Mark emphasizes the need for fathers to be engaged in their children's lives. The conversation reflects on the broader societal issues related to father absence.

    55 min

  7. 12/01/2024

    Navigating Fatherhood and Mental Health

    In this episode of the Show Up Dad podcast, host David Mendonca speaks with men's relationship coach Jason Schnitzer about the importance of emotional regulation, understanding the nervous system, and the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships. They discuss the significance of polyvagal theory, the cycle of shame, and the necessity of self-reflection and commitment in relationships. Jason emphasizes the need for men to seek help, confront their emotional struggles, and the spiritual aspect of healing, ultimately encouraging listeners to take ownership of their mental health and relationships. Takeaways Mental health is a significant issue for many men. Understanding your biology is crucial for emotional regulation. Shame can create a cycle of secrecy and more shame. Emotional symbiosis can lead to relationship challenges. Self-reflection is essential for personal growth. Commitment in relationships helps uncover deeper issues. Coping mechanisms can be adaptive but may not be healthy long-term. Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Confession and accountability can lead to healing. The journey of personal growth is ongoing and requires courage.

    1h 1m

  8. 11/17/2024

    The Journey of Fatherhood: Lessons from the Outdoors

    takeaways Fatherhood is a journey filled with challenges and growth. Outdoor experiences can significantly shape a young man's character. Mentorship is crucial for guiding the next generation. Building resilience in children is essential for their development. Social media can have a negative impact on youth's self-esteem. Fathers need to be present and engaged in their children's lives. Listening to God's voice is vital for personal growth. Nature provides a space for reflection and connection with God. Teaching children the value of hard work and perseverance is important. Community support plays a key role in fatherhood and personal development.

    56 min
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    As Fathers, we sometimes underestimate the influence we wield in our homes. Our Passion is to "Ignite the Fire for Father Engagement". What would your life be like if you felt celebrated rather than merely tolerated at home? As a father, I have experienced the void created by my absence. I know what it's like to chase success in the workplace while your family falls to second place. This is a podcast for Hard working Fathers looking to level up the Fathering skills and be more than just a paycheck or provider for the home.

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    • Creator
      David Mendonca
    • Years Active
      2020 - 2025
    • Episodes
      206
    • Rating
      Clean
    • Copyright
      © David Mendonca
    • Show Website
      The Show UP Dad

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